Saying I Love You First | You Can Sit With Us Ep. 123

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YOU CAN SIT WITH US
Maggie, Becky, and Ariel are your new best friends. In their weekly podcast they dive into female friendships, current events, and what's going on in their lives. Sit down with them, and enjoy!
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Executive Producer | Keith Habersberger
Executive Producer | Eugene Lee Yang
Executive Producer | Zach Kornfeld
Podcast Producer | Miles Bonsignore
Podcast Editor | Rainie Toll
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21 ноя 2022

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@dashofdepression Год назад

“We have issues with liars. You know what I mean.” 🐘

@shmo_de Год назад

#shady 🤭

@gursimran1735 Год назад

Becky's expressions were iconic here

@dashofdepression Год назад

@@shmo_de #elephantintheroom 😎

@sarajessica94 Год назад

Maggie's face. Omg

@michellesingh6087 Год назад

Literally came to the comments for this!

@uckerydul101 Год назад

When Matt said Eugene said I love you first.. Becky's face was my exact expression 😂😂

@Indigoturtle4581 Год назад

35:14 💜

@brittanyfuller3461 Год назад

I love that Becky talks about breaking up with a guy because he got her a burger with mayo and in the most recent Eat The Menu Keith freaks OUT when a tiny bit of mayo got on Becky's hand. He knows her so well!

@Gracevic16 Год назад

What eat the menu was that?

@Adamayepoh Год назад

@@Gracevic16could be del taco or Katz deli because those two came out around this episode and comment

@sigmundtarrayo6088 Год назад

"We don't like liars" -Becky Habersberger

@eustacia03 Год назад

Becky says she and Keith never do the deep romantic thing and get emotional but I call shenanigans. I saw their wedding video where they both sobbed

@SOLmeMAYBE Год назад

Maggie retelling that day when Zach told her he loved her all bashful is so adorable! And the pact she and Becky while their partners were befuddled cracked me up! But seems like a good arrangement!

@milafraser Год назад

"Who said it first?" "Eugene" AWWWW

@sun_in_gemini2772 Год назад

Becky's face after Matt said it though 🤣🤣🤣

@shakeandblake92 Год назад

Not Maggie and Becky having a whole conversation with their eyes 😂

@roisigillypuff Год назад

My ex will argue it, but I was emotionally cheated on. For context, he had feelings for a streaming friend for over a month and told her before telling me. He would finish streaming with his friends and stay on to talk with her even if I was in the house waiting for him to be done. She lives far away so I know they never physically cheated, but the emotional distance was there.

@heulwensweetf3 Год назад

I too, gasped, at what idiot would cheat on Matt. He is a witty delight

@bread7206 Год назад

I absolutely adore Maggie, cuz she always takes a medical and scientific view on things and it tickles my nerdy brain in such a nice way.

@suhaninandi9201 Год назад

rachels questions about the doll have me DYING

@MadsterMadness Год назад

Great episode! A quick note to the Tri Pod post team, I listen to a lot of podcasts and the audio levels vary WILDLY at times. Like, professional podcasts that go from peaking to whispers, and while I love that content, the audio levels drive me nuts sometimes! I'll switch to your podcasts not only for amazing content, but also for the sound quality! The audio levels are consistent, the mics are solid, and edits feel seamless (which idk maybe they are?). All this makes it feel like you're in the room with these folks! So thank you for your work! Know that it's appreciated from some rando on the internet :)

@TreavorUnion Год назад

Me and Rachel had similar tragedies and exes. I like how she framed it. The tragedy/trauma was too much. Relatable.

@stephaniesimpson-white3293 Год назад

I love that we got a follow up on that friend email! I genuinely believe that so many relationships (family, friends, and lovers) drift apart because feelings get hurt without the other knowing and it festers. Talking things out can be scary but you will ALWAYS get something valuable. The situation might get cleared up and it brings you closer, or you might find out that your intuition was correct. Either way you learn an important truth about them or yourself and can make more informed decisions going forward.

@graciehadlich Год назад

“We have issues with liars” 5:45 😂

@MissMelmo Год назад

I was cleaning, proceeded to zone out and then tuned back in to hear “Basically it’s just a different form of masturbation” 🙃😅

@sarahwimmer2952 Год назад

5 years ago I had to do community service at goodwill & was responsible for sorting the donations. On my 2nd day I found a vibrator at the bottom of the bin 😭 I still have the picture 😂

@indiecloud100 Год назад

😂😂😂

@alli_sonc Год назад

“now we’re going to brunch tomorrow” *a chorus of yays* lolol

@khorwath91 Год назад

Truly loved this episode- ughhh but it makes me miss Ariel though. She's always been so sex positive. I would have loved to hear her reactions and thoughts. Maybe one day. (I get it and I know, but I still miss her).

@lillmango Год назад

Poor ariel. It sorta feels like she’s being punished for what ned did. She’s the one who got cheated on but also cos he got fired, she’s also coping with the consequences of it since it’ll be weird for her to take part in anything related to the try guys.

@edo27 Год назад

Ariel always made me smile and laugh bc her personality and thoughts were always a breath of fresh air for me. I hope she is doing well and comes back eventually and sooner than later T__T. Love all the girls though!

@bexn5817 Год назад

Listening to this podcast at work is usually not a problem, but I had to put my phone at half volume during all of the raunchy discussions 🤣

@gpslaurel Год назад

Rachel questioning the “love” podcast Gives me that side eye energy

@vangoore Год назад

wdym??

@mragbangles Год назад

which love podcast?

@alyssa1204 Год назад

Some feedback no one asked for. I really enjoyed these questions from more mature listeners about more mature problems! No shade but I think I reached my teenybopper limit so this was nice!

@Maggie365 Год назад

I would love, love, love to have their dad's on the podcast. The mom visits have been so much fun!

@mmminno Год назад

Maggie's breakfast is very reflective of my day to day breakfast... because ADHD. In a dream world I eat better breakfasts everyday.

@camper4life22 Год назад

It's great having Matt on the pod. He's fun.

@IdeaPants365 Год назад

Becky wants to RANT on Ned but can't

@theartofselfdestructionn1226 Год назад

Since Becky bringed Lars and the real girl to the table... Can we have a Guilty Pleasures episode about it? It would be so awesome

@bluehillhomestead6835 Год назад

Yes!!!

@LJmysticOwl Год назад

Lars and the Real Girl ends with the doll "dying" when he no longer psychologically needs it and is able to have relationships with real people. I really liked that movie. I'm amused by the way Becky made it sound like it's a movie about a guy who wants his sex toy with him at all times, I'd love for anyone to go seek it out and find the movie that's really there.

@theartofselfdestructionn1226 Год назад

We need a episode on GP about this film!!!

@rickiebee6011 Год назад

Regarding the sex doll, the red flag is whether or not it looks like either the current girlfriend or the ex-wife. As for disposal, my husband (jokingly) suggests that he take it to the bus station in the middle of the night. Someone will take it home. 😂🤮

@camillehorlacher970 Год назад

Becky: “the BYU people” 😂😂😂

@stephaniegarrett9095 Год назад

I love you guys so much!! You make my days at work so much better ❤

@krisskye4678 Год назад

It took me a while to come around to my love. I met him when we were 17 and I denied my feelings bc i was in a bad spot for a while. I decided to allow myself love when i was 21 and left a failing 3.5 relationship/ engagement. Not necessarily for him, but we did end up together soon after. We're expecting our first child in January 2023. I'll say you don't question it so much. If you're having so many questions, then maybe step back.

@embarrassedcap Год назад

my mother freaked the fuck out the first time I had male housemates. "what will your neighbors think" and whatnot. I was like "well, they can introduce themselves and get to know me I guess." anyway!!! my relationship with my mother was severed before I had to find new housemates.

@Rokchike Год назад

Sometimes I put on this podcast while I'm working, because I don't have to watch, and this one cracked me up. The sex doll convo and Rachel's snicker, thinking about warming it up in the microwave... gold.

@AvoryFaucette Год назад

The bit about how much you see each other is fascinating! Granted, I'm 38, and also polyamorous, but I feel like when I first get interested in someone I'm all "ooh I wanna see you allll the time!" but what that means in practice is maybe twice a week? Weekly seeing each other consistently would be a super serious relationship, more casual maybe 1-2 times a month. Even the partners who live in my house (I have a basement apartment I probably see once every 2-3 days. 😂

@SOLmeMAYBE Год назад

Becky: Why are all the sex dolls females?? Matt: You tell me. Becky: I didn’t do it! MADE MA LAUGH OUT LOUD. REBECCAAA! Also, just listening to you vamp in two back-to-back podcast episodes this week is just *chef’s kiss*

@chaosjunks1 Год назад

The macys ad placement right after the initial discussion of the doll. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@ssuuzziiee Год назад

Rainie's. Sweater. Is. Everything.

@MsUzawa Год назад

“A little annoying” is the best explanation of every relationship I have had. It’s not bad it’s just because their boys/male and we’re girls/females.

@rainelly304 Год назад

Idk if it’s because im a freak but this has to be the funniest and interesting episode everrr😂😂😂

@MoritAzul25 Год назад

You guys have ruined my Amazon search history and recommendations 😅😂🤣

@notayoutuberjustacommenter Год назад

same 😅

@emmebuckel8035 Год назад

anyone else lowkey concerned when they asked if an “interesting laugh, hums a lot, etc.” were red flags or dealbreakers? red flag is even kinda strong in my opinion for something like someone’s laugh😭 no shade. just confused. love the pod always!

@anamones6232 Год назад

Everyone looks so adorable 🫶🏻

@emh1177 Год назад

My husband does boop around the house singing randomly and I am a silence person. I put quiet time in place!

@ariazhu9589 Год назад

46:15 “fuckin cheaters" :)

@ankitamenon8780 2 месяца назад

I completely relate to Matt’s finding anew ick to get over your crush

@katie18976 Год назад

Rachel is wild in this episode 😄😅

@ivylasangrienta6093 Год назад

My best friend told me that when her husband dies (hopefully decades from now) she's gonna move in with me. We hate liars too.

@ahschick602 Год назад

Becky!!! 😂😂😂😂 no blinking eyes!! That’s tooooo creepy. Lmao! ❤❤you all!

@IcecreamFre3ze Год назад

I got over one of my high school crushes by shipping him with one of my best friends at the time. It helped redirect the energy away from me.

@Jajsjskksla 7 месяцев назад

I think the best way to get over a crush is to humanise them, cuz we make them as a perfect being in our head. Find things in them that makes them a human being

@randomhuman_1999 Год назад

EVERYONE in this podcast is so cute

@tiffanycardwell2366 Год назад

As someone who worked in an adult store. That doll is probably melted together now. Silicone will melt together after awhile

@robertschwartz4810 Год назад

Could you IMAGINE explaining to the firemen how your house burned down! "Well, I was pre-heating my sex doll and I just left the room for a few minutes - - - "

@laurenschwartz3526 Год назад

Rachel I love your sweater! So cute!

@goddessoffayries Год назад

Maggie: I’m just saying that if anything happened to Zach or Keith, we’d spiral and need each other for support. Ariel: 💀

@local.sagittarius Год назад

my best friend and i are twin flames. complete polar opposites but compatibility is through the roof. the friendship is easy going, realistic and genuine. 16 years and counting☺️ edit: 19 years*** lol

@arulasuniverse Год назад

It's possible that he ordered the doll before they got together but it didn't ship until after. There could be a production timeline to take into consideration.

@__iTimmayy Год назад

At 29:47 - did anyone else think of the Friends episode with a certain "Hums While He Pees"? Just me? 🙃

@furly6321 Год назад

Can someone tell me which podcast had the “twin flame” original story? I love it when people follow up but I can’t remember which podcast that was 😢

@rebeccas.3928 Год назад

Might as well do a dump run for the coffin box and everything else they're throwing out while cleaning up the basement.

@amalilconfused Год назад

We need You Can Sleep with Us asap. 🎉

@Lyssdris Год назад

OKAY the sex doll question is like that quibi show about Dan Harmon!!!!!

@hahalove47 Год назад

I would say him saying a big part of his divorce was not having enough sex is a huge red flag...maybe we're missing some important context. If not, sounds like he was probably with a woman closer to his age and possibly could have been beginning menopause which can cause low sex drive and hurt a womans self esteem which could also lead to less sex. He choice to leave and I believe started dating his current girlfriend when she was 25ish. So what happens if her sex drive lowers? Will he leave and find a younger woman again? This is me assuming we are not missing important context.

@lalalalalalalala8111 Год назад

I miss Ariel, I feel like she gives great love/sex advice. Everyone else is still amazing though!

@Madinaslifestyle Год назад

can anyone tell me where Rachel got her jumper from

@jaidengames26 Год назад

I remember the video with Samra Asrat and I want her to appear on the podcast again.

@quietestkitten Год назад

You can pay junk removal companies to take your garbage away… it would be embarrassing but it would get it done

@zeepfuentes3907 Год назад

Hearing 'You Can Sleep With Us' stings a little knowing that Ariel is in that epsiode where this was coined. 😭😔 I hope Ariel comes back. Or in another format of this show called You can't f*ck with us where girl friends bring down cheating, lying, pasty looking aholes like NEDFLAG. #NEDFLAG

@LeahVoysey Год назад

does anyone know the episode with the original question about twin flames?

@shellylynn6136 Год назад

When I met my husband I was done with bad exs and my sis said do u still wanna be a old dog lady i know a good guy and wow lol but he told her tell her he was older and heavy and when she said that I said and what, doesn't mean anything and over a thousand messages later in a night that's when I knew it was real

@rhiannonlister517 Год назад

Hey would someone be able to let me know when captions are uploaded? Thank you ❤️

@niloofardordahan6915 Год назад

you probably already know but there are captions now❤

@nechidesu Год назад

as someone who’s boyfriend worked at a goodwill for like 2 years… people do donate sex toys 🙃 new and used 🙃

@marikotrue3488 Год назад

The artificial humanoid (I am not typing the exact description of the "item") parked in the depths of a basement was hysterically funny. Definitely DM that person who asked the question. Even if the story was made up it was still funny. I (and probably several thousand others judging by the views on this video) REALLY want to know more info.

@sydneywebb9238 Год назад

Miss Ariel

@SilliVivi Год назад

The whole thing with the sex doll is sooo funny!!! I used to really like watching Real Sex on MTV and the sex doll episode sticks out to me a lot for whatever reason 🙃 but they are customizable to look the way you want them to look (red flag if doll looks like her or ex wife) and can be warmed up though I can't remember how they did that. They do make male sex dolls as well that also warm up. It's WILD. Also Lars and the Real Girl was a weird but great movie. I recommend watching it 👌🏼

@roseszurek8212 Год назад

I don’t eat breakfast only on the weekends 3:58

@maugeurday8345 Год назад

Lars and the Real Girl is a really good movie for someone who is studying psychology, specially the personality of the human being and coping mechanisms. Please don't describe it as if a grown man used a sex doll everywhere, because it wasn't like that, although that comment made me laugh a lot

@deaniewink Год назад

What’s going on with the closed captions? 9 hours later and they’re still not up for those who are deaf/hard of hearing 😔 this happened last ep too

@hurricanerica Год назад

They're up now

@moonball00n Год назад

38:10 thats so zach

@jmason1770 Год назад

Captions please!!

@Virg0Gypsy Год назад

Aye! Vermonter here! 802 for life!!

@carriewilkinson8315 Год назад

Sell the doll online lol. I watched an episode of weird collections once and this older couple collected sex dolls. Apparently not for “sex” lol. They had them all over the house.

@cOrncHipS90 Год назад

@5:40 we don't like liars

@hwagner717 Год назад

I would get an OF for you can sleep with us 😂

@leannadawn6943 Год назад

Does anyone remember "Dummy" with Anna Kendrick? It was so funny and absurd. Anna befriends her boyfriends sex doll.

@sophiekuhn5342 Год назад

My roommate left a sex doll in his closet and a flesh light in the shower when he moved out. So awkward

@ValentinaD. Год назад

❤

@roseszurek8212 Год назад

23:05 you have no idea what kind of things thrift stores get I work at one and we have gotten sexual health idea like that

@presidentofnothing Год назад

is becky a haley pham fan? is that why she keeps saying girlypop

@presidentofnothing Год назад

doll man is a little red flag because he’s clearly lying about the when aspect also why not get rid of it instead of creepily hiding it in the back

@joselynngarcia007 Год назад

I sooo want to know the full story of Becky and Keith's first break up. She clearly went to a full-on party without him so what got them back together? Not gonna lie if a guy did that to me I would be ticked off and demand a ride back home, assuming they went in one car! (If any of the trypeeps read this, no pressure if neither of you wants to tell)

@camitwomey2871 Год назад

that wasn’t with keith it was a different bf

@joselynngarcia007 Год назад

@@camitwomey2871 still wondering about aftermath even if the break up wasn’t with Keith. But Becky totally seems the type to make a clean break so maybe there isn’t any

@user_unav Год назад

only subbing to get spagbol on guiltyhores heads

@user_unav Год назад

but also yall great

@randomhuman_1999 Год назад

BetterHelp is sketch if not a full-blown scam - it has known privacy issues and some of its therapists are really unprofessional (unclear where their certifications come from or how BetterHelp screens them). Also just contact 24/7 with a therapist is not exactly healthy or helpful to process what you gain from therapy. It may be the only thing accessible for some people, but it is really just... not great.

@user-bn8tk4md6b Год назад

Rachel pleasee stop talking over Matthew 🥲

@user-oq7sq4dj1v Год назад

I wish there was less reading of questions and more natural discussion. The past few months of podcasts have been a little bit of a letdown. They all seem very repetitive.

@nikolinapinter Год назад

They are all healing after what Ned did. It did not only affect his family, but also the people around him. Although it did affect his family the most obviously.

@fraucarrar2812 Год назад

Pretty sure the 24 year old is gay...just saying, you're welcome, enjoy!

@kalebzerger301 Год назад

That’s so insensitive to say the guy should throw out his sex doll! They had it for four years in the house without her even knowing it was there, so clearly, it’s not an issue that’s going to be in her face all the time, and sex dolls are super expensive in the multiple hundreds of dollars. You don’t know what these peoples financial situation is, and the guy already went through a divorce. He probably feels unsure whether or not he’s going to stay in a long-term relationship, and if he throws out his sex doll and then they break up in two years, then, what’s he gonna do buy a new sex doll? Like I said they cost hundreds of dollars. All I’m saying is you guys would think it was super insensitive yes a man was riding in to say she wanted his girlfriend to get rid of her dildo because it made him insecure.

@kalebzerger301 Год назад

why not let the guy keep it in the coffin in the garage and the girlfriend will never have to know it’s there

@Dauerglotzer123 Год назад

He said he wanted to throw it out for a while so i dont see the issue if no party wants to keep it.

@cherylwilson8743 Год назад

He can't be that into it ( excuse the pun but not really ) since he's kept it hidden away for multi years PLUS he told her he's wanted to get rid of it but embarrassed about how to go about it.

@winnew2004 Год назад

Hey Mags, can you please not eat on the podcast 🙏 or make that tapping noise with your mouth (you do it when you describe yummy food) it genuinely hurts my ears because I'm sensitive to sounds