100% accurate. Just finished a book on trauma and discovered why I sabotage relationships. All goes back to early childhood trauma. This confirms that I need to be mindful in my relationships and gentle with myself.
It's takes 2 , always, be sure and acknowledge it's never one person's fault. Be mindful of triggers. Ultimately, it comes down to whether that person was healthy for you. If they were triggering childhood trauma, with no regard to how they made you feel, then you didnt sabotage it. You might want to look into the topic of Limmerence and codependency too. Gabor Mate, Brene Brown, Tara Brach are all good resources for this type of background. Think of it as your nervous system being like "this feels like home" (and therefore that person is ultimately unhealthy for you- if home was dysfunctional/unhealthy). 🙏❤❤❤❤
I just finished the book You are the one you've been waiting for which goes in hand with No bad parts both books were really eye opening for me. Good for you for doing that inner work cause it's definitely not easy ❤
Thank you Ali, deeply. I’ve been here for about 3 years now and you take my breath away every time with your accuracy and beautiful perspective. You also have a kind way of being honest, which my sensitive soul appreciates. I admire you so much!
Personally, i believe what is sought is the withdrawal from drama. Truth shall set me free, however the cowards that hurt me fear truth more than death. Give me actual truth and watch me grow.
Makes total sense. I have a tendency lately to overthink and create a thousand scenarios/meanings out of just one thing that a person has said. I know that this isn't healthy for me. Hopefully soon I can find ways to lessen this tendency.
Ali, luved the “overthinking mind” movie example 😁🤦🏼♀️💯. Have overcome many addictions, to master the mind is my greatest challenge yet. I’m working hard on myself to control it. Thank you for you 🙏🏻🌟
nailed an alcohol addiction 10 years ago but have struggled to knock the weed on the head despite my soul and body crying out for me to do it. This message came through loud and clear Ali. Thanks mate....time to grow some balls and throw that unnecessary crutch away. Sending you spiritual kisses from New Zealand Ali 😘
So spot on as always, Ali. I can’t stop grinning while watching the reading because it felt like you’re talking directly to me. I am working on it…. The reading is calling me out 😅 Thanks for the reading and the reminder, Ali ❤
Indeed, this way of thinking made me take everything personally. As a Scorpio, I have noticed throughout my journey that I often have trouble trusting others, but I can also feel too easily rejected. This makes me overthink things and leads to emotional instability and sabotage myself . Today, I have come out of a toxic relationship with a Taurus; my ex partner was very belittling and emotionally unavailable. However, after a period of intense but healing pain, I am gradually learning not only to trust myself more and therefore not to function as I did before, but also to take things as they come and live more in the present moment and in peace . Indeed, I see the relationships that come into my life today as training to see if my new way of functioning is well in place and if I can overcome this pattern. Sometimes I feel like I’m looking over my shoulder and not necessarily recognizing the person I was six months ago. Even though it's still a process, I feel much more grounded and confident. Everything Alina says in her readings, which resonates with truth, is a precious help on the path to healing and self-understanding 🩷
The loss is my mom passed unexpectedly in March. I am stuck a little since I'm mourning still. I am starting to feel better and know I will feel so much better once I get back to the gym. Low-vibration food 🍕 🍨 is not helping. Thank you, Ali! ❤Still single by choice.
Hi Ali 👋 Scorpio here ♏ yes.... too much overthinking. I need to release negative thoughts and unhealthy patterns. I definitely want to live in the now... peace, love and harmony. Thanks ❤
This WAS the reminder. Thank you! Despite overall great things, I did get frustrated by a delay and allowed myself to indulge in low vibing. Snapped back mid-video...clicked the like button. With the phone still in hand it rang, I received the news of resolution of the delay. Omg we are so powerful when aligned!
This was 100% accurate. I always feel like my mind is everywhere as a Scorpio, but especially recently it’s been worse. I usually feel this way with newer connections and it affects me, but my person tries to talk about things gently with me. It’s just hard because it’s long distance and even when we see each other things feel so difficult when we both are hard working.
Omg when you said "Learn" it felt as though a mystic saint said! Such a profound and insightful reading. Applicable to all signs ! Learnt a lot in these 20 minutes ❤❤❤ Wisdom, wisdom wisdom galore!!! Of course the inner child card is No. "8". Apt for the 8th sign 😊
It was a long weekend. Did alot of speed. This would explain the "logic" behind the reading 🤣 Sometimes we just randomly have a crazy idea that leads to more crazy ideas, like we're suddenly 21 or something. So we go get speed and act 21. "I don't think you like it" Ehhh.. I kinda do 😆My inner child is a deliquent
I loveee this read!!! The movie argument is very similar to how i have been processing my issue with my person. I was laughing so hard 😂 Thank you for the reminder ❤
This reading is actually reversed for my situation. The OTHER person is the one overthinking and taking everything I say personally as a slight to him. He got SO upset when I decided to not attend a party we were both invited to. I told him I did not feel up to it, but that he should still go. Now he's telling me he knows what I'm thinking but not saying. Very insecure and makes it so I feel I have to walk on egg shells in case I inadvertently upset him again.
@8:07 😂🤣😅 WARNING :⚠️ The Scorpio’s inner child is on the loose‼️ I tried to embrace my inner child and the little rascal bit me! Adulting is overrated, let’s play Scorpio. 😜
PLEASE! Let people know in the beginning of your readings that this could be reversed. My Ex Capricorn (he has 4 placements in his chart in Capricorn) and we both watch your readings. I'm a Scorpio/Libra Cusp. He is the one with the addiction to the fighting and controlling. He does have Scorpio in one of his placements in his chart but is not a predominant placement. Thank you!
