Scrappy Reaches His Breaking Point 💥 Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta 

Man... i felt condemned in MY spirit when she said that. Bambi hit that nail square on the head. Sniper precision.

Boom. That was it. Now I need Scrappy to give his mom space and focus on his dime piece wife. 😄

U GO SCRAPPY FINALLY ‼️ BUT THERE'S 1 THING THAT STILL BOTHERS ME N THAT'S THAT KIRK N RASHEEDA CRAP HE WENT N HAD A WHOLE BABY ON HER MADE HER TAKE A PATERNITY TEST NAMED HIS OUTSIDE BABY WITH HIS K LIKE HIS OTHER CHILDREN N RASHEEDA STILL WITH HIM NEITHER ONE OF THEM ARE GOOD FOR ANY ADVICE AND THAT'S NOT WHAT A STRONG WOMAN DOES SHE WOULD HAVE WALKED OUT THE DOOR.PERIOD ‼️‼️

I use to think maybe Momma D just needed a man to get on with her own life. So where is Earnest? Obviously he was not the solution to such deep rooted issues

Sounds like Blueface's mom.

Yes. He unleashed it, he had to unleash it cause when that trauma settled it boiled over. I have had the same conversation with my Mother. It was therapeutic, carthatic and necessary. Our healing started from there.

Yes I totally agree with you, he had to get that out he's held that in for farrrrrr farrrr to long but he Love's his momma know matter what... But he spoke from his Heart ❤️ deep down and he's hurt from all of that FRFRFR 💯💯 IJS

@@candyowens1660 I totally agree. I just wish everyone would have stayed quiet and let him get out what he had to say.

Most definitely toooooooo toooooooooooooooooooo long

No one has the right to talk to their parents any kind way… ok you can agree wit some cursing their parents. Just wait until ur child curse you and then put they hands on you kids are killing they parents theses days

Yeah. You can tell him and her have had plenty of those conversations about their mom just between the two of them.

@@NikkiKNuvo I didn't even think of that! I bet they bonded even closer over sharing and experiencing similar traumas too.

For them to have been raised around violence, prostitutes and drugs, I’m sure they had to cling to each other, as it’s clear their own mother didn’t give two shits that she was raising her kids in the literal gutter.

He been wanting to say

She will never get it. In her eyes she birthed him so she gets to do and say whatever she wants. My Mother is the same way. Recently cut her tf off. I'm grown asf, I don't need the added stress.

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Hear it in his voice " ion have nobody , do you understand "

@@SwissCheezd That honestly speaks volumes on the people in his life.

@JROSE SANTANA the wasn’t about that lol

It don’t matter what he said, what are you going to take accountability for?” Good Question Erica... It dont matter what Safari saids ,What are You gunna take Accountability for??? Sure can give advice but sure can't apply it.

@JROSE SANTANA you wet/Backs stick together that’s what’s up wish my ppl did this

Nah. Parents be knowing exactly what they're doing. ESPECIALLY when hou been told the same thing for over a decade. She's a sick psycho who wants her son to be her man. That's why she's always sabotaging his relationships and trying to keep him single and in the streets. She taught him to treat women like objects.

@@youmaydisagreebut848 the situation HAD ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH The other no need to bring that up

Fr fr

It's a skit lol haha 🤣

@@Monter313i honestly believe it’s not because his mama been like this before love and hip hop

😭it hurts so bad I'm in the same situation but I'mma love my kids a be there for them don't matter what

Exactly. So path etic his mom is

AMEN 🙏

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Amen

Exactly

Frfr

I agree💯

Amen

Tea.

I'm surprised that he lasted this long lol

This made me cry...one of the best comment.. I felt it... no trurer words.. GROWTH he has truly grown in our eyes... blessings Abena

🎯🎯🎯 exactly THIS

@@theiswithin3649 the generational curses comes in to play

Exactly I am 37 years old I have been working on my personal growth. As well as healing for a few years now. I give it God hardest thing is going through my life over 10 years without my Mother. I am constantly working on myself progression.

Not Erica 🤦🏽‍♀️ more like his wife(Bambi), Erica has no reason to speak in anyone business unless it’s her own bs

@@aprilwalker835 she saying when they were together .. she said the same thing .

​@@aprilwalker835 Erica is literally still involved in Scrappy's life so what are you going on about? She's the mother of Scrap's kids still. At the end of the day she used to speak up about Mama Dee ALL THE TIME and she was right.

Erica mena, duhh 😑

@@aprilwalker835 well everyone, LITERALLY EVERYONE in this comment section is referring to Erica Dixon. His baby momma. Who has been saying this for ages. You misunderstood and commented

Tooo obsessed until it's cringy

This is exactly how my ML talk to my bd .

I was just about to say . He wants and tried to make Scrappy a son-husband. He’s realized he can’t have a successful happy relationship with anyone because of it

Thats her son

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.. just be glad you had a mom to be upset about.. many of us didn’t even have that. People always find something to be ungrateful about 😩😩💀

Secret I know EXACTLY where your coming from I too myself has been through the exact same thing

@@The13thGoddessAries So the pot calls the kettle black

@@The13thGoddessAries I mean, yess you are right, be grateful but It is very important to stand up for yourself too. The relationship with our parents affects us psychologically too

My mom never offered her floor or backyard when I was homeless on the streets through the rain and snow ❄️ storms, sleeping in tents. I didn't even do hard drugs and never have. Never prostituted. I was just in between jobs with no savings. One day she said to me GO BACK HOME TO YOUR TENT when she got mad at me for defending myself against her bullshit. To keep bringing up an ex that I had 10 years ago. She always got something to talk about him telling me how her and my grandma tried to say he wasn't a good guy in this that any other. And I just be wanting her to shut the f****** cuz I don't even think about that ni#$@. I mean she bring this n**** up all the time it was not until this time around we got into an argument because I told her that she was an abusive mother and he never apologized but she acts just like scrappy's mom like she doesn't think I'm sorry what can I do to make you feel better nothing. And she's definitely a gas lighter. I just don't know why I haven't put my foot down yet to say I'm washing my hands quick of her cuz every now and then I should call but I need to get out here maybe new friends or something because this is too toxic

Once he took those gulps, I knew he was gonna pour his heart out!

REAL SHIT BOYYYY !!!!

Right! I remember Mama Dee putting Erica through HELL. She's owed an apology for real. She's been saying there's something wrong with Mama Dee since forever.

FACTS... he was blaming Erica. He couldn't see his mom for what she is.. a busy body who is way too invested in her sons love life... he never stood up to her.. I'm happy he's doing it now.. he should've done it years ago

Yesss

Time 4 kandi too do mama Joyce like that with Todd

@@everybodyaintablewithsean my God, yes! She never will but she ought to!

That is the ABSOLUTE TRUTH!!!!

FACTS

Yes a lot parents are toxic and still toxic

@@achocolatefyresign8585 or us as black families and people who are saying that what happens in this house 🏡 stays in this house stays not realizing that the truma that us as black kids goes through the pain like tlyer perry said in the movie madea, s big happy family I can't not stand when as black people tell our black children what happens in this house stays in this house 🏡 not getting the help for our black children that's when the generational curses comes in to play and it makes it so much worse than the ever not realizing the truma or pain that your children or family are affected hopefully momma dee can finally open her eyes 👀 to see what scrappy is trying to tell her momma dee she has to learn that her son needs her help and love and support from her because all momma dee is doing is throwing her own son to the wolves of the world not realizing once scrappy gets his old self again it will be too late to save him and scrappy definitely needs to see and sit down with a Therapist for his mental health because was really was a about to lose it on momma dee it, s only so much that a person can take when your mother is not trying to hear what her son has to say to her about his childhood experience and truma that is causing him to be like he is don't nobody cares or listen,s to what scrappy has to say that, s just my thoughts and opinions on the matter

Facts it's all about breaking that cycle in a good way cause when you are a kid u think about doing better for yours u know so I feel scrappy

“that’s why i don’t talk to your motherf$&king A$$” ain’t disrespectful? My mom is a full blown narcissist and I simply stay away and love her from a distance. Nobody’s gonna stop my blessings from coming to me. I live a good life and knowing that she hates that is good enough for me. I’m 44 years old and I’ve never disrespected her even after everything she’s done to me. Scrap needs to take accountability for his choices. He knows his momma doesn’t like his wife, so why go to your mom and vent to her knowing she was gonna do exactly what she did? If i was Bambi, i would feel betrayed, which why he’s doing damage control. When people get caught, they deflect and play victim. Yes Mama Dee was wrong, but so was he. Why not check her when she disrespected your wife by befriending your ex and becoming godmother to your child? Only when she tells everybody what YOU said about your wife is when you have a breaking point? Negro please.

BIG FACTS

Miss Winter I've always believed that!!! 💯🎯

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FACTS🔥🔥🔥 it doesn’t matter who you are or what you do. Respect has been, is, and always will be a two-way street

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She was wrong! He's being a Man 🌞

Great comment

Joseline has . Lol all the time watch the early seasons

@@andreswarner5786 agreed. To see that from a black male like Joseline on TV...

@@jojosangrytarots 😭you got a slick mouth. i like it 😂😂😂😂

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Bruh, I gasped! She cut to the white meat.

No lie told tho. These new age grandparents don't even want that title. Glam-ma's n all that smh. Social media helped further damage the black community. Everyone pushing for attention regardless of age smh

I don’t usually agree with Bam but this was spot on 😂

Ooof, that hit me deep esp because its true.

@@itsmyopinion8462 or it's a toxic black parents favorite line I brought you in this world and I will take you out and our so called modern day black toxic parents are so worried about having a hot girl summer like megan the stallion and what Bambi said about momma dee cut her ass to cut to the quick momma dee wants to be a social lite instead of being a grandmother and a mother Bambi hit the nail on the head with momma dee

Finally he said something right

Its was really funny but its also the problem with her and people around her. Most people call her crazy and just accept her being like that instead of wanting her to be better. Now Scrappy wants her to finally be better for the sake of the family hes trying to maintain.

Kirk wasn't lying tho 😂😂😂😂😂

Brilliant advice. He has a partner who loves him and is 100% for him and on his team. Their focus needs to be the family that they have the power to shape and influence for the better🧡

Amen

@@user-dv3kq3rm4h Yes, this! 💯

@@user-dv3kq3rm4h that part

This one hit hard I had tears 😭 comming from my eyes and it's sad we got so many mothers out here like this it's sad

It's a skit dummy

He still shouldn’t talk to her like that. He’s having temper tantrums. He should be able to control his emotions as an adult. If his mom is still being disrespectful, he has to love her from a distance. Simple. The End.

@@smf427 Nah. Fuck that. Her status as his mother doesn't come with respect added in. That is earned. And up to this point, she really hasn't earned it. I hope they can work through it, because it is a shame. But his trauma and pain are real, and she needs to shut her mouth and LISTEN TO HIM. She always talks over him or tries to downplay it. It's time for her to own her mistakes, not just point out the mistakes of others.

@@smf427 Hi, congratulations, you're part of the problem! You literally just said that a parent should be able to do whatever they want to their child and still be right and still get all the respect even without giving any in return or taking any accountability whatsoever. That sounds right to you?

Yes. And real fans know scrapp never supported how momma dee treated Erica he just didnt want to hurt her feelings

@@destinylove2193 right he never said what really needed to be said he'd just be like "nah don't do that" and hoped it would blow over. Scrap finally hit the wall, though. We all do eventually.

I felt this as well. I agree with you 100%

Facts 💔🙏🫂

Man like I got chills because it’s like he was talking about my whole situation

Trying to have serious conversations with a narcissist feels like trying to talk to a toddler in the middle of a tantrum

That's because Momma Dee is treating him like a child

@@andrewstaples7544 that's the reason why she needs to mind her own business it's not worried about what her son doing

She's a lunatic

Say it louder for the people saying she needs to be respected but respect is earned

@@thatbeaatcch9884 or it's a toxic black parents favorite line I brought you in this world and I will take you out that's every black toxic parents favorite saying plus Bambi hit the nail on the head of momma dee she is definitely wants to a social lite instead of a loving grandmother and mother or a another favorite saying of toxic black parents is what happens in this house stays in this house 🏡 and it's just so sickening and toxic black parents always want to put down their own kids because of their toxic black parents and their negative upbringing and its just so heartbreaking and sad 😔 plus toxic black parents don't give a second thought about their child,s mentally health hopefully momma dee will get hit with a dose of reality and wake up and smell the coffee that just my thoughts and opinions on the matter please please please please please please please please please please please reply back to me antionetta Wolfe

Wow. So there should be no accountability ever for her cause she admit she’s crazy? And bruh…. You sound so lost I hope you don’t procreate

Mama Dee knows SHES crazy so she need to take the proper precautions in how she handles that so she can have HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS she needs to be accountable

She put it out there all her business.

It's hard because that's his mom. so hes going to tell her things that's natural. But his mom is a selfish narcissist and flips everything he says and plays the victim. He's going to have to accept his mom for who she is and give her distance. Focus on his wife whose a dime piece btw. Poor some passion into her. 😄

It's not just about her being crazy. It's about her being dysfunctional and Traumatizing to her son

My 11 year old child got a mom who's dysfunctional family my child grandmother is a narcissistic woman who's don't give a rat ass about herself and my child mom got mental illness being to jail and state hospital her mother mess her up like that see I don't want my daughter grow up dysfunctional issues like that cause of her grandmother

Damn sorry that happened to you

My real mom blames me and my big brother for her illness and that we’re gonna be the reason she dies and I’m the youngest 23 now with my own kids and my parents try and belittle me cause I’m a single mom and when they disrespect me or anything and I stick up for myself it’s an issue and her comes my dad telling me to shut up or he gonna make me like what I’m grown now

You are exceptional! To survive all that keep Christ close to you, you will see it getting better

💕🕊️🙌. Sending you love. You are loved and needed in this 🌎.

So proud of you!

Momma Dee messed up scrappy n Érica relationship but they also hurt each other a lot to the point they couldn’t stand each other. Erica is not better suited for Scrappy because she as well had so much trauma and wasn’t able to shore him the love he needed either and she put alot on the show that should’ve been kept behind closed doors. I feel he’s with the right person and Bambi helps him to see his flaws as well and accepts him. She might not like some choices he make but she’s not cold to him

You contracdicted yourself if Erica was more suited for Scappy because she could deal with Momma Dee; MOMMA DEE would’ve been able to mess up their relationship let’s add that she’s literally the reason why they called off their engaged and broke up; she made him choose between her and Erica and she’s doing the same thing with Bambi

Bambi 😂 but you’re right ! She thought she could control Bambi but she knew she couldn’t play with my girl Erica !! You’re are on point !!

@@arquidalyncollins1802 😂😂😂

@@SweetestGyrl Not saying Erica was better suited for Scrappy (although I love her) but you can chase away a good partner, one that really would’ve elevated you and held you down, by your actions. Erica was asking Scrap to do exactly what he’s doing now: create boundaries so they could flourish. But he was still in that “that’s my momma and you’re just gonna have to deal with it” mode. He’s finally catching on (growing up) more than 10 years later.

Big facts about that one okay 👌

No this the one!!!!

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thats my mom in a nutshell

Can I ask something? This is a genuine question. If your father came to you and said, I am genuinely sorry. I know I hurt you. I was wrong. I hope you can forgive me, and he tried to foster a relationship, would you be open to it? I'm asking because I often think people could accomplish a lot if they admit they are wrong and ask for forgiveness.

Amen that’s so true I went through childhood trauma💯😌

Nah, that’s frustration and it sucks that as an adult she still can’t respect him and or his family. Respected is fucking earned not given. Fuck out of here with that bullshit

That’s that liquor courage talking. Scrappy needs to accept his mom for where she at in her life. You can’t force someone to change. Scrappy needs Godly counseling.

@@jt3409 It’s not easy to just accept this stage of her life when she’s like this. I don’t blame him for not wanting to be around her and struggling to create a healthy relationship with her. When someone can’t take a single ounce of accountability for what they have done to you, it’s hard to be around them and “accept” that. This is his mother. This should be the last person he should have to worry about telling his business, or always fighting with. With that being said, I can’t blame him for wanting to continue to try to fix his relationship with her. (Although it fails every-time.)The liquor might have his feelings heightened but, Scrappy has been dealing with Momma Dee for years and has finally stood his ground. As he said, this is a generational curse and Momma Dee is only continuing to keep the cycle alive. I truly do feel sorry for him.

@@aryliso5376 yes, I agree that it hard to be around someone like Scrappy’s mother. However, when scrappy reaches that full state of consciousness, soberness, healing, and transparency he will be able to not only forgive his mother but he won’t let where she is at get him outside of where he is. Scrappy is too old to be throwing tantrums, cussing, hollering, and throwing objects. He is not in control of himself. As soon as his mother opened her mouth, the first thing that Scrappy did was sip his drink.. I pray that God will help him.

Everyone is praising him for standing up for himself, but really all he is doing is hiding behind weed and alcohol. Scrappy is suffering inside, he’s a victim of his own delusions. His mama can’t save him.

What does he take from Bambi?

same. i cried *with* him, not for him.

Ok!!! Say it again for the 80s and 90s babies. My mom was born in 1965 and I was born 90. It took me 31 years to realize my mom have a narcissistic behavior. We also gotta look back at our grandparents who were born in the 30s and 40s

@@Oltl21 yeah there parents didn’t SHOW THEM love, so they withhold it from us

Yep!!!! My mom literally is Never wrong!! I finally told her how I felt about some neglectful behavior I experienced from her raising me and she said I did the best I could…😒

Say it louder!!!

Mine was born in 1950 (I was born in 83), same BS though!

Yup, he's probably very resentful of his mom for ruining his relationship with Erica. He wanted to marry her and give his daughter that healthy family life and dynamic, but Momma Dee made it very difficult. He'll be damned if she does this to him again with his new wife and kids.

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Exactly

But he also needs to go back and apologize to his first baby mama cause she tried to tell him this years ago

I think they finna bring ( Scrappy) sister into the picture to tell the real truth in behind MamaDee this was so sad