I was in a relationship for 4+ years with my girlfriend when i was 18 and i was so in love with her i was going to buy an engagement ring, then out of the blue i find out she is pregnant and it wasn't my child. I was diagnosed with depression and insomnia for over 2 years and every night was hell. Now I've grown and realized that there's so much more to life than dwelling on the past and being bitter and depressed. I love my life now and I'm as happy as I've ever been. All it took was time. So please anyone who is going through struggles please just talk to someone and give it time. Things do get better.
You know, the hardest lie I ever told was; "I'm happy for you." Because it's hard seeing someone you loved.......who loved you back... Find a new person to love.
Hello to the people of the future, this is a message from the past. You are amazing, the fact that you can read this is already a blessing, don't ever give up and believe in yourself. You can do this! 👊
Man... Music like this just brings you down, especially the lyrics "I've broken all my promises to you" when you have hurt the one you love and all you ever wanted to do was make them happy and want them to like you back or even accept you as a good person, and yet all the times you've tried you've always done something to screw everything only increasing the distance between you and the other person you love. and all the times you thought were easy and you talked to her so much and her texts made you smile and laugh and all the times you've secretly told her you loved her. and now she's ignoring you for some guy she hardly even knows. man this song just shoots a bullet straight into my heart.
5 years later. 2019. I’m married with 2 kids. 5 years ago, I tried to over dose. I had self harm issues. I’m 2 years clean from all my past addictions. There is hope. For everyone ♥️
This song helps me. I'm alone at school, unless I'm being made fun of Sometimes I feel like I should cry But no one would care ... I would not be here if it wasn't for music like this.
Oh boy 10 years ago huh... a lifetime ago it seems. I've somehow wandered back to this comment section, I didn't realize anybody commented until now! I'm okay, I'm still sad I've recently found out - it's sort of been buried all this time, but I found it again. A great deal of sadness but you know, with it I rediscovered a great deal of inspiration, hope. My heart longs for things my brain knows won't happen, or... probably won't happen. But... hell there's always hope right? Slim chances. It hurts, but it serves a purpose I think. It's so you always know what you truly want. So don't drown that out, I'll try not to too. Peace ♥
This song popped up in my you tube algorithm and came across your original comment from 10 years ago and then your current comment in the present. It makes me sad that so many people don't acknowledge the pain and harm they inflict onto others. The true harm it does long term. I know we all have trauma and pain, but I hope that atleast you've had people along the way show you kindness and love to show you how valued you are in this world. Never give up that light at the end of the tunnel, because I promise you, things do get better. Hold onto the small wins and appreciate them.
the worst thing is when people make you believe they care when they actually don't. the worst thing is when people don't give you an explanation that you deserve. the worst thing is when people make you believe that that disrespect is what you deserve. and the worst thing of all is when you let them.
Everytime I hear this, I remember my 1st love way back in college. It seems everything flashes back, especially the pain that I've been through. But it made me realize now that I overcome those years, how much more now I'm facing.
this song reminds me of a friend that moved across the country and she was the greatest person I had ever met she was so sweet so funny just a great person to be around she had the greatest smile .... she made me feel happy when I was sad she kept my secrets and never told a soul .. I never got to tell her how much she meant to me before she left and this song reminds me of it all ... such great memories but so depressing ..I love you I hope you come back soon !!!
When I listen to this song, I sing my whole heart out. It's the only song I'll ever sing aloud, I love my crush. I get teased by his friends for it, even though only him and his group of friends know as it's been 2 months since I confessed. I still have feelings for him, and I dont want to lose him. Hes my best friend, my family... at least that's what he sees me as. I see him as one of the best people in the world, hes my whole world, he means everything to me. When I hear the lines, "You make it hard to smile because you make it hard to breathe." I start crying, and then sobbing when I hear the line again.. He means everything to me, even though he doesnt realize it. I have been clean of self-harm for 5 months now for him, and I feel proud. If I lose him... I'm going to spiral back down into my self-harm, I want to get better for him. I really do...
I was dating a man for two years and know we're acting like we never meet. Ever. Its hard and its been hard days for me but this song helps me to get my pain outta my chest. Thankyou, secondhand
+firza tiffany i know this, hard break with my ex then sto pspeaking together act we forget but i don't... this song remind me her because we listening secondland... now when i hear this one i can't hardly forget her.. i'm with an other girl, love her but still hard to chase my ex out of my mind :/
I thought that just normal things. everyone need a break, tho. everyone need a time for themselves to think about his/her feeling. its all about options, try to forget your ex and continue your life or keep remember your ex and make your life more hard. its fine, where are you from btw? Jonathan Thomas
exactly. i choose to get a new life and forget but i can't just get this story out of my head xD i can live with it, the bad times are gone. I'm from Belgium (french side)
When I met him my heart skipped a beat. It was just me and him and time stopped. Then I started noticing a few things that where off about our relationship. I realized he was slowly drifting away. It hurt me more than it hurt him but I had to pull the plug. We both drifted away not knowing what was ahead of us. We fought and fought to the point I was done. He will always remain in my heart but known as the reason for the tears in my pillow when I fall asleep at night😭❤️😔
Devin Pelfrey What made her think that? Set 'er straight! You don't have to tell her you like her, just make sure she knows you care c: [Life advice from me isn't always the best. Use with caution]
2019 and i dont know why im here. I guess seconhand serenade remind me of my ex. Who's i loved so much. And he left me bcs of distance. I understand why sometimes. Im just not good for him. But i cant find the reason why i should hate him he knw that i loved him. But i saw how happy he was with his new girlfriend so i gave up. There is no one i meet out here like you. Thankyou for being part of my life..
I've never commented on a youtube video before but here goes. 17th March. I lost the love of my life. It was our 4years 4months anniversary. I was so hurt. I am so hurt. I dont know if I will ever recover. He was that one thing in my life I had, one day I'm forced to live without him. He was the kind of person when things fall apart he says, "its okay we'll work it out. There no reason to break up." But on that day, he was the person I never thought he'd be. I would understand people breaking my heart. I just never thought it would be him. I was so easy for him from saying " I love you, happy anniversary, I miss you." in the morning and an hour later, "we should break up." He was not only my boyfriend. But my life, my best friend, my all. Why do you do this to me?
Think of all the people you lost, how terrible it was to loose them. Think of the smiles that you put on each others faces. Be happy that you knew that person. Don't cry because you miss them, don't be sad because they are gone, but be happy that you knew them.
I use to listen this song when I was 16 years-old, when I broke up with someone that for first time in my life I was opening my heart to, now almost 5 years later I felt like I have to listen to it again because the person I've love the most in my life, left me. My longest relationship and the person I fall in love with, is not mine anymore, that F*#$^@#% hurt, He was there when I change country, when I was alone and I was in a depression hole, now I miss him, but the main significance this song has to me is:"I am moving on, you are now just the most beautiful chapter of my life" I love you and I'll love you for ever but, everything happens for a reason, and now my reason is to be me, and be happy learning to love myself...
When I listen to this song, I think more about the pain I feel, more about the things this life has put me through. I'm strong most of the time, but sometimes everyone just needs a chance to break down.
I know that this is just wasting everyone's time, but i can't help it, I have nowhere else to go. I used to look at comments just like this and wonder: "why would they post that here, they're just going to get ridiculed", but now i understand. Sometimes theres no one to go to, and all you can do is hope you get some support from random strangers... well today i lost the only one who seems to care about me. "I need space" she said. "Just for a little while a week at most" Ive never felt so alone
I was singing along to this song, And my boyfriend called. We talked, and he told me "One day I will love another girl more than you", at first I was confused, and then he added "And she will call you mommy". That was the best thing anyone has ever said to me, and I love him
I feel really bad my cousin listen to secondhand and I always made fun of him saying stop listening to depressing music and then he passed away 😢 and I looked in his phone and this song was his favorite so I listen to this all the time and it hurts I miss him so much and I love secondhand now
i know im a few years late but damn this song is good, by the time i finished it i was in tears tbh . i love this type of music its so relaxing and its perfect.
It's now 2023 and we used to listened this song on a computer shop that has only one computer and 5mbps internet and can only play 240p, friendster, myspace the good old days with friends no drama just pure fun and now that we aged still a good song brings a lot of memories..
my dad has caused a lot of pain not only within the family but between my love life but I still push on. I guess i will love even if I have to hurt to love.
I am 39 now and this used to be my favourite song, those times when my love left me. I am still single to this day. I refuse to fall in love ever again.
This song reminds me of her... I didn't believe in love and then I met her and I just felt so fucking happy... I poured my heart out to her and treated her like an Angel... We broke up almost two years ago but for some odd reason I can't let go... Breawna Bell Harden I love you so fucking much...
Humberto Velez Hey, you ever need me I'm here for you. I care for all of you people, more than I can explain actually. My one friend, he's a fan on my videos, he made a collage and it actually made me cry that someone went out of their way to do something like that for me.
Awwwww That's happen to me too hun.. it broke my heart. Cuz I loved him so much but he didn't care much about me. I cared for him and did everything for him to care but I guess it wasn't good enough...😢😭😥 I'm SO sorry that happened to you..
Every single time I listen to this song I cry. It just explains what's going through my mind these days. Like, my boyfriend broke up with me when people found out we were dating. It looks like it's so fxcking easy to him, but it breaks me every day a little bit more...
the feeling when a girl chooses a guy that makes her unhappy over someone who cares about her and wants the best for her if she ever sees this only thing i got to say is i really do love you but the pain is not worth getting my hopes up that you realize your mistake
I feel you brother.. I just got left bye the woman who broke down my walls and i would give my life for her. She left me for her ex that treated her like garbage. The sad thing is that i would take her back in a second cause i genuinly love her and care for her. Keep your heap up man.. God doesnt put you on a path he thinks u cant get through. He only gives you what he knows you can handle.
I met a girl exactly 4 years ago, she was my first love. I court here, but she said that she will only say yes when she turn 18 So i waited for almost a year. Exactly on her birthday. I found out that she is two weeks in relationships. It broke my heart like shit. And today exactly 4 years have been pass I cant still get over her. Im still broke, I try to go date with somebody but, I still love her. This heart is so dumb. 😥😥😭😭😭😭 every new years eve I always remember the day she Promise me. Y ur so unfair, y just me who left behind. 😭😭😭 I really miss you.
even though its been 3 years i kno how u feel 9-18-2017 my grandpa died and it was after his bday and he was my closest grandpa but when he died my BF ended it a day after and then i lost a REALLY good friend bc his dad didnt lik me and then my parents got mad at me and just those 2 days i lost ALOT and i was gona run away or...commit suicide...but...i found this poem dat kinda helped me through my depprestion (im still depressed but not as bad) Your skin is not paper Dont cut it Your face is not a mask Dont hide it Your size isnt a book Dont judge it Your life isnt a movie Dont end it
this song makes me think about the biggest crush of my life in highschool... damnnn life sucks cause u can't get everything u want... but then life is good because chances are you can find better
