1st Q: Your wife is in the wrong. Seems like she doesn’t want to be involved with your side of the family. The meaning of protection your wife is asking is to agree with her on her choices whether it’s right or wrong. For that, it’s not a good thing because it will caused family conflicts and disagreements.
2nd question, sister, you married a liar and a pretender. He likes to boost and bragged about things to boost his image. Living and materialistic beyond his means. He's shameful. Can't stay in a marriage with such a person. He's an embarrassment. I feel you on that. I myself wouldn't want to be around him.
Question #1. Your wife is uncomfortable with your family side, or she doesn't like them. It's more like she doesn't like your family. Treat her like she treats you. People only understand that once they get the same treatment.
Q1: it is hard to be married to someone that doesn’t like your family. Even if she doesn’t like them, she should try to get along with them for your sake. Have a heart to heart talk. If she just doesn’t like your family, then your marriage is not going to last. The problem is her. Q2: i would be ashamed to have a husband like yours. I hate liars so I wouldn’t last with a man like that. It will make you crazy. If he is lying to others, I’m sure he’s lying to you too.
for the lying husband: it is up to you on how you want to handle your marriage/husband. If, talking and asking him to stop lying doesn't work then its all up to you to determine if you want to continue this life with him. That is embarrassing to hear and to know everyone talks about your husband lies. Good luck on your decision.
Q1: one: Your wife might not like your family like you want her too. Two: some sister-in-laws might act all nice but mean behind your back. Not to your wife.
Q1: Your wife hates your family. Maybe when you’re at her family and she happily convert with her family, you tell her, “I would love to see you happy like this at my family.” Q2: If I would you, while he talks with friends and family and exaggerates, I would go there and confront him not to lie.
To the guy in the first secret. You may not have seen everything. Maybe some of your family members may have said something or done something to your wife that is why she is so cold towards your family. Some guys are very blind.
Q1: you are right. Your wife doesn't like your family. She is mad cause u are right. There is nothing to protect your wife from your family. Maybe you need to protect your family from your wife. But its up to you if you tolerate her behavior. U will lose your family if you continue to be with her. But if you choose your family, u will lose her. Is she a good enough person for you to lose your family for?
Q. 1 nov yog koj tus poj niam tsis nyiam koj tsev neeg ces lawv thiaj hais nws me ntsis ces nws ho tiav lawv tsis nyiam nws no... tim koj tus poj niam lawm mas...tus kwv..
Of course, the wife is going to be more comfortable when it comes to her side than your side. Her side is the one she grew up with. Your side is not and your side needs to step up and talk more than just chores.
kab lia niam tsev kj tu aib hlub 2 kj es vimcov nphooj ywgxakev zoo kev phem tuaj 6 kjthm ce kj khaw ghov zoo2 lo uaneej ce kjtsi paub lau li pua yogthov teb kv xavkawmlov
Q1: you have every right to ? Your wife. It’s your wife she’s the issue. She doesn’t liked to be around your families only. Q2: your husband is a lier for sure but if you don’t hang with him you might as well divorce.
1st - sounds like your wife just don’t like your side of the family if she is like that to her side. Your not wrong at all she just needs to change her way of acting and thinking if she is able to go treat her side the family like that then come back treat your side opposite then it’s definitely her fault. If she say you don’t protect her then she needs to communicate and list what it is and you both fix it and if she continues to be like that then definitely she is in the wrong.
The guy doesn’t understand what goes around with his family and his wife. Did he not understand his mom comment when he asked her. It’s obvious they don’t like his wife!!!
Story #1- your wife is a hater, she’s not even trying to have a relationship with your family. She thinks she’s too good for your family. She’s in the wrong. Hate to say but your marriage is jn trouble unless you give in to her.. what would she do anf feel if you act like her towards her side of family?
Q1: your wife is in the wrong, to treat your family like that and still accuse them of disliking her. You already saw that she displayed different behaviors with the 2 families. You could go to yours and she to her family events in the future. Q2: your husband is a pathological liar, you can never change them if you try. He doesn’t think he’s the problem and he thinks you are the problem and wants to fix your problems with a 2nd wife/mistress. Who knows how many lies he’s told to you also…Hmong men don’t believe in therapy/counseling but you can ask if he’s willing to try. But if he’s not, the door is wide open for him to go. Secret1: what stays in the dark will come to light 😊 Secret2: play with fire or fake money will get you fake love 😂 Secret3: you must have been so embarrassed at the time of the incident to remember it all these years! I would feel the same way too 😅
1st question, brother, your sounds like she doesn't like your family or relatives. Not everyone likes to talk or are sociable. "Why is it that she has to adapt and make changes to fit into your family?" Maybe you need to observe the interaction between your family with your wife. From listening to your mother, sisters, aunts and cousins they don't like your wife. She's comfortable to her family and relatives because she grew up with them and they know her. Just because she doesn't associate with your family don't be quick to judge and assume.
