This marriage with Judy is not a mistake. She's there to teach Yul the lesson of his life. He will come to appreciate May(the original wife)in no distant time
How I wish you pray to God to lead you into some secret about the whole time, you will bless God at the end. The Lord protect us from this world of darkness.
We are forgetting the victims here,the children of the marriage,who have now been dragged through the mud,seeing their home filled with love and joy,suddenly torn apart by lies and deception,the heartbreak of their mum.is anyone asking how one can process this🤔this tragic evil,how does the first child,the only daughter,feels upon hearing she was an unwanted child,the cause of the dad marrying the mum,that girl is damaged for life as she would go into any relationship with great mistrust
I feel for the first wife. I went through this situation,it was not easy,it almost send me crazy ,Thank God for my parents. I didn’t leave but it wasn’t a a nice for us.But I thank God for my children. I loved them even more.
First things first... its absolutely not my place to judge... I’m single and not married yet...but I love everything love... And adore the sanctity of marriage. That been said, I pray and know God got May. However for her sanity, I wish she leaves them, move away, love on herself and her kids and start to heal from this deep betrayal and hurt. Also for her kids...especially her daughter who is learning first hand from her on how a woman should value herself...if she stays the home will eventually become toxic. ( I know a thing or two about a home that turned toxic... which has inadvertently affected me negatively... my skepticism/fear of Men/ marriage ... I’ve constantly told my mom that I wish she left) l’m Soo hurt for her.
The thing get to my mum she nearly pass out one day. I told her if you die now who will I turn to. You will not understand this things ontill it affects you. 😭😭😭😭
And she thinks that her marriage will be successful........I really feel for the first wife.....I can imagine the pain and agony she is going through.....but she should not bother herself at all...... because definitely God must take his glory and he can never share his glory with any man.....period###
I have been friends with the family for years actually his only sister is my friend and classmate. Honestly I am not really surprised but not too surprised. Yul has always been very strong headed no be today. Also he actually married Mary under duress because his father said he can't impregnant a girl and not refuse to marry her. I remember vividly when his elder sister told me back then in Enugu at thier house in Hillview that her little brother was getting married at 22. I still remember Mary vividly very slim and quiet . Yul fall his mother's hand because I know he was close to his mum. He has really hurt that woman.
I feel pain for our baby girl the first born. The girl she is in pain to see her mother in pain and I don't think she'll love her father the way she used to love and share with him because she is 17 years old, she knows what is bad or good.
Thank you Betha... Look Yul even going ahead to state that he didn't want to marry his first wife 17 ago is just NONSENSE!!! it's not cool. I'm a guy and I will say it as it is. Yul messed up big time .
Absolutely,the daughter of the union must be going through a private hell,under the reality of being an unwanted child of a casual fling on the part of the father,Yul edochie
Thank you for saying this. So Yul thinks it's ok to demote May from wife to No-1 wife.. Praising her as undisputed no-1 wife. This is so manipulative. The poor woman is not even allowed to get angry at this betrayal🤨
Thanks so much Betha, you are doing well. I love the way you talk in this Yul Edochie and Judy Austin's matter. They will certainly reap what they have sown
From what Yul is posting on the internet it’s obvious he did not have any respect for his wife, not to talk of love, he only just realised that he was forced to marry her after 17 years and 4 children, does he realise what those words will do not just to his wife but children, like products of unwanted woman, in essence he was just tolerating them. Peter call your son to order, before calamity will befall him . God did not save him from that terrible road accident to come back alive to dishonour him
No one should judge anyone on this matter because no one is living under the same roof with them. I believe there is more to this story. we have to hear the real story them.
Hummm Betha love, this really hits close to home In 2009 after my husband lost his job he dabbled into oil and gas and was duped he almost took his life his cousin living at the UK then invited him to come down and start over so I took a loan from work and he travelled only to hear that he married a woman there a Nigerian o and abandoned us here what is the point of my story a decade and 2 children with him later just last week in fact I got an epistle chat from the woman he married begging me to come and take my husband back that she didn't know he was married when she met him she was deceived she has not known peace since she married him yada yada yada apparently she's getting the shorter end of the stick in the marriage cuz my ex is not happy and he talks about me in regret all the time and I'm like good luck. bi---tch you lay Ur bed u lie in it KARMA has a way of dealing with people don't worry she will have a dose of reality very soon Stay strong May God's Gat You Yul is narcissist that's how they are clueless and selfish as long as it benefits them they don't care who they hurt along the way. Shish.
Your story is touching. I'm sorry you had to go through that. May God's Grace continue to be sufficient for you and your children. BUT with your narrative, I don't think the UK wife should bear any blame so long she didn't know your husband was married at the time of marrying him. I'm a man as well but it's fair to say it's all on your husband.
@@tomihughes6350 thank you very much honestly I don't blame her I just want her to leave me alone and not contact me she did her part blocking him access to his children though she denied that too and it became a he said she said situation and I just felt God is just trying to send them a msg that the truth don't stay buried no matter how long it will always come out I wish them well I'm just over it and the should sought out their issue without involving me that's all
Thank u Bertha. I love ur analysis. She is a Queen and should not have time for too many words. Let God judge them. He will reap what he sow very soon. Na here we go dey wait for him when the time comes and we will be the ones 😂😂😂
Let May calm down and be watching... Agaracha must come back... Judy is a strange woman. They will soon scatter. I pray that God will strengthen May and her children in Jesus Name Amen 🙏🏼
Your analyses is on point...he can never be a president because he can't be trusted....the wife is passing through hell of emotions now.... This is a national betrayal.
Chai you will be fine, and you are right, the most important thing in a situation like this now is to take care if your kids, and don't forget to give it up to God, God knows how to humiliate those who are not faithful in marriage. God will fight your battle.
It's not the fact that He married a SECOND WIFE....its the fact that he has been CHEATING all these years and married behind his WIFE and making it seem like its ok. NO ITS NOT OK...that's all kinds of fucked up. I'm baffled people support this.
@@enogha6223 Regina co wife knows their husband is a Muslim and even most Muslim women are not happy having a co wife , Regina she is not married to Ned but he take her to sherine to swear she will never leave him but yul edochie he was cheating before he get the side chick pregnant and later married her without his wife notice tell me will you be happy this baby boy is two or three months old imagine someone did this to u
News flash,guess by now u know Pete is not involved,infact he was not even aware Yul has a son outside,infact he has banished the 2nd wife from his household and even said he doesn't recognise her
Yul has exhibited the highest level of irresponsibility. May is a queen and should keep her peace. Most women experience this kind of hurtful behaviour from their husbands. So unfortunate. He'll reap what he sows a thousand times. Let's private chat so I can tell you my experience. It is well with the women
@@wamboieverlynewanjiru240 Seems like he's ACTING/DIRECTING his own "Real-life drama" / "True story" movie. Let's see how it unfolds as the plot thickens. 🤔
This is touching, so sad, Yul Edochie is my favorite actor, I see him like one, with good heart, simple and wonderful husband, seeing this nonsense on internet, it is so bad, May yul Edochie has been his wife for years, she doesn't deserve this rubbish throw at her.
Thank my daughter, like all u said,is so sad,I was disappointed him,let God judge them,m a lbo grañdmother we don't marry two wife,God we fight for re,
It's the happy married life for me😂 Presidential candidate, so Judy was actually married before? This thing go cast very soon, the true gist never came out, we're waiting
As hard as it may seem.May is still young ,beautiful and have had kids, start your life afresh sometimes it's best to walk away from disrespect and toxic situations..
What is paining me is that some people feel he did nothing wrong, but it’s so disheartening. I am not married but I am so hurt as if am may. May God help her seriously. Just like his father said he just breed confusion between his generation. Only heaven knows what his kid’s are going through psychologically because of wat their pair group and friends are saying talk more of his wife. By name he has a family but the affection he lost it.
Yul will definitely come to regret this later!! I hope his wife leaves him, though it might be hard for her after 17yrs!! As women, we need to do better!! It takes 2 to tango, if women aren’t willing participants men will have no other choice but to fall in line!! I was so disappointed when I saw some famous Nollywood actresses hailing the 2nd wife on her page, I don’t care if that is your friend, she is wrong!!
That child is not his that side chick was cheating 🤣🤣🤣look at his first children look at them look at them that chick just want to destroy this man watch my words it will end in tears
From other's personal experiences in the comment section - it seems like the Nigerian movie industry brought/brings/portrays real life drama/situations. Rough stuff😬
Yul's action is a huge disappointment and betrayal. It's simply lack of discipline to not be in firm control of your zip. May God strengthen the wife to make the right decision at this trying moment.
@@marionathaniel7372 lol the woman is not obligated to cause she isnt married, it is the man that should zip up cause he made vow to someone and he is responsible for it
Betha, I feel like crying. Chaaiii Yul is very wicked. Yes, may God judge the wicked! May Almighty God strengthens d first wife. I'm very angry right now, such that I wish to see that heartless Yul Edochie.
Bertha honestly you don't know how I'm feeling right now. You have nailed it all. That comment May made has the weight. She has handed the matter to God. I pity Yul so much because ibo proverb says, " Abuzu n'ere oku, ochere na o na agba mmanu. May is not just the only one been injured here , but mostly the wonderful children. It baffles me how some men can be so selfish that they never consider the joy and image of their children when they take these rash decision. No be celebrity rubbish, na today. Very soon you will soon have this Internet boiling for their divorce. Most of these ladies are out to destroy homes and they are from pit of hell. We dey watch.
Betha, as I saw your notification, I knew yes, I will get the truth... It's so so irritating, they brought their movie acts to reality... Abeg shey na president he wan be ABI local govt chairman... Na wa o... Now he married the woman of his choice after he don blow.
Men always agitating for women to stand my their men when they have no money. That a good woman shouldn't put money first before marrying a man. That a woman should build together with her man. That a woman should stand by her man when the going is though. To be by her man through thick and thin. That women love already made men, that they shouldn't always go for such men. A lot being said to women. Now a woman has done all this. Married a man that wasn't already made. Stood by her man through thick and thin. She was her man's number one fan. And she gets these kind of humiliation has payback. What then should we say to women??? Is it worth suffering with her man??? Is worth sacrificing for her man??? Is it worth being selfless for her man??? E tire me!!!
Latest memo is don't build no man. They can't be trusted and you the builder is at most loss. Options 1. Build with no strings attached so you are fine with choosing you or not 2. Don't build
The best analysis on Yul Edoche's irresponsibility. I feel he's made a terrible mistake,especially with this information that Judy had been b**ging Yul even while she was married to someone else. Very unfortunate
So who impregnated May 17 years ago that Yul is complaining of I don't get it so you didn't love her but slept with her and had wish someone else married her or what. See ladies let's respect ourselves don't sleep with any man and think that is what will bond you. Absolutely nonsense to say he didn't love her but married her because of pregnancy. Is it not this same pregnancy that has grown to be your only girl. Another same pregnancy has made you married a second wife, ugh smh Let God judge them indeed. What God has put together has been broken by Yul himself and the second wife let God truly be the judge
These celeb and their lives poured out on social media... I don tire sef. This also will come and pass like many others, everyone will only have to learn one or two lessons.
Thank you sis.You just spilled everything am sure you spoke for womanhood and its effect on us by Men parading as husbands.God will see MAY through this but mire so the children.Its pathetic Karmo will be the judge here
Yul is shameless, I thought he married a single girl not knowing that she's second hand, olosho woman. Your political ambition has ended abruptly. Yeye boy.
If handled well, polygamy is not new in Igbo culture. The problem is the hypocritical social media chief judges. I don't condemn him. I pity the 1st wife too. But if handled away from social media, they would find a common ground to coexist as one family. We all have our different flaws.
That woman calling herself second wife thunder from the center of Heaven may it strikes her for the rest of her life the death she has brought to the door of the 1 wife may that be her portion, sadness, sorrow and pain may they be her cup of water to drink.
Yul have proven to be unfit to become a leader. In a developed and civilize country, Yul can't even win a community chairman seat not to talk about having intention of seeking the nations highest seat.
We should not blame Yul, he has eating from the bowl of the Devil ! Come to think of it, it appears the Lady in question sets out to achieve what she got. Yul might not have control over what is happening, he definitely needs prayers and support to break the yoke that has covered his sense of reasoning.
I can guarantee it will never work out this Judy has a plan I thought yul was more responsible May continue to look to God for directions am sure he will c u through I pray that God give you and the children strength to go on🙏
I just saw this video today . Oho I feel your pain sis. Kkkkk you are a strong woman fighting for another woman. The part I laughed is "welcome presidential candidate sir, 2023" kkkkkk.
What a lot of these ignorant, uneducated, unscrupulous beings do is that they are justifying Yule’s bad behavior. Women need to understand that taking another woman’s man is so demeaning and not cute. Some African women have been abused in that manner it has become a norm.It is not ok for women to accept these acts. As for the side chick, there will be another very soon. What goes around comes around. We need to have each other’s back as women for real.
@@MsUwimana My sister there are lots of questions flowing through my mind as well my dear. I believe they did. To me, in situations like this, whether the cheater like it or not, he only has one wife. Especially they portray themselves as catholic Christian’s and all that nonsense so polygamy is out of the question. The disrespect is what baffles me that he married her over the weekend and decided to parade her and the baby to the world without his wife’s knowledge. He further made his disrespectfulness known by posting his wife’s pic as his “number one undisputed”. He was better just posting about his side chick and the baby and leaving it as that to receive the back clash but adding salt to injury like that is a no no. I had so much respect for him but I lost all respect by his approach to his situation. My sister if the tables were turned and the wife did that, he would have slapped her with a big ass divorce. It’s crazy how these so called men operate my dear. Now I truely believe that these Bollywood actresses and actors do have affairs secretly for real. You can’t trust them for shit.
Methinks Mr. Yul is unconsciously and naively bringing Thinks Fall Apart to bear in his household. Let the First Wife woman up, sit tight and watch events unfold. Something tells me that if that woman (the First Wife) be patience and act her own part diplomatically and smart enough, she will surely have the final laugh.
Very sad. There are times I feel we women should reassess what this thing called marriage really means. Do we really need to be married? especially with so many idiotic, and irresponsible boys out there calling themselves men.
I'm truly hurt I respected him so much. He's a disappointment to me, just like many other losers out there ain't loyal disrespectful to the Love of his children.
A man with no self control is like a city without walls. As long as we are alive and well,the desires for attraction to opposite sex for sexual activities is constant,married or not. The ability to tame it makes you responsible not to yourself alone,to your spouse and God almighty. Many have said he is entitled to a second wife, have asked them if she is entitled to a second husband, or how does it feel if she is sleeping with another man without marrying him? The bottom line is simple, it's selfishness and lack of control of yourself. I pray God gives her wisdom to stay strong. She is handling it perfectly. Judy herself knew what she is doing! She prefers to play second wife,many women don't mind that, but some would rather prefer its them alone which is understandable. Wish the luck,they will need it,but its impossible to quench the sexual thirst of a man who cannot stay with a woman
Wow Mr Olubowale. I can't like your comment enough. People act like men can't exercise self control but they can. I haven't seen any man have sex with a naked mad woman in broad daylight. Nor will they sleep with someone if they knew the person had a deadly disease. Worse thing is Yul and others like him claim to be Christian yet dabble in African " tradition " when it favours them. You are wise.
Men can never be satisfied the first wife looks more beautiful than the so called second wife even after 4 kids and yet Yul still couldn't get his eyes of those theif theif ladies he makes movies with too bad.
How does he know that a woman that jumps from pillar to post bore his son. Also the lesson he needs to learn in this life will be taught him by this woman.
Anything that was done behind close doors without the wife knowing is deceit. People expecially his colleagues said polygamy is allowed. Ok let’s just agree it’s allowed why did he do it behind close doors? Why didn’t he discuss the matter with his wife? Like I don’t get it. He wasn’t prepared to announce it. If nor be gistlover baba for still Dey hide am. See pikin na, baby wey don reach 3-4 months. I read on gistlover he was blackmailed. If truly he was, why him nor stand on him ground na say him nor go marry? He went to marry her at his wife’s back. Presidential candidate in the poto poto 😅😅.. I just dey vex since 😢😢
Or why didn't he marry her long before an innocent baby entered into this affair. He still could have married her before the baby was born. My heart goes out to May & her children, may God be their strength & comfort at this time 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Ur analysis just spot on.u even made me cry.I pray she divorces his sorry ass so that the wife he has married without being forced can be Mrs president
Why didn't they just divorce because am sure the wife of his youth would agree to it rather than this humiliation and embarrassment. God must judge yul! His happiness can't be dependent on another person's sadness
This is not some sudden “mistake” Yul Edochie made. This was a plan unfolding. I believe Yul has been having a long time affair and relationship with this Judy woman and they wanted to move forward with their relationship after she got pregnant, because that gave him an excuse to marry her. This is just a speculation- not fact.
