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Can we have nikah where is only me and her, and no one else?
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@ill_like_comment_after_read_it 2 года назад

As a very shy person, this is a relatable topic.

@farjanaahmed3345 2 года назад

Yes

@sadiasultana809 2 года назад

Hmm

@eliasziad7864 2 года назад

You will not be shy on the battlefield

@Clan_Killer 2 года назад

Wait what!! You want to do your nikah in secret because you are a shy person? What kind of reasoning is that

@ill_like_comment_after_read_it 2 года назад

@@Clan_Killer When I said "shy", I mean really shy.

@MsrFaqihah 2 года назад

I hate it when some men said he gonna find an orphan women or none of wali care for her. I ask him why, he said he can do whatever he want without thinking the women side. Women are not object, we are your partner, your makmum and first teacher to children.

@sluggishhollow2030 2 года назад

Speaking as a men, they don't deserve a partner at all

@infjlogic 2 года назад

And some women are so foolish, they just don't understand the shenanigan

@iqramajid4027 Год назад

Yet they do the same with women who have wali as well.

@razamughal4582 Год назад

@@iqramajid4027 in the hanafi fiqh you dont even need a wali

@wolfmerc11 2 года назад

My ideal version of a marriage is just to have the respective immediate families present.

@user-ut5se7vr2g 2 года назад

May Allah protect us from the evil eye, n these types of fitnas aamin aamin aamin

@AimanbintJawed 2 года назад

Aameen summa aameen 🌺🌺

@myankleneedsvitamind339 2 года назад

ameen

@frarmanullah7521 2 года назад

Aameen aameen yaa Rabbal Aalameen

@ilaakamal2065 2 года назад

May bless us with righteous spouses...ameen✨

@frarmanullah7521 2 года назад

Aameen aameen yaa rabbal Aalameen

@parisisamoveablefeast3945 2 года назад

A very important topic in these days.

@nizamrahman7586 2 года назад

Indeed

@svbille_ 2 года назад

Agree

@btgreenhouses6258 2 года назад

I speak with experience that secret marriages can ruin lives. My Dad just passed away and all of a sudden a women and a boy calls me and said that this women was married to my Dad. Things have gone extremely disturbed in both families. Our lives were already disturbed due to passing away of Dad and now our future is also ruined due to this new person in our lives who we never saw. I don't know if this should even be halal because this seems as an abuse of Shariah laws.

@buckwheat_flower 2 года назад

Islam made polygamy halal for difficult situations. But it only causes fitnah where there's no necessity for it. Sadly the muftis only focus on how it is halal and must be abided with, but never discuss how it ruins lives. See me getting attacked by men just because i said it isn’t an absolute necessity therefore shouldn’t be encouraged-

@btgreenhouses6258 2 года назад

@@buckwheat_flower I totally agree sister. If some act is allowed (under special circumstances) doesn't mean it is a necessity. We men only know what's our right but no one talks about what are our responsibilities. This is becoming such a big disaster in our society. Our family is suffering because of some gold digger is allowed to do whatever they want by exploiting Islamic laws. I just can't believe that gold diggers not even consider bad in Islam. This can't be the true esense of the best religion of this Duniya. It's simply impossible that Islam missed this and didn't label it as a sin. Impossible

@infjlogic 2 года назад

You should fight back bro... the way she was a secret all these days, she can still be that way!! If your father wanted to share his property for her aswell, he would have introduced her to it already!!!

@buckwheat_flower 2 года назад

@@btgreenhouses6258 it's only a way to legitimize haram that was already going on. If your father woke up one day and decided to marry- you all would have known. It is a secret for a reason. However, i heard the law doesn’t allow this? Talk with an attorney. There's no alternative. Also, it is not permissible to marry someone else without the consent of the first wife. So in Allah's eyes, although it is halal but since you are all suffering that woman will face consequences in the akhirah. Stay very calm. Talk to elders on your mothers side. Please hire an attorney.

@btgreenhouses6258 2 года назад

@@infjlogic that's the point Sir. The women was apparently married for 15 bloody years and as soon as Dad died now all of a sudden she appears to take her rights. My Dad was sick for the last 18 months and not once they showed up. Just imagine

@nidaquraishi4174 2 года назад

A crucial video, specifically for the females out there. May Allah protect us from the evil doers and may Allah bless you immensely Mufti menk and the people of this channel.

@boyofjoy7942 2 года назад

If u r feeling lonely, contact me

@diyahashem9447 2 года назад

This is a very important question. it really happens a lot in western world

@yttav5328 2 года назад

Some parents don't know their children got married. 😒

@salimjaved1890 2 года назад

Inappropriate intentions are the foundations of such marriages. Marriage is a very pious thing and should be held with social acceptance, atleast a definite circle who support it. Such marriages are mostly legalization of misdeeds and love affairs. The sufferer is mostly the women, but many men are trapped into such marriages by women whom they couldn't resist.

@dumplin.580 2 года назад

Personally I'd like a privater marriage as I don't want to spend too much money as well as currently my family don't know I'm Muslim and wouldn't want them to know if they'd pull me away from my faith.

@missd2939 2 года назад

Thank you Mufti. This is what I really need to hear and know this time.

@0741921 2 года назад

I think theres a big difference between secretively and private;y. Secretly is definately concerning, but privately is different and I would say far better than the alternative of blasting your marriage to the world and having massive events promoting all kinds of sins. A lot of people don't make a big deal out of their marriage, but doesn't mean they're hiding it or lying about it. The scenario in the video takes an extreme example. Often times, especially in asian countries, too many people get involved in marriage proposals like some random single aunt and its based on things such as looks or money rather than deen(oh I don't thing he's a good looking man so don't marry him). In that case involving too many people is just as bad. Learn to be an adult and independent. Take wisdom from the adults in your family who are close and truthworthy. Absusive and toxic parents who are failing their own marriage arent exactly reliable sources for wisdom. In the end, allah knows best. If a calamity(spouse is not good) is meant for you, there's nothing you can do about it.

@kulsumsheikh814 2 года назад

What you said is absolutely right, as am myself a South Asian so Ik even relatives an all sometimes don’t want best for you & they ruin good proposals!! But this video is about different topic & it’s accurate thou (secret marriages) are not a good choice

@bashasm9842 2 года назад

Alhamdulillah Good message Sir...

@diliy2402 2 года назад

A most beautiful video.

@safiyah4138 2 года назад

جزاكم الله خيرا

@ibrahimabdelalim4308 2 года назад

انا اشكرك جدا لأنك تترجم هذه المقاطع باللغه العربيه تحياتي اليك❤

@najamqureshi569 2 года назад

We've had number of cases in the masjid, where the parents joint in on zoom calls because they don't live in the US. They had local witnesses and someone was appointed Walli, to sign the papers but the parents were able to participate remotely.

@arshadahmedsamani8235 2 года назад

Alhamdulillah first ❤️

@rparwez6206 2 года назад

JazakAllah khair

@azizaahmad9249 2 года назад

Alhamdulillah haadhir Jazaakumullahu khairan

@user-tm1rf6lv2f 2 года назад

beautiful video

@muhammadkingsaade3389 2 года назад

جزاک الله

@salmabanawan2670 2 года назад

Jazak Allah khair

@FreeFalasteen4ever 2 года назад

The Ayah in the animation is similar to but not the exact ayah Mufti Menk mentioned - he mentioned Al- Ankaboot Ayah 52 while the animation shows Al-Isra Ayah 96 ( around minute 1:45)

@ohanaakhter2670 2 года назад

The different between a halal and haram marriage is the beating of the drums. Secret marriages goes against the sunnahs and there invalid.

@btgreenhouses6258 2 года назад

Can you bring a reference from Quran and Sunnah if this is invalid? I really need to know

@buckwheat_flower 2 года назад

@@btgreenhouses6258 it is invalid if the girl is underaged, and this is practised by the salafis. According to hanafi majhab it isn’t invalid.

@nothingness77 2 года назад

Secret marriage is like Zina (May Allah protect us all). I believe one of the aims of Islamic way of marriage is that human beings have organized and announced sexual interactions with each other. If people don’t know who is married to whom, the two can have other secret marriages easily without anyone realizing..

@btgreenhouses6258 2 года назад

@@nothingness77 I don't go as far as saying it Zina but to be honest I don't know the word for it exactly. However, this should be stopped. Jazakallah

@razamughal4582 Год назад

NO THEY ARE NOT INVALID

@nabeeshahussain5521 2 года назад

*A Palace in Jannah*. Mu’adh ibn Anas reported, That Prophet Muhammad(Sal) said, “Whoever recites the chapter ten times completely, ‘Surah al Ikhlas (Oneness), Allah will build a palace for him in Paradise. Musnad Ahmad 15183 *Forgiveness of sins* Abu Hurairah (ral) reported that Allah's Messenger (Sal) saying: 'He who recited after every prayer: SUBHANALLAH 33 times ALHAMDULILLAH 33 times ALLAHU AKBAR 33 times and completes the hundred with; LA ILAHA ILLALLAHU WHDAHU LA SHARIKA LAHU LAHUL MULKU WA LAHUL HAMDU WA HUWA 'ALA KULLI SHAI'IN QADIR, his sins will be forgiven even if these are abundant as the foam of the sea. Sahih Muslim 597.

@emamhasanbulbul1509 2 года назад

About Marriage...to define a Marriage you need to fulfil 3 Conditions : 1. Social Acceptance . 2 .Government Acceptance. 3 .Religious Acceptance.

@0741921 2 года назад

social acceptnace? There is no such thing as social acceptance in Islam. Youre gonna go down the wrong path worrying about social acceptance

@CharactersBattles107 2 года назад

Why government acceptance ?

@missangel1226 2 года назад

Social acceptance? People are rassistic especially if they see a black and white couple!

@CharactersBattles107 2 года назад

@@missangel1226 agree

@diyahashem9447 2 года назад

and emotional acceptance at the first place

@worshipthecreator9081 2 года назад

If your married why keep it a secret. Am I missing something??

@grababundoberni 2 года назад

Yes. Maybe the parents disapproved of the boy or girl for a spouse for their daughter or son, and the child wanted to marry against their parents' opinion so they did not tell. My sister was found by my parents at 18 yo, going out the courthouse with her husband, scorted by two of her friends from school that were witnesses. Divorced now after 20 years. PD I am not a muslim.

@e.o.a101 4 месяца назад

I like that, 'let the whole world know ..so what!!'@4:46

@putimeliani4285 29 дней назад

@Its_Anisaoffical 2 года назад

Mashallah that i said

@mamunabdullah9617 2 года назад

ওয়ালাইকুমুস সালাম ওয়ারাহমাতুল্লাহ

@first9_yt 2 года назад

Ameen Ya Rabbul Aalameen

@syed_4138 2 года назад

Alhamdullilah

@gzxzuul 2 года назад

آمين يا رب العالمين...

@Layla6793 2 года назад

Allahuma Ameen

@voiceforpalastinerohingyau2507 2 года назад

Oh Tamil subtitles👌 my language btwn did you put Tamil subtitles or ? Is there Tamil channel for freequran education?

@charlenecarrington12 2 года назад

I'm in the same situation its really sad 😔

@diyahashem9447 2 года назад

if you are a girl i would say please be patient. and think 100 times about the child which would come from this relationship . he would have no father name and you will be a single mother.

@boyofjoy7942 2 года назад

Disgusting

@Maryamomar1919 2 года назад

Can some one translate us in arabic what the mufti said in this video Or in french Jazak Allah

@sanambegum6469 2 года назад

Drawing anything having would is Prohibited? Please clarify

@jubileucafina3682 2 года назад

Can the witness be people from the mosque? even if they are not related and are people you have known for a few months.

@ovictor1472 Месяц назад

If a man is not man enough to stand up for you before marriage, he will not stand up for you after marriage. I understand parents sometimes make it hard. I'm not sure about the ruling for a female wali. But a man don't need a wali if he can't openly marry you, he do not deserve you.

@lM-zr5vu 2 года назад

One point mentioned that i would like to elaborate on, there is nothing wrong with the offer to marriage that has a limited visiting time, it is a halaal offer that is beautiful in it's own right. I know of a single mother who offered to be a second wife to a man, and she agreed to him only seeing her twice a year. It's nice that she knew that a little bit of halaal is better than haraam, and that is wonderful. If after marriage she wants more time, the man can make more time available, InshaAllah, but to throw away little halaal that she has for haraam is only from shaytaan.

@infjlogic 2 года назад

Okay so he must be already married? And secretly visiting her?

@lM-zr5vu 2 года назад

@@infjlogic I don't know, but it is definitely better than people not getting married. Better than doing haraam and better than staying single.

@infjlogic 2 года назад

@@lM-zr5vu you are soo right in this case. But it seems like a secret marriage, and the Mufti clearly explained this. Either he's already married & breaking his first wife's trust or.....

@aslaab5431 Год назад

You are right.. What can we do if our parents told us to become stable and then married.. Then its better do to nikah in secret than doing haram things and when the moment came we should marry as well

@yuukasanz-6323 2 года назад

💗

@shutup21 2 года назад

I don't know how my nikha will go i love my privacy I'm very introvert shy has social anxiety i want my nikha with the present witnesses of my parents siblings friends and groom's family i don't want party blast married or full of people relatives to come but i will let them know in social media 🤭.

@yourebeautiful9169 2 года назад

Allahu Akbar God SWT the Almighty is the Greatest الله اكبر

@shangajaf3341 2 года назад

I want to ask A boy also told me to marry him but online marriage without my family knows but of course with witnesses and everything because he lives abroad I refused but I am curious is that allowed? In this situation like your family will never accept a foreigner and to marry him without there permission?

@dwahimad8019 2 года назад

💯💯💯👌👌

@haniya_5600 2 года назад

Assalamu aikakum i need to ask a question some one who knows the deen a lot please can someone help me

@razamughal4582 Год назад

Write your questions here.

@akieyu1856 Год назад

In my understanding to even do a secret marriage without your wife to know about it is already a sin. For her not giving consent will lead for her heart and soul to be damaged. How can you find tranquility if your wife feel abused. I mean it specifically says black on white. Surah Al-Nisa Ayat 3 : If you fear you might fail to give orphan women their ˹due˺ rights ˹if you were to marry them˺, then marry other women of your choice-two, three, or four. But if you are afraid you will fail to maintain justice, then ˹content yourselves with˺ one or those ˹bondwomen˺ in your possession. This way you are less likely to commit injustice. To commit an injustice is the key sentence that circle everything. I mean it is crystal clear. Anyone having a secret second marriage is commit an haram act and that is period. We and I understand the circumstances and context about marrying several wives specially when it is addressed for orphans or a woman who has lost protection from a deceased husband and also bondwomen. Who has bondwomen today???But today this verse is used in an abusive manner and furthermore to follow ones own desires. And this is a major sin. Salamualeikum brothers and sisters wa rahmatullahi was barakatuh

@Labib_1453 2 года назад

in normal situation ofcourse its not debatable, but what if there is a situation where a male and female (non mahram) crushed in an island and all people death.. who could be the wali or witness?? 🤔

@infjlogic 2 года назад

They can get to another island for a vali

@ainul6291 2 года назад

nak nikah ikut hati bukan ikut muka hatinya kene baik

@afra4712 2 года назад

Isn't wearing gold for men Haram?

@buckwheat_flower 2 года назад

Yes

@Leon-zr3hb 2 года назад

yeah it is haram ,

@Santoki30004 2 года назад

Where does one come across a muslima

@adia904 2 года назад

Hold on...... a marriage is invalid without the wali/mahram......🤔

@luulsaha1410 2 года назад

Yes but there's exceptional conditions i guess

@adia904 2 года назад

@@luulsaha1410 guessing is no good...soo therefore there isn't any exceptional condition..... ok maybe ones parents pass away or something but then u appoint someone to be a wali anyway this is about secret marriage.... soo its irrelevant

@luulsaha1410 2 года назад

@@adia904 u are right isn't good to guess the set limits of allah.

@user-rp7sr9xt5b 2 года назад

In order for a marriage contract to be valid it should be done by the woman’s guardian or representative. The woman does not have the right to give herself in marriage, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “There is no marriage except with a guardian.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 2085; al-Tirmidhi, 1101; Ibn Majah, 1881, from Abu Moosa al-Ash ‘ari. Classed as saheeh by al-Albani in Saheeh at-Tirmidhi. And he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Any woman who gets married without the permission of her guardian, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid.” Narrated by Ahmad, 24417; Abu Dawood, 2083; at-Tirmidhi, 1102. Classed as saheeh by al-Albani in Saheeh al-Jami‘, 2709. The woman’s guardian is her father, then his father (i.e., paternal grandfather), then her son, then his son (i.e., grandson, if she has a son), then her (full) brother through her father and mother, then her brother through her father only, then their sons, then her paternal uncles, then their sons, then the ruler. See: al-Mughni, 9/355 See more info: islamqa.info/en/answers/164794/she-got-married-without-a-guardian-through-the-courts

@razamughal4582 Год назад

In the hanafi fiqh it is a perfectly valid marriage

@diystarsta 2 года назад

My dream marriage 💞

@sanjidaalam3285 2 года назад

Assalamualaikom Nafisa

@thameemansari6644 2 года назад

💚👍

@dureshahwarkhan2897 2 года назад

The boy that I like (age 21) and I (age 23) went to a private room, he read the khutbah and called two of our mutual friends as witnesses and performed the Nikkah by asking my consent. My question is, is our Nikkah valid? are we now married?

@razamughal4582 Год назад

Yes. A really slutty way of doing it.

@mimimania1723 Год назад

Yes. I've learnt about it two days ago from a shaikh. You shouldn’t do this. It's wrong to marry Secretly. May Allah swt forgive us.

@sif2beasty_gamer 2 года назад

Single life is better than staying with today's gold diggers

@boyofjoy7942 2 года назад

Thats why having a temporary GF is better

@shway313 2 года назад

😂🤣funny!

@abdulkareemmadani3952 2 года назад

But Islam doesn't allow love marriage or a marriage without their guardian

@blinkatoraurora7426 2 года назад

Love marriage is allowed

@abdulkareemmadani3952 2 года назад

@@blinkatoraurora7426 how, because in Islam a women can not talk with other men or show them her face

@blinkatoraurora7426 2 года назад

@@abdulkareemmadani3952 well, it is okay if any girl shows Their face it is not mandoroty to cover it and love marriage means getting married with the person with whom we fall in love so if you fall in love with anyone and then if you propose the person coz you wanna get married with the person then what is the problem in here. Having feelings for someone is not haram becoz we can not control it but we can control our action so if YOU have feeling for someone then go and propose her it is not haram at all

@rosequiling9666 2 года назад

Can a 60 y.o. woman marry without a Wali.?

@razamughal4582 Год назад

Any woman can.

@Ascended_Being 2 года назад

Boi, if I'm gonna propose, I wont be the one to kneel. Woman: Hi there Me: Uh hm, I'm gonna need you to get on your knees.... Now

@leilaaya2430 2 года назад

Ohh no some people give a big expensive walima and then it ends in a divorce so what is the benefit?

@Usman-qz6eh 2 года назад

2nd

@hanispeace8006 2 года назад

We can have online nikah and still have muslims from other part of the world as witnesses.

@imrankhansaami 2 года назад

Let the world know. So what

@saadnaseem891 2 года назад

secret fu*k buddies...

@MoS910 2 года назад

Your English need more work, Nikah in English called Mirrage. There is no need to say Nikah.

@uBmaniac 2 года назад

Incorrect, marriage in English has colloquially taken on a new meaning which isn't synonymous with nikah. For example, homosexuals get married all the time. However they cannot have nikkah. If you do not understand the wisdom behind something then please try to understand before assuming the other person is at fault.