I hate when coach’s make it seem like a woman did something wrong as the only reason a man isn’t investing in her. It is not always the case that a man is pulling away because the woman isn’t in her feminine. Some men are commitment phobes and leave a feminine woman hanging and she will have to leave. That is his issue, and not necessarily something she did wrong in the dynamic.
They are not making women wrong they are showing women their own power in discernment, intuition, and raising their value. When they do this internal work (as she says - woman attract higher standard vibe men) it is true. We receive and men do the doing
Well if she didn’t do anything wrong in the dynamic then it’s the man’s loss, and sooner or later he’ll realize it and come back They always do, if it’s as you say a woman doing nothing wrong just being a feminine woman any man with a brain would want
@@Fiiii4567it is really easy to be tricked by the ego into thinking you are being feminine, when really you are performing feminine but your energy is secretly pushing, masculine, and value-extracting.
@rickylumo8666 ego tricks only happen when someone is being inauthentic in their approach to a relationship. If a woman is wanting to be liked or approved by the man - which isn't feminine. So all any woman needs to know is if she is moulding herself to fit in with him - then it's her ego. If she is being authentic she will be just herself and will attract and be pursued by a masculine man
1000%, it’s amazing to hear you speak these truths. I’m just getting into the dating scene and only been on a few dates. Only after a couple of dates, they’re wanting to get serious so quickly. This screams red flag to me, because it reveals the insecurities at me. If I truly like someone and make an effort to show that I do. If she appreciates the effort that I put out, I know it’ll be the best bait to catch me haha. Love your video.
These are mine exact worries as well. It seems the men I met tend to be aggressive with trying to get intimate too soon. Short 3 weeks on dating app made me never want to try it again.
I make it a point not to date or accept marriage proposals from men who do it out of impulse. This means they’re scared to lose you at the moment but aren’t actually in a place to be a good husband. The man who is ready to marry will date you with intention and won’t mislead or confuse you if he already knows you’re not the one from the beginning.
1:57 thank you 4:26 Abundance mindset is exactly what I need I noticed it but dk how exactly to achieve it/operate from it (I’m thinking of writing an appreciation letter to myself about all my good qualities potential and good history to remind myself who I am who I aim to be and who I can become so I love and appreciate myself and remember what value I have and hold) But he feels outta reach like not approaching me Well he is introverted..
I’m so glad I came across your channel! I like your style and these are simple reminders that stand the test of time!!! So many women have gotten into their masculine energy these days so I think men really melt when they encounter a truly feminine woman. Love your videos! I’m subscribed and look forward to hearing from you more!!! 💕💕💕
As a man you are completely correct...this is a huge problem that feminism has infected so many women in the West with. I rarely meet truly feminine women who are comfortable in their female identity...and who truly appreciate what a man brings to the table...but when I do it's intoxicating...men would gladly take a bullet to have such...
Same here, I take nothing for granted and appreciate everything my boyfriend does for me. I thank him for every gesture, however small, and he does all the cooking with me washing the dishes too! 😃
This is such a refreshing, balanced perspective. I love your emphasis on managing expectations - expecting a stranger to invest so much time and money into you is crazy. I’m glad you shared this with us!
Just found your channel. I’m enjoying and learning a lot from your videos. Currently in a relationship so it’s helpful to get your perspective on things. Thank you.
In order to find a high-value man, all a woman has to be is a high-value woman. Don't expect a man to invest his money in you, if you have been giving away yourself for other men for free. Don't expect a man to want you to be a mother to his children, if you are already raising other men's children. A high-value man knows the value of his time, money, attention and effort, and he is not going to freely give them away to a low-value woman who doesn't deserve it.
Funny wot you saying,high value has nothing to do with kids one is raising.Find out true meaning of high value,not from unconscious misogynistic standpoint.
I absolutely love this video! I even shared it to my cousin 😄 Be a challenge (organically) + be fun to be with + be appreciative + let him invest in me 🥰
@@Nanaa5972 an example of being a challenge for me is prioritizing my life and hobbies while on do not disturb mode, so I can focus on doing what I love without distraction. When I am done, that's when I check my messages and reply to men with appreciation.
@@ineedtounwind999 thank you! I've been feeling a huge positive shift recently in my thinking which affects my feelings and now my attitude too... thanks fareen and this community!
@@fareenashofficialI man must initiate and show interest but in no way shape or form chase a woman. A man should chase success, money, be physically fit and have peace of mind. That’s being high valeu. A man that is constantly seeking the approval of a woman and trying to get her attention is low value and honestly pathetic.
You are so right it’s funny because I appreciate it so much when my husband leaves the last bit of creamer for me in the morning . He buys coffee or uses milk n sugar ( he knows I like making My OWN coffee, I only buy Iced coffees but not in the mornings) it just shows he respect n love in that small way . 😂🥰
It is good to be aware that if you do truly value yourself as a woman and dont tolerate unhealthy and uncertain behaviours in men, you wont find yourself being "chased" a lot. You will only attract the men who have the confidence and certainty to pursue you. When dating it can feel like it is drier than a desert out there 😂 but you'll know when you have organically attracted a man that has good intentions. It will leave you with no doubts (although it is natural for us girls to feel insecure about someone even when we have evidence to the contrary!)
I would say a video showing how a woman can seize the moment and make men feel/be in their masculine energy. And … How to be “fun to be around” when I’m around a man that is interested in me. I want to bond with a guy, what is it that they are typically into? I grew up with all females, no dad. So I’m not too sure how to bond and be fun with a guy
You dont have to do much as a woman. have a look he is attracted to, be kind, and be nude. Men dont play games and knows instantly if you are attractive in a blink of an eye
High value men dont want women being exposing thenselves nude out there. They want a women for themselves not all the world to catch our see. Many of them have standards as well. You can be beautiful without being nude.
Is it too masculine to give a guy a gift. A guy I know it buying a mountain bike because I took him mountain biking and he liked it. I bought him a water bottle for his new bike. I have not given it to him yet because I am not sure. We are not currently dating but were briefly. I pulled back because I was feeling like maybe I was not really a priority and I did not want to end up in a situation where I would end up more hurt. We are going kayaking this Sunday. He asked me. I think he likes me but probably does not want to lose his freedom. I am likely in a friend zone and I will be fine with that as I am on the fence as well. But I did want to give him the water bottle. Thoughts?
Could you make a video on how to act if a man disrespects you hurts you and you pulled away and blocked him and now he wants back into your life? You don’t really want to be with him because you know he’s gonna be a dick again, but you’re mayyyyybe considering having him as an acquaintance or friend if he is willing to prove himself?
@@fareenashofficial Some dating coaches on tiktok are teaching women to stress men out to elevate his vasopressin levels (this is the male bonding hormone that causes him to feel emotional attached to a woman). I guess this is what you refer to as the challenge.
Amazing thank you!I would love to know more about how a value men invest in a value women !? So we can identify if they are worth our time or not ! I think because women don't know what they really deserve to get from a man they accept so little !? Or what only Thay think they know right!!!!
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@@fareenashofficial theyre japanese mafia members (yakuza)...goro majima fell in love with a blind girl who was a victim of a sex trafficking ring that was formed right after WW2 in the 80s in Asia and risks his life to protect her and eventually had to give up on his love for her and doesnt want her to recognize him after she recovers from traumatic brain injury because he doesnt want to put her life in more danger and put her thru more heartbreak because of his extremely dangerous violent lifestyle if she follows him and becomes his wife....kiryu kazuma runs an orphanage that he was once apart of and protects high school and college age girls from thugs on the streets who try to lure them into shady sex/hostess business and gives them life advice....he even adopts and raises a daughter thats not even his from his childhood sweetheart who married another man.... he even risks his life to protect her even tho she doesnt even return her feelings back to him and ends up marrying a man who even dumps her in the end and creates a situation that puts her life at risk...they risk their lives for people despite the organization they belong to puts everyones lives at risk...theyre characters of one of the most highly acclaimed and greatest japanese video game series called yakuza of all time theyre both based on real life people and yakuza members goro majima is based on yakuza member junji urita kiryu kazuma is based on just his voiice actor takaya kuroda but also on the personality and life story of another yakuza member (i forogt his name - i cant really read and comprehend all parts of japanese language structure particularly kanji) theyre so masculine stand up men and so rare that theyre basically unsung heroes of war...despite them being part of a tough and violent underworld...theyve always strived to protect innocent women and children...theyve never once said a mean thing or put a hand up towards a woman i find it so funny that the real true masculine men are the ones that are the most gentle and respectful towards women...and it shows towards their utmost respectful treatment towards their own mothers and sisters in their family. maybe because of how much theyve suffered in life...theyve come to appreciate all forms of life...goro majima literally had his eye carved out yet still maintains utmost absolute obedience and loyalty to his boss and family and even tries to protect his oaths brother sister yasuko despite losing his eye because of his ordeal myy point is that my standards are so high up there that the man i want and i think eveery girl deserves and really desires and dreams of is a masculine man who respects all women regardless of any walk of life and even tries to protect them there is no matter hhow shhe is...that is the kind of men man that i want...i just want goro majima or kiryuu kazuma
@@fareenashofficial theyre just too perfecct for me and this world...eeven tho theyre not perffect they have flaawws of course....they ccan bbe extreme when it comees to duty honor aand prride aand theyy honestly puuut their livees aat risk but at the same time theyre such upstanding men of members of thhe world and society please doo some reseearchh on them and spread aawaareness and make and analyes videoo on them...theres definitelyy men like these..theres definiteely men like them out there in this world...we just need to expose them to the world and to women particcuularly men and womeen so that theyy know there are people likke thhem out there
@@fareenashofficial learning abt their stories and abt underrated and unknown stories completely changed my perspective on life and made me even turn my own life around and my perspective on dating...ive just become so much more better and happy and inspired learning abt them plz make a video abt them these two characters and do research on them please...theres not too much too many videos on them outside of the video gaming community but please
No, it doesn't. A woman initially responds. The man shows interest, the woman responds, and the dance begins with him continuing to ask for her attention and her responding. He stops asking and that attention goes elsewhere. Where you're correct is, yes she falls but because she is asked and, if it's a healthy relationship, he reassures he's there to catch her.
well for the first date a guy wanted me to come over i made a joke and said sir i could be jessica dahmer jeffrey dahmer sister that wouldn’t be appropriate dont you think with a wink 😉 and i said i like coffee and wine
and he told me ok bring the wine told him ok i’ll get back with him he showed hidden agendas like weird texting pattern soo he messaged me this morning with hey baby how are u and i literally said this dynamic doesn’t work for me could be the age gap but if there’s no planning then please not contact me like i haven’t even met u we know the same people but ur a stranger to me never met u i only know ur cousin
Women think a high value man is a man that can keep her "safe". While that sounds sweet it usually come down to she wants a man who can give her a roof over her head and spending money. It has little to do with her heart and mind and soul. if this wasn't the case there wouldn't be so many divorced women living alone in the house the couple bought with their children. A woman living alone obviously doesn't need a man for love.
