Secrets To A Successful Marriage - Message to Muslims from the Dark Side 

@@bobbertyboyd2280 If a woman tells you to not cry or is visibly uncomfortable with you crying, most of the time it's because they never saw it before (shock) or they feel unprotected(scared something bad happened or is gonna happen since even u a man is crying). When i saw my father cry for the first time, i felt a insurmountable pain. because he never cried in front of me before, so something bad must have happened to him. It scared me to be honest. Crying from a pious heart is very positively received in Islam as our prophet Muhammad (pbuh) often cried and encouraged us to do so, as the tears are one of the most beloved signs of one's love and fear for Allah.

​@King Sultan I didn't say I cried. I said I feel like crying. I guess the reason for my emotions are of 2 reasons. 1. I was previously married in which it lasted a year. I would say that my intention for marriage was pure. To this day I believe I was a Just spouse who did not abuse my power of authority. I treated my spouse with respect, kindness and love. and alhamdulillah, I had and willl continue to have this mindset that whatever good I do for my spouse, is an act of reward from Allah SWT. Unfortunately my spouse did not have that mindset and was concerned about the dunya rather than the akhirah. Which makes me sad. 2. similar to my ex, there are other Muslims out there who are like that. They're too concerned about their wordly life, which then brings a lot of high expectations from either one spouse or both. There are potential spouses who don't have the right intentions for marriage and or don't understand it. some don't even consider a marriage a blessing. it is unfortunately one of the problems with the ummah. We are too distracted by dunya. and that makes me sad and makes me want to cry.

@King Sultan I wish I could say that we were happy from the beginning. We were indeed new to marriage. I knew marriage has its ups and down, and I was prepared to make it work and at points go out of my comfort zone. The same can't be said about my spouse. Unfortunately after a year of no affection or intimacy at that, with no real connection or commitment from my other half, I ended our marriage. Alhamdulillah my divorce was smooth with no further issues. This was indeed a test by Allah SWT in how I dealt with, I believe a narcissist. Alhamdulillah Allah gave me patience, and did not lose my temper at any point. I reminded my self that she is not mine even though we were married. That she is one of the slaves of Allah, just like I am to him.

@King Sultan indeed brother. Divorce is a very sensitive subject. It's also very sensitive in how you can give divorce. That's why it is recommended for both spouse to go into a marriage with full commitment. That you don't give each other excuses for divorce. Yes after my divorce, her family just took her belonging and left without a word. I dont think they had anything to say or any blame to push towards me.

@King Sultan jakallahu khair for the duas. Really appreciate it. May Allah make it easy for everyone and bless them with righteous spouse. And for those who are married, may Allah shower them with mercy and love.

Mashaallah wow

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Jazaakallahu

Allahu akbar.

I put the number 5 on top 🥺

May Allah guide sister Ameen ❤

Allah guide u and save u amen 🥺💜

اللهم اهدينا ألي صراتك المستقيم

read about islam you will come to know in religion wise its perfects too

Sister you to know the reality Read Quran in English and Bible then compare. it may Allah guide you

May Allah guide your wife and bless all your family amin. Make dua brother for your wife and daughters in the middle of the night, Allah will accept you for sure. amin.🤲🤲

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May Allah bless her with imaan

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Understand that you can not force somebody to follow somethings it's haram little steps and try to be steadfast. Be a good rolemodle treat her well it's us Muslims that make a example. May Allah guide your family to the straight path ameen.

She's Muslim wise woman.

❤

BarakAllahu feekum!

No it is not only you me too Ma sha Allah

Not at all🥺❤️

An absolute gift to the ummah, mashaAlllah. May Allah reward her and grant her and us all the best of both worlds. Ameen, ya Rab

ماشاءالله even me 💕💕i like her 😍

Alhamdulillah, may Allah grant you Jannah. I feel the same way since practicing.

Subhanallah I had yours too may the Almighty Allah rewards you here and here after

innailaye wa inalilaye raji'un 😭

Do u want to meet him in Jannah?

Amen Yarabi

May Allaah, make your affairs easy sis, and reward your patience with good, here and Aakhiraa

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May Allow guide sister

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May Allah bless you and guide you to the success religion Islam,,we muslims stay single for decades without Adultary fornication, because we control bu fasting frequently and du'a and spiritual ayas from Qur'an for removing desire

Very sad to hear your story if you was with your husband that night may be you could have save him you would have been there at the moment .because I have that experience with my father he was almost brain dead but alhandulillah I was there at the moment I took him to the hospital and he survived seven years he passed 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ when some one is sick don't wait ♥️ 😢 😄 🎶 😀 💔 ♥️ 😢 😄 🎶 😀 take them to the hospital you could save their lives .

Live and let live. Everyone has their hopes and aspirations. Financial independence for a woman is a must. Suppose the husband has an untimely death, divorces or deserts his wife, how is she supposed to carry on ?

@@sm1111 submitting yourself as a housewife is also submitting to the will of Allah. Once you do that you also know Allah will always find a way in those situations mentioned by you. What your are mentioning is only your own fear and maybe even sheytan preventing you to fully submit and let go of pessimism. Even long before I made this decision I have decided to live a life of hope and not fear. It takes a lot of inner work to get rid of conditioning from generation to generation.

@@zemma7963 There is absolutely no harm in being financially independent earning by halal means. It is your personal decision to be a homemaker and that is fine. But that does not make it mandatory or a universal choice for all women. We all have our own attitudes, strengths, weaknesses, hopes and aspirations. Do not shame or guilt trip working women. The conditioning of women throughout generations is to be a submissive powerless housewife. Not all men are angels. Just to remind you Hazrat Khatija was a wealthy businesswoman 1400 years ago.

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v true

My husband doesnt talk to me for so many days of the month his mood changes frequently, and he likes to stay away almost half of the night and only comes home while we are asleep, he comes home only for food and just to play with his kids for a while or for a sleep, he never ever takes us out, on top of that we have financial problems, am pregnant with my 3rd baby, and since i got pregnant is rarely intimate with me. So should i not think of divorce?

@@siham3325 seek couples therapy first and then see which way to go

@@siham3325 I would say no. You have a roof over your head. Yes the finance is tight but is he doing the best he can with what he has? If so look upon him with more mercy. He comes home to play with the children... You will probably never ever get that again if you divorce. Also with the councilling that was suggested, be careful. Some Councillors validate your feelings and you leave feeling your spouse is an even worse than you thought initially. Talk to Allah and complain to Him, ask him to mend the relationship. You do your best... Clean yourself up and dress well and ask Allah to direct his attention to you? Take all issues to Allah and submit it all there. Do not frown when he comes in. Try a more positive approach like 'thank you for working hard for us'. Fix your intentions as well. You are staying in the marriage for the children and also the first reason is it is half your Deen. Focus on the reward. Focus on the many ayat about patience. Allah's payout is supreme. We like to do things 'for Allah' when we are happy or getting a return. Doing things for the sake of Allah when do not want to do them and doing nice things for the husband you are angry with and probably do not even like right now is not easy. But where else in your life are you excelling in with such flying colours that you think you can get a high level in Jannah through? How many orphans are you raising? How many slaves have you freed? Do you fast year round? Are you even guaranteed shuhada with the delivery of the current pregnancy? You want him to address his wrongs but that is not something within your control. If you want to see a change in your life... You change yourself. That submission to Allah can change anything. I mean literally... If he is fussy about food... Cook it with Allah's help and ask Allah to protect you from his complaints. Literary talk to Allah about it all. Cry to him, ask him for the solution to any matter however small. Improve how you put forward your argument. If you do that then you will be looking at a different marraige in a year and be glad you didn't give up. Being patient is not easy. Just like the sister said. Don't get in a fantasy about divorce. If you think this husband is an idiot please remember you will be swapping out one idiot for another. There are no perfect human beings.

@@siham3325 have a talk with him first before you think about getting divorce

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Ameen! May Allah bless you in all your affairs.

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Allahumma Aamen 🤲

Alhamdulillah, I am so glad it resonated with you! Please do take care of your amanat and share the advice with others, insha Allah.

Amin. I also was crying my heart out. Especially when it came to protect the family and the kids.

Thank goodness for feminism. Women put up with a lot in the past but no more. Men now need to step up if they want to keep a woman.

@@the8thchurch461 that's what your belief system has lied to women.

@@mufunyiibrahim3655 My belief system? I don't believe in any higher being

@@the8thchurch461 we follow Islam not people's feelings, opinions or emotions

@@mufunyiibrahim3655 So?

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Yes but she’s talking about divorce for little things or in the moments of anger. If someone is gonna die in their marriage that’s different. Probably one of the partners is not doing right by them. If they are, little things shouldn’t be a reason for divorce

This is very true . Yes , we try but sometimes the relationship is toxic and can lead to depression and suicide . May Allah make it east for you

You don't understand the points she is making. She is talking about circumstances where divorce can be avoided because there is no need for that. And you're talking about circumstances where divorce is necessary

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I'm so glad!

May Allah help us!

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Ameen sister

May Allah help you sister ❤

So your husband still wants to marry second wife even though it hurts his only wife that he has right now? How anyone would think that's right? For what reason he wants a second wife? Tell me, because there is no reason to do that nowadays.

@@aleksandradabrowska1508 Allahs law has no time limit it’s always there. And fearing Allah and doing the right thing as he said. I don’t see wrong in it.

JazakAllahu khairan!

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Mashaa Allah

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May Allah bless your marriage

Certainly! Bismillah

Ma shaa Allah can I get the WhatsApp group number

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Sister do you do marriage counselling? If so please forward me your email Thank you

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