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Ladies don’t ask questions sometimes,because they are afraid of the answer and often prefer to live in fantasy land, day dreaming all day. Was once like that, thank God for maturity.
So true, I always tell myself, Never assume that a man loves u until he says it and shows it. If the relationship is not defined I no day do. I love my mental and spiritual peace.....
That's what ppl say now: "let's just go with the flow", "let's see how it goes", "we're just talking", "let's be friends first" Bruh 😒I won't rush you but ain't wasting time, 3 years abeg
I thank God for your life, the winlos. Just of recent I had a similar situation. I asked the guy to define but he didn't open up, I was so attached to him that I felt so hurt when I couldn't get what expected. He won't talk but his behaviour make people think we are in a relationship. So I decided to stop that permanent communication, more of all, I asked God to help me forget about him, because my emotions were too involved. So I'm trying to put God first and I still believe, He will send the husband I'm made for on the right time.
Timely message, I would have gone this far , mine was a bit complicated but glory be to God, he used a man of God to direct me ... Truly I have learned a big lesson.
Wow, I got something today Don't assume people has the same feeling you have for them, ask what their intentions are towards you. The lady thought the guy had the same feeling for her which is Wrong. Assumption is really bad and can cause harm. I pray that God will help us to avoid this
What I like is that in every scenario after she has given sound advice to her clients and they never listen Mrs. Winlos is never judgmental but always supportive, even after the stubbornness of her clients.
Don't waste ur emotions on assumptions........ Relationship is like contract, you must have agreement b4 u invest your emotions......Great talk there 👍👍
Situationship! 😁This reminds me of another video by the Winlos ; the girl kept collecting gifts from the guy but she didn't reciprocate and the scene that followed was hilarious 😂
I can give an example, based on personal experience. I used to be really close🤞🏽 friends with a brother in Christ, who was also my classmate on campus. We often had midnight calls together, hung out a lot, were known to all our campus fellowship members as best of friends. Being a sanguine, he often made a lot of open fun about getting married to me and taking me to Botswana (where his parents resided) for our honeymoon. I was already fantasizing about this. The only thing was that I was older by 3 years. One day, I took him aside and asked him with all seriousness that, if I waited for him to be ready for marriage, would he really marry me? He paused and sincerely replied in the negative, with an equal sense of seriousness. That simple conversation defined our relationship for me. We remained as close and open as ever until after graduation, but never did we have to worry about where the relationship was headed, because we both knew it was definitely not marriage. In conclusion, I'd say once emotions are involved in a relationship, and the man has not clearly stated that he intends to marry the lady, the latter may have to take a bold step and ask for the relationship to be CLEARLY DEFINED (vice versa too, if it's the man that's getting emotional about the relationship). And if the other person fails to define the relationship, one should quietly end it, to avoid a broken heart in the future based on assumptions. Hope this helps.
Clean your tears😂😢... thank God for my spiritual father who taught me to do this though I didn't see the need for it, thank God I obeyed.... Thank you the Winlows for this ❤
We can laugh about it, but a lot of people today are in this kind of relationship where they are making illusions about supposing relationships That's why, as shared in the video, everything needs to be clarified very early on 😊 Thank you for this video 🙏
Me ounce I found my self in such friendship we both opened even the business together but Holy spirit gave me wisdom and confidence to ask that question and we ended in separation ..let me tell you this if a man has not yet tell you anything plz be careful
Amanda should have taken her friend's advice. Joel didn't use her. She was all caught up in her emotions and couldn't be objective about her relationship with Joel. On the other hand, Joel probably shouldn't have sent Amanda emojis with hearts and kisses and saying that he loved her because ladies can easily take that the wrong way. They both should have had good communication with each other. That way no one would be hurt in the end. Never assume. Ask. Very good video!
@@1Corinthians2.2 That's why I said Joel shouldn't have sent those emojis and said what he said. He was wrong in that respect, but he didn't use Amanda. Again they both should have communicated their feelings and no assumptions.
Wow thanks family. For real it's heartbreaking to build a foundation on assumptions... A relationship without clear boundaries pierces the heart so much... From Ug
Both of us know that we are in love 😅 But this is very true, a lot have been brokenhearted because of this brotherhood and sisterhood thing and some have gone far even to he is my dady my what and slowly it drags them into feelings which carry no future and mark them as nonsense to those who wish to make pure move to them
Thanks for this video 😮😮😮. I believe I'm in a similar situation. The last two times I physically saw him,he acted indifferently and I was astounded. I was trying to figure out if he was the same person I chatted with almost every time..... but after seeing this video, I'm fully convinced that we are nothing more than good friends. It is high time I accept the reality of it all. I can't live my life doing fantasia😂😂😂 Thanks, the Winlos 👍
Define the type of 'ship' you find yourself in: Friendship or Relationship. Relationship is like a contract, you should have an agreement before you invest your emotions. Good lessons
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: A good understanding have all they that do his commandments: His praise endureth for ever. Psalms 111 10
Let's all gather here and laugh at ourselves 😂😂😂😂... Building emotions on assumptions is the worst heartbreak you can ever give yourself. For Miokukusheshe is better that the guy brought the lady to introduce her... Mine was a slap on the face, I viewed WhatsApp status and there was the love of his life posted 😂😂😂😂😂😂... And God had warned me kaaaaiii!!!
I put it to you Joel you are very wicked 😂 Hahahaha 😂 thank you the Winlos. Define every relationship you are in to so you don't develop heart attack 😅
This is very common in our churchs today. We are living in the 'bestie era'. Most women,fall prey to this type of undefined relationship, because we are taught, that we need to wait on the man to his mind speak first, even if we develop feelings for them, especially us Africans. We are taught to not ask for definitions,too early,as you might look desperate in the man's eyes. Thank you for, enlightening us on this topic, which has many good women caged,by manipulative men
yes, somebody should say, "i love you and i want to marry you'', in 2007, while i was on attachment, i got involved with a guy, he was in IT department, we would kiss, and he would take me out to lunch, my first pizza was with him! hmk, learned later that he was married😂😂😂😂, and he was not shy about it, duh! well, you feel betrayed and unloved, communication is mandatory, lets not be casual people, lets address issues, i know the feeling when he is your guy and you imagine your life today, hahaha, an IT specialist kwano!
As a human, it makes sense to create boundaries to protect your well-being yet still love through the Holy Spirit to converse with your siblings in Christ. I thank God for His grace to understand something like this. Having open conversations to understand and act accordingly 🤗 As mentioned “Don’t waste your emotions on assumptions” 💕
Oh my, oh my....this is very relatable and it happens all the time but it hits the assuming one like a tornado. The pain is like the pain of a blow from a coward.
Be clear and detailed on every friendship or relationship with the other sex. You might be hurting someone and you won’t even know😂 Don’t give wrong signals!!
Ehem, I am informed, transformed and reformed my brain no moving in assumptions 😢. Three years is such a long time to waste like that 🙆. God help us as ladies to choose wisdom always
