Seeing My Scar 

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Hi Tiffany💙Guess what? I am going back to see the oncologist tomorrow at 9 am after 2 years of being scared to return to receive care after my rectal cancer removal and I am soooo 😟 scared…. I have my We Got This tee shirt ready and please pray for me 🙏💙💙Thank you for posting xoxo Sandra in California 😊

That scar shows what a fighter and survivor you are you are always beautiful as you are

Scars will fade over time.U r such a courageous & warrior lady.....

Tiffany you are absolutely BEAUTIFUL…, and the scars doesn’t matter because you’re still here…and it doesn’t matter because you BEAT CANCER, we got this💙💙

Tiffany, that scar will definitely improve so much. You just now took off the bandage. The scars on your neck improved, and your arm scar will, too. So glad you had such a great meal later on. Sending blessings to all of you.

Just feel proud of your scars, which show what a warrior you were in your cancer fight 💛

I am 60 yrs old and have a major scar from a childhood surgery as you move on you will look at them as part of your own personal journey

Yes it is ok to feel what you feel about the scars. Your scars are a reminder that you are strong and you overcame everything. Yes be real and enjoy your journey as you grow!

Still looks bruised! Looks a bit puckered but that could be because you’ve had it covered up, it will fade xx every scar is a warrior wound and tells a story ❤

Scars are beautiful. They're a reminder that you're strong enough to have gotten through something rough. I know it's easier said than done to love your scars, so if it is starting to affect your confidence and comfort wearing short sleeves etc, then I would recommend something like Kelocote xx

I sensed it and it’s perfectly normal to grieve your old body and appreciative of your new one. You’ve got this 💙

Tiffany, if it helps, my daughter has a bad scar on her wrist due to her tough birth. The nurses called it her 'tattoo' and it's a good story since she survived and thrived and is doing well in her life. So, this is your good story. You survived and are thriving and I am so happy for you!

Hi darling. Love the heart Pj's. Aston is so precious and he loves his auntie so much. You can be proud of every scar. You've been through more than most people in their whole life. Yes I felt you were struggling with your scar and you tried so hard not to be upset. All your feelings are valid and please don't ever feel you have to downplay your emotions. Not for us or anybody. Wanted to give you a hug watching you struggling so bad. Love you lots💙💙

Does Amma always stay with either you or Elodie ? Please nobody be offended, but I was thinking it’s funny, Amma is couch surfing 😂 no judgment it’s cool. I wish I could be a couch surfing Gramdma 😂 i’m still working full time. In US 😊 the couch surfer is usually someone who graduated from second level or UNI and then just keep switching houses from among their friends. I don’t know if UK has a couch surfer translation.

Don’t worry Tiffany, it will smooth out with time. It is very new and will be almost unnoticeable after it heals.

Tiffany my sis has awful scars on her neck from tongue cancer & an abscess. Like she says & you too. She’s alive 🙏🏻. You are a beautiful lady 💙🩵

Tiffany sweet girl the scar is a symbol of survivorship. They are beautiful scars as a reminder how you fought this awful disease and I believe you’ve won. Enjoy life Tiff you’re a beautiful girl with a big heart. 💙💙💙💙

Never be ashamed of your scars hun they are amazing and there scars of a warrior that beat the biggest fight of her life and made it your a warrior queen hun be proud of the scars you have as your battle is over ❤❤ much love

Tiffany You have Immense strength. You are an Amazing Young Girl that has been through so much 🙏As you said You are still going through it 🙏May You Always be Protected and Healthy🙏Keeping You in My Daily Prayer 🙏Lots of Love

I jumped off the swing and broke both my arms at the same time - my mom was not happy with me 😂😂

I totally agree with you Tiffany no more talking about Treatment it's a New Beginning all that is offer Now We Get This 💙 love you a lot a lot 🤗 💙

Thanks for another update and glad to see you having fun with family. As for your scars and your body, it's ok to grieve what has happened. You went through a HUGE challenge and life is different now. And if anyone asks, you tell them you had cancer and you won! Those are badges of honor. But definitely feel your feelings. Hugs to you! 💞

Dear Tiffany Yes you should allow yourself to be sad about the changes of and in your body after surgen. You are allways so positiv and happy and I love you for it. I have been follow you for a year and todays video I realy saw you being you and that was a lovley thing 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

You just took the bandage off, dear Tiffany. Give it some time. I'm sure it will smoothen over time. They also have different products you can put on scars to improve their appearance if you want to try something like that. You went through a LOT! You have every right to have your sad moments. We've got this! 💙

Angel 😇 girl 👧 , please dont let the scars bother you. You are alive and cancer free.😊❤. They took a big part of my left breast. A scar there and under my arm another scar. I have a scar on my chest where my port was. That proves we fought cancer and with the Lords healing we won the battle. Glory to God and praise Jesus.❤ ➕ ❤.. we got this. Love you lots and lots❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Those are battle scars, you got them battling cancer, and you WON!! Ask your team about the possibility of putting vitamin E ointment on the scars, to help them fade a bit! My body is also full of scars from multiple surgeries, and I mourned my unscarred body, and have accepted the changes. You have the loveliest family; it is such a delight to see them in your videos. 💙💙

Has it heals and time goes by it will change and looks a lot better

I really think it will look better in time! I doubt it will stay like that. If it does, it is fine but, I think it will be better!

It's ok if things bother you. We still know how thankful you are to be alive. Get some vitamin enriched oils or creams to help the scar to heal and fade. Lots of love Sweet Tiffany. 💙

It looks like there are some stitches in your arm and still bruising, of course. I'm assuming they'll just dissolve on their own. Tiffany, you're probably still grieving for the loss of the way your body was and the way you imagined your future would be. It certainly doesn't mean you're not grateful. It just means some huge changes were thrust upon you and your mind is still in the process of accepting it all. Keep reminding yourself of the warrior you are. 💙

Tiffany over time scars fade and especially it's getting warmer now it will heal quicker, when this new one heal just put some of your concealer on the scars no one will know if your conscious about them.

It is okay for you to feel the way you feel!! Don't be sorry you felt that way. But it is proof that you ARE a survivor and you kicked cancer's butt!! You've got this!!!!❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏

Tiff we are allowed to be sad occasionally. Battle scars remind us daily how we got here. Happily there is makeup and clothing to cover them, so we can appear to others nothing happened and we are just over it. Inner thing that slaps all of us now and then. Its how we process that matters.💙 Please keep Jessica in your prayers. Very difficult start to chemo. 💙

It's not that bad Tiffany you're beautiful don't worry it will go away 🥰

I’m Mexico there’s this cream called Cicatricure and it’s fantastic for scars

Your right the scar may look different years from now

Tiffany they are just scars of a cancer survivor! Be happy with them as any soldier would be.

I used to jump off the swing too😅

Wish I wasn’t across the pond! I’d love you to fit me with a new pair of specs! 🤓

Hello Beautiful Tiffany 💙💙💙 I hope you’re having an amazing day! Much love from Michigan💙❤️💙

You can get three quarter length sleeves M&S have many tee shirts like that I have lovely one’s and the scar will fade to nothing don’t worry too much 🙏💖🌈🌻

Put vitamin E on the scar. Just prick the capsule and squeeze some on, gently rub it. The scar will get better.

Silicon patch bandaids will help the wound heal faster and with minimal scarring.

If strangers are rude enough to ask about your scars, just ask them, "What scars? Oh, that? It's from my battle kicking cancers a**!!" We Got This 💙

Awwe they are with you

Hi Tiffany / sending love from Scotland. you are a subscribed today. watched you for a while, May God bless you all🌺🌺🌺

Your arm looks puckered due to sutures. Are they dissolvable? It will flatten as the swelling subsides.

Hi Tiffany. The scar will get better. 🤗

Oh come on, Tiffany, what a liitle boo boo! You are allowed to be, do or say anything you want, but that scar is going to be totally insignificant. It's puckered now from stitches but the bruise will fade, the skin will relax and the scar itself will just be a line and will fade too. Every woman who had a cesarean section baby has a much bigger scar. Every athlete eventually has worse than that. I have several scars in obvious places just from living and since I got old with very thin skin, my arms are loaded with lots of scars from my skin splitting open repeatedly just because I have touched something slightly rough, brushed a wall with a bumpy texture or snagged my skin on a zipper. Anything tears my arms! This is not to say you whine or complain a l ot. No, that's not it. And I don't mean to say you aren't allowed to feel how you feel. I do want you to know absolutely that life leaves its marks. You are going to have marks in places you never anticipated for less reason than removing a port or a pic line. You might as well forget about getting away as pristine as Ella is now. It won't happen. Physical scars are not gorgeous but none of yours are astonishing. Emotional scars are much worse. They don't fade as easily. We carry them around for a long, long time and some we take to our final end. Your cancer has left you with deeper emotional scars that do not show. We normal people don't run around in society or even at home with our intimate loves ones with our angers, fears and pain hanging out for all to see. Those scars come to the surface on occasion and then we bury them until they come up again. In your case, i think you are mourning unblemished skin in place of mourning missing organs. Those internal scars are what has made your life different. You can still dress up, put on your makeup and go dancing, you can go to concerts and plays. You have traveled. You function comparatively well and nobody you meet turns away politely as though you are missing something obvious like an ear or a finger or worse. I think that your obsession with skin perfection might be misplaced concern about the major surgery you have had. Would you worry about a few scars if you could get rid of the stoma? I think not. Would scars on your neck or arms matter if you could have three little Astons or Ella's? I think you might not worry about those scars if you could be all you once were. Tiffany, I'm not saying to forget about it. I am saying that you have every right to mourn body changes but I don't think you are expressing your anxiety and disappointment in the right places. You are allowed to grieve your losses but don't fool yourself into thinking some little things blemish your beauty. They aren't significant. Nobody notices. Nobody is pointing and whispering, " look at that poor unfortunate girl with tiny scars on her arms and neck. The only real external manifestation of cancer right now is your stoma. Only your healing bum and that you have still got some strengthening to do to bring your energy level back reveals the strenuous challenges that you have met and coped with pretty well. Now, give yourself the right to grieve your medical and deep emotional challenges and you won't worry about little stuff. When you really accept the new you it won't be a line under your arm that you have come to terms with. That isn't the real issue. Now, tell me off if I've angered you. But I don't think you will if you think about it. It might bring some sadness to the surface, but that's the real issue not the boo boo under your arm or the nearly invisible thing on your neck. The stoma bag is hidden by clothes. It's probably the deep scars that have changed you the most and the that's what is maybe really bothering you. You are allowed to feel and grieve. Just put it in the right place and do the hard deep work of accepting a hard row to hoe. You have done well, now do it all.

It will heal sometimes it can take up to a year ull barely see it give it some time

Dear tiffany, It's right to remember yourself that you survived cancer, but it's also right to be sad that those hard struggles were necessary in the first place. both are correct

Your still beautiful! Your scars tell a story of your fight and your strength!!

I totally get how you feel. It will fade but here is a great pigment correction that work’s amazing. Scientis Cyspera Cysteamine Intensive Pigment Corrector. Try this it works.

Matt and you make a perfect couple!

OMG thats nothing

It seems no one can comment with a constructive response on your page unless that person is going to be slaughtered

Cheryl here.! Why do you keep saying, "Im allowed"? Its a tiny scar. On the scale of things that you have been thru, that little scar should b the least of your plethora list of things "you're allowed" to fret about. Sometimes its an effort to watch your videos. I can not believe that you are so accepting of your doctor(s) for NOT telling you your results yet! Ive never, ever had to wait more than 48 hrs for results, never, ever! The doctors KNOW most cancer patients are on "pins and needles" waiting for the results and try their darndest to let their patient know ASAP. What has it been, almost 2 weeks, 3weeks, thats unacceptable, in my opinion. ...im sure I will get targeted for posting my opinion or blocked, but that will prove something, right?

Tiff, try not to look at it as a scar, but a badge of honor ! Those scars helped save your life. Put a temporary tattoo over them 😊

I think you learned a lot in this video. I think you learned that there are some reminders of the journey you have been on to fight that cancer and to win. You were brave to take off the bandage and look but the reminder you saw was not nice to you and I think that made you sad. You are wise to allow yourself to feel sadness. The one thing you may not know is that your blog viewers do not expect you to be always happy and always positive. You don't have to give us a positive, cheery Tiffany because sometimes you may have a time when you don't feel like that. We care for the Tiffany that you are, we don't need a film version of 'ooh, here is Tiffany, a movie star who is always happy for us.' We care about the you that you are, whatever that is.

That overacting lol

Tiffany, when we meet someone, our eyes captures their face first, you have a flawless beautiful face and a stunning personality with lustrous hair and big brown eyes. Not many cancer survivors look the way you look, inner beauty which radiates on the outside so don’t bother about the scars, what is important that your alive and around your loved ones, this is your second life, live it to the fullest and spread happiness with your lovely smile.❤️❤️

Like watching paint dry

Have loved your video's. Saying goodbye as your doing well now. I don't want too watch your everyday routines. Stay well

The scars will fade over time... you got this after all you've been through. You're good girl 😂😂😊

There is NO feeling what so ever not being aloud! Every emotion is everyones right to feel, as long as it doesnt lead to something bad for you or anyone else. Nobody can tell you what to feel. 💙💙💙

I thought at first you were going to show your anal scar or stoma (for educational purposes) Not a port scar But am glad it’s all working out There are so many people who haven’t survived to show their scars you are very fortunate

I was 32 when I had a total hysterectomy and instant menopause. I was always sticking my head in the fridge. It works - 😂

I don’t think your scar looks that bad . I’m sure when air gets to it it will look better. But again, still doesn’t look bad.

They were some internal stiches there but the skin will relax and even out. You are still bruised and that will fade away too. I admire your courage and resilience. You’ve got this! 💙🙏 Thank you for keeping us updated! Love you a lot! 💞🌷

Scar looks fine no big deal

External scars and internal scars are not a measure of gratitude. Please be your own best friend and let yourself feel what you feel we love you Tiffany!

doing a live video anytime soon?

Once your port scar has completely healed, try putting vitamin on it, and your other scars. I used it for very scarred knees for 2 months and it made a big difference! I bought the capsules of vitamin E and just punctured one for each use, and squeezed out the oil, and rubbed it on my knee caps. Hope it works for you too! ❤

Amma has the prettiest smile. She’s so happy that you are such a warrior. Wear your scars with honor. They remind us of where we’ve been and how bravely we conquered it. Hugs to y’all! 🤗🌷I would love to see you and Matt go shopping for some pictures or decorations for your walls. You have such a beautiful home.💙

Tiffany, I really understand how you feel about how unattractive your scar is to you, because my mom cried so hard when she first really looked at her scars after her cancer surgery for breast cancer. I never saw her cry so hard about herself...it was so sad.😢 We're women and we do care about how our bodies look, but like you said it was done to help save your life, and that's what she eventually felt too. Both of you are beautiful women who are survivors.💙

Hi Tiffany, you are lucky to beat cancer itself so a scar should be least of your concerns, please stop complaining and be grateful...

Hi Tiffany, I discovered you and your You Tube channel a short time into your cancer journey, subscribed immediately, and have watched every video since. I have also watched, I think, all your previous videos, going back nine years. I think you are the loveliest and most inspirational person and your bravery and courage throughout your utterly gruelling treatment, should be an example to us all. I had surgery and radiotherapy leading up to last Christmas for breast cancer and I am so relieved to now be cancer free. My journey was a walk in the park compared to yours, you are truly amazing. Having just watched your latest video in which you bravely try to tell yourself that your scars are fine, I really felt for you and want to say that yes, you are allowed to be upset. You have earned that right with everything you have been through on your journey. I think for those of us fortunate enough to have a successful outcome and be cancer free after treatment, we feel we have no right to be upset about anything, and whilst we are so grateful to have beaten cancer, we are also entitled to feel sad about what it has done to us sometimes. So be sad Tiffany, without guilt, it is 100 percent natural and as I said, you have so earned that right. With love and support to you always, Tracey K xxxxx

You’re body may be scarred but your soul is beautiful💙 You definitely got this💙

I just adore all 3 of u The perfect trilogy ever. I think I need to get a blender and try your juices. Yummy! ❤❤❤😊

Tiffany just keep doing what you're doing,you are beautiful inside and outside. Love you lots 🩵

I have noticed you have such beautiful unique stuff in the UK I'm in South Africa we don't have nice things

Hello Ms. Tiffany, Pure Vitamin E oil really helps the skin to heal well. As long as it is administered on the scar/cut in a sanitary way, so as to not cause any infections. God bless.

What brand of bagels did you have with your breakfast sandwich? Your scars don't define you! Your sleeves will cover it. It will heal! You're doing amazing 6 months after major surgery. You're doing amazing well. The scars will heal&flatten out. Just be cautious of the sun&heat. I went thru ovarian cancer at 25yrs old. I have a genetic disorder(inherited)&it's a new journey(diagnosed 2008). I was a middle/high school math teacher for 25+ Years job I loved&miss. I did hospice care as my volunteer work&then took care of loved ones&was fully trained&certified. I did it for years&feel strongly that God never shuts a door without opening a window!

Buy as less plastic as you can. Plastic is ruining this world.

I saw your sadness … of course you feel this way.. it is called grief, grieving the life you had and the life you thought you would have.. This is normal and ok sweetheart

You are allowed to process the grief of the loss of your old body. The scar will diminish in time and be just a small line.

You see scars.... We see your big heart❤ nd lovely face❤❤❤😊😊

Your scarf are like a map of the rode you ade to go tru to be here to day Be Proud you are strong

It's such a small scar and barely noticeable under your arm.. Vanity at the moment should be the least of your worries. Xx.

Tiffany you are entitled to feel sad or feel anyway you want too. It’s your body and no one can tell you how to feel. Btw you are brilliant and we all love you and are here for you ❤

Over time Tiffany it will look a lot better, I have some terrible scars from my cancer , on my neck! But I don’t care Tiffany it’s my life no one else’s! If they don’t like it don’t look right? What else can I think. So don’t worry hunny 😊😘❤️

Make my day to see you beautiful face

Tiffany, you know what you could tell anyone who asked? That you battled cancer and WON and those are your battle scars 💙

That really doesn’t look to bad.

Beautiful Tiffany, First thank you for being so open and sharing so much of your life with all of us💙. look at your scars as an honor they got you where you are now. You’re a true warrior!!! I wear mine with pride. I have many big scars all over my abdomen my inner arms like you as well, I truly admire you Tiffany. Your such a trooper and so inspiring. I truly wish I could be half as brave as you are. The skin will relax over time you’re still healing from the inside out. When I was allowed I would rub my scar with coconut oil to prevent a big keloid scar. Sweet Amma she’s so beautiful with such a glow about her now🥰. Hope you Matt and Amma have a wonderful blessed Thursday!! Love you lots!! WE GOT THIS!!! 💙💙💙☑️☑️☑️💙💙💙

Dear Tiffany! I have 13 scars on my body and you know what? I am proud of each of them! They are the proof that I am a survival🙂❤️

It looks pretty good…..think of all your scars are triumphant badges! You’re a survivor!

It's wonderful to know it's all for the good you are healed and alive😘

Hi Tiff wow you scar. Another battle scar. 💙💙💙💙