As someone with BPD I can relate to this so so much. Having a crisis whilst having a diagnosis like that can be brutal. I always describe it as "becoming possessed by demons". It's like someone else takes over and you are not in your body anymore and that demon starts going after what you love the most. You become cruel and nasty and there's almost no force that can stop you from hurting the ones you love the most. The worst part is snapping out of it, wakin up and looking at the aftermath of it all...all the damage, all the pain, all the destruction. It's horrible. I'm glad her loved ones can see through all that because it's not easy. I hope she feels better now. EDIT: I KNOW SELENA HAS BIPOLAR DISORDER AND NOT BPD! What i meant is: I can sympathyze because we share the symptoms she's describing in the video.
Yes. I have Bipolar Disorder Type I, and my God I have said the worst things to the people who love me the most, when I was at my worst. Then, later, I'm crying my eyes out, telling them I'm so sorry, and that I love them so much. My Mom has heard I'm sorry from me about a thousand times. It really is a vicious cycle. 😢💔
When I see her on the video, I'm so broken-hearted. Id really know if I have the same issue but at the same time, i surely think. I even relate and notice she's crying as the same way as me. I have so some mercy on her. I can't stay unsensitive.
I’m so glad she’s sharing this and doing better but as someone who suffers from mental illness myself it makes me realize what real support looks like and I’ve never had that. No one has ever stuck by me or even cared enough to be invested enough to want to know what’s going on with me. She is super lucky to have people who encouraged and cared for her and I know she is grateful for that.
Hi, I understand your pain very much since I’ve experienced some mental illness before. I’m sorry I can’t help you, but please understand that you’re not alone and there’s always someone out there who will understand you. ❤️
im sorry to hear that. u deserve all the love in the world. i'll be keeping you in my prayers. i hope u know that you can always come talk to me if u need someone. life is really hard and it's ok to not always be ok. you've got this tho! you are stronger then u may think! hope you have a wonderful rest of your day. :)
Same here, the only closest thing I have as support is my mom paying for my therapist and meds, that’s a big help. And my uncle who cheers me up but they both died from covid last 2021, it was a huge blow for me, and I’m on my own all over again.
I have BPD and I regret a lot of thing that I said to my parents and friends, some friend I've lost because of that, and after I got the diagnosis I felt a relief cause I was consumed by guilty and regrets, I really thought I was crazy and mean person, I hated myself wildly, I've attempted, and when I realized that everything that I have is a disorder everything made sense, and saw a light at the end of the tunnel, I've started my treatment with regular therapy and remedies and I'm feeling better now. Selena saying about this out loud might help a lot of people who don't know what's going on inside themselves, will help people to acknowledge and get professional help.
Yes and please know Breno its the BDP talking and you are not a bad person. Be kind to yourself always..its our negative self talk that can destroy us so be kind to yourself and take care .wishing you all the best
But then you realize you'd never get your childhood back or years wasted bc you were untreated. All those regrets you're forced to live with. Nah fuck it I'm done
My family has bipolar. I was diagnosed at age 50, my mother is severely bipolar, my brother ended his life in 2012. My mother called me a little bitch since I was young. She recently ruined another party and cursed me out. My mother is very mean when manic and has said awful things to me my whole life without an apology or remorse for her actions. It is really healthy and admirable that you realize when you’ve done something wrong and own it and apologize. That means you’re conscious and in touch with the truth which I believe is a wonderful way to heal. I run more hypomanic and put a lot of energy into my work. I am aware most of the time when I start feeling irritated and sleep less and I do my best to not bite back. Often, I’ll withdraw during those times and focus on art and writing. I did have 1 manic episode when I was leaving my abusive ex and my fear of him manifested into a full blown manic episode with psychosis. I had kept inside for 16 years that my ex was abusive to me and my sons. I didn’t recognize the abuse because my mother was mean. I thought Love meant being forgiving. Love is kind. Now I know and have done a lot of work to love myself. Thank you for sharing. We all love you and care very much
When you have bipolar disorder and are in the phase of mania, you might get angry really and kinda freak out, curse everyone, broke objects, you really get out of control very easy. And then a week after you are laying in your bed in depression phase, thinking about taking your life, not eating, and regretting everything you did last week. It's really exhausting having this change of humor so suddenly, it puts a lot of pressure into your body and your brain. I have BPD, I know how it feels like.
So happy that Sel has that support and love that she has and she realises the importance of it. Love that she's being candid and truthful, no matter how it makes her look, this will help so much people. We love and support Sel. #truehero #realperson #loveSelena.
When I got diagnosed with thyroid issues I felt such relief because I finally knew the root of the problem, my behavior and everything else. I knew what was causing me the hell I’ve been experiencing for years. The answer to that “why” when I’d loose my control. From that point I took the control back. That was such a liberating moment that I bursted into tears from the relief I felt. I relate to her in ways, that her story is comforting to hear. It’s as if realizing finally that whatever you are struggling with you are not alone.
i have hashimotos but it hasn’t effected my life at all and i don’t think you can compare it to Bioolar disorder . Thyroid im disease isn’t a mental health disorder . It’s a lack of t3 and t4 hormone, which is simply regulated by thyroid medication . I have friends that would she biololar and it is a seeious illness
@@tulinbeyduz920 NONE is comparing it to any mental disease. Take the context as it is without misunderstanding or discrediting. Both me and this person had low days, because we hypothyroidism led to a lack in vitamin d3, calcium and other biochemical components that are important in the biochemical regulation of the body and brain. All of the thyroid disregulation cases are not the same, in terms of symptoms and physiologically. Plus, Selena had an auto-immune disease + heavy medication + bipolarity. The person was comparing the fact of dealing with an auto-immune disease. It's not fun, especially in the period prior medication.
I went through the same rollercoaster in the same exact same years. Very scary ordeal to experience. I feel for you. I could sense your heart and soul at unease. I'm so happy for your recovery now xx
I finally watched it and all i can say is wow. Such a beautiful person. The way this woman genuinely communicates with others is so hard to find in people. When she ended the conversation with "I'm so happy to know you" to the WE College girl, my eyes welled up seeing that college girl smile. Something about those words resignated with her, and even with me at home. Selena, if you're reading this, we're happy to know you too.
This is so hard to watch, because I never understood before. Thank you for sharing. I’m struggling right now to find my own diagnosis with professionals, but this makes a lot of sense.
I am an avid mental health awareness advocate and spoken word performer, and I love this so much. I travel the country trying to bring that awareness on stages, in classrooms, hospitals, and on my RU-vid channel, so I get excited when I see other advocates. ❤️
oh my god. all these years i have hated myself and carry so much guilt for my actions, seeing someone else talk about makes me feel so much better and maybe I’m not an awful human. maybe I’m just sick. sending so much love to those who relate❤
U deserve the world girl❤❤..so proud of u.. No negative energy can even shake u bcoz u have made urself sooo Solid n Strong..More power to you girl..Nomattee how much they try to pull you,karma slas them in floor..U r god’s child my love..❤❤
I can relaite this, because whe i was teenager i had this things in my head and i still have also i didnt know what going with me until i was diagones with borderline disorder at the age of 19 so i truley and deeply feel the same way and the battle is every day. But Selena is a stronger person i ever seen she is so cute, beutiful the way she is the way God created her. I am with you, Selena and everything is gonna be awright. You Are Not Alone!!! 😘
Aw Selena you’re so cute ): I’m crying with you and I feel the same way because I went through the same exact thing you went through and I feel bad because I remember being mean to my family as well :(
It's so sad I really feel sorry for her she's been through so much pray to God to make you feel better and give you strength and happiness in your life and Congratulations to you and Zayn I you both deserved happiness to you both God Guide yous and God Bless 🙏❤❤
I have PTSD and I know that it isn't nearly as bad as bipolar disorder, however there are similarities and moments where I'll do things that aren't me. This really helped me to forgive myself for some of the not-so-nice things I've done to my family and friends, because it really wasn't me, it was the past me thinking I was still being hurt and lashing out in retaliation 🥺🥺🥺
Ptsd isn’t nearly as bad as bpd?! Ptsd alters your brain…ptsd is very intense…it’s an extraordinary hard disorder I wouldn’t say bpd is worst than ptsd…I have it and it’s very very challenging
@@Thepriestessdeath I only can speak from having PTSD and witnessing parents who have bipolar. I can not really say which is worse and I didn't want to offend anyone who suffers from BpD by saying that my disorder is worse. We each have it different. It is very hard to trust the brain. 🥺
@@linal3489 because I have sought out medical help and have been diagnosed with PTSD and MDD. It'll be a year for therapy officially next month, and I've been diagnosed since 2017 (I tried to unalive myself and I was put in the ICU, then a crisis unit. The Doctors were SHOCKED I made it, cause they kept telling me to say my goodbyes). Definitely had it most of my life, because I had an extremely tr*umatic childhood, so you know... sometimes your parents just enjoy beating the shit out of you, sometimes step fathers think YOU'RE a s*xual object at the ages of 8-13, and sometimes you get bullied relentlessly in school, and sometimes your family friends think it's okay to also be handsy with you, sometimes you witness your step mom dying in your fathers arms, and sometimes your mom ends up doing meth with your step-dad (that was awful being around her on the drugs, cause I never knew if she had OD-ed and if she would survive if it was an OD) and gets Hepatitis C and cause she was an addict; she doesn't qualify for a liver and I literally watched her fade away and pass away in August this year, and you just know your brain is fucked up after 😅
I have bpd and can relate. I have amazing family and friends too. The worst part is when a romantic partner leaves because of it. That kills me. I've never had anyone stick with me through it but I should be grateful for the family and friends who have
While you are going through a manic episode, you kind of disassociate and become out of control of yourself. So you might sort of remember, but not really. Or you might remember, but feel so weird about it because it was never how you intended to act, so you just ignore what happened.
@@jennifermarie3158 Thank you so much for the explanation! It sounds so vulnerable, so awful to have to account for actions that were unintended. It must feel so powerless. I'm sorry to anyone going through this. You're kind to answer my question.
I support her. I do not support the ones who do not seek medical help and do not stay on their meds . My ex husband is BP 1 and his manic episodes were off the rails...involving me getting thrown into the street, death threats, manipulation, multiple psych wards and at one point escaping to get to me (big island HI so idk how secure the facility was).. etc...I have suffered through PTSD and countless therapy because of him. I am now diagnosed BPD and I believe it’s due to what I went through. Just please anyone going through BP disorder please get the help you need and be a source of kindness towards others.
People that don't have it don't understand its war with yourself one side wants to give up and the other side wants to fight I know everybody goes threw that part but a person with bipolar is constantly going threw it so your constantly battle you're battling your mood swing that changes with it with teetering back and forth that why a person with bipolar will be depressed with negative feelings then when the side that fights win the battle brings out the positivity afterwards but the more the teetering happens the more the negative to positive moods swings its exhausting and draining for the person like myself and everyone else that has to deal with people usually turn their back and we are left fighting the unsupported in the battle because of the negative moods swings we get shunned and we guilty for the way we handle ourselves which makes harder because we feel unloved which puts more weight to the negative I definitely know how Selena feels and admire her courage and coming out and sharing her battle if I knew that she would see this I'd tell keep going allot of people love her and she's helping people with bipolar realize wow Selena Gomez made it to be something in life in fact she's famous you give people hope especially your fans that suffer from bipolar ♥
I am bipolar, I get treated like I'm crazy and. Not worth anything , I understand her pain struggles, bipolar disorder is beyond difficult to live with relationships tend to suffer because people don't know or want to deal with a person of bipolar disorder. ❤
I don't have BPD, but i just wanted to say to everyone who has it that I love you, you are loved, you deserve to be loved, and you deserve to love and honor yourself and not judge yourself for your mistakes, just like any other human, you are a being of love, of course you never meant to hurt anyone, i know that, and i love you 💗💗💗💗
Not trying to be rude so I hope it doesn’t come off that was but BPD stands for Borderline Personality Disorder, which is different than bipolar (which is what Selena has).
This reminds me so much of nessa Barrett’s new song lovebomb when she’s in similar situations and is out of the episode she try’s to love them so much more and feels bad
This is a good clip. It reminds all of us that Life is very precious. It is the truth. It applies to all of us No Matter. "St John Paul. "USCCB. "St Micheal. "St Thersa Of Calcutta. "Etc. Thanks Selana Gomez.
... stop putting this regular ass human on pedestal. Has she solved a scientific mystery? Has she raised a genius son who shanked the course of history? No. She’s just a TV star.
I wish all people with mental illness were so willing to get help and work on themself. It goes both ways. Because people with mental illness need support, true. But it's also true that your family has their own problems too so they can't cope with constant toxicity/abuse either, so the mentally ill person also needs to be willing to seek out help and work on themself
@Jennifer Marie Are you that one person in the crowd who always has to stand out by stating the opposite? You just have to say something, can't just keep your opinions to yourself. I certainly didn't request your input.
@@Cheznrice Nobody requested your input either. This is a public comments page. If you don't want to receive responses to your post, then don't post publicly.
I know how it feels on Selena 2020 was the bad day for Selena because in the film my mind and me hit Selena hared and it was a huge nightmare I know mental health can be sickness but also effect the brain and feeling down and be nasty and crying a lot the and waking up and start to feel like you are a mess a deep mess Selena is so brave she will always be in our side and still support all of us and her amazing fans and releasing albums and a lot of music just like back in 2015 when she released same old love and that is my favorite song to her and this year Selena released a song called single soon and I like it a lot I'm going to share that song to my friends and even my family I'm a super fan to Selena since many years and I still care about her
Having a Bipolar Spectrum Disorder is one of the most immensely destabilizing conditions you can deal with. It ruins you’re live if you don’t begin trialing medications, and many of them aren’t well-tolerated. Having a manic episode can make you feel invincible, and leave your life in shambles. What follows is a depressive episode that disables you, and removes the colour from you life.
Human beings evolved to live in matriarchal tribes, not marriages. Bipolar people are only considered diseased in our societies which have been distorted and perverted the invention of marriage. Our incorrectly structured families are the *ROOT CAUSE* of our human dysfunction. Drugging ourselves to fit into a mold is not the solution! Restoring the human tribe IS!
Francis has really a good heart n tremendous love towards Selena her intention was so good when Selena was indulging with alcohol Francia was so worry her n fear f for her life.. But Selena is kind f proudly or I don't no she took it that kindhearted reminding words as toxic and bad way. Selena, I just want to say my opinion there are some reasons people would criticized us / talk about us some intention can be bad but some intention would be love and goodhearted towards us so I believe there is a time for everything depend on d person heart n intention we should take it in positive way or negative way. Giving away part f own body to another person is super big things, I don't think so Taylor Swift wud do to you.. So we can clearly see francia love towards you is tremendous and more than Taylor.. Forgive others for depends on the reasons.. We all need to learn forgiveness, there is something to learn daily. I'm just saying as a mother intention I've no bad intentions towards you I just have love towards you.
I’m crying every day I dk what’s wrong with me and I chat with school friends online on snap and they always bully me and I said sorry abt a million times like everyone in school years always hate me they think I do a magic while I don’t the past mistakes drive me crazy and then in school to other people I act enjoyable and in school today I couldn’t stop laughing like too much mood swings and I’m too shy even still after seeing how Selena is scares me I listen to her every night and cry I didn’t even tell my mom abt the bullying and I had to go to the hospital 4 times before because I was stressed and was able to see characters in Ramadan I had to break fast and I keep getting depressed abt the past I just always feel like I want to die and when I’m sick I just am scared to tell my mom like n
imagine that selena did not experience the things you are doing now, yes she has a lot of money but she didn't get the happiness in life, selena is the one who proves that as long as there is life you have to fight
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I wish I could of been there for you. I also have external lupus it's called the wolf's disease. God's got you, so keep the worries to a happy minumum.😘🌹
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psychosis is so bad that we do things and feel guilty about it later..I am not saying depression is good... atleast we don't do such things that we do during psychosis
It's really sad cos basically she wanted to quit her career and be normal to have kids and feel loved, but too many people depended on her career to make money so dissuaded her from doing what she really wants, and she followed them because she can't fathom that many people don't have your best interest at heart. And now all these medical issues are probably coming from her initial depression, into a vicious circle. Sad. She's too pure/trusting/naive to begin with.
You are what GOD gave you and not a description by any medical profession. Bi polar or whatever are descriptions of what 'They' want you to be. You are You. And only GOD knows you. Amen ✝ 🙏
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