@@artan. you know the Song BEST I CAN??which he dedicate to his late wife..you can tell.how much he loves her.he may love again but the love that she had share with selena will always be special and one of a kind..and no one ever gonna replace selena on his heart no one!!
I truly believe they will reunite, as soon as he closes his eyes forever selena will be the first one with open arms to welcome him, he needs his baby & they miss each other. Soul mates stay soul mates.
It’s so sad how Chris can’t really say much legally! Chris knew a side of her that NO ONE else knew!! I’m still wondering why her dad sued him for the movie Chris tried making. There’s a reason why they got married without telling anyone. I mean for crying out loud in both the movie and show and real life they kept saying it was so that the family would have no other choice but to accept Chris which speaks a lot of volume about how controlling they were!! Maybe it was going to show us the truth about the Quintanilla family(suzette, her dad, brother,& mom)and they didn’t want to be portrayed a certain way. Like even now if you look at all the videos from that family from the moment she passed until today they literally have been living of HER fame excluding Chris. I hope one day Chris can come out and say his side of the story because like I stated before he knew her in a way NO ONE else knew
@@sillyseilyy3 yeah I know about the book but he was sued for trying to make a movie about their love and other things surrounding her. He only made that book since he wasn’t allowed to make the movie
@@lunadeayer495 well read the book, they are always better than any movie anyway. Much more difficult to put 300 pgs or more into a 2 hr movie anyway. The movie rights also would've been based on his book.
Because the dad (Selena) is a narcissist I’m sorry but NOT sorry. The man is money hungry and he controlled Selena when she was here on earth and STILLS tries to control her SMH . Honestly, they eloped so there’s NO prenup SMH Chris has every right to whatever he wants and I can NOT believe that basically they keep making money off her SMH Chris should be the one with the Museum, Chris should be able to make a movie about Selena and him. Hate to sound terrible but when Abraham Senior dies he should be able to do whatever and get attorneys.
Honeslty couldn't stand her dad in the series. What a toxic person. Would rather force his kids to be in a band than get out and find work to provide for his family.
I'm sure selena would've wanted him to carry on...he wouldn't want him to feel alone. He will always have a special place in his heart for Selena that can never be replaced by anyone.
When Chris leaves this earth the first beautiful soul that’s going to greet him is Selena. In 1000% sure they’ll find each other in the next life. Never seen a love like this since.
In the beginning of "To Selena, With Love", Chris writes of getting a phone call from a friend, who tells him about a dream he's had. In the dream, Selena asks him how Chris is doing, and he tells her that Chris is having a really hard time. Selena tells him not to worry about Chris, because "I've got him". I think it was Selena's way of letting Chris know, through his friend, that she still loves him, and is watching over him. I believe that she knew he was at an emotional low - point, and needed the comfort of knowing that, while she was gone , she wasn't really "gone", if you know what I mean. I don't see any other way of interpreting the dream.
Chris said, in an interview if only she had told him where she was going that morning instead of just leaving the house maybe things would have been alive.She didn't even let anyone know I'm sure that bothers him for life
@@laurenmungaray3912 yeah he wished he did but, obviously she didn't want him to know and sure didn't want him to go with her for some reason.Selena was brave and obviously not afraid of her no telling what was said in that room.Just sad!!!
@Marie Madison yessssssss!!! Yolanda knows her and want say.You know you have to get broke in to get to the top.For her to just leave like that and not tell her husband Chris didn't question her because maybe she made him feel let me do me and you just stand by and enjoy the ride I married you so I have no say, assuming how he felt.If you love someone you don't keep secrets and her leaving that morning with out even considering to tell the man she loves where she was going was sadly her last dance.When Yolanda get out I'm sure she'll write a book I remember listening to her in an interview, Yolanda said," there are things we don't even know that she can say but,want
he is a nobody - a parasite - he has put nanny people thru hell - that s why the people who really know him - Selena s and Vanessa s families - despise him.
Oh here is that Tony again - ripping on Chris, calling him a parasite and loser. He says to me on another thread on this video that he's known Selena since she was a small child, and that "everyone despises Chris". He also says that his own child is "very, very famous" and his wife of 49 years is "one of the successful producers in the industry". I call bullshit - he doesn't have any info on Chris that isn't public knowledge - but he sure does hate on Chris! He must think himself truly fkng perfect, then! He just runs Chris into the dirt!
@@j.whiteoak6408 - Chris is a parasite and a loser - what he does - is described in every dictionary as such. Same with Selena s father. Not everyone despises Chris - Selena s mom and Vanessa s mom do - with good reasons. My daughter is indeed a very famous actress and political activist. My wife is indeed one of the most successful music producers ever - I do have a lot of info that is not public - I choose not to share it on youtube. I have given my email and phone here - 100 s of times - I have talked to many people - and I have met a few in person - and shared info with them - that is secret. NO - I don t hate Chris - or anyone - I expose both Chris and the father - as losers and parasites - many examples of people who were not - in the exact same position - Priscilla Presley - after Elvis died - said over and over - that she would never benefit from his enormous fame - she never did - and she had a daughter with him - Chris had no child with Selena. Priscilla made his mansion into a museum - every dollar made - went into Elvis charity foundation that he started and still exists today - and helps poor children all over the world. No - I am not perfect - you are very wrong - I don t hate Chris - at all - I don t like his actions - and I will tell you some info that s not public - Chris has done terrible harm to his own family - and his 2 children s grandparents are friends - both Vanessa s parents and Chris parents love Cassie and Noah very much - it is not that I hate - I just expose - Chris has been both a bad son - and a bad son -in-law - his own mom - has had many problems with him.
The truly saddest part was hearing that Chris moved on, has kids, and is now divorced. I know, in my heart, that had Selena lived, she would've bore his children, and they would've been beautiful! And her and Chris would still be together. Their's is a story of true soul mates, I can just feel it in the way he talks about her. Like that thing about them holding hands on the plane; that is just like me and my wife who died. We would always tell people that when we held each other it just felt...right. Like hugging her is what I am always supposed to be doing. The rest of the world just melts away and I'm holding my baby. And that's also why no relationships after "The One" have worked out, for me or for Chris. We were lucky enough to not have to settle like most do. We got the golden spouse, and in turn, we were that for them.
He says he's a happy guy but last post I saw of him his eyes were so profound and could see loneliness and pain. He's trying his hardest but he still loves and misses her so much. True love.
You can still see sadness in his eye when you really pay attention. He’s trying hard to convince himself he’s genuinely happy but his pain still shows.
Some people just can’t get over the lost of their soulmate. It’s truly heartbreaking to live without them especially when they were taken away too soon from you. Chris is a perfect example of that. 💔😔
I agree, I have a sister who found her true love at 16, he died at 40, it has been 24 years, she has never been the same, the anniversary is very hard for her.
Her husband wanted to write a book about their relationship, but Selena's dad said no. He didn't even get money for the movie Selena. I don't understand why Selena's dad is treating him like this
Zama Magubane I might be wrong but I feel like Selena’s dad thought that her being with Chris would make her not focus on the music ever since she was little he was very over bearing she he wanted control over selena and he knew that control would be altered if she got married! He gives me the vibe of him being a joe Jackson he wanted to be in control I’m not saying he’s a bad father Selena was his world and he just wanted her to be his little Girl forever!!!
@@KimberlyWilliams-tm2br I think what's very telling regarding how Abraham really is, was when Selena and Chris knew that, even though they were both grown adults, that in order to be together in marriage - the only choice they had was to ELOPE! That says A GREAT DEAL about the extent of total control Abraham exerted over his children's lives - even when they were NOT children anymore!
who cares? - the people who really know him - despise him. Selena s and Vanessa s families don t even talk to him. He is a parasite - can t make any money on his own - so he has to use your love for Selena to get your money - he is a loser!!
@@essstefunny That's not the truth. Do YOU know him? No. You don't. I don't know anyone who DOES know him who's got a bad word to say about Chris. And Selena's family have been merching off her death since before she was even buried. Abraham got Chris to sign over all of his rights as Selena's husband within days of his death - and then I HEARD Abraham say in an interview that "Chris was just an employee for Selena Y Los Dinos". That's bullshit, too - he was Selena's husband FOR 3 YEARS. He was FAMILY! And WHY would Chris want anything to do with Vanessa's family? She was such a greedy bitch that Chris had to close Selena's Boutiques and Salons - just to pay her off! She had no right to ANYTHING that was Selena's! Furthermore, Chris is an excellent muso - and is well respected in the industry in his own right. And he's got a Grammy to prove it. I really like his music too. You just sound like a jealous little bitch.
@@j.whiteoak6408 - you lie and lie and know zero. Yes - I know him. You know zero. I have known Selena since she was a child. Of course you don t know anyone who knows him - etc. who says he is - etc. Selena s father got Chris to sign - etc. who told you that? - Chris? - the lying media? Chris was an employee - yes he was - as affirmed by 2 courts - Selena s family has sued Chris over the book he wrote - and over Selena s DVD s he sold on amazon - the family won both suits - you know absolutely zero. Vanessa was greedy? - she is a bitch? - you sound like a lying parasite - an ignorant - useless idiot. Chris never gave Vanessa a dollar for herself - she is very classy - she never asked for anything for herself. Chris - was on drugs - as he told the judge - he owed $87 000.00 in child support for his 2 kids - Cassie and Noah. He had not seen them in several years. Closed boutiques - etc. again - you know zero - he sold a building owned by his dad - where the C. C. boutique was - because the drug supplier was scaring him to death - he paid the dealer - not Vanessa for the child support. The judge told Chris he was a scumbag - and he was going to jail - gave him a date to pay the child support - he was desperate - signed on to write the book - the book publisher paid Vanessa part of the child support - the rest has never been paid. It s ok - Cassie got older - he attended her H.S. graduation - made her very happy - like every girl she loves her daddy - their relationship now is better - I give Chris credit for that. Selena s mom is an amazing person - she despises Chris - Vanessa s mom - also despises Chris - etc. - because they know him - and what their daughter s went thru!! Chris is well respected in the industry? - no - he is a nobody. He won a grammy - it means zero - some of the most famous singers never won - and many nobodies won - Chris DVD s that won the grammy sold almost nothing. I am jealous ? - no - I am old enough to be Chris father - have children who are older than him - 3 very - very successful children - 2 are in showbusiness - 1 very - very famous - my wife of 49 years - is one of the biggest music producers ever. I am a very happy and positive person - I don t feel any hate or jealousy - you seem to hate and talk out of ignorance - I only post - when I know the truth!
Chris Perez, if you should come across my message, I just want to let you know that you are an incredible human being! You have gone through alot! But the most selfish thing that you can do is to allow yourself give in to the depression and Oppression that comes along with Selena's homegoing! I really am proud of you for overcoming alcoholism and depression. I have a feeling that because of the beautiful person that Selena was, she would want you to find love again and not be alone! I can see her telling you, " Chris, mi corazon; it is not good for a man to be alone! Love you& Selena!
I get so upset selena love chris so much imagine them now.with babies and her being successful..shes truly miss. ..her fans will keep her legacy alive i think the saddest part is kris moving on..... But he will always love her.........
I know Chris's pain. I had my boyfriend who was so happy and good, so pure. And one night he died. I cried so much, but it's true never forget those who we lost. They will be a part of us, Love you Selena!
It's no doubt Chris has a deeper love for Selena. I do believe Selena would want Chris to move on and be happy. One day, Chris and Selena will reunite as one.
When you look at them, they match perfectly not only on a physical level but also on a soul level. They were meant to be. There’s no love which is more beautiful than the one of two soul mates. I believe they will be reunited. Not in this life but in an other where they will be together forever.
Aww man I’m so glad I watched this. It really warms my heart to hear Chris say that he’s happy. I admit I’m one of those people that thought he was walking around sad all the time, but finally after all these years It’s very nice to hear him say that I’m very happy for him. What a beautiful soul Chris Perez has.
Man I be loading with selena songs Right now.. Man If she was alive Today I’ll be like Selena Selena Just being all happy 😊 too see and she really inspires me to become a dancer Or a singer and she will be smiling like a bright sunshine women and amazing women We have ever known for a long time
I know how Chris Perez feels I lost my first love too soon and it still hurts and I get exactly what he's saying and how he feels about her because I feel the same about my first love. I know one day Chris and Selena will be together again you can see how much they had love for one another and I hope one day I can see my first love he was normal not famous but he wished for it.
He got a gem 💎 in a Selena! Powerful voice and personality! Love her music and been listening 👂’till now! Thinking....she was still that young when she recorded all! ❤️
I bet that when selena died a lot of people where scared that she would be forgotten but it has been 26 years later and will never be forgotten because she did change in the world something that is to powerful to forget. she is one of the best role models because she encourages you to keep going no matter what and shows you that hard work and kindness pays of. I mean at first her parents had a hard time with money but then with kindness and hard work it payed of. But she is one of the best people to Rome the earth 🌎. WE ALL MISS YOU SELENA❤
It's a living nightmare. I'm only 23, and I lost my soulmate in August 2020. It's so ironic but amazing, I've been a huge fan of Selena ever since I was a child, I've always said I wanted what she and Chris had. Flash forward to now, I actually have/had my own Chris, and soon after I showed him the Selena movie, he started calling me his Selena. (Because of the way they felt about each other). He actually cried at the end when he saw how Chris reacted to Selena's death and said he wouldn't know what to do if he were ever in his(Chris Perez's) footsteps.... Today I am the one experiencing exactly what Chris went through. Losing your soulmate is a pain like no other. I know exactly how it feels.. to want to crawl into their casket and go with them. Now I'm only grateful that our 2 year old daughter is too young to understand her daddy is no longer with us.
I read here that Chris is doing very well. He loves his two children very much. He looks good. He will always love Selena. I was so happy to read about him and his current life after his tragic loss. I read his book which I thought was wonderful. He has come to terms with his life now and seems happy. I pray that some day he will accept Jesus Christ as his personal Savior.
Chris! Please please make a film a documentary anything to show us your perspective of this beautiful love between you and your wife! When I watch music videos of Selena, I always look for you as well because you were there with your love. It was the sweet secret between you and your wife that no one was aware of.
Sadly he’s not allowed to because of Selena’s father. He won’t let Chris do anything involving Selena and when he released his book about her Abraham quickly sued him. If Chris ever wants to make a movie he will probably have to wait until Abraham dies at this point :/
@@haleysandoval1320 Yes. He's 81 and gotta die sooner or later. But I reckon he'll live to 100 just so Chris can't! He'll NEVER accept that Selena and Chris were so in love that they defied him and eloped. If Abraham can't control it, then it just ain't happening. And to cut Chris out like "an employee", as he said in an interview, rather than being Selena's husband OF 3 YEARS is just wrong!
@@j.whiteoak6408 Exactly it’s disgusting on how they treat him! He was her husband a man she loved and was married to. He needs respect and we all know Selena wouldn’t like Chris being treated like this by her father.
I can’t blame him for breaking that promise. I just want to wrap my arms around Chris and give him the biggest hug. I know he misses her terribly. I’m glad he is happy but I know he has his moments
Gooosh they were truely in love with eachother i love Chris he is such a loyal guy he literally still is married to her in heaven im sure. God bless and i give u alot of respect for breaking the substance after she passed bcz that can make or break and it made you who you are.
It does matter how many times i watch something about Selena Quintanilla her death gets me every time😞😢😭💔 Chris Perez was a lucky man to be with a woman like Selena Quintanilla she was sweet and down to earth I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SELENA QUINTANILLA-PEREZ ALWAYS AND FOREVER (R.I.P SELENA QUINTANILLA😞😢😭💔)
I'm am so glad that you moved on, it is very difficult to lose a loved one, I know bc I lost my world my son. Having beautiful memories will give you strength and believe it or not guidance to move on knowing that you held a special place in her heart. Chris noone can take that from you. The world will never forget that smile that laugh that beautiful voice. I wish you happiness and love to you and your children.
@Ruby Ramirez no sir.. We r seeing this by him and Selena's side.. But his wife did have done her part.. She should not be forgotten.. She is not a substitute.
I would hate it if my boyfriend died, but I know he wouldn't want me to wander the rest of my life alone, and would be okay if I moved on... But, I can't imagine that at all. I would probably stay single for the rest of my life if he died. Moving on wouldn't happen for me...
Yes but it depends on the age. If I was 50 and my partner died maybe I wouldn't find anyone else. But if you're 16 well then, that's a different ball game 🏀
The family worked and sacrificed for years to create Selena’s success. If it wasn’t for the father keeping her legacy alive with the movie, museum, statues and tv show, there would be no interest in Selena today. Even Chris said he thought it was all over, and remember that he remarried. Wouldn’t be proper to be talking nonstop about your undying love for another woman when you’re in love with someone else.
Real talk you can see his eyes before Selena and after she died. His eyes wher never the same theres a pain to them and a pice of him that will never recover.
Having seen Chris and Selena perform before they married and then after and the three Tejano Music Awards backstage in 92, 93, and 94, I know Selena and Chris had an incredible relationship which everyone who knew them during the time he was playing with Selena y Los Dinos, knows Chris is very real and very human! I know he will never love anyone the way he did Selena! Every time I see him on video, it still makes me feel bad that such a tragedy happened. Deep within, I know he misses her but I also can see he celebrates her by sharing her music with others. Chris is a great musician but also an incredible human being! He has always been in my prayers since March 31, 1995 which also happens to be my Wedding Anniversary! Blessings to him and his family always!🙏
Seems like a real nice guy , I don’t know how he recovered from this , I would’ve died from a broken heart , it still bothers me when I watch her movie or concert highlights, God bless you both .
You only get one true love...Chris and Selena was a one true love...IT gets no better than that...We wish you well Chris...I hold yours and Selenas love close to my heart...I watched the movie on tv.....and it makes me so sad.....I will watch a little of ot but I dont watch the end anymore it's too sad...A beautiful woman Selena life ended too soon..To Selenas entire family I send you my love and sympathy and to husband Chris...❤
If you think about it, they were gonna celebrate their 3rd wedding anniversary barely; two days after she passed. They actually hadn't been married for that long. They were still getting to know each other as husband and wife and easing into marriage.
They were each other’s first love and God made them for one another. I’ve never been in love before but I know it’s a beautiful and pure gift to have. That we all possess. He will always love and miss Selena bc she was apart of him and Chris was apart of her.
