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Thank you for this uplifting video💖 I'd love to watch a video 3 years after. That is now: how it affected you? Were you able to maintain this state of mind?
I thought that I have enough self love that's why I'm confused as to why things did not turn out well as I expected it to be; as this quote says you start to attract better. Does this mean that my self love is still not enough?
1, Listening to your heart and inner voice 2, Disovering and nurturing gifts and strengths, skills, talents 3, Being gentle with yourself 4, Learning to find self worth within 5, Embracing emotions & allowing yourself to feel 6, Finding gratitude in all situations "Trade your expectations for appreciation. That makes all the difference."
To the person reading this: You are who you are. You are a gorgeous and beautiful creation. You are a masterpiece. You are who you are. You are strong and courageous. You can absolutely do it. You are powerful. Remind yourself that you are who you are. Move forward with your determination, and conviction. You can absolutely do it. Have a great day ahead, Remember you are who you are. ❤️❤️❤️
Something massive that helped me shifted my mindset is to stop comparing myself to others! Reiterating to myself that its my life, so its my timing and my journey, helped so much to love my experiences and journey.
These last 2 days I've been struggling with overthinking and negative thoughts, I became so hopless.. didn't know what to do with my life or where to go.. I was really lost... no matter how many acheivments I'll have, they don't fulfill me.. my high expectations made me hopless, I felt like no matter what I do, how much I try.. I won't feel fulfilled anyways.. I was just so tired that I didn't want to live any longer... many insecurities.. many fears.. many negative thoughts.. I couldn't take them anymore.. I hated myself, looked down on myself and felt like I'm useless being here in this world... I've been staying in my room locking the door for 2 days... the only thing I did was crying, sleeping..... idk why it was so hard but I just couldn't control my thoughts anymore, I truly just wanted to die... and till now.. I'm still on my bed lying down here and my door is locked... I just woke up opened youtube and saw this video on the top so I opened and watched till the end... This video made me remember all those times when I felt worthy, when I felt comfortable being on my own, when I told myself how beautiful I was and how I loved myself.... I can start again.. It's not the end.. I've been watching both of your channels for years and it truly helped me in many ways but I can say this video could stop me from commiting sucide.. reminded me of how to love myself again and keep going... Thank you
Dear Deya, I'm sorry you feel that way. I beg you to please, take a deep breath, take a shower, go for a walk, call a friend or a family member. Please do look for help. Depression can be very hard to deal with. Don't do it alone, although everything seems so dark and lonely. Please gather your strength and look for help. Much light.
I struggle with listening to my inner voice and gut. I have only recently learned to go with my gut and trust myself. I literally have been living life on autopilot, listening to what my parents, peers, and adults tell me but I have realized i have to make my own decisions. This is super hard since my entire life, I literally never made a decision on my own so it's hard to trust myself. However, I'm really hopeful to finally get to a point where I can listen to my gut.
One thing I do is to write down everything I desire, everything I prefer from a car to a job. It helps me hone who I am, what I want out of life, etc. So when my mom or someone else says something that doesn’t match up with that, I just chuckle to myself. And I’m not a teenager. I’m old.
Recently very depressed and stressed with all career choices and social anxiety is eating me out. And seeing this when i need the most is just... Thank you so much
"To fall in love with yourself is the first key to happiness"-Robert Morley. Thank you Lavendaire I haven't felt the best this past week but your videos always spark motivation. 💕
Confidence, which boils down to self esteem is built on self trust. Trusting yourself and listening to your inner voice is key! We all deserve the same love we, willingly, give others! ❤️ From a self love content creator to another- great video Aileen! 💕
Sending so much love to anyone watching this and struggling with self-love. It’s a long journey full of lots of moments of growth ❤️ you are doing amazing!
*8 SELF LOVE SHIFTS* 💖 , as mentioned in this video, 1. Listen to your heart and inner voice 2. Discover and nurture your gifts and strengths 3. Be gentle with yourself 4. Learn to find self-worth within rather than from external validation 5. Embrace your emotions and allow yourself to feel 6. Find gratitude in all situations 7. Know that "What we see in others is a reflection of ourselves" 8. Practice gratitude towards all parts of your body to develop self acceptance
Thanks for the summary, all her points were so spot on!! 💛🙏One thing that really made us happier was to change our negative self talk to a more positive internal language! We just posted a video about it on our RU-vid channel, would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a kind and likeminded person ☺️💛
Jemina I am in Australia Melbourne and we have had 0 case for 23 days!!!!! and I am back to school and I am having a party next week. But Melbourne use to have 600 case in Oct but we push though it we were in stage 4 now were in STAGE 2!!! I hope the UK case go down!
A lesson I learned is that you have to put yourself first, because how are you going serve / love on somebody else if you yourself are in a dark place. If you are happy and healthy, you will be a better person for everybody else. You can't give what you don't have. ❤️😊
I think I manifested this ; I literally was visualising Aileen posting a video called self love mindset 🤯 Btw love u Aileen and hope u yall r in a good space
I’m going through a break up, i keep begging a guy to stay at me even he told me he doesn’t want me anymore. I figured out what i need is self love, so I woulndt look for the love to another person anymore. Thank you for this!
Hi Nichole. Thank you for sharing and for your openness. I have two videos on my YT channel called, “How to love yourself (when you don’t know how)” and “Can’t let go of the past?” I hope they might be helpful for you.☺️
Self love is so important to also be able to radiate love to the world. This video is really such a treasure trove of great tips. Enjoyed it so much ❤️
I really want to listen to my heart and go where it wants me to go but there are people in my life who control it, make me question it which ultimately makes me afraid of what if I’d fail at it and at last those people would criticise me or give unnecessary taunts for following my heart which would otherwise break me as a person too.
@Juliet Maxwell wow thank you so much juliet maxwell for opening up, where this some kind of manifestation spells and did you use different methods or crystals ?
I am going through this right now and I’m 39. I wish I made this shift before but was in survival mode that entire time. For anyone else reading this that can relate, it’s never too late!
AILEEN ! please make a video on how can we enjoy our life to our fullest ! cause lot of people like us feel shy to express our weird smile and loud laugh cause we want to appear as a good person to others but at the end it's us who feel bad if we don't do it , we do those things and we feel shy and when we don't do it we regret ! I hope you are able to understand what I want to say ! What does enjoying our life to it's fullest means actually ! we have one life how can we enjoy each moments 100% and not regret anything *
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Emotional trauma can win over you...ONLY IF YOU LET IT! The heart is where your truest and eternal self resides. It is the absolute and complete foundation of your core being. Let it guide you. The heart has always been beside you. 🙏🏽🌿💚❤️
To the one who’s reading this: *You* *are* *awesome!!* yeah!!!! you🙂 You can change... but it’s not compulsory !! *Be you* ! *be free!* listen to your heart ..yaay!! that’s it !!🙂
U'r amazing girl😍😍 and really love ur videos. But got to say smth... I don't agree that true happiness comes from what we r doing even though we r doing all things one can do, but true happines and fulfillment only comes frm JESUS. Hope u would get that someday. May God revel himself in his way and touch ur heart. God bless u😘😘
I'm 24 and you are so right! I only started listening to my own inner voice and stopped letting society, family and other people dictate my life. It's tough because there will be a lot of criticisms. I'm only trying to understand who I am, what my gifts are and my quirks that I love about me. It's time ,I guess ,to start focusing on myself and reach for my dreams! I might lose a lot of people along the way but that's what it takes for self growth, healing and choosing your own path. the quotes "change your expectations to appreciation" and "What I see in others, I also see my self" are my favourite takes in the video! Thank you! I wish I had you as my older sister, life would've been much better.
Hi there. Thank you so much for sharing about your individual journey! I have a new YT channel with mindset coaching content for 20-somethings who want to learn how to LOVE THEIR LIVES no matter when kind of challenges they might be experiencing. I hope it might be helpful for you!
Your advices are so difficult to do with depression... looking in is already painful, but seeing nothing, , even if people say it's not true, it seems so hard to practice self love. I hope everyone with and without depression will find their path in life. Accepting who we are with our sickness is a challenge that really seem impossible to do.
I loved all your videos. You are my role model and you have a big hand to change me. My friend suggested this show to me and when I saw the video I was lost in your video I downloaded all your videos and playlist. Keep inspiring us I will definitely would wait for new video. And if can be please post on distractions when doing a work.
The fact that I follow you only from today makes me surprised, you are such a lovely person. I believe that you will change my life completely, even though I started watching you today my life already changed. Thank you for making me myself, and be productive and organized even for this one day.
Can you please make a video about healing & Spiritual books or advice, I really need it and I know your really patient & nice, I don't want to seem irrational. I just really want to talk to you, so I can have more clarity, and I feel like you can really help me and make me realized different things
Jasmine & Lavendaire collaboration is the most beautiful thing in the world ❤️❤️❤️ I love both of them 🥰 also, I really appreciate and cherish a more frequent and regular upload from Aileen~ thank you
Currently I'm coming out of denial that my relationship is indeed toxic. I love this man so much but i have lost myself and am desperate to get back to the woman I was. I need this, because I have just felt so hard on myself. Thank you, beautiful Aileen ❤
One mindset that has really helped me in my self love journey is to remember that self love is an every growing journey and not something to "complete" or "perfect"! 💖🙏✨
My two favourite RU-vidrs collabing! A dream come true. You guys will never know the immense impact that you have on people's lives ;when you grow, we grow and I am so so very thankful for the work that you do💕💕
Listen to your heart and intuition 💖 Discover and nurture your gifts and strengths 💝 Be gentle with yourself 💘 Learn to find self worth from within 💗 Embrace your emotions and allow yourself to feel 💓 Find gratitude in all situations 💞
Thanks for the summary, all her points were so spot on!! Thank you so much for sharing 💛🙏One thing that really made us happier was to change our negative self talk to a more positive internal language! We just posted a video about it on our RU-vid channel, would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a kind and likeminded person ☺️💛
I've just started watching and relate so much to your first point. It really is important to listen to your own voice, but it's not always easy 😫 please make a video on how you made that leap, if you can ❤
Hey! It's 16.11 and I have finally turned 18 today!! I was so unsure of how to start this very new adult life journey. I thought about it and I said, "yep! Everything starts with loving yourself." So, this is the video I needed. I'm so excited and I want to know myself more and more. I want to love myself and others, help them and contribute something good and pure to this society. Thank you so much. It's gonna be a great day!!
Thank you so much for this Aileen!❤️ Self Love is definitely something that we have to constantly work on, I’ve noticed myself that I’ve changed some mindsets but still struggle with others, Absolutely love the tip about being gentle with ourselves because that’s really the key!💖🙏🏼 Love & Light✨
Awwww u just posted the vid one hour ago and here I am looking for inspirations from ur video to survive my online studies....I love you Aileen 😭😭❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍
I honestly love your videos so much! Can you make self love, self esteem, confidence etc affirmations series to meditate to? 🥺💕 You are honestly so motivating and inspiring ❤️
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Totally agree, Aileen is the best and her tips are always so helpful!! Another thing that really made us happier was to change our negative self talk! We just posted a video about it on our RU-vid channel, would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a likeminded person ☺️💛
Totally agree, they both inspired me so much!! Aileen is actually one of the creators that inspired me to start a RU-vid channel with my boyfriend! We just made a video about one of my biggest struggles "negative self talk" would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a likeminded person ☺️💛✨
Ms. Aileen is the kind of woman the world needs more and more. The tips she shares with us have actual truth in them. Let's be inspired by her and create our dream life. Keep this in your mind, You Must Take Action!
This vid really enlightens me in some area of my life that i've been wanting to figure out! It really helps me a lot. Thank you for sharing this vid 💖 Love Dhanica 💋 Philippines
