September 6 I'm sleepy. 

Just a small-town girl, livin' in a lonely world, she took the midnight train going anywhere.

Just follow your heart. When you feel it's time to leave home, leave home. When your heart says go back home, go back home. I've experienced living in the city, and living in the countryside. I love both lifestyles. _Pros and cons._ Good luck on your training, Shika! 明日頑張ってね！😁🤙

RU-vid algorithm recommended this channel😊 Truely adorable❤

I love these videos. You are so candid and likeable! I think it is human nature to second guess our biggest decisions. Instead I like to be confident that past me made the best decision with the information he had at hand, and that present me is on the path he is meant to be on. Enjoy your trip!

We live in the suburbs and can go into town when it's convenient but also walk on The South Downs which are beautiful and the dogs love them . Well I guess I'm not much help but I hope the training goes well and you are happy with the life you choose . It does sound to me as though you could write a story about how both choices would work out and maybe people would like to read it .

Another great video.

I recently moved back to my home country after 12 years of living in Japan and I can definitely empathize. It's nice being with my family again, but every day I think about how nice it was in Japan. I spent my early adult life there and it feels like home and I'm away from it. I don't know about your situation, but I recommend applying to foreign companies where you can use your English skills (your skills are enough, don't tell yourself otherwise-let the companies decide that. don't dismiss yourself).

I think the countryside is better than a big city

I enjoyed this video. Thank you! I hope you had a fun trip! ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

What a weird recommendation from youtube, glad to have found you though! I have spent some time in the Japanese countryside and Tokyo and coming from a small town myself, I think you should go fort it! your English is great by the way, greetings from Canada :)

Shika-san, you are truly remarkable. I feel your struggles with deciding your future. You are doing great! You are young and have lots of time. Take it slowly, continue to ponder the variables of your future; one day at a time. I lived in the Tokyo area for 15 years. I am adaptable and was fine in Tokyo. Then I moved to the Southern prefecture on a tropical island with beautiful sun rises and the most beautiful sunsets. Life couldn't be better. Low stress, low blood presure, simple life and enjoying life to the fullest. I don't miss the traffic, I don't miss the crowds; I prefer the country. I didn't have a choice to come to Japan, my employer directed me at a very young age, but life has been great! Almost 40 years later, I will stay here forever! I hope to see you smile more and that which ever path you choose, that you will be happy and fufilled. Take care.

I am so invested in this progress. シかさんは英語をほんとにいいです！！！俺はシかさんの仕事の旅行楽しいをお願い！一日シかさんは東京に移ります。それ知っている！

Choices in life can make one have fomo, fear of missing out. But choosing what gives one peace and harmony rather than stress and get stuck in the rat race can be a far better option which ultimately gives you a healthier mind, body and spirit. If the opportunity rises and you create it, you can always choose to live at one place for some years then return to the more quiet places when you feel ready for it or vice versa.

I am like you. Currently, I live in a small city, but I also want to experience a different life in a big city. (like Tokyo 例えば). I just think we can do it gradually, not like going to Tokyo and start over from scratch. I believe whatever we do right now will easier our way to move to a new place, like Tokyo, later on.

I’ve always preferred living in rural areas but that’s just probably due to my personality. I’m pretty laid back so country life suits me. I find cities to be too crowded, fast paced and sometimes soulless at times. Don’t get me wrong I enjoy visiting the city but it’s just too much for me to live in one if I can help it.

I spent the majority of my childhood living in a small, rural town in the eastern part of the State of Texas, where it is mostly flatlands and thick forests. When I was a kid, I remember dreaming about all of the different places I could see and experience when I was older. Every other place seemed so far out of reach for me at the time, that in my mind they may as well have been different worlds. By the time I was graduating college, I had the strongest desire to go anywhere except the places with which I was most familiar. Ironically, as time has passed and I've seen more of the world, one of the places I dream about going to now is back to the forests of my youth... I think it's funny how we can run around looking for something that we've always had. 🙃 I recently watched a video presentation of a scientist who specializes in the psychology of regret, and he concluded his presentation with something to the effect of, "just go ahead and do what you want to do in life, because you are going to end up regretting your choice either way." So, according to a professional, we are damned if we do and damned if we don't. 😅 Though perhaps that was just his roundabout way of saying, "enjoy the ride."

I would love to live in Tokyo too! I take care of my parents, they are both unwell, so it is my responsibility to care for them until the end. Sometimes it can feel like my life is on pause, but I am grateful for spending time with them, it's something that I wont have forever. Maybe one day I'll move to Tokyo and we can be room mates, lol.

the video thumbnail is a real masterpiece, rivaling mona lisa

Me and my wife currently live in Yokohama but are considering to move back to her hometown in Nagano! Tokyo life is fun and exciting, but I think after some years you get a bit tired of it and we are yearning for more space, healthier air, and cooler summers! Also we want to build a house but that is impossible in Tokyo unless you already have the land... It's definitely great to try it out whilst you are young so that you don't regret later in your life never trying (although you said you spent time there in university) What prefecture are you from? My guess is Fukushima!

I live in a big city, but in a suburban area. If I lived in Japan, I might choose to live in the country, though. You said you have easy access to Tokyo, and that's one thing I like about Japan. Take the train to the city when you want to do the city stuff, but live in the quiet, more peaceful countryside. You said you're average, without any skills, but the good news is that you can learn skills. You're doing it now, learning English, which will open up more opportunities for you. And you don't have to live in a city to learn things or grow. But you've lived in both the city and the country, so you know what both are like. You have choices, and you have goals, and you'll make new goals, too. You'll figure it out. Thank you for sharing. I hope you have fun at your friend's home!

I don't know why RU-vid recommended me this Japanese lady practicing English by just talking about life, but there's something refreshing about how authentic you are. I genuinely enjoy listening to you share your thoughts. Keep it up!

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i love your videos so much and i could listen to you for days

I live in a small town, about an hour away from London. While I do love London - I go there very often, but I wouldn't want to live there. Enjoy life and see where it takes you. Good night and safe travels.

Average? Well your English is better than average! Especially your pronunciation! Keep at it!

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Take time and see what lifestyle is best for yourself. I think a quaint lifestyle in the countryside can maybe be a bit more fulfilling to some compared to a city lifestyle. In my opinion, as a person living near a major city, often find myself wondering if I should move away from the city (too much traffic and costs!) so your thoughts and feelings are very relatable. Many pros and cons to either lifestyle but I hope you can keep experiencing and find out what works best. I do hope your trip to Tokyo is both safe and eventful. Your English sounds good so keep at it! Good luck with your company training.

City life is great for me at the moment, there are so many beautiful cafes, bicycle paths, rock climbing gyms, and still lots of greenery in Brisbane. I have to live in the city though, maybe one day I'll find good work in a more rural area.

yeah there are pros and cons to both. I like to live in big cities for now but it's a dream of mine to visit the Japanese countryside, it looks soo lovely.

Whenever I've lived in or visited a municipal area, I've always felt more at-home. Yes, it is very hard to afford. 😅 It's good to try to find a goal. I hope you find it in Tokyo. Personally, I think that the act of putting yourself online for your English practice shows that you have enough bravery to try to put yourself in Tokyo. Good luck today!

I resonate with what you mention on many levels. I am confident you will find what fits you best. I used to live in the capital city of Sweden but I am from the furthest north. I lived there for some years and worked at different creative studios. But ultimately I felt more at home closer to nature. So I moved back to my home areas. Continue to do what makes you happy. Balance and harmony is important and sometimes it comes in terms of chaos then swings back to order. Good vibes!

I live in a small city. I prefer a simple life. Nothing complex, just simple. Maybe even boring, LOL! But that's me and I have no problem with it. Is a career your priority in life? What will make you happy? Search for those answers within yourself. My BAND-MAID song for today is 'YOLO'!

Hope you are well Ms. Shika

As a fellow countryside dweller, I had the same mental experience. City vs countryside. You're correct no matter what you chose. I want to give you a hug to let you know everything is okay.

Good luck with your company training, let us know how it went if you don't mind

Your English has already gotten very good 👍🏼

Sounds like you need the stimulation of a big city. I am someone who is fine with working downtown, but prefer to go home to the quiet suburbs at the end of the day. Maybe you can work in Tokyo and live nearby like Chiba

I feel like after being to Japan twice on vacation that your grasp of the english language already makes you higher than average by Japanese standards. I hope you achieve what makes you happy in life.

Sharing your thoughts like this is very brave, but I can understand your indecision. Wish you happiness on whatever path you choose.

I randomly saw this video on my youtube home page. Your English is great, and the accent is spot on. It sounds like you were born in America. Keep it up you're doing awesome

シカちゃん! 初めてあなたの動画を見ました。日本語を一年ぐらい勉強していますが、文法は一番難しいと思います。英語の文法とはとっても違います。 どう思いますか? しかし, この動画にすごく元気をもらいました! ありがとうございます! がんばって!

Ive lived in citys, and Tokyo as well, now i live in a small country township of around 3000 people, love the lifestlye and country life , i wish you well.

「幸せ」っては自分の心から生み出すもの。その歌の意味ですか？

Have a safe trip! I grew up in New York City, the biggest city, and moved to the suburbs. A big city isn't necessarily better or worse, you have to do what feels better for you

お疲れ様でした！

I feel you!! I grew up in a small town in California. Now I live in Koreatown, Los Angeles. I like the city more. But it's definitely a lot more expensive, and traffic is horrible. I think Tokyo would be a better place since public transportation is a lot better there. I also dream of living in Tokyo one day! :)

I’m going to watch this later but for now I just saw the title and all I could think is me too, nice lady, me too. I could use some sleep.

Hello 'Sleepyhead' 😉, thanks for sharing your thoughts. I spent my early childhood on a farm in the country and i have good memories of that time, but spent later years growing and developing and learning in the city, I think I made the right decision. I believe you'll do well as your tender personality and peacefulness will go with you, by the way the point you made about you being ordinary is not true.. you are not ordinary You're extraordinary and it reflects in your videos. Don't be afraid like you said follow your heart. ❤️ A cliche heart for you hehe

I don't want you to mind, because you're grinding and still shining in your hometown city. If you live around Tokyo, I think it's a relief that you haven't been affected by the typhoon. I look forward to talking to you face to face someday and I'm always rooting for you! (P.S Have a safe trip to the training. Make sure to stop by the cafe and try the cake.

I am old now and nearer the end of life than the start of it. Where you live depends on how ambitious you are. Do you want to be happy and try and live without worrying about a future you can't control. Or are you going to be happier in a huge City surrounded by people but know none of them. Personally the hardest thing is to try and find happiness for you. At the end of the day you have to be happy. If then means work then fine. But it may also mean just finding yourself. It is hard work without profit. But you may feel happier in the long run. You have time to make the right decision for you.

You said that you are not a skilled person. Maybe you are wrong. Your English pronunciation is very, very good. Considering that Tokyo is a cosmopolitan city, maybe you can highlight your skill. It is not common for a Japanese person to speak English as well as you (even academics and politicians do not have pronunciation as good as yours, congratulations on that!) ... The perfect place for me is to live somewhere between a big city and the countryside. I live in Brazil in a city called Campinas. The city fits this pattern I mentioned. It is a city in the countryside, but it is close to São Paulo. In general, living in the countryside is better than living in a big city. The problem is that it is difficult to find a good job. My life is peaceful here and when I need to go to São Paulo, it is only an hour away by car or bus.

When you say "I am just an average person... " 😢 that just makes you realise how crazy the world has become and how much pressure you have on your shoulders these days for being normal. It s crazy and very true. In any case, You seem to be a very nice person, wish you to find the best path possible to be happy! 🙂

Oh, I forgot to wish you a great trip to Tokyo tomorrow. That's a place I really want to visit someday.

I am listening to you while eating. Seems like I may end up with a habit.😅

I also dream of living in Tokyo! lol. I live in a big city here in the US. I live in Denver CO but i grew up in a small country town like you.

I would much rather live in the countryside. The mountains in Japan are so beautiful, and I love the food! Tokyo is too crowded, and it's impossible to stand out and be noticed in a big city. In a small town you can make a big difference in the community.

Wish you all the luck in your dreams. Life in a big city is also known as 'A rat race' or 'life in the fast lane'. It's not for me but I truly hope you find what you want.

Great video!! I think like the lovely song says; "Count what you have" 😄 Definitely a very normal thing to dream about. I think you made a good decision. Especially if you want to have children/family. The "rat race" of living in big city has very slim margins for error, and it is much easier to build up a strong foundation to build your life on in the countryside. I hope you will find happiness and fulfillment with whatever you do! Thank you for making and sharing your videos with us! Best wishes to you and your family!

I think our parents leave us to make our own decisions so that we learn from our mistakes. I know that I can earn more money in London than working elsewhere, however as you mentioned the cost of living is higher in the city. I decided to work in the countryside to have less financial pressure, not having to work longer hours and so that I can be a happier person. A better life for me as an individual. I think it’s important do do what’s best for your self and not put pressure on yourself to follow others.

I think we always think the grass is greener on the other side. I live in a city pretty close to Vancouver, Canada and I dream of living in the countryside. For me, being in the city is too busy, too busy-minded, too much stress. And I like being out in nature. But here there are no jobs in the countryside. I hope one day to have enough money saved up in investments that I can live off of it out in the country. Maybe if I can eventually buy a couple small businesses or some real estate I can rent out, I can then live most of my time out in nature. But idk if I’ll ever have that much money saved up, it feels like a never ending race. The thought of retiring seems like a carrot on a stick, I’ll probably die working 😅

Shiki chan any chance of you doing a live show from your friends house in tokyo even if you just use your phone for 10 minutes, it would be very exciting!

Nothing beats nature, tokyo is to busy and expensive! I prefer rural because nature.. Goood luck on your training and enjoy your sleepover and safe trip! Your still so young you can do anything, focus on your dream and follow your heart. Just do it, you can do anything you desire! Get some rest!

Pursuing your dream in a big city reminds me of E.B. White on New York "On any person who desires such queer prizes, New York will bestow the gift of loneliness and the gift of privacy. It is this largess that accounts for the presence within the city’s walls of a considerable section of the population; for the residents of Manhattan are to a large extent strangers who have pulled up stakes somewhere and come to town, seeking sanctuary or fulfillment or some greater or lesser grail. The capacity to make such dubious gifts is a mysterious quality of New York. It can destroy an individual, or it can fulfill him, depending a good deal on luck. No one should come to New York to live unless he is willing to be lucky." "But the city makes up for its hazards and its deficiencies by supplying its citizens with massive doses of a supplementary vitamin - the sense of belonging to something unique, cosmopolitan and unparalleled."

I love watching trees and rivers; hence, I prefer the countryside. But many Japanese cities, such as Toyota City in Aichi, offer both modern buildings and facilities, as well as nature (parks, trees, hills, and rivers). I had a very good time when I was living there.

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This got randomly recommend to me, not sure why but hello 👋 try to get some sleep

Are you sure you're all right? You are very hard on yourself so I don't know how much of this is different cultures vs different ways of dealing with stuff. Please, stop being hard on yourself, okay? 😊👏👍

I live about 80 km north of Atlanta, GA USA. Not very many jobs, little opportunity. You need a car, but there is not as much traffic. Not much noise except during hunting season. Groceries are cheaper. Real estate is lower. Even gas is lower up here. Just not as many people around. If I could, I'd get closer to the city.

I lived in Tokyo for a while in college too. Also, I agree that your English is fantastic. I hope my Japanese students can speak at your level one day. Also, I think I would prefer a mid-sized city.

Hello, from Philippines 🇵🇭 🙋‍♂️😊 get some enough sleep please.. 😄

It’s important to get enough rest. I’m also undergoing company training. Take care❤️

I live in a countryside area of Korea and while I appreciate the beauty and peace of the countryside, I miss having the convenience of big cities. I'm going to try to buy a car so I can visit the city more often.

I would be careful.

Miss, I wish you the best. You'll do good. Be Positive! 😊 Morning Coffee . You'll be fine

Your goal should be growing this channel to earning good income from home.

Don't live in Tokyo. Countryside life is so beautiful as the countryside is too. You had your experience there while attending University but true life is not there in the big city. Also it's much more affordable staying in countryside. I had both when i lived in Japan for almost twenty years. Tokyo, Osaka and countryside.

I live in the 6th most populous city in the US.

Your so pretty

You speak English better than my coworkers in Los Angeles.

Im still on Aug 05, should I watch this tomorrow?

ty for sharing

Ohayobanwa

Howdy! Personally, I'm not a big city kind of guy. The town I live in has about 70,000 people. That's about as much as I can tolerate I think. People in big cities seem to live at a much faster pace than I like. But what I think you need to consider is the cost as well as the benefits of living in a city like Tokyo. While there may be many benefits to living there, what are the costs? I don't just mean in terms of money, although it definitely sounds more expensive. Think of the social costs. For example, my understanding of work culture in Japan is that it's pretty brutal with very long hours and very little personal time. It might help to put these costs and benefits down on paper to help weigh things accordingly. I wish you all the best in your pursuits, whatever they may be. Good night, and sleep well! Work hard but be sure to enjoy yourself while you're in Tokyo.

18歳までは田舎に住んでいましたが、都会でもその刺激を味わいたいと決心し、約8年間都会で楽しく満喫しています。 30歳くらいのときに田舎に戻ってきました。田舎は平和で、より安全で穏やかな気がしますが、都会の生活は私には向いていません。

I've spent most of my life far away from the city on my family's farm. I appreciate the peacefulness we can enjoy, but being so far away from resources such as work or hospitals can be difficult. And the liveliness of a city is a great feeling! Perhaps there is a way to balance the two. ♪ ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-tNG62fULYgI.html ♪ Journey - Lights (Official HD Video - 1978)

Your English is very good, good job ❤👍

Tokyo is better place for living

Damn its September 5 on my area, and September 6 is before my birthday lol

I just heard Japan is paying women to leave Tokyo to go back to the country

If I'm seeing correctly.......that is a PIANO? Play us some tunes.....we will love that. If you want to stay single, then don't move. In Tokyo men will fall in LOVE with you! 💕

So, let's go for company training..😅😅😅

She's gonna go viral isn't she

Hi I wouldn't mind talking to you over instagram if possible. I want to learn about living in the countryside, because I would move there one day. Maybe :) Thank you

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Bye

Go with your heart. Otherwise you will spend the rest of your life with regret.

寝て！また明日

No matter if it's a big city or a countryside, with you I feel like I'm in paradise everywhere.

もしかしたらシカさん東京へ仕事欲しければ、そなの心配しないでください。シカさんの英語ペラペラいます。日本の人口の中であなたはトップ0.01％に入りますよ。探して大丈夫ですよ。 Have you maybe thought about if you want to work in tourism? It will help improve your English as well. And for costs, if you want you can live in Saitama and work in Tokyo. Just throwing ideas out there. Although a competing work culture is not what a company should encourage for its employees. It will bring an incredibly hostile work environment.

I live in a big city and i always wanted to live in the countryside. Life is much more peaceful there, i love nature trees, fields, in the city there's nothing like this, only noise, trouble, crimes, pollution.