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struggling with body image and postpartum style, a day in my life as a mom, and a review of the tula baby free to grow carrier!
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@morgandevol6218 19 дней назад

You DID wear that outfit!! Even if you only had it on for a few hours, you still wore it! And feeling okay in an outfit for a few hours is a win! We put makeup on to wash it off, we curl our hair to have it fall flat. It is so hard for enjoyment to not be clouded by the threat of it fading away, but you did succeed in wearing an outfit that made you feel a bit better, if only for a little while!

@elanahatcher8382 18 дней назад

Girl you need a confidence makeover! And do it with Rachel since that’s how you two met doing that series on your main channel! You can both find your style being postpartum again and find clothes you feel confident and amazing in. Love you girl and your vlogs 💕

@michellelovessharks 19 дней назад

i would love whatever you post, but selfishly, i’m loving these 30+ minute videos 😍

@LaurynJuhl 19 дней назад

“I feel okay in this,” is honestly a win when you’re postpartum. It’s such a vulnerable time. Your body is still changing, your emotions are tender, you’re constantly getting spit up on…the list goes on. I do know one thing: Your sweet little girls see you as the most beautiful woman in the world. 🩷 Thanks for being open about how you’re feeling. I think almost every mom can relate. 🥲

@charlottesteed1026 19 дней назад

Something that has helped me immensely in feeling better in my body and my clothing postpartum is to pack away out of season clothes/clothes that don't fit, and keeping a super pared down wardrobe. It reduces my decision fatigue and I know that every item of clothing in my closet is an option that I won't want to just take off as soon as I put it on.

@perimortem5241 19 дней назад

Hearing you talk about your struggles with image and finding clothes, makes me think that if you ever ventured into a maternity clothing line ( by yourself or even a collab) it would be spectacular! You've already made body positive clothing before, so I know this would be right up your alley!

@rosemarine_biology 19 дней назад

For me personally, having struggled with body image/getting dressed (though not postpartum and I dont have kids, so might be totally different!) but it really helped to get fully dressed and kind of fancy for just an hour per day. You can time it, so you wouldn't have to worry too much that the fit is inconvenient, but you still can feel put together for a short time a day. Hope you feel better about it soon Sierra! Sending love from The Netherlands to you and your lovely family!

@irismayyy 19 дней назад

I found out last night (June 12th, 2024) that my husband and I are expecting a baby GIRL! I am so excited. It incredible to be able to watch Sierra and Stephen parent together, laughing at spaghetti sauce, and watching Grace grow and learn so much !!!

@michellysimss8473 19 дней назад

i saw a tiktok of a headband that is designed exactly to give you that look of having sunglasses pull back your hair!! i forget the creator but they do make headbands like that they are super cute!

@mollyb5404 19 дней назад

Yes! Came here to say search "sunglasses headband" this product exists! 😎

@Eliseprochazka95 19 дней назад

I heard about them top, I think they are called Zazzy bands

@Jenalamah 19 дней назад

I kept seeing the ads for this lol

@rebeccaannrose1552 18 дней назад

I saw Kelly Strack review one ❤

@SamiraSBD 19 дней назад

Sierra, you have just had a baby 5 minutes ago and you are dressed! That’s a Victory on its own. Also your body had 2 amazing babies!!! That’s AMAZING but also changes everything in our body. Makes it all wobbly and weird. Give yourself some time to get to know your body as a couple of months won’t do it. As for outfits, wear all your pretty dresses and anything that will make you feel better and comfy and plan 3 outfits a day because between a baby and a toddler you may need more than that. You will look back one day and you will not remember the outfit, only that you and Grace made smoothies and went to fro yo after her graduation and Grace was so proud of herself.🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊🤗🤗🤗🤗

@BunnyT0ast 19 дней назад

Seeing you interacting with your babies around 22:30 was my favorite part of this video. You absolutely light up talking to them. Here's to hoping your body struggles are short lived. Your haircut is ADORABLE btw

@anonswibbly6586 19 дней назад

i was tearing up when you were talking about how much of a struggle it has been getting ready and feeling more comfortable in pajamas and comfy clothes. i've struggled with my weight for soooo long and lately it's been really getting to me seeing my body in outfits i want to wear but not liking how they look or feeling confident. then it's just a cycle of changing clothes for 20 minutes, getting frustrated and sweaty, and landing on a basic/unflattering outfit cause it's just easier 🥲 although it hurts my heart to see you having similar struggles, it's comforting to see someone express the same feelings, so thank you for sharing

@nicanonymus2491 16 дней назад

I know exactly how you feel! Sending you positive energy ✌🏼

@SarahCampeau 19 дней назад

I sense a little postpartum slump, baby blues in this vlog. Just a little reminder that your harrumph feelings could be that. Enjoyed your vlog, as always.

@jenniferwagner1482 19 дней назад

Get some cute summer dresses. flowy and cute. it will change your attitude. you look beautiful Sierra. Trust me being a mom is a full-time job that never ends you are doing great!!

@theholubfam4444 16 дней назад

i completely agree about getting dresses! i’m in my third trimester and basically live in flowy summer dresses 😂 it’s such an easy way to feel feminine and pretty but also comfortable with your body and the way clothes fit

@leelalonde7633 8 дней назад

Dresses are cute but not ideal when breastfeeding.. coming from a mom currently breastfeeding😅

@Bribreezzzyy 19 дней назад

I love your honesty about body image. I’m going through a similar period. I stopped working out cold turkey to finish my last 6 months of nursing school. I finished thank goodness but my body looks less than desired to put it nicely. Working out really was my stress management and helped with my confidence with looking and feeling better. It also helps with regulating my appetite to fuel my runs. So I’m getting back into it and look forward to the benefits of working out again. But all that to say I literally hate getting dressed, I avoid looking in the mirror and thank goodness I can hide behind scrubs and not think about my image. I really admire you Sierra! I think you’re doing great, moving and raising two wonderful girls is busy work. It’s great you’re putting in effort, making time to eat and get dressed and showered when you get the chance. That’s so important. It helps me as well even though my situation is so different from yours.

@leeleeskiski 19 дней назад

Thanks for sharing such a vulnerable moment with us. You're struggling and that's totally okay. You don't need to have it all figured out in order to share it.

@LaurynJuhl 19 дней назад

Your singing in the car with Grace was SO CUTE oh my gosh. 😭

@JanhaviBaghel 19 дней назад

Honestly, I don't want to give unsolicited tips but it does help me when I am feeling blah in my clothes but don't want anything high maintenance is just bold fun colours and patterns in comfy clothes. Something that even if it gets a stain it is hard to make out the stain. Beige and pastels look good but are harder to maintain. It might not be everyone's style but it is hard not to feel happy with a fun colorful pattern. Might help.

@emilyowens 19 дней назад

My kids love to watch your videos and they always make my day and lets me know I’m not alone. Been having a lot of problems with body image after having two kids a 1 year and a half apart, it has been really difficult but your videos have helped me try to actually get dressed and not look like Adam Sandler all the time. Thank you for being you.

@cindycoleman4498 18 дней назад

I can remember feeling that same way after having my daughter . I came home from the hospital thinking after a few weeks I would lose most of that 70 pounds I had gained. I was so wrong. When I did finally weigh myself, I had only lost about ten pounds and she weighed 7.1 of that. I just sat in the floor and had myself a good little cry. It wasn’t long though before I did get back to loving myself again. You look beautiful and you have 2 beautiful girls. Be good to yourself and give yourself some grace. When I was 34 I had breast cancer and I gained so much weight during the treatment but I lost that too. You can do it.

@rachelandersen4211 19 дней назад

What about designing post maternity clothing!! I think you would be so awesome at that!!!! Also you are amazing and beautiful and so many of us have been there/are there! You are not alone and it is going to be ok!! ❤❤❤

@marijatrajkovic3320 19 дней назад

Isn't that normal clothes you just need to lose the extra weight ....

@rachelandersen4211 19 дней назад

@@marijatrajkovic3320 here’s the thing. So much of the time after baby or a surgery etc your body is different than it was before. Nothing to do with weight. Feeling good in your clothing and choices especially when taking life with kids into consideration has nothing to do with what you weigh, and everything to do with how you feel. How many times do we look in the mirror and not like what we see vs the day before when we felt confident? Clothing is about self expression and having post maternity clothes in g that takes that self expression into account while accommodating life with a newborn could be cool. The number on the scale does not reflect anything other than the number on the scale.

@LoveHugzSBL 18 дней назад

I’m an elementary music teacher (plus size- 16/18). I love JUMPSUITS! All kinds- dressed up, casual, pajama, etc. I don’t have kids, but I bet they can sometimes be breastfeeding friendly. Some of my favorite places for casual/comfy ones are Maurice’s, Target, Torrid, and Old Navy (I always buy online). I love you girl- you got this!❤

@aCloudspov 19 дней назад

getting a personal trainer you see 3 times a week is life changingggg. a very good investment

@DevHazy 19 дней назад

Professionals who can teach you lifting correctly 🎉🎉🎉 key

@aCloudspov 19 дней назад

@@DevHazy yesss! people hire professionals therapists for mental strength, people should do the same when it comes to their physical health

@AllisonMarieMarshall 18 дней назад

I started pt in December and did it 4 months and it was the only thing that kept me going to attend each time and now its just a habit!

@maerya_ca 18 дней назад

As long as I breastfed, i felt like my body wasn't mine. This a weird feeling I can't explain, but both time, after 10months-1year, when I stopped breastfeeding, i felt ''home'' again right after and reconnected with myself almost immediatly.

@Jadenms 19 дней назад

okay also I really hope this doesn’t get me cancelled but sometimes if you are feeling uncomfy in your body I think it is okay to want to change it! Not for looks but for feels if that makes any sense. Like to feel better in your skin, maybe that means doing plastic surgery, changing sex, wanting to gain/lose weight, or even getting your hair/nails done. sometimes mental health is guided by physical appearance and if it helps it helps, and who are we to judge what works for others to have a good mental

@Brittanybavery 19 дней назад

Totally agree. I have been working so hard on getting into shape and I lost some weight but also reversed my prediabetes, lowered my blood pressure, and feel soooo good not only health-wise but in my skin.

@ck2d 19 дней назад

This might seem like a weird suggestion. You're all covered up. Why not try something a little sexier? Try a V neck shirt, shorter skirts/pants. Less baggy. It's like you're hiding yourself in a comforter. Instinctually that might feel safer. But you know you'll feel better about yourself if you honor your body rather than hiding it. Good luck!

@GildedButterfly 19 дней назад

I don’t know of Sierra’s reasoning, but modesty/covering can be beautiful and confidence-building too!

@ck2d 19 дней назад

@@GildedButterfly I don't think it's a modesty thing. You've seen what she's worn in the past. I think she's hiding in giant "comfy" clothes because she's not used to her current body. As a tactic, emotionally, that will backfire. She says she doesn't like how she looks in her clothes. The cure for that is to change the clothes.

@sarahlara8420 19 дней назад

I will say I've bought nothing but oversized clothes since I had my son in 2020.i finally bought a shirt my regular size and more tailored and I love it! You can see that I actually do have a figure and my husband loved it and even my mom complimented me, which is rare 😅

@TheEmilyFoolery 18 дней назад

This is such a valid point. I’ve had two little ones and even though I’m now back to my pre baby weight, my body looks so different in clothes. For me, accentuating the bits I really like makes me feel so much better about my appearance than trying to hide it all

@Kimberly_lil24 18 дней назад

Oh sierra!! I would love to give you the biggest hug. Being so vulnerable about how you feel getting dressed hit so many notes that I felt after 3 kids. So proud of you for putting the outfit on and just doing it❤ sometimes we have to push ourselves and thank you for giving us a glimpse into that vulnerability.

@KarolinaHolst 19 дней назад

I just want to say Sierra, you are so GOSH DARN pretty! I know looks don’t matter nearly as much as pretty much literally everything else in a person and looks is not even in the top 10 reasons of why I like and follow and watch you, but seriously, you are just SO pretty! I am also post partum (but already 9 months in…!) and I’m still in that feeling of discomfort in my body and it totally sucks! I hope the both of us can snap out of it soon. Just know that for me, you are one of the things I’m counting on to help me get there ❤

@emilymolik5082 19 дней назад

They do have headbands that mimic sunglasses in your hair! They’re called zazzy bands! Or Amazon may have their own version

@maddymurph 18 дней назад

Linen sets were my go to postpartum!! Matching sets make you look put together with 0 effort, flowy button up shirts for easy breastfeeding, high waisted flowy pants are comfy and kind to the incision!

@marissayezzi8726 18 дней назад

They make headbands that do exactly what you’re looking for! They’re headbands that are designed specifically to mimic sunglasses, I think they’re called zazzy bandz!!

@rockout479 18 дней назад

Idk if you’ll ever see this but after my second csection, I felt the same as you with my body for a long time (a good year+ pp). And it is hard but I will say it does get better- in time. You will feel at home in your body again one day! Be gentle on yourself in the meantime; it has carried life afterall. 💖😊

@lanneybradford 19 дней назад

I feel like floral patterned skirts help cause they hide some of the gunk lol also dresses that are stretchy at the top!

@shelbyragland 18 дней назад

I love how intentional you are with how you talk to Grace. Were your parents the same way? As a mom to an almost 3 year old and about to have another my goal is to speak to them with the same compassion, intention, etc. but I find myself getting overwhelmed and at times explosive similar to my mom. Mom guilt is rough but I know it’s possible!!

@jessicadelgenio 18 дней назад

I just wanted to say how much I relate to your body image struggles. As someone who also loves clothes, I feel this so deeply. My style changed so that I can play with my toddler on the floor, and it changed with pregnancy and postpartum. And it’s hard when your closet doesn’t fit your needs. But you don’t want to buy all new stuff because you won’t breastfeed forever. I hope it gets better with time and as you find your style in this short term phase.

@alexiavincent6684 19 дней назад

GRACE SINGING LOVE IS AN OPEN DOOR I AM CRYING

@graceraven3423 19 дней назад

Omg it made me cry too 😂 and when grace said she is proud of herself for graduating 🥲

@Karissa.Bendel 17 дней назад

We’re here for you Sierra!! You’re beautiful!! But you already know that!! Also, try to remember that your children will only be little once, one day you won’t have to worry about the “mom outfit restrictions” and will be able to dress how you want without worrying about if you’re going to be able to get on the floor to play with your kids or if they will touch your white skirt with messy hands 🫶🏻🩷 I know it’s easier said than done, just try to be in the moment and remember that this is a temporary feeling. You are just as beautiful in sweatpants and a baggy T-shirt as you would be if you were all dressed up!💜💜

@jesstodd6218 19 дней назад

Hi Sierra as a mom of three I adopted a “momiform”. I found it to be the most practical way to meet the challenges you outlined you are having with getting dressed. It consists of button shirts like the one from your video, as well as solid colour tshirt dresses from H&M for the shirts paired with leggings. I find if you stick to solid colours it provides a neutral easy base that you can change the look of with shoes, hair and accessories. Its also really nice to just grab your standard base and add to it.

@victorial5598 17 дней назад

I would LOVE to see a video where you get a stylist for the postpartum life! Maybe even include Rachel. Could be a fun video! ❤

@user-xp1on1fx4d 19 дней назад

Omg sierra 😢 i’m so sorry to hear about your body issues recently. Sending you love and strength to make it through this stage in postpartum and that you feel more confident soon. Thank you for sharing your journey with us and being so open and honest. You got this❤️

@aubrielaffin5326 12 дней назад

I remember last time postpartum feeling the same way. I have never been totally in tune with my style but postpartum I just felt that I lost myself and my body image took a really big hit after many years of being mostly at peace with my body. It took a while to start finding my style again, and getting my colors done (thanks to your video on it!) really helped me start finding clothes that I loved. But then I got pregnant again and now am very freshly postpartum again (8 days PP). I'm dreading having to start over but hoping that my last experience with this helps me put things into perspective and find a plan to move forward and find myself again with less time and frustration.

@shaniaramos1377 13 дней назад

Me and you are pp together and everything you go through is so relatable to me. My pp body has been so hard this time around, I feel the exact same as you. It’s so hard finding good outfits that are summer and toddler friendly and also are comfortable AND makes me feel feminine. It’s tough. Thankfully this is a short season and won’t last forever.

@sophiem3744 17 дней назад

I’m 4 months postpartum with baby #2. I’m definitely the heaviest I’ve ever been in my life, and completely understand how you feel and totally feel the same way. Most important thing we can do is give ourselves Grace (which is both our daughters names by the way ❤). We will get back to a better place physically, it just takes time.

@sarahallysonn 17 дней назад

Feeling so similar to you when it comes to not loving your body at the moment and being in a weird place. I fully had a meltdown in my closet today and sobbed because I don’t feel good in anything I put on. Not because I’m a mom going through those kinds of changes, but because I’m getting older and my body is changing in ways I didn’t expect. It feels good to at least know I’m not the only one ❤ we will get through it together!

@happilyellisafter 19 дней назад

Girl, I commend you for raising TWO children and still being able to vlog along the way…like what?! How do you do it? You’re amazing Sierra 💖

@Rocknart66 14 дней назад

I too struggled with how to get dressed after having a baby. It was more having my clothes be practical than body image that made it so hard. I like accessories and mock neck tops and non of that felt conducive post partum. I found my new mom uniform that makes me feel good are wide legged linen pants with an elastic waist in a variety of colors or wide legged jumpers/ overalls with a simple tee underneath. Also, oversized button up shirts with a plain tank under for easy breastfeeding. These feel cute. Put together and very comfortable and all look great with my Birkenstocks or slides

@MissKathyG 18 дней назад

The more I watch your vlogs the more I think I might be ready for baby 2 in the next year or two. Hearing you say this time around helped to heal your trauma from your first is the most encouraging thing I’ve heard.

@mashapuchkoff6232 17 дней назад

I felt the same in my postpartum period. Our bodies shift so much during pregnancy but after is almost harder to handle. I ended up getting a few new pieces that I loved and would build my outfits based off those, and eventually I moved through the challenging feeling, into my new self. You got this, you are in amazing mom and I love seeing you grow and change, thank you for sharing your life so openly.

@caitlinford2304 19 дней назад

My eyes were starting to water when you showed graces graduation and froyo. Yall are just so precious, and especially during that scene it made me look forward to having a family of my own so much. My husband and I are trying for a baby soon, and this vlog just made my heart sing. Love you guys ❤

@annamoore2820 19 дней назад

I am feeling the exact same way with my body due to PCOS. I was recently diagnosed after fighting for years to be listened to by my doctors. I have been working really hard to change my diet to reverse my symptoms and have been losing weight. I am still struggling so much when it comes to dressing my body and feeling comfortable. Your videos have helped me so much in the past when I was in the midst of an ED. I am wishing you all the best and sending positive vibes your way!

@erinES87 6 дней назад

The last time I was recommended your videos you were either about to or just gave birth to your first kid, and now you have TWO?? It’s such a joy to see, my sister has been struggling for 2 years or so and we only just this weekend found out she’s finally pregnant.

@katieconte1144 14 дней назад

Girl, I feel you. I just had twins shortly after you had Alice and I’m at the same place with my body. I’m still wearing maternity clothes. I’ll wear the same leggings all day that I wear to bed the night before. I haven’t wore makeup in a couple weeks. I rarely do anything with my hair. I’m just survival mode. not trying to be cute just comfy and functional.

@annacampbell6301 19 дней назад

Postpartum is hard. I'm 9 months postpartum and I feel more in my body but I am still staying clear of certain jeans and dresses. It's so freaking hard. And then like you were talking about you can't just dress cutesy bc you have children and leggings are easy to play in. It's hard.

@savannah4439 18 дней назад

Hearing you talk about your problems trying to find clothes that make you feel good while also meeting your needs as a mom…somebody get Cassie Ho on the case!

@MissFreyja 19 дней назад

Body issues suck and I'm so sorry you're going through it. I'm going to give a few outfit ideas, if it's not your thing it's fine, but here's what is important; if the clothes don't work, it's the clothes issue, not yours, return or exchange and keep it moving. You don't have a bad body, just a changing one and you get to define your style and how you feel in it. Honestly, I would suggest a nice 90s/00s retro tracksuit bottoms for messy time, they can still be cute but they clean easily and just go for your tees or light tops go with it. Also dungarees are great to hang out in. Out and about any trousers/shorts/skirts that have elasticated waists or are stretchy, or a nice midi dress. There's lots of choices to get online now, if you have the financial ability then let yourself have nice and necessary things.

@jessicaschultz8043 18 дней назад

IDK how long postpartum that jeans aren't comfy especially with the c-section, but I think getting to wear jeans and jean shorts will help you feel cuter and also be a good option of getting dirty with kids!

@mallory_flynn 19 дней назад

Maybe im weird but i feel like thrifted jeans are the best mom bottoms! Im ok with them getting ruined since they're thrifted. Im comfy in them because I never buy tight jeans. They also go with everything! Im also maybe a little weird cuz i could and have slept in jeans. I love them so much!

@Neverendinghappyland 18 дней назад

I totally understand how you feel about your body and wearing functional clothing that makes you look and feel your best while also low maintenance for a mom with little kids. It can be hard and daunting most days, don’t be hard on yourself and don’t worry if your not where you want to be mentally in terms of how you thought and looked at clothes before. It takes a while to feel comfortable and confident in your body after having kids, you go through so much, the postpartum stage can feel mentally, emotionally and physically draining while you have hormonal fluctuations and your body just trying to recover from having a baby 9 months ago. I know you know all this, you’re such a beautiful mom and wonderful human. You’re not alone and it takes 1 year for your body to fully heal after a c-section. As quietly as your baby changes daily you have to mentally stay on top of updating your parenting for this ever changing baby that is so happy and full of life, wanting to explore the world around them. At any stage of a babies like from birth on words, they all come with their own set of challenges, with all that being said, I know how mentally during the postpartum stage you want to feel back to your old new self again. Give yourself grace, time and don’t pressure yourself into anything that does not feel right for you at any given day or time. For me the times when I felt the most myself was 2 years after having all 3 of my kids. But keep up the good work, your doing amazing. ❤

@erinhaggard4657 18 дней назад

Hi Sierra, long time follower here. I just wanted to say that I resonate so much with feeling uncomfortable in my body right now. I have no idea what my style is anymore with a changing body. Having PCOS and being on lexapro has really been difficult with significant weight gain. Anyways, thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing ❤

@laceym3662 18 дней назад

I'm in your exact same boat (PCOS and Lexapro, started after loss of my brother) and I'm the least confident in my outer and inner self than I have ever been. Man, it's so hard.

@Orchidmoonlight 19 дней назад

I’m in the same boat as you about body image. I’m 5 month pp +200 and have a toddler. What I find works for me are slightly cropped tops that are a flowy or boxy cut. They are low maintenance and easy to breastfeed but still in style. You can find graphic tees in that cut too. I’ll buy an assortment of colors and pair with leggings, bike shorts or flare leggings. When I go out I love cute flowy sundress that are easy to wear. Maybe try the baby doll style tierd dresses. They are cute and a flattering cut for pp bodies. I hope these tips help you like they helped me. You got this mama!

@greytgreytx 7 дней назад

Hey! So... I don't ever wear jewelry but when I was nursing, my son wanted to play with my "off-duty" boob and I HATED IT. So I realized there is a whole market of "nursing necklaces" that ARE kind of chunky and that have beads and flat pieces for babies to play with. Might work for both accessorizing and in case your baby ever gets handsy when older. :) I loved them! They're cute and functional.

@meaganm.o.7984 19 дней назад

felt emotional for you when you were talking about your body image struggles postpartum! Thank you for sharing your journey! You're helping so many people along the way

@emilyshiels992 18 дней назад

I really sympathise with you sierra ❤ I, pretty much since my toddler was born.. So for 3 whole years, have been in this mindset. I have had my moments where I am on point, and styling myself the way I would like. But I found I was restricted from the messy, fun, amazing play that comes with being a mum. I went out a few weeks ago and I bought a heap of nice leggings, and nice sweaters, new sneakers and all that jazz. I am owning the fact that I am a gym gear mum! It's practical, and if ya get some vomit, paint or even mud... Heck even poop. It's like meh whatever hahaha. I wear it like a uniform. And then if I know we are having a day that's not as messy I make extra effort, and may wear a dress and accessories. I look at it like changing hats.

@Jadenms 19 дней назад

Hey Sierra, you are so beautiful and I think it is amazing you want to dress for your kids. However, it is important to remember to do things for yourself too. Maybe taking some time to wear a cute athlesure fit (I remember a few years ago how you would always talk about feeling great in a Fabletics bra and leggings) and take yourself out on a date (no kids, husband, responsibilities) where you do something you like (maybe a walk or pedicure or smth) can help you find what it is that works for you again! Even if it’s just an hour once a week, it is important to fill your cup before you can fill anyone else’s. You got this beautiful, I believe in you!! Also no shame at all in increasing childcare now that you’ve increased kids!!!! Sending you love :)

@Amy.Vvvvvv 18 дней назад

Size inclusive carries also make it easy for dads to share in the baby wearing responsibilities!!!

@laurenelizabeth124 19 дней назад

Maybe you could make a video on capsule wardrobes! It may help with your personal style dilemma

@karminaguantes23 14 дней назад

I absolutely love my carrier! It’s the Beco Baby Eight baby to toddler carrier. It is very similar to what you have but has a hood and allows you to zip down a layer on their back so it’s more breathable! Beco Baby Carrier 8 Hybrid Newborn to Toddler Carrier (7-45lbs) - All in 1 Mesh Backpack, Front and Hip Carrier with Adjustable Seat - Cooling Ergonomic Carrier (Boho Rainbow)

@theblendedtruth1408 19 дней назад

I have always struggled but with each baby it’s resurfaced to accept this ever changing body . With my fifth and final now and my journey to feeling better not loosing weight I’ve finally come to peace with my body even though there’s days I still struggle . I seem to find myself loving clothes but never wearing them cause my kids are so messy they get dirty or ruined right away so they just sit in my closest 😭

@aliciavelasquez426 18 дней назад

Thank you so much for being vulnerable and talking about your postpartum body and dressing it. I struggled so hard with this myself and it felt so isolating. Clothes don’t fit right, it’s confusing what to buy now that you’re not pregnant, what size are you now that you’re not pregnant? Throwing in breastfeeding is even harder! Finding tops that are accessible but cute seems impossible.

@TheBeenQueen 18 дней назад

I've never really liked my body, but being 11 months postpartum I just have no idea what to do with it. My boobs are MASSIVE and I'm just the biggest I've been in general. Plus, I have to wear clothes that are comfortable and pumping friendly. But then I also want to look cute! I totally understand the struggle and appreciate you being honest about it.

@meganjs 19 дней назад

I love that button up !! I can’t imagine how difficult it would be to be in a constantly changing body. My body has looked more or less the same for 5 years now and I still have trouble dressing myself lol. You’re doing great mama ❤ Your garden is stunning too I love the sunflowers 🌻

@scurvgirl 19 дней назад

I have a few clothing recs as a plus sized pediatric speech therapist who works with lots of toddlers. I need mobility, things that wash easily, and still look professional and feel comfortable- croft and barrow stretch pants at Kohl's are CLUTCH, lots of colors, plus sized availability and wash well (they do shrink up in the leg a bit though). For shirts, the Torris half sleeve half button up pullover shirt is great - they also go well with leggings. I hope you the style and body image starts to ease up ❤

@miryamaries 18 дней назад

this is so random but if youre struggling w clothing then linen pants might be a good option. like wide leg linen pants with a drawstring on the top. they are so comfy and breathable it feels like wearing sweats or leggings but they’re just cuter and you can dress them up with different tops. they even make tshirts feel a lil cuter! and target always has tons of options

@jaimebh30 16 дней назад

Awesome job Sierra on your first day of solo mom duty! Grace is adorable with Alice and it gets better seeing them play together. I hope you and your family have a great week!

@lindadelacy9330 18 дней назад

LOVE YOU, SIERRA!!!! Your hair looks really pretty. It's so cute that Grace is interested in theater--- she gets that from you!!!

@mariahgist1018 19 дней назад

I am only about half way through the video, but I have so many thoughts! 😂 1. I have never been postpartum, but post miscarriage, I felt very similar about my body. I found that leggings and a cute shirt were very helpful. I love the a-line ish tanks from Old Navy were my favorite. 2. They have headbands that are made to do what sunglasses do! I saw them on TikTok of course. 3. Thank you for sharing your feelings. You have always made me feel so seen and you always are so open and honest and I really appreciate you! ❤

@karbazaar 18 дней назад

I'm a preschool teacher and I always tell my kids "you don't need to nap, but it's important to rest your body" even if it's just doing something quietly!

@CarmelaPebbles 19 дней назад

I have the same coffeemaker as you, and just an FYI to prevent the foamy milk from sticking to the sides of the frother (since that’s the best part) - just swirl the frother for a sec until you see the foam release from the sides, then pour it in your coffee and you’ll maximize foam and it’s the best ever.

@tiffanypacheco_ 13 дней назад

“Wow so pretty” that came from my 3 year old daughter when you had your striped button up shirt and leggings on. A child’s words are always so honest so even though you’re struggling postpartum my daughter and I think you’re pretty! ❤

@Kristy463 18 дней назад

I feel you about the skirt. Somehow my 3 year old manages to get more of her food on my clothes than her own 😂 My everyday outfit is just a T-shirt and jeans.

@salo81 19 дней назад

Hey Sierra 🙋🏻‍♀️ Did you ever think to do overnight oats or baked oatmeal for breakfast? Maybe you don't like it, it's only an idea. I like it since it can be prepped ahead. Don't worry to much about your outfits. Just wear a different colored skirt, other than white, and a fun shirt. Or as someone here suggested, a simple buttoned summer dress. Jewelry isn't a must as a mom. Your haircut looks cute. I love that you are so happy about the baby carrier. I loved to baby wear my kids, even more when they were big enough to back carry them. That version I liked the most comfortable.

@jeniferlove3871 17 дней назад

I dont have kids but i feel you with the struggle. when i went in office for my corporate job i had fashion down i wanted to look good and feel good. Now i have worked at home full-time for 4 years now and if i put jeans on its a fancy day. I live in bike shorts sweatshirts and sweats. I have no desire to wear makeup do anything than wear a messy bun. I been struggling to find that feel good again but its hard, why get dressed im literally going to see probably 2 people on a daily basis. Loved hearing you talk about it and not feeling like im crazy for feeling this way.

@tess5564 19 дней назад

I am pregnant with my 3rd baby and have struggled with my style and feeling the exact way you described feeling and so this was so relatable and I feel so encouraged to try getting my style back or finding a new style that feels like it suits me. So thank you for sharing.

@kirstenholder7270 19 дней назад

Thank you for sharing, it is very kind of you to reflect like this, I know it helps me feel not alone. You will get through it, and just remember to lean on the people who have your back. Let me know if you ever need anything.

@ronalynn67 19 дней назад

You are beautiful inside and out! I am a new 1st time grandma! I have been watching you since before you and Stephen got married. You are someone that I have never got bored with! I love your personality and your family! I feel like your family even though we have never met lol!!

@amandagilbert5870 19 дней назад

Same here

@angelinaduganNy 18 дней назад

I love Sierra. I have been watching her for about 7 years. She is such a beautiful soul.

@daixyray 7 дней назад

I feel the same way about my style and body. Its hard to explain and I want to be comfy, cute and functional for motherhood. I am just now starting to form a 1 thing is baggy and 1 thing is tight style. So a baggy pant/skirt with a tank or tight leggings with a baggy top/blouse/button up has been what I have been coming up with. I hope you find what makes you feel you I know it may take awhile but you are doing sooo good and looking soo good (: I love seeing you and your daughters just enjoying life!!

@haleighc3859 18 дней назад

Love the garden, I have pretty much all concrete in my backyard so I love seeing how you use the space ☺

@cassiek7879 19 дней назад

Thank you for talking to us on your self imagine and mental health things. It is so refreshing to see online. ❤

@ajasimpson7205 19 дней назад

oh my god, Alice's little smile and snuggle into you after you kissed her at 29:53, is quite possibly the cutest thing i've ever witnessed

@UnboundedArtandCrafts 19 дней назад

I'm not sure if it might help getting comfy clothes in different colors/prints that you don't mind getting dirty. Also patterns hide stains very well 💡 I'm not a mom but I'm struggling with health related body issues and the only thing I can wear are comfy simple items. So I try and wear summery colors and I have a bunch of tie-dye 😊

@Alexalini 19 дней назад

Postpartum life is so hard but amazing. You’re doing awesome and feeling strange in your own body is totally normal. I pretty much found so long as I was breastfeeding I was bleh in my body. Getting back into jeans helped but took a while. Finding a cute “uniform” you’re comfortable in enough to get dirty ( or at least a bit grubby) plus kind of knowing you will change your top 3x a day and having a versatile enough outfit for that might help. I know you’re a planner so maybe think of 3 top plus 1 bottom outfits daily? That way you plan for the worst and hope for the best 🤣 And yea might have to ditch the accessories for now but it will pass

@xoxellerose 19 дней назад

The postpartum body chat I related to so deeply. I am almost 6 months postpartum with my second and it’s been rough. I’ve struggled with body image, depression and anxiety. Then I got diagnosed with hypothyroidism and Hashimotos. And I just feel so “blah” like you said 😅 it’s been really rough on me

@JessicaRojas-si8ih 19 дней назад

Thank you for sharing how you’re feeling. I have 3 yr old twins I’m still trying to figure how to dress. I have been trying to use sets. Old navy and target has linen short/pants sets w the button ups, maybe you would want to check that out. It’s easy to grab and go :) hope it helps. ❤

@paperbark3754 16 дней назад

you are always happy when wearing your tennis dresses - maybe try that? would it be stretchy enough to feed Alice? If not, you could look at grabbing a couple of clover dresses as they have a couple of buttons down the front for feeding access and might make you feel a better in your clothing?

@annabrown3337 18 дней назад

Bless you, working hard in mornings and dealing with the body image (you look cute btw) and managing 2 kids solo. Your hair and skin look incredible btw

@heathercarlisle2423 18 дней назад

My oldest is Grace’s age, and my youngest is 9 months (both girls too!) I appreciate your honesty so much when it comes to dressing as a mom. When I go to wear something I feel like the list has 15 criteria it has to meet in order to be wearable. And then it gets destroyed in an hour. Just here to say, same!

@stephaniejones1263 19 дней назад

I am not a mom so I have no experience with postpartum but I was observing a huge constant in your struggle. It seems like you are not dressing for yourself you have a lot of other things to consider (necklace, breast feeding, toddler) so the fun of getting dressed is now gone and when you would try to put something cute or flattering on you can’t be as present and maybe you don’t feel as much autonomy over your body. My recommendation (just as an observer who has loved your channel for a while) is that it doesn’t seem like you have done things just for yourself in a while (which I get is hard with 2 young kids) but I would suggest reconnecting with your body and self in other ways like baths, reading, scrapbooking. Also I love crop tops I feel like they are a little more flattering than a baggy graphic tee but not a lot of effort. They have been crucial in me loving my body in a simple way. Hope my advice helps. I love your channel!

@mariahjuhl702 4 дня назад

Whats worked for me in this season is comfy and cute lounge wear 😊❤ i still have those days/feelings when ita time to get dressed to leave the house but im going to get some dresses and maxi skirts for thise occasions.

@BlueJean452 17 дней назад

Have you thought about maybe getting some of the sport skirts that have bike shorts in them? You are still basically wearing shorts and a t shirt but the skirt aspect adds some style to it. ❤️

@georgiae7629 17 дней назад

“It’s 8:30. I’ve made it to 8:30” I’ve never related to anything more 🤣. Totally understand what you’re going through. I have two girls myself with similar age gaps and woweee it’s a time. I think I did pyjama chic for a very long time whilst waiting for myself to magically wake up one morning being effortlessly flawless fabulous in everything I wore. Anytime I had a moment like this I just reminded myself that I grew and nurtured life. Our bodies are so incredibly amazing. How lucky we are. It’s so hard when your body stops being yours. Eventually we will get back to being more ourselves and having ourselves fit in with the priorities. It can just take a while. And that’s ok. Plus, pyjama chic is a vibe. Let’s rally behind that. You’re beautiful inside out. And your girls will see that everyday. Regardless of what you wear. Loved this vlog, as well as everything you post. 😊