Shampoo for Gray & Curly Hair: Why I quit using the Curly Girl Method 

I love your handle, Senseofwonder. 🤩thanks for the kind words! I agree about the volume of products required by that method, too.

I’m so glad to hear it! 🥰

Oh wow, thank you!!

Hi! 👋 Thank you for the thoughtful comment. I definitely didn’t want to bash anyone. I think it’s good to try new methods to see what works and what doesn’t. It turns out I just need to shampoo more often. I’m so glad it works for your curls 💗

Your hair is divine! I might need to try that purple shampoo you use. 🤔

Manic Panic 😍 I used to use that in high school. Your mix sounds like a great choice.

Hi, Kim! Yes, I’m going to grow it long after my final chop. I love that you’re taking such good care of your hair and still swimming. I love swimming laps, but I have been reluctant the last few years because of the chlorine damage. I’m going to try the coconut oil trick next time. 😍😘 thanks for the kind words. I really love this community.

LOL, you’re not wrong about my light fixture 😆😫 I’ll figure it out. 😂. I used to use a Redkin product I liked but was discontinued. Thanks for the kind words. I’m like you-I’m definitely tired of being yelled at. 😘😘😘

I’m so glad you’re here 🥰😘 how encouraging to see some new growth. I know that thinning hair is a common concern-I’m not particularly knowledgeable about how to combat it but I do know the body will shut down new hair production during times of stress. Maybe more vacations??😎

Me too! Some days I’m in love with it and other days I’m frustrated 😆

Aw, thanks, MJ! I’m so glad you’re here. 🥰😘 I’m still exploring the Sisley line. I love that Restructuring balm and I’m currently trying out the hair oil. I’ll probably share my thoughts on that when I’ve had more experience with it. So far, so good. Today I used the Natasha Denona Glam palette. Have you tried it? It’s all neutrals and mostly cool-toned. Lots of pretty shimmers shades.

Thank you! It’s a whole vibe 🥰🥰🥰

@@InfinitegardenbyBethK That is Right! 👍

I just love hearing what works for other people. My scalp is too oily to go ten days, but in the winter I can stretch it out to a whole week. 💗

That’s such a good point about the strict rules. I learned so much from Massey’s method that forever improved my routine, but I just want a little surfactant in the mix.

You truly are a hair scientist 🤩 I’ve been curious about clay washes. When I was still babying my damaged dyed ends, I was worried it would be too drying. It might be okay to try now. I like the idea of switching between sulfate-free and sulfate-included.

@@InfinitegardenbyBethK Lol hair is what drew me to RU-vid in 2009. I'm still here over a decade later watching hair videos (along with a bunch of other things). So I named my channel after my obsession hair, and my profession science. I don't have a master's or PhD in the sciences, I call myself a scientist simply because I've done work in both fields throughout my career and I'm equally good at both which is rare for most people in the scientific field. In regards to my clay mix, I typically add the Lily of the Desert aloe vera gel, and distilled water, as well as a little apple cider vinegar. Some people add oils and humectant ingredients as well. Blackstrap molasses is a great additive that I use on occasion. But clay washing in general really helps the curls pop. Most of us who clay was follow it with a cowash (such as As I Am or Eden Bodyworks for example) to help remove the clay particles that get left behind.

@@ChristsChemist I just found you and subscribed 💖 you’ve inspired me to try a clay wash. There’s so much to learn about products and methods, and always about our own unique hair type! Thank you so much for taking time to share what you’ve learned.

@@InfinitegardenbyBethK Oh wow, thank you! I don't have any videos yet. But I was actually planning to start filming this month. I'm just trying to figure out what direction I want to go in so my videos aren't all over the place since I have so many interests. Well that, and getting over the fear of putting myself out there.

I know exactly what you mean about having to spend a bit to experiment. I really need to get back into a Sally-I used to love them when I was teen/college aged kid. My texture is pretty intense and I known that things that work for me won’t work for others. 😘

Great suggestion! I love tea tree oil-so refreshing 💖💖

Yay! It’s a gorgeous product.

Interesting!! Did you experience the scalp build-up too?

@@InfinitegardenbyBethK Yes. I did. It was not for me. I need a clean scalp! Lolol

Hi, Deb! I will air dry if I have time. But often I get a head start with a diffuser on low.

Interesting! I haven’t settled on my favorite length. Last year in the winter I had a big cut where I went above my shoulders. I liked it but thought it was too short. When it gets long it gets very thick and heavy which can weigh my look down. I’m going to explore a new cut style this winter.

@@InfinitegardenbyBethK You look just right with your length hair on YOU. 💗 I'm 60 and have a Pixie Bob so I'm not pro-long, pro-short for anyone but myself. I find that a lot of people like others to have hair length like their own. I'm all for whatever looks good for the other person, what they like on themselves. You are quite in-tune with your outer presence., stick with your gut. But, kudos to you for responding so kindly.