Ami 14yrs katiachi. As a single parent chele ke baro korechi job kore. Chele akhon karmorato. Akhon 28th year cholche amar biar. Akjon adult manus hoa Mar katha mene bou ar cheler jibon ta borbaad korar chesta ta samorthon korte pari na. Thakurer aashirbaad bari chole asechilum. Rumela tomar toiri roll ta dekhe realize korlum life ar oi khali jayga ta vorar jonno satisfying food ta amar jonno khub valo kaaj korehe. Bahu kichu sacrifice korleo du akta kaaj banchia rekhechi. Traveling, delicious food, movies ar tomar moto koyekjon RU-vidrs💗💗💗💗💗💗 Moner opor jor chole na. Khoma kora sotti e vison shakto. Proyojon nei. Ara konodin change hoy na. 54yrs a pouche dunia dekhe anek abhiggota hoache. Thakurer aashirbaad Tumi ato sundor songsaar korcho. Ato lovely husband cum good friend peyecho. Richard husband ar theke bondhu beshi jeta prottek ta meyer swapno thake. Tumi khub Lokkhi Sona Meye, oijonnoi Thakur tomar jonno arom akta precious life thik kore rekhechilo🙏🏼 khub khub anondo kore sampurno hoa aro vore otho💗 anek anek subhashish🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫🍫
Physical scars faded at some time, people also forget about physical pain..but if a person hurt you mentally/emotionally or did character assassination,you will never forgive that person by heart.. whenever you saw that person, the whole things come to your mind automatically..this is my point of view...bcz I feel the same.. anyways now you are a strong woman... keep going..u got a wonderful husband,nice in laws... lots of love from India (Assam) 🇮🇳
আনাইরা দ্রুত ভালো হয়ে যাবে।আর ফেলে আসা জীবনে মোটেও শুধু দুঃখ নেই,কারন এত সুন্দর দুটো সন্তান পেয়েছো।তাই পজিটিভ দিকটা দেখো।এতে মন শান্ত হবে।আর দশবছর কষ্ট করেছিলে বলেই হয়তো শেষে রিচার্ডের মত বন্ধু খুঁজে পেয়েছো।এটা কজন পায়? তাই দুঃস্বপ্ন মনে করে অতীতটাকে ভুলে যাও।
Shomoi er shathey shob kichu theek hoi. Whatever happened to you has made you into this tough human being. Things that do not kill us only makes us stronger ❤
@@rumelasworld For sure. It's one thing to hear about it and another to experience it. I can only imagine. However I have seen one of my first cousins go through it and today she is this independent woman I know, raising her kid on her own terms. Having said that, I acknowledge what you said ❤
Your daughter will get well soon,wish her well, blessings. Don't bring your ex in the picture, leave what is gone.. don't spoil your present and future... human psychology is unpredictable. Love your tacos 🌮 Sending you loads of love ❤️
Very very difficult to overcome the trauma like domestic violence so dark,deep and painful.If you are not easy no need to give chance or trust that person.Now you have your own family.Toxic mind remains toxic.
True I get triggered and it’s not easy to forget and forgive but I think I have overcame a lot. But there is more than the abuse that I can’t happen to look past and there is no way I am trusting him or giving another chance but just trying to coordially co parent and co exist but it’s hard coz if it was a random person doing all these atrocities with me would probably never even exist for me .
Hi Rumela how you feel is totally normal. When we do not heal & have a scar on the body there's high chance of infection. Similarly when we do not heal mentally there's a high chance of some type of subdued inner trauma anger or resentment. This is due not being able to understand the unfairness & unwarranted attacks for no fault. This makes one edgy & vary of similar situations for loved ones. The tough exterior never covers up for the broken inside. I had some experiences though not as tough as yours & wanted to just run away & live on a farm. Though neither could I afford it & had responsibilities too as I am the only child of my ahed parents. I seeked help. I took therapy. I did past life regression to understand the pattern of my karma & my thoughts. It took me around 3 years. Its never easy. Self love care & forgiveness to oneself for being harsh are not easy. Later after therapy I got married to my therapist. And are very happy together. ❤ Therapy taught me to be proud of myself & just be me . See the reasons & deal with them. Also nothing happens without a reason. Somehow my parents were not very supportive & very conservative. I had a lot of guilt for getting irritated at them. Today we are better. My dad passed away during COVID & we had a peaceful completion. We take care of mom. I also completed a masters & a phd. You are a beautiful sensitive soul. You are the best you. ❤
I agree. I did get counseling while filling and going through divorce and helped me a lot, specially identifying the abuse and getting out of the cycle it also helped me be able to separate my relationship with him vs my kids’ relationship with him but I did not continue it and it would have been nice if I did to over come the trauma. But I think now I don’t get that much triggered but the recent communication and meetings made me triggered but I am so thankful to have a partner like Richard who hears me out and help me navigate my feelings.
I am so glad to hear this. ❤ Richard is your soulmate you both look so complete with your angels. You are a tough lady that's why you are so positive & not vengeful. In case you want to continue your counselling online do let me know. I will ask my husband. We are always happy to be of any assistance. For genuine people like you ❤
Ekdom khoma korbe na eishob faltu lok gulo ke amio thik tomar moton katiyechi ekjon toxic loker shathe ki shojjo Kori ni mardhor galagali everything though amar kono child nei from my first marriage...ekhon onek Shanti te achi after divorce with my second husband...ei lokta will try to be pally with you again but don't give him any chance to do the same... love you a ton Tina di from Kolkata ❤❤
Wishing anaira's speedy recovery.. tomar difficulties bujhte parchi rumela. Jaar jonno tomar bad past, taake abar face korle taar sob nongramo gulo ek ek kore mone porte thake.. jaak, bachha der jonne etao tolerate korte hobe tomake, so look after your mental health.. ar ki bolbo.. bhalo thako, sustho thako tomra sobai❤❤❤
Praying for Anaira's speedy recovery 🙏👍 Co parenting korte parcho, eta shune valo laglo but yes tomar pokkhe oi 10yrs er domestic violence bhola really khub tough, ami bujhi seta... Ami always pray kori je tumi Richard Jiju sathe, jijur familyr sathe je vabe ekdom mile mishe acho, and with four kids, shob kichu jeno always smoothly chole tomar life e. Aar kono koshto jeno tomay pete na hoye❤❤❤❤ coz tumi amar khub khub kacher manush, always feeling like my Soul sister❤❤❤❤ love u and love u all🤩🥰🥰😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks sister. Hoyeto 10 yrs er abuse ta tao bhulte pari but when I tried to leave him and file for divorce amar name ja ja nogra miththe boleche ar amake bodnam korar jonno jaja shorojontro koreche she gulo bhola shotti oshombhob.
@@rumelasworld yes yes I can understand that. Shotti janina ki bolbo ami...eta bolbo present life and future life vebe shundor kore egiye cholo sis tumi jerom egoccho....amra tomar sathe achi , chilam and thakbo. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi Rumela. Please take care of yourself and take some rest. Last kichu vlogs e tomay tired mone hochche r chokher kol tao bose geche... please don't mind bollam bole.... Take care and take love...❤ From Dumdum Kolkata...
Boo আমি gopadi From নন্দিনী abasan একটা suggestion দিছি----তুই কোনোদিন কোনোভাবেই কোনোমতে রিচার্ড কে ছেড়ে দিবি না, রিচার্ড এর মতো ছেলে স্বামী পাওয়া সৌভাগ্য এর বিষয়, অকারণে অত্যাচার যে করে সে ঠিক তখনই নিজেকে পাল্টানোর একটা নাটক তৈরী করে performance দেয় যাতে তোর এই songsar টা আবার ভেঙে যায় , তোর মা বাবা ভালো আছেন, kakimar সাথে কথা হয় আমার , তুই খুব talented Exclusive মেয়ে Self and family r progress নিয়ে এগিয়ে যা , আমি আমার ছোটো nonod and আমার কিছু friends তোর subscriber , Go with ur flow don't stop Don't look back কিছু পুরুষ মানুষ samne মানুষ ভিতরে জানোয়ার এদের বাবা মা এর শিক্ষা হল বউ পেটানো Love u Boo and love ur entire family ❤😊
Thank you Gopa di but ex husband er shathe co parenting er shathe Richard ke chara ki shomporko? Oke keno charte jabo? Amar r Richard er bond onek strong I am really lucky to have a partner like him it’s not easy to break us up and I am not worried about that but oi r ex ekhon eto shwabhabik act korche as if he never did anything wrong to me and I am getting triggered and amar purono kotha mone pore jache . I am glad I get to share my feelings with Richard and he is there to help navigate my feelings.😊
@@rumelasworld খুব সুখী thak যে যা করেছে তার শাস্তি Vogoban দেবেন তোর বাচ্চাদের জন্য এবং Richard and in laws Der শুভেচ্ছা জানাই জামাই Soshthi সরস্বতী পুজো videos Khubbbb enjoy করি সেই chottttto Boo আজ সম্পূর্ণ নারী Radhe radhe
I shared in this video itself that’s what I was saying. Anyways she had a lazy eye since birth also known as ptosis which was corrected 😊 and thank you for the wishes really appreciate it ❤️❤️
Tomar mood ta aj kharap lagchilo .tumi eta vabo j tumi notun jibon peye khusi acho...amar moto lokjn to husband onner sathe extreme relationship e ache ,janar por o tader sathe thakte hochhe for thinking about kids need of their father....more over u kw Indian family,and society..sob vebe sob jeneo aksathe tader sathe thaka kotota chap vabo...tomay dekhe ami ontoto vison strength pai..tai tumi mood off korona pls..
Hi Rumela! By any how have you been enacted in any CID episode back in India. As I was watching CID old episodes and I just saw same kind of face of yours in an episode. Please reply me I am curious😊
Didibhai tmr vlog khub bhalo lage amr........amora r birth r age theke porjonto dekhchi...❤❤❤❤akta kotha ask kori Samaira ki job kire ????? Kichu mind koro koro na pls.....😊
Thank you. Mind korar ki ache ami to vlog ei share korechi je o fast food restaurant e chashier er job kore. Ekhane 15 years holei part time job kora jaye 😊
Didi vai akta kotha bolbo tomar x husbend to samayra ar anayra sathe azayra ar amora keu dinner a niye jete pare because there are also kids ,rechid jodi samayra ar anayra k ato valobase tini jokhon aschen 4 te bacha keu niye jete pare
Richard er shathe oder ja relationship that can’t be same as Amora and Anaira’s relationship with my ex. Richard is their step father and he is not related to my other two daughters in any way so he doesn’t have to have a relationship with them . Ami nijeo comfortable hotam na.
Amar ex er version ex e debe oke to keu dhore bedhe rakheni. Video gulo to public, onno version hole nishchoi chup kore thakto na. Hopefully nijer dosh realize korei change hoyeche but you never know.
@SonaliDe-vk7ul mane she je bouke petaye eta keu she share korte chaibe na tai na? Apnio bhalo thakben and wish I can understand your situation to understand why are you so dumb? 😄
@@rumelasworld seta to apni bolcchen ..apnake mone hoy na apni sudhu petani kheyechen ...i wish apni anar moto life katate parten ..it would have been a dream come true for u ... touchwood 🧿
@@SonaliDe-vk7ul je pitiyeche tar bepare bolchi so miththe hole she to mukh khultei pare tai na shetai to normal ? Kintu mukh khulbe ki kore eto proof ,eto lok shakhi o ache of his violent behavior and physical abuse towards me so kon mukhe ki bolbe?? Ar hyan ami khali maar khawar moto person na joto bar mereche police dekechi, jail e pathiyechi, therapy te pathiyechi, chere chole gechi and ultimately divorce diye diye actually living a dream life tai bodhoye apnar eto appotti. Nijer life e focus korun you can make your dreams come true too.
Exactly what do you think I miss about him? Or maar, galagali, controlling behavior, khit khit, mejaj, ragaragi, jhogra, annoying personality, egulor modhe thik ki miss kori bole mone hoye ? Specially when I am married to an amazing man like Richard??
