This movie reminded me of how we even treat Jesus. For many believers, we only seek after the hands of Christ but we are not committed to knowing His heart. On the other hand the film also reminded me of what my mother would always say. Do not collect any guys gift especially if you are aware that he is showing interest and you are not interested. Be very careful because the matter can become problematic. Well sadly some women are in the habit of collecting gifts even when they don’t have interest in the guy. It’s not good. If you don’t like the person, leave him or her alone. This short film is packaged with lessons 🥁👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Good point with our relationship with Jesus. In this case hein, we are aware of the love of the Lord and with the fact that he is interested in us. When someone bring on the table clearly his intentions, you can now tell him, I can't accept this or that. Destiny helpers exist, they can be from the opposite sex with no intention. This mentality of thinking that because you gave me something I didn't ask for we are in a relationship is weird. What if I just accept your gift because, I don't want to hurt you. And as I practice the law of honor, I say thank you with a smiling face even if I don't like your gift. I understand the message and I appreciate it...
@@sovchristsed7471 : I also understand your point. Yes, just because you accept someone’s gift doesn’t mean you have to necessarily be in a relationship with them. I actually loved when the woman asked the man “If he asked her out”. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Brothers, stop giving sisters gifts 🎁 without letting them know the intention behind the gifts. Sisters stop collecting gifts 🎁 from brothers for no reason, do not be materialistic.
I remember when this happened to me.Guess what ,I ended up dating the guy (plz don't judge me)I fooled myself to believe that I was in love, but I was in love with the gifts he bought me.Ladies may God help us to be wise. Lest we become victims of things that could have been avoided.
If guys is interested in a lady, he should come out and say it, buying her gifts is not the right way of passing the message across. The lady may end up, not been interested in you. On the other hand, ladies should learn how to define relationship by asking questions. Don't take things for granted
This is a great message! Please do the most common one oh. There are guys who do this gift, lunch, dinner, drop off here and there, then the girl will be thinking that they are dating, until he announces engagement to another sister. he will say he never asked her out.
Exactly!!!!!! Then why were you doing it. Let’s be guided and ask questions ohhh. May we never fall into the wrong hands and May our hearts not be be broken in JESUS NAME Amen. LORD JESUS please help us.
But also brothers If you love someone tell them always remember that love does not fear We also need to take note of the people who keep bringing gifts we should question every gift people give us yet they have not told us anything
A good message for singles. But men should their mouth to ask a lady out before assuming and you that is a lady collecting gift should ask a man, all these gifts what are they for. Me, I did it during my younger days and it helped me.
They are both wrong. The guy didn’t communicate his intentions before showering her with impressions and she didn’t question his motives through all of his was doings…she just sat there and received. This is why women get bad names, no one is stupid, if someone is gifting you and serving you, obviously it’s your job to investigate and assess the situation to avoid misunderstandings and before someone gets hurt. don’t receive any gifts, don’t accept dates for lunch and dinners, if you don’t care to do some evaluations…she was greedy and materialistic, these situations reveals our hearts. The guy on the other hand was never a good person, he tried to buy her and was disappointed; a normal person would just leave her alone and move on…but he attempted to rape her. It’s sad that these are not only skits, but real everyday life happenings. Get it together ladies. And if you’re a guy, don’t try to impress women to trap them like bait; pursue someone you’re interested in with wisdom and understanding…if it doesn’t go your way, move along, no one owes you their life and body because you buy gifts…THINK SOUNDLY (how can two walk together “unless” they agree!?”).
The onus was on both of them. Most men communicate their desire first, the lady should have also asked. People don't just do this like that oh except you be their shild. If someone is not your father or mother and is doing all these, berar be sober and vigilant. Secondly, I have been hearing this issue with women and their mouths but Godly women should be different. You need God's wisdom. You should never tell anyone what they can't change about themselves. How can you tell a man that he is short or his lips are black or he is not your type. That information should be kept confidential between you and God if God is asking you to go ahead. It hurts and the impression is that men can handle it. It is foolishness to say some things. For example, some people tell their spouses that they are not attracted to them. Why not try to solve the problem. Buy the person a perfume or clothes. Just do what you like to see in them if you are married. Don't just be talking talking talking. Man or woman, you can kill or make alive with your tongue. I remember the woman that told her husband that she was no more on the same level with him after he sponsored her through College for nursing. He killed her. Be careful, some men, their anger is terrible and can be ignited by words. Watch your words please.
Thanks for this movie, it's full of messages. This happens a lot among brethren in the fellowship. Always define your relationship from the beginning. Sisters, stop leading brothers on. Likewise brothers, when you know you are not interested in any relationship. May God bless your ministry the more. Amen.
Thank You Sir for this, I really appreciate it. This is actually about me, But thank you because this is a big lesson for me. Thank you very much Sir/ Ma, may God bless you Both.
I pray God gives me wisdom on how to raise my daughter cause girls are carried away by things they can afford to buy themselves if they work hard it's the reason our parents educate us or the reason different trades are introduced to both men and women so I wonder why someone always wants to be given something instead of struggling to get them. Don't get something you can't give back expect when it's from your husband. I grew up from a humbly family and was raised by a single parent but I thank my dad for teaching me to be content with what I have and to always work hard to get what I desire and never to expect anything from anyone cause those things are not more valuable than me. Let's give ourselves some value
Even if a guy buys me cookies, I will ask questions. It is always good to define your relationships, especially with the opposite sex. "I am not your type, but my gift is your type", lol very funny.
@@ednaa4382For me I always ask questions. I make my own intention clear(I can say I feel like this relationship is getting too intimate for friendship, I don't feel comfortable about it so I want us to create some boundaries). If I don't like the guy I limit how often we talk and what we talk about.
This guy have suffer o. "You are not my type" 😂 The day l realised that when a lady call you "dear" it means she has her hands in your wallet. It took me 5 years to learn that wisdom.
Thankyou for always providing us with spiritual information that helps us to be confident in the spirit in terms of dealing with spiritual matters 🙏 God bless you and increase your territories
Wooow, what a blessing. My ladies this story is so true, I just recently had to end a similar relationship. Upon telling him severally my mind about not being interested in him he still showed gifts on me like something. I had to disconnect myself from him and now he's so vexed at me that he won't even respond to a harmless good morning from me. I thank God for saving me ooohh. And my gents, don't try to use gifts to win ladies Over, just man up and say what you have to say. If she bounces you, she has lost a good man not you.🤷🤷
Hmmmm great lesson for all. This reminded me of my experience some years back while still single. Got recharge gifts from two different persons I suspected are having interest in me even without saying it..... Me I was not having any leading towards them and I didn't want any issue. I returned their gifts oooo. I politely apologised to them, ask them to use it that I can't accept it. After a long period of time they revealed their intentions by proposing, I freely turned it down without any guilt cos I owed them nothing. So it became my standard and rules then. No gift from any male..... One had to pass through my roommate on campus to send me gifts when I was sick, I was mad with her for collecting them.... And I kept to my rules on gifts strictly till I got married.... That line I drew was really a life saver. Today am glad I made the right choice in marriage cos gifts has a capacity to blind you to make wrong choices.
I concur! Men have to articulate themselves. I see nothing wrong with what the sister did however attempting to take the last gift after abruptly rejecting the guy was uncalled for.
Man of God my amazement is not only how educative your videos are to some of Us starting ministry. God bless you but my amazement is how you train them, they act professionally better than a lot of these half naked actors
If you are the one that is doing business and you are investing inside your company and you are not profiting how will you feel... lol very funny... thank you for this video
😂😂 Frankiiiee thank you for teaching "us" the act of giving But u too 😂😂 make ya intentions known. As for us "tax collectors" ...and "spec" dictator machines
