Who wants oysters on a first date anyway? And she’s sitting there recording the entire time while on a date? Man that dude was smart to walk out. I would’ve left mid way through.
He was being savvy, making sure she stuff herself like the whale she is. Wanted her to enjoy herself because he was gonna enjoy himself when he didn’t have to pay for her gluttony.
@@darkpisces8125 well.... The guy initially thought it was a date. But she said on camera, "this guy has been talking to himself for weeks" she finally answered his texts because she was bored. It was a food call to her. She was not interested in him at all. You out with a guy you are not and never will be interested in, is that a date?
@@ksmith1298 that sad thing is that it is real. People have become that selfish and pathetic. Tho personally I'm not surprised. Humans have always been selfish greed and murderous. It's why so many wars happen.
@@sgt_slobber.7628I agree that the way to eat oysters is by slurping them, but cmon, the way she was doing it was exaggerated and dramatic, with the sole purpose of being as irritating aa can be.
@@glennquagmire1747 That guy was smart enough to know that he was not only going to be stuck w/ the Bill, but not get any nookie after the date!!!!!;);)
Reminds me of a girl I ditched years ago at a Red Lobster. She intentionally got there an hour early and started ordering drinks for herself. Then she ordered a big ass sampler platter for dinner AND ordered another meal to go, expecting me to pay for it all. I gave the waitress enough money to cover my order plus a tip and left. I got some very angry texts from her as I drove home with a smile on my face.
Just curious, how exactly did you give the waitress the money without it being noticed or intercepted? Did you get up, walk over to the waitress at a different part of the restaurant and hand her the money, then leave?
@@Andrewsky347 Oh, I ditched her to her face. When I got the bill and saw that she ordered drinks before I arrived and ordered a to-go meal (apparently when she went to the bathroom), I just pulled $25 cash out of my wallet and told the waitress that was for my meal and my soda, and everything else was her order.
If a guy takes you out for drinks, you get drinks and maybe a little appetizer! Not a massive meal! And the fact that she recorded the whole date really shows the type of person she is. 🤦♀️
As soon as she broke out the camera, the date would have been over. But just based on the way she talks, it would have never happened in the first place.
If he takes you out dor drinks why even the appetizer? Wasn't it for drinks? I made this mistake once. Met a woman for coffee. She ended up ordering a meal and desert while I sat there like a dumbass drinking coffee. I ghosted her immediately
I’ve been with my husband for over a decade. I still ask him whether it’s okay if I order more drinks. We have the money. But I respect the fact that it’s his money I’m dining on most of the time. Can’t even imagine the entitlement of someone like this when they don’t even really know the person.
I’m glad my man gave her the equality she wanted. I absolutely DESPISE her attitude. I swear she showed up because she thought it was a free meal and she had no intentions of moving forward with a relationship.
@@thruyouhow is it not "ridiculously obvious" to you that a ton of "women" are this way? If you say otherwise I FEAR the next man who gets hexed by you 😢
@@GraveMemories oh, so it's cool to make false reports about it? I think you're indirectly giving credit to this woman for raising awareness about how people _can_ act. It just didn't happen here.
She said at the start of the video that he'd been texting her for months but she had kept turning him down. He clearly had to see her pigging out and recording herself doing it before he finally got the hint that she never liked him and was trying to sucker him in to pay for all her food and drinks because she knew he was desperate. Some people have issues with taking "No" for an answer. At least he finally got the hint but it took him long enough.
She wasn't paying attention to him anyway. He didn't even finish his drink, that's how badly he wanted to get out of there. A woman without class, not worth the bother.
Girls in the 90’s had to do everything cook,clean,be quiet,not have an opinion and was basically seen objects lol.Girls are way nicer than boys these days lol.
When I was dating, I had one cardinal rule that I always followed when a man asked me out for dinner. I NEVER ordered anything that cost more than that person was ordering for himself. I assumed that he was ordering something that he could afford so I stuck with that same amount for what I ordered for myself. BTW, if someone asks you out "for drinks" you get a drink. You do not get four plates of probably the most expensive entree on the menu. Also, if he only orders one drink for himself, I think common courtesy would dictate that you only order one drink also. I always tried to follow the Golden Rule which is "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you" and if I invited someone out, I wouldn't want that person to buy some budget-busting amount of food so I will not do that either. I'm gonna go way out on a limb here and bet that this woman doesn't get asked out for many second dates and I was delighted to see that this guy skipped out and left her there to pay for her own gluttony.
That is so cool. I do pretty much the same exact thing! 😊 It has been my own unwritten rule to follow. I thought I was alone. It's common sense and grace to treat another person with humanity anyways. You wrote it perfectly. Even when told order whatever you want. I still follow that. 💜 Thank you for making me feel not so alone after watching all these crazy uploads lately. 😂 ✌
I'm 44 and I have been eating raw oysters since I was 4 years old and I have never slurped my oysters nor does my husband! There is a reason there is an oyster fork on your tray!
Listening to her speech demonstrates she was low class, not well educated, no social skills, and drops the "F Bomb" with impunity. She'd never get to first base with me. I don't do blind dates either
I remember taking a girl out on a first date. A few of us went together, and we were going out after dinner. We went to a beautiful Chinese restaurant where I knew the owner. The waiter asked her what she would like to drink. Her answer was Champagne but only your most expensive one. I looked at him and said, "Get her a ginger ale. That's all I will pay for her to drink." She got mad at me and said this was a date and I should buy her exactly what she wanted. I laughed, and so did everyone at the table and the ones that heard her. She called me a bunch of names and left. We had a great dinner.
I never get why people get the most expensive thing on dates. I imagine the taste wouldn't be much different than the cheaper champagne. I could be wrong on that part, but I still don't understand their logic.
I’ll take “things that never happened” for $500, Alex. But the bizarre details of calling the Chinese restaurant “beautiful” and mentioning that you knew the owner, for no apparent reason, were nice touches lol.
Yeh its actually crazy Went to a girl's birthday once and it was swarmed with you guest it girls, and after some drinks the hole evening became a trashtalk against men and how they lure guys on dates whenever they wanna go out or get free stuff, these people aint got no morals
I still remember my dates with my husband of 30 years. No phones, no interruptions and getting to know eachother. We still are the same with eachother when we go out or stay home. These women that are like the last two are headed for disaster in their lives. Their priorities are way off base. That leads to a hard fall.
@randallv9719 I grew up at the same time. I love your respect for others and yourself. I follow the same practice all but for the showing I put the phone away. I will now. Thank you for the wonderful suggestion on how to deal with my adult kids.
Hell she probably so cheap she lets men have a go with her for a free drink let alone 20 bucks. I’m not paying 300 bucks for anyone especially when she gives it out for 5 bucks to any random man. With her trashy behavior her body count is well within the hundreds
The worst of it, if she gets so much attention, even negative attention, she will see this going viral as good. She will NEVER take responsibility for her own bad behaviour.
Nasty. Women should NOT expect the man to pay. This isn't the 1940s. First date should ALWAYS be each paying for their own. The level of entitlement in society is astounding. Get over yourself.
Entitlement these days never ceases to amaze me. Don't order so much if you didn't speak with your date beforehand and ask if they were willing. I woulda did the same thing; bro literally said meet for 'DRINKS', not four plates of oysters and more stuff 😂😂
The funny thing is Atlanta dining has gotten more expensive and shittier. Growing up here in the late 90’s and early 2000’s was ATL’s prime for fine dining. My dad was a waiter in the Buckhead area, when they used to have standards… but now? It’s all trash and not even worth it. You really are better going to local businesses run by the small families.
Well...that was fairly disgusting. That woman had no self respect at all. She was disrespectful to her date and ate like a starving dog. Bet he sat there watching that display and knew he could never afford to keep her fed so left
Even if he could, who would want to? I was nauseous watching and listening to her video herself, slurping down all that food. I know sucking them off the shell is part of the process, but have some class. 🤢
Before even going in she wonders why she didn't block him BUT it's ok to go out with him and scam him. Shocking that woman think this is ok. All you hear is her slurping down oyster after oyster and no talking. GOOD for him for taking off, she spent the money she can pay for it.
I have been with my wife for six years. We've been married for a year now. She's five years older than me, but I don't care. She's mature and has a wonderful personality. I still remember our first date. The first date went well. (obviously.) We weren't distracted on our phones and we weren't recording the date. It was a simple date. Dinner and a movie. I didn't spend too much money on the date, and she offered to pay for her share of things (her share of the dinner, her drink, popcorn, soda at the movies, etc) We are happily married now. This woman? .....no. This parasite...deserved what she got. Getting stuck with paying the bill. Good on the man to staying true to paying for what they agreed on in the first place. Just the drinks.
Yeah, I had a first date who chose the restaurant and made reservations without consulting me. I took her there anyway. She asks the server what's the market price on the King Crab legs. Says "Oh, OK! I'll have the crab legs." To which I said, "Only if we're splitting the bill." "But you said you were paying!" "Not for $50/lb crab legs on a first date!" "Take me home NOW." "No." Called her an Uber. She left. I had the crab legs. It wasn't about the $, it was about the principle. Dating gals half my age in my 50's lol, serves me right. Oh, and for gosh sakes, we're on a date, can you please put your phone down and give me your attention, especially if you're expecting me to shell out $50/lb for crab?
So are you dating women closer to your own age now? I get so irritated with men saying they want a "relationship" when what they mean is they want sex.
Serves you right for dating a girl that's old enough to be your daughter. What did you think would happen? She's from a different era than yours. You got nothing to relate to. In her mind, what she did was a-ok because that's normal for *her* generation. Not yours. She's young, immature, brash, hypersexual, she is not looking at you as husband material. Stick with women 45+ since you want an age gap. At least with that, you won't be playing games.
I don’t know how he made it through even her first plate of slurping and smacking. Don’t you know he’s relieved she exposed herself this early on to be the horrible human being she is.
If they went there on a Tuesday, the oysters are $15.00 per plate. So that's $60.00, so she must have considered that her appetizer, to run up a $300.00 tab. Smart move to leave, who could afford her?
Dating culture has become so sophisticated that it's stupid. I get as a man to pay for the date , but if you're doing this ! I condone leaving. Instead of blocking this man and turning him down, you planned to use him disgusting behavior well deserved 👏🏼
Honestly, I always insist on going Dutch for first dates. I clarify before leaving the house. That way everyone can get what they want, what they can afford, and there's no strings attached if they want to leave.
This is one of several reasons why some people just get one first date and no second one. How can people expect to be invited to a 5 star restaurant or to have the other pay several 100 bucks for them? When I would go on a first date I would expect something like a cup of tea, sharing a pizza, having a burger, eating salad, you know? But this is utterly ridiculous.
As someone pointed out somewhere else, she never shows her “date” and the place setting across from her is immaculate. Either she was never on a date or he rightly bailed early Edit: the guy seating them put down two menus, but she could have told him her date would be there later so to bring two menus
I did think it was odd that we couldn't hear him say a thing and there really was no sign whatsoever that he was there. But,... It could also be because she was _solely_ focused on herself and we simply couldn't see or hear him because he just wasn't important enough, to her, to include.
She deserved it…ALL of it! I know for a fact that I have not eaten 48 oysters in my entire life! I am not a fan of oysters & honestly, ridiculously expensive for slime. The way this -woman- creature acted, it’s _obvious_ she got an invitation, that is- she doesn’t have to pay, & opted for the most expensive item at one of the more upscale places. What I don’t understand is, the guy who invited her out for drinks- why on earth would you *_agree to go_* to this place when this creature suggested it?!
Snot in a shell... I feel the same way about oysters. After listening to her talk, I know for a fact I'd never want to spend any time at all in her company. Pure trash.
Hilariously disgusting. She really believes that’s how you’re supposed to eat them, and that it made her look “classy,” when it was the exact opposite.
I would never do that to someone who just took me out to eat, whether it is a date or a family member. That's called doing someone dirty who was nice to you.
I remember seeing this video where it was a girl on a talk show or something. She said she has 3-5 boyfriends at a time and used them for free food. Anytime she was hungry she would message one to go on a date and they would pay for all her food since she was the girl. If any of them finally got tired of always paying and suggested she even help with the tab, she would break up with them and find a new boyfriend to replace him.
I once went out on a first date where he offered to pay (ahead of time because I don't assume a man should pay) but I wasn't that hungry and just got a drink instead. I was more interested in getting to know him then about a meal. He inhaled his food. I just thought he was hungry and waited to talk when he was done but he kept on getting more food. Eventually, the bill came and I thought he might have wanted to talk to me then but all he wanted to talk about was how much they charged at the place. It wasn't a pricey place. The prices were on the menu. When he started to complain about how much my one drink was I said if it's a problem I can pay for my own drink. He said something along the lines of that would be great. I obviously realize he must have not been into me when we met in person but I would think he could have talked to me in between bites. Also, I gave him more than what my drink cost figuring he would put it down for tip but he pocketed the change. I saw how much he put down and it was only $2. I wasnt about to let the poor server get a bad tip so I made up the difference trying to figure out how much the bill was. I didn't see it but I still remember he said my drink cost $10. I was surprised that I got a hug as we parted ways at the end though. He did say we should do this again sometime but I felt like he said it in a sarcastic tone. I was down right shocked when I got a text from him as I was leaving the parking lot saying he had a good time. The whole situation made me not want to continue trying to date. Yes, it could have been worse (and I've been on worse but this reminded me of this video). I definitely understand how guys feel when women just want to date for a free meal. When all they are interested in is the food it feels like shit and very disrespectful. Personally, I would never do that to another person. Also, if he didn't offer to pay for the date ahead of time I probably would have thinking money was tight for him and I can understand that. I just wanted to get to know him better but I think I would have felt even more hurt if that was the case. Oh, and fyi our sever came over and thanked me for giving her a good tip and I apologized on his behalf (he was already by the door at that time). He was very rude to her and was demanding and snapping his fingers at her like she was a dog or something. I still want to think he normally wasn't like that and it was just an act to make me not like him. I seriously hope he wasn't the jerk as he came off as. I just think I wasn't as pretty as he had hoped I would be (even though he saw pics of me before we met).
This man is a donkey 😡 I don't care if you had looked like Shrek, which I'm sure you didn't. He has no manners 😤 Thank you for tipping the waitress since he was a jerk about that, too!
As a former server, if her bill was really $300 or even remotely close to that, I seriously hope she tipped more than $11. But, sadly, I think we can probably guess the answer to that.
After her not looking at her date, slurping aggressively on oysters(🤢🤮, in my book), acting all entitled choosing beggar, and whatnot, KARMA came a knocking!! Force to pay her own bill, date denied by the guy, and ended up single.
She deserved to be ditched with the bill. First of all, that was just absolutely disgusting. Her sitting there slurping like a damned pig. Secondly, Recording the entire disgusting scene. Then eating even MORE on top of that like he somehow agreed to take her to an endless all you can gag on buffet. No wonder she's single, and I'm willing to bet will be for a long damned time.
As soon as the girl takes out her phone I excuse myself to go to the bathroom and don’t come back. Then I turn my phone off. Then she’s blocked & deleted. I’m permanently banned from facecrack, Instagram, and every other social media. I’m working on getting banned from RU-vid, but they won’t ban me for some reason.
I haven't dated in a long time but I always thought it was rude to mess with your phone while on a date. You're supposed to get to know each other not let you followers watch you slurp down your food. I don't hear them talking during this. Just her talking about her food. She deserved it! Im surprised she even noticed he left. She was so consumed with her food.
I could have told you this girl’s ethnicity before I even heard her voice. I’ve seen MANY videos of these entitled witches. I’m glad her date left her with the bill.
I did something similar many years ago. Smartphones were not even a thing. I had a Nokia 3310, AKA the brick. She didn't ordered anything but a soda, but she was the entire time talking on her phone and texting. I mean, almost an hour. I told her I was going to the bathroom with hand signs, she didn't even look at me, and I left. She texted me 30 minutes later, "where are you?". 30 minutes! I replied "home". She replied but I deleted their SMSs without even reading them. She sent like 10 or 12. I didn't care. But yeah, this video is way worse. You know the worst part?: In her mind she did nothing wrong but he was an awful and disrespectful man.
