Today we're gonna be taking a look at a TikTok that went viral recently about a guy who got ghosted and blocked over cheese Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
3 dollars for a slice of cheese. Nah, he's a smart man. That $3 dollars worth of cheese probably saved him from a miserable relationship with her and half of his future earnings.
So you didn't watch the whole video. she made a response video. She said that they are still in contact and they're going in a second date. That he'd psycho like her and they're gonna have fun. So... maybe he's not a smart man.
I have a "former" friend like her. She told me to buy a home with a pool and worry about the expense to maintain it later...Thanks for reminding me why I broke ties with her.
CRAZY. I’m not buying or taking care of shit for nobody especially if they’ve never put in the work for it. T AB you made the right move. Ain’t no girl in this world gone expect me to buy her anything like a fancy car and expecting me to take care of it… HELL to the NO! A real man/woman be responsible for their own personal belongings. No one else’s.
@@reignbeauty395 yes she said. They are going to the 2 date. Imagen 🤔 that??.she is bitch, and complaining about the cheese. and 3 dollars. And then go out with him. Again. What is she going to complain this time??
I think probably the comment that got her was when he said "Wow everything is extra these days". It's not just the $3 cheese, it's that she can tell that he's going to be the kind of person who isn't going to want to pay to experience the finer things in life. She clearly values experiences over material possessions. So it makes sense these two aren't a good fit.
@trollnerd may be, but I'd much rather save to own a home than have $3 cheese on my burgers or $28 glasses of wine. If those things are more important to her, she's in for a rude awakening in life
@@jikook7457 As someone who has purchased a home and also eaten $3 cheese in New York City I can promise you that the reason why people can't afford houses, cars, and other things that were much easier purchases 50 years ago isn't because they're getting $3 cheese on their burgers. There's much more complex economic reasons. This is the boomer cope where they're like "The reason you can't afford a $500,000 house is because you eat Avocado Toast!". Living a little bit and spending $50-100 on a saturday night so your crappy life is just a little bit more fun isn't going to be the difference between buying a house or not.
@trollnerd not sure if ur applying the "boomer code" to me, but ur way off. And i know how economics works. Limited income makes it necessary to spend the funds u do have, wisely. People have had tuition debt, housing costs, low wages, child care, utility expenses, etc for years, so not sure how those things are so "complicated" now. Besides, boomers generally were 1 income families, at $3.25 min wage, making helping their grown children, like many do today, financially impossible
@trollnerd a real life scenario I had with a friend a few years ago. Friend: u and Scott never go out to bars or clubs. U just stay home. That's so boring. Me: we went to the Bahamas, and toured Cali, and Az last year because we didn't go out to bars. I guess it's a matter of priority
She helped the guy get back on the right track to find his true future partner. We need women like this so they can tell us in their own selfish, entitled way, not to pursue them. He dodged a bullet
I agree, I think it was all made up to look like she's just some hot IT girl that could be so petty about choosing bc she just has so many options waiting! There's more to the story I've seen covered & I put it in a comment explaining what I've seen!
$3 for cheese? Here in the UK that’s around £2.50. Will get you a whole pack of cheese with 10 slices which covers your cheese intake for almost a week. Nah, I would have declined the cheese too. Edit: If you’re broke yourself, you of all people should understand why $3 for a slice of cheese is too much. And all you did was “bitch about money” yourself.
She lives the same lifestyle as I have seen in lots of young girls, this day and age. Spend it when or if you have it and cry about not having any money to pay bills later. No thought at all for fiscal responsibility.
I think it's a consequence of a certain fatalism young people have these days. The world is crap, the economy is garbage and their future prospects are not great. They figure they'll be in debt no matter what they do, so they might as well enjoy themselves while they can.
@@Birdbike719 - I suppose age or gender really doesn't apply. Anyone can be anything, I was just pointing our what I had noticed among the groups of people I personally observed. My daughter and her friends all seem to have the same view. if someone tries to save money, they are cheap and should be kicked to the curb. I had an argument with my daughter recently over a xmas gift for my grandson. She felt it was a priority over her car payment. I was blown away with this mindset. My grandson is 4 and couldn't care less how much a toy cost.
I give her like 50% respect on this bc even though her reason is stupid and her voice is annoying she paid for the meal, gave him a reason instead of ghosting and helped our homie dodge a fat bullet.
I give her 0% of my respect bc she is broke and did it only to create sympathy with her decision, not because she really could or should. Would be better to be real and respectful, period.
lol she paid for his meal to humiliate him in her delusional mind. 0 % respect for her, period. btw, giving a reason is normal behaviour, your standards shouldn't be so low to give her credit for that, just bc there are people out there who don't even meet the standards of just acting normal by ghosting without giving a reason.
You're not being a cheapskate Xeno. I love cheese on my burgers and other sandwiches but if a restaurant tries to charge me more than 50 cents, I'm not paying for it. That's rediculous. Like you said, you can get an entire package for $3. I am the same about ranch dressing. Some places charge $1 for a small side ramekin of ranch to dip in. My husband and I get dinner out a couple times a week and spend about $50. We tip 25% too. The majority of the time we get it to go, so I'll just use my own at home. This guy dodged a bullet. She's definitely one of those people that would pay for a sows ear and calls it a silk purse.
Never in my life have I stopped to ask how much a slice of cheese was. I've always ordered a cheeseburger never ordered without cheese. I've never looked at the price. Do you?
When your order a cheeseburger the price of the cheese is included in the price you see in the menu ! But if I take an hum burger (maybe it’s a place with a lot of different kind of burger who probably come without cheese)so if I take a special humburger and don’t come with cheese for sure I would ask how much it is extra !! It’s the same thing if you take a plate who come with French fries and you want instead a poutine or a salad we gonna ask how much extra I need to pay and some restaurant are really really overpriced their stuff
@J Miller one thing nice about getting older is you just don't care to have disgusting, entitled people around you. You just walk away. No assho*es allowed.
I hope she knows she can delete her tik tok account and come back to a reality were a tik tok account aint needed. I can see her reaction video were she talks about her being fired.
If this is her biggest issue, not ordering cheese and not only lying but snuck out on her date….is just sad but expected these days with dating. Not even surprised in the slightest
I'm glad you mentioned she was probably lying about going on a 2nd date with this guy because that's what I was thinking. She is not financially responsible and is looking for attention. If she truly ghosted this guy and blocked him, she's got issues for sure and he is free of that one. I had a business as a professional organizer a few years back before I hurt my knee and couldn't do it anymore. But I still run a page on FB with tips. One of those tips is to NOT buy packaged grated cheese or the slices. It's cheaper to buy a block of cheese as you get more product for the money and you can slice it and grate it yourself. I also tell folks to NOT buy coffee out. Get a cheap coffee maker and a thermos and take your own coffee to work and save a ton of money. New York or not, $3.00 for a slice is just stupid.
They want demonstrations of what you will burn down over being with them, and they want it up front and by default. That's what an elaborate wedding is too by the way: it's her forcing you to light a huge pile of money on fire, in worship of her.
The thing I don't understand is it was HIS burger. Why in the ever-loving-fuck would she care at all what he gets on his burger in the first place? She's demonstrating her insanity with this shit.
He definitely dodged a bullet with this one. Like you, I would never pay 3 or 4 dollars for a slice of process cheese. This here shows how screwed up some people are. She doesn't get it. Obviously money is important to her. The guy is right, now they charge for everything. I'm surprised we don't pay for ice in our drinks.
They want people to get ice so they'll have less of the actual drink in their glass/cup. That's why ice doesn't cost extra. People would otherwise often skip the ice and get more drink instead (talking about sodas and such). Why they don't charge for ice if there's unlimited refill, though... Just don't give them ideas. 😂
It sounded like this sad, pitiful, loser was just begging for sympathy when, in reality, she brought all that debt to herself and nobody's gonna feel sorry for her! At the end of the day, that's just another red flag to point out when ppl are starting to date! 💯
She'll be broke in the second, third, fourth and fifth place too. Someone you really want to settle down into bankruptcy with. She's not rich or high maintenance, just financially irresponsible and I don't think that will ever change. Who wants to step up and save her? She can spend your resources just as badly as her own and then you too can be in debt.
My wife, who I love to pieces and who loves me to pieces, when she was first dating me, noted that I had a very measured approach to money. I liked value and quality, and I liked making sure I got a fair price. She told me later on this literally turned her on, that I was cautious with my money, while still being willing to get good things, when it made SENSE to do so. So this king should continue turning down $3 cheese upsells, and find himself a woman worthy of him.
She's literally explaining that she wants a man who makes poor financial decisions, she literally said buy it and worry about the money later, he'd be in debt in a year if they'd ended up together. A man who is smart with money and still wants to treat you is a catch.
I would never pay $3.00 for a slice of cheese no matter who I was dating!🤣😂🤣Would steer clear of this woman. And how the hell are they still going out if she blocked him!
Being from a time before the moon landing, until a few years ago I felt a little sad when considering my age. But lately I'm glad I grew up and lived in a time where people didn't live every minute of their lives in public (online) and gossip was pretty much reserved for the women in hair salons and at their neighbors fences...
It's not even this age group that I worry for. It's the middle schoolers having their worst moments immortalized. Can't imagine If most of my puberty was filmed for mass consumption.
You can get Kraft American cheese singles (24 in a pack,) for under 5.00 ( USD) at Walmart. So your gonna pay 3.00 for one slice! No way ! The man was smart…. Stay safe, stay sane, stay strong Ukraine 🇺🇦
I swear to god tik tok had went from people doing dances and doing creative stuff online to people complaining about their lives. Same thing with twitch went from a gaming platform to e-girls and hot tubs.
I think it’s disgusting how they upload their stupid, meaningless problems! So many real problems going on in the world! The sad thing is she probably doesn’t realize how stupid she appears!
I now can get all the cheese I want on my burger. But back when I was in my 20s, I needed to budget. It was very rare when I could splurge. A man has to get to that point before we can receive the finer things in life. If a girl can't see that, then it's her lost. My wife go to high-end restaurants at least 2x a week now because we can. But we were misers and spend thrifts in our 20s.
My mom does the same thing at drive thrus and refuses to pay the 50c extra. So now when she asks if it’s extra I just tell her no mom they give away free cheese 🤷🏼♀️. Back when cheese was included she never noticed the price increase!
If it was just "cheese," I could understand the additional price increase, but they don't leave it at just cheese. I stopped ordering Whoppers at BURGER KING decades ago the day I'd learned that they had since implemented charging extra for all of the other veggie toppings that they used to add for free -- and considering how many people request "no pickles," "no tomato," "no onion," etc. on their Whopper sandwiches, it wasn't like increasing the amount of these items onto a sandwich for somebody who'd wanted them was going to cut negatively into their profit margins any.
I'd never pay $3 for cheese and frankly I'd be impressed with the man for turning down the $3 cheese and be more attracted to him because he's RESPONSIBLE
She is appalling. She should have gotten the message that he's watching the cost when she ordered branzino, which is hugely expensive, and he ordered a burger which is not. He's entitled to spend his money anyway he wants to. I've been on both sides of this type of situation and it's okay. I wonder if her family knows what a richard she is?
SMH, so she gonna talk about how broke she is because she's a student. Makes terrible financial choices and Block him because he made a financial decision in front of her. if that was the dude she blocked he can do WAY better.
I went on a date with a woman I met in a lift years ago, and since the alcohol in the local bars is usually quite pricey, I purchased a bottle of brandy and brought it along. I purchased a Coke, which I blended under the table. She wasn't awestruck. We stopped communicating, chuckling.
Imagine refusing to pay $3 for a single slice of cheese, then imagine getting mad and paying for both meals and ditching over a this refusal and the burger isn’t even your meal 😂
the poor that guy that ends up with her is going to be a doormat no one else would want to deal with her. She needs a man that craves being told what to do.
While I don’t disagree completely with her views on eating out, she’s kind of a walking contradiction. A slice of cheese is “only” $3 & she’s ok with paying for the entire meal…then makes a video about how she’s broke & has a credit card debts?! Yes, eating out is a luxury & I do believe everyone should enjoy a meal out every now & then, even with money troubles. But somehow, I think she’s one of those who thinks “oh it’s ok, it’s just $20”…do it five times & there goes $100 down the drain & now she’s wondering where her hard earned money went…how is she going to pay for rent, utilities & other bills?!
If she's an unpaid intern, then she should understand how outlandish it is to pay $3 for one slice of cheese. Also if she's unpaid, how can she afford to go to a wine bar and drink a $15 glass of wine?
This guys had a very lucky escape ! She's horrible ! And having the audascity telling the world about it, It's a good thing really as it's a document for the next guy to look up to see what he's getting into
"I make really bad financial decisions, like paying for over priced cheese!" My man came out on top with this one! He got a free meal in NYC and dodged the further attention of a completely cringe person who is operating entirely outside of reality lol.
My grandparents are multi millionaires, and they agree 3 bucks for one slice of cheese is ridiculous. People can date who they want, or not date who they want, for any reason whatsoever. I just personally think some people focus on tiny things that don’t mean what they think they mean. Maybe a portion of “being broke” can be attributed to her not worrying about prices for fear of looking like the status she is. Many of us are struggling in this economy, I think it’s a lot more honest, and actually refreshing to not fake it for a date.
I watch your channel often ASF, multiple times a week and even a day. My freaking MOTHER was watching this video earlier when I heard your voice I started laughing went in the room and was like no way this is xenoshot 😭😂😂
Considering he thought he was going to pay for both meals, I think he has the right to decide how much money decides to spend when ordering his own food. And what if he planned on using that 3$ to tip instead? I swear, this lady is nuts.
As an upper middle class woman who has worked hard to get where I am, I will spend lavishly on some things - and be frugal with others. It’s my preference. I will splurge on experiences and be frugal about material things. My partner is the opposite. He would spend $300+ on shoes, but skimp on cheese. Alternatively, I’ll spend $300+ on an extravagant meal, but don’t want to spend over $50 on shoes! Everyone is entitled to do what they want with THEIR money. This woman is just dramatic and entitled! To add onto that though, she isn’t a gold-digger. A gold digger would’ve ordered the most expensive thing anyways and made him pay and then blocked him later. People throw around the word gold digger without knowing what it means. The whole point of a gold digger is to gain access to and use someone ELSE’s money - typically someone who is in a higher financial class. A “gold digger” wouldn’t have paid the entire tab for both of them. That makes zero sense and defeats the definition of the word. I just hate when people use words incorrectly when they clearly have no idea what they mean.
She made the video for attention but didn't like the attention she got. What was she expecting? A load of SJWs telling her to GO GURL? She deserved the backlash she got. I don't believe she is seeing the guy again. Why would he agree to that when she walked out on him and blocked him? Also any new potential dates can see the video and know what she is like. She told on herself. So stupid.
