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This is how you handle kids who do this stuff. I'm so tired of seeing kids being brats on tv, the parents wanting it to end, and not taking the easiest route, tanning the child's hide.
I would like you to share so scientific back up so that we have proof . And I quote ' Children who are abused physically can develop child traumatic stress. They are also at risk for depression and anxiety. Children of all ages, races, ethnicities, and socioeconomic backgrounds are at risk for physical abuse. Children ages 0-3 are most susceptible to physical abuse and serious injuries.' This was written in an article written by the health hospital on child abuse.This was written in an aritcle by WHO violence against childern ' Impair brain and nervous system development. Exposure to violence at an early age can impair brain development and damage other parts of the nervous system, as well as the endocrine, circulatory, musculoskeletal, reproductive, respiratory and immune systems, with lifelong consequences.' And if you say I turned out fine then I suggest readung the aritcle written by CAWC on why people normalize the abuse but to summarize Although recognizing behavior as abusive is an important first step to ending violence, there is a problem when abuse becomes so casual that it undermines real pain caused. Talking about abuse in a lighthearted way not only normalizes a toxic behavior, but further devalues what a survivor goes through.I hope you do your own research and provide proof. Sending nothing but love❤.And quick tip please start learning about phycology . You should watch phyce2gos videos on parenting and truma
It's not a route you should take just because it's the "easiest". Parents shouldn't choose to parent in the easiest way possible. Each child and situation can call for something different. Your goal should be to do what's best for the child in the specific situation, not to do what's easiest
I agree and disagree because sometimes that really is the only option, it's not illegal yet surprisingly, and you don't even need to use a belt or anything like that if you don't want to. And depending on who you ask it is and isn't abuse, and parents do it all the time to their kids anyway and there's always a chance it could and couldn't work and no kid is the same so no one can really out right say it's gonna screw up your relationship with them. especially because some kids can just understand while some can't and others won't hold it against you, plus there's the whole thing that most people after they become an adult won't give a shit and most likely will or won't do it to their kids too so yeah. I mean I can see how it can be a little cruel they are still a kid after all, but if we put that same logic to adults I guarantee people would be waaay nicer but the truth is it's just an affective punishment regardless of studies that say otherwise again not all kids are the same results with always vary, hell sometimes it's just something you gotta do because If you put them somewhere else there's no clue what the adults are doing to them that could be way worse. Hell sometimes they'll be more aggressive than you would. The problem with spanking or whooping or beating whatever you'd call it, is that because most of the time it happens behind closed doors and people don't like to talk about it, it can sound or look way worse than it actually is. Like in my case I can technically say my experience was and wasn't uncalled for because sometimes it just wouldn't make sense but other times it would. Plus if you are gonna spank your kids or something like that best to start early because if you randomly start doing it after they did something that's more likely to damage your relationship with them than if you just were doing it to begin with
@@LexitaMai Um if you think spanking your child is easy then you really should rethink that. Now as to over complicating raising children, it isn't supposed to be easy but it's not supposed to be that hard either. Spank them when they need one, correct and praise them when they need it, and that's what he means by it should not be that hard, and the easiest way to teach them through pain. Talking doesn't work, grounding doesn't work, and doing the necessary thing is always the best. If parents wanted easy then they would let their child do whatever and that's what many do.
did you know spanking a child can lead to anger issues, depression, & PTSD when they grow up it also causes them not to love you and to even associate you with bad things like pain
Wrong. That's just abuse if anything. He'd punishing her and that would not lead to such thing's. Everything you've said don't even clarify to the video being Everything you said was misplaced. Abuse, isolating a child, ignoring there needs and never loving them , or the fact of beating and cussing at your child . These are all that can make a child never try to want to be with a parent and such if they receive no love then they will probably not try to ...what you described was just a ridiculous notion from a Google search that absolutely wasn't ever proven or made no sense at all. Punishing a child by a spanking won't kill them, make them hate you, being Every child in the family I've had each gone through what you described and they still love they mother. Heck even I went through it and I don't hate them. Nor am depressed by it nor any such things. And to make this even more strongly. Got people I know who don't go by the stuff you iust mentioned, those are only true to stupid kids who can't even appreciate they parents. This girl is a brat that deserves this so quite honestly all this sound so pointless.
@@escanorlionsin9211 Actually this was tested in studies and proven that is why in man places it is illegal to spank a child plus there are other ways to punish a child without hurting them or causing them extreme discomfort
@@billsloan and I'm living proof it is true I feel unsafe around my parents because of it and I hate being around them I still love them but I feel scared and unsafe of course we are different people but the same is with kids some may not care and others will want their parents dead because of it I was one of those kids but I don't anymore and I feel as my feelings were 100% valid
@@BloodyKnife_Official From reading this you sound single with no children to speak of. There's nothing traumatizing or aftereffects of breaking a child to the point they just don't want to see you to that extent , punishment or spankings won't kill you nor will it leave you to what you described. Yeah , nawl , there is more then a million children and people in this world who tell a different story. Again you aren't eveb putting any facts all you are telling me that people experimented and it was successful to the extent to show a child not even wanting to see they parent. That's just one child , people are different when it comes to such thing's and you don't know what you are talking about so stop trying to act like it. In what part of town are u talking about that keeps a parent from punishing they child? Don't know where you live at or where you seen all this but you're very much mistaken, not sure whats happening at home I need to hear from you but wherever you at , I ain't gonna believe it cuz you can't even show proof all you are doing is giving off lofty info that can't even be seen as proof. Again, there is any sort of punishments that can be dished out and there is nothing wrong with it, you ain't beating your child you are teaching them a lesson, I would understand beating them in a abusive relationship which should not be tolerated but spanking them to keep them from acting like ignorant adults and stupid and in general delusional then they need that for there character development. So Again and lastly. Don't bring bs to me unless you are gonna bring and deliver boy.
"Spare the rod, spoil the child." There was a certain amount of wisdom in that old saying. Not that it excuses REAL physical abuse (And don't pretend that you don't know what I mean by that!) but sometimes a good smack in the butt is the ONLY way you can get through to some kids. It was true in my case and I'd guess it's true in more than one case of people reading these words. Children are born savages and it's up to the parents to civilize them. A lot of the carnage we see today is the result of failures to do so. Sure, this film is a comedy but remember for comedy to work it's got to have a grain of truth to it!
Y'know to me I think "spare the rod" is so hard to interpret because it doesn't necessarily mean to hit someone it just means punishment in general, like I'm pretty sure it says something like that in the bible, specific sparing the rod is an act of non love because your not punishing, but I don't think it means to out right hit someone because punishments go either way. The only time I'd say anyway that it's ok to punish a kid like that is if it was something really really bad like either illegal or they break something really important like safety wise like windows or if other punishments just don't work, because we all know putting them somewhere else is most likely gonna get them hit anyway and probably in a more abusive way than if you just do it without it being abusive.
I guess the dumbest depiction of corporal punishment I've seen in movies, was in some British 50's exploitation flick, where in the very final scene the teenage kid is about to go to jail, and the Canadian stepfather steps in (haha) to do his business, and the kid suddenly turns super scared. Just felt like a cheap concession to the conservative older generation. If it would have helped to begin with, it was way too late at that time.
@@michaelbarnhart2593 Popular movies were never completely realistic, anyway. Before they were released, they would have seen a lot of changes from the original script for a variety of reasons.
