This is what happens yet again when you post too much information about your life on social media. The ex husband responded to a video of a single mom making a cake for herself Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
@@TheRealKingAJ I dug further and found out that she actually didn't steal 1 million. She was arrested for writing bad checks. She didn't owe child support until almost 2 year's after the case. I also did some digging on her husband and he seems like a narcissistic piece of work and was also physically abusive to her. Nevertheless, she needs to pay her damn child support!!
@@veganpower3 not me! Idc what she says she has zero credibility or integrity in my eyes. Maybe her husband is an a$$, but so what. Then they deserve each other and they're both trash people.
She decided to dig deeper and lie that he’s abusive, people believe her because they are fucking simps, she’s just mad she’s been called out and slammed. (Edit: typo)
I am the same & agree with you. I never share any of my troubles to people or in social media. Since I've been taught as a kid never to tell outside of the family your problems. My Mother would always say people don't need to know and they aren't going to solve your problems.
Same here. I don't even like crying around people I know well and love. Whenever I cried around someone IRL, I would literally leave the room. Even online, I've cried and quickly muted the mic/turned off the camera. Never would I film myself crying. I will never understand this insane desire to share every emotion/situation, including the horrible ones. I personally think there is something to be said for handling things alone if you can (especially as a grown adult). And before anyone says it: No, I'm not saying you have to isolate yourself or never ask for help. But not EVERY situation and emotion should be shown to others, especially friggin' strangers!
@@LadyTsuki You are definitely right about people and even strangers don't have to know your troubles. Yesterday I saw a silly girl in tic-toc & youtube crying about a break up. I swear people are getting way too nuts when it comes to oversharing in social media.😲
if he was abusive she would never leave her children with him. If she is a liar about cancer, im sure she would lie about him being abusive. If he was abusive, court wouldnt give him the children.
Same! I will also never understand when people pour their hearts out in the comment sections of videos like this either. The top comment will be a woman talking about how her first boyfriend died in 1970 and he loved chocolate chip cookies and riding his bike but back then they didn’t have helmets so off he went because he just loved riding in the rain and that was 54 years ago today when he walked out of the house with his brown eyes for the last time and his favorite song was Bridge Over Troubled Water by Simon and Garfunkel, meanwhile all it was was a video of some random woman crying whilst baking her own freaking birthday cake for crying out loud. 🙄
@@citizenearth71 True but given how when it comes to child support, the mothers are more favored than the father, it's hard to believe he's an abuser.
@Deuteromis The legal system is rigged to favor narcissistic manipulators of either sex. The war is not between he or she or mom or dad. It's between humans and the inhuman.
I don't have an opinion about either one of these people but to specifically address your statement about the court placing kids with a abuser. It happens all the time. It is not a rare occasion. It happens all the time
I dont know that people are defending her so much as questioning the truth of all of this and pointing out that all the guys in the chat whining about how courts are biased to women are not correct. IF and I say if because i honestly havent looked into her or this situation, what she did is true then yes dad deserves the kids, BUT if the possibility exists that he is in fact the abuser then him getting custody is detrimental. I dont know the stories on either one of these people but I can attest that sometimes the abuser does in fact get custody.
@@martibee8984I swear you must know this woman because you’ve been going to everyone’s comments defending her. Either you know her personally or you’re just as bad as she is. 😆
@@kaishah7281 I explained why I said what I said, and I only made 3-4 comments, so stop exaggerating. What I have in common with her is an abusive ex that fathered my son all while I was a minor. I know how quick everyone is to disparage the women in these situations. I also said she did bad things, so I'm not dismissing her guilt. These situations are almost always more complicated than people seem to want to acknowledge though. People talking about how he's a good man, and a good father, when they don't know him at all. All I need to know about him to know he's not a good person in general is that he, at around 30, started grooming, dating, screwing, and went on to impregnate and marry an approximately 13-14 year old GIRL. Additionally, scientologist are known for their campaigns of destruction against anyone who leaves their cult, or has the audacity to say anything publicly that doesn't paint them in a good light. That counts for scientology as a whole, and for individual members. Also, if (and I said if before) she did sign paperwork to give him custody of the kids, she may not have realized that it doesn't work that way, and that lead to her agreeing legally to him getting full custody. That paperwork could have also been to give up her parental rights. All that needs is a notary to be legal. Nobody specified what the paperwork was labeled, and I have a problem seeing small print in small images. Basically what I've been trying to say this whole time is that people shouldn't automatically deem her evil, and him good, because of a couple of TikToks. Life is rarely that simple.
@@kaishah7281 btw, I've raised my children. I was their care taker their entire childhoods, and they are out in the world adulting as they should. You're not any good at assumptions.
My family was dirt poor, my mom made her own birthday cake until us kids were old enough to get a license and jobs. Not once did she cry as she made it. It was "I making Carrot cake, cause it's my favorite, if you don't like it...more for me"
I was so confused about what she was crying about. When you have small children, they won't be able to make or buy you a cake anyway, plus its not their job to do. What is so sad about making yourself a birthday cake?
I grew up poor in the 80s. My mom made all our birthday cakes. I don't remember my mom crying once over it. I have 7 sibs, so she'd let the the birthday kid help her make the cake and eat the leftover batter from the bowl. We all loved it, especially me since I didn't like cake so she'd make me birthday cookies. Sadly, she was a terrible cook LoL
It's not often that a judge awards FULL custody to the father. So there's other details that the dad here has been considerate enough to leave out. The fact that she has fraud and theft convictions is just the tip of the iceberg. Unless anyone else knows more about this? Is she also ajunkey?
Because she signed out of court her ex husband told her if she did allow him to win full custody he would never limit her access to her children,she had her children at 16 btw
What’s ridiculous is her saying she’d never trash talk him online WHILE she’s trash talking him online. 😂😂 SHE started this nonsense & got called out. She’s got a history of lying online. You made the wine, 🍷 girl. I don’t believe you for a second.
Yep same. I used to be a little more vocal (not posting on fb or other social media, just talking to friends, mostly) until I realized exactly how f'd up and unbelievable some of it actually was. Then I just kinda shut up about it.
Yeah I’ve been through a lot in my time. But most ppl in my daily life have no clue. Only the closest of close ppl, which i can count on one hand, know exactly what I’ve been through. Frankly it’s no one’s business. But there are ppl who just LIVE for attention and will even make up stories just to get sympathy. It’s sick. It tends to be the most quiet ppl I know are usually the most sane. The ones who air every little piece of dirty laundry on social media are usually nuts.
That's true. When my mom was going through thyroid cancer treatment only really really close family and friends knew about it. And even then she didn't talk much about it, mostly because she didn't want people to worry.
This is actually so true. I’ve had the craziest life with some of the most tragic and painful experiences. Because of all that’s happened to me I’m extremely mentally scarred and tend to keep a lot of it too myself. On the odd occasion I say something to someone or if I’ve told a particular person a few of my experiences I feel like I need to also tell them that I know it’s sounds crazy or like a lots happened to me but it’s true I promise. I feel like I’ve kept so much to my chest that when I do let my guard down that people will think I’m making up my experiences. And then once again I just keep it to myself as it’s easier.
This reminds me so much of my daughters stepmom. About 2 years ago she said some extremely nasty things to my daughter, she called her every crude 4 letter word she could think of, she threatened her, and even told her to unalive herself. It all started when my daughter and I were out of town. The stepmom calls and says that she never told her we were going on vacation even though she did. I recorded every phone call and we were granted a protection order. She hasn’t seen or spoken to her in 2 years now but just this past Christmas the stepmom put on Facebook that she was really depressed because this was the first Christmas my daughter wouldn’t be with them. It was actually the 2nd Christmas she wasn’t going to be there but she was just trying to get sympathy from people. A huge part of me wanted to upload the recordings to her Facebook page so people could witness for themselves how much she truly cared for my daughter. I can’t stand people like that.
🤦♂️ Close. But you realize in ripping her, you made it seem not as bad. Leave out the “21,000$” next time, bc “100$” looks tiny next to that. I was super against her til this comment, and now its like “meh you right, what is another $100 on that? Might as well buy a cake instead of making it too while shes at it lol”
My dad used to owe about 20k in child support because he lost his job and was homeless but he still manged to somehow pay a couple hundred each month. People really don't have an excuse not to pay, they just don't want to
bruv, "i will not air out my business online" and then she airs out all her very likely made-up dirty laundry to the entire world. you can't open the floodgates then complain the water is getting out.
I haven't had a birthday cake or many presents in years. It's really not a big deal. If I wanted a cake because my kids were little and they wanted me to have one, we would just make one and have fun doing it. The whole thing is weird.
So... She goes online saying she is not going to bash her husband then immediately blasts him as an abuser!?!? And where does it say that someone who is into scientology is automatically an abuser?!?! Falsely accusing someone of abuse is detramental to their life! An abuser is an Abuser no matter what religion they follow!!! Airing your dirty laundry online is abuse in itself! Falsely accusing is abuse in itself! Thank you for another great video!!! 😊
To be fair, neither of them should be airing this out on the internet. I feel sorry for their kids that they may one day grow up to see mom and dad fighting online like this. Doesn’t make a difference if he or she is wrong, when they should be arguing in court/private or at couples therapy
I made my own wedding cake out of a box mix of brownies because we were that poor. Never shed a tear, didn't care. I make my own special meal for my own birthday and I love it. Boohoos.
Good grief 🤦🏻♀️ why do ppl , especially ppl under the age of 40 insist on putting so much of their private lives online? Anyone thinking of the kids???
The only reason is for attention and validation, sometimes for money. And believe me, its not just people under 40 years of age, there are people in their 40s-60s that do it. Regardless, it's never a good idea.
That's what I wondered. Anybody or any age group that does it. Even those who are being real. I wonder why they have so much too much transparency on what's going on in their lives and even on their kids. I sometimes wonder all the families that are filming their children. Which on one hand I think is cool they got like a documentary of their children but on the other hand it's always going to be out there so is that really fair to the kids? I don't know something I think about when I see stuff sometimes.
With as many lies as I have seen about this lady, by her own videos, in a very few short days, I sure hope that man got DNA results before he got custody.
I'm sorry. But married women do the same thing. This is pitiful and entitled. I was a single mom. But I had my children and made mine or bought it. Please
I just wanna take a second and say that being a single mom means making your own birthday cake *WITH* your kids so you *ALL* can feel happy and be a family and celebrate together. I just wanted to mention that for anyone who feels alone on their birthday and doesn't just fake being sad
Ok, I do not like the idea of calling someone a liar when they claim to have been abused. But she lied about something as serious as cancer, so that makes it hard to believe her.
Men get locked up, have licenses suspended, and are dragged through the mud for owing $21K in back child support! Clearly, someone who will lie about cancer for personal gain wouldn’t hesitate to lie on a man and claim he’s abusive. Cannot side with her at all.
To be fair, I wouldn’t get in the middle of this. I think the ex husband is also a bit off his rocker because he has like several websites and tracking type sites he made for her. My best guess is that they are both fairly psycho/bad people
Thank you. At first I was thinking "ok the ex called out her bs, bright up evidence, and added additional info to let people know she has a history of lies and fraud. Stack odds in his favor because he knows what she's like. Smart." But then came the second video discussing the DV. He's pointing out that legally there's no case about the DV, but that doesn't mean it didn't happen. Keeping track of her to that extent, if it's for legal reasons and to keep his name clear he just needs 1 site and a lot of things archived on a separate drive or something.
Three charges against her from 2023: #1 GRAND THEFT THIRD DEGREE ($10,000 - $20,000); #2 CASH OR DEPOSIT ITEM WITH INTENT TO DEFRAUD; #3 CASH OR DEPOSIT ITEM WITH INTENT TO DEFRAUD. Sounds like it's very much in character.
Her response was pathetic. Accountability for this generation is a foreign concept. "I won't get on the internet and air my business." YOU LITERALLY DID THAT
Well after that "clap back" I can see why this chick is so messed up..that guy's a psychopath..bet .neither of them should have kids but his "clapback" exposed HIM
5:21 Nah, he's not scummy for setting the record straight. She's a criminal deadbeat using kids as clout farm. And since she has a history of scamming, there's a chance that she was going to abuse her "single mom" facade to get money from good samaritans who genuinely wanted to help a struggling family. Good on him for not letting her get away with it.
@@phan643 yeah for sure like that would be cooling your brain. You can have seizures and everything with a temp that high. The way she just gets on social medial and lies . Wild
@@Jj1984. Yeah and her video is ridiculous. Standing in a high end kitchen saying she's making a cake but it's clearly cupcakes , with her manicured nails. If she spent her nail money on a store bought cake she wouldn't need to make that pity video. 🤷♀️
Being a single mother myself,I find this crying pity party ridiculous! Pretty sure her kids had some nice surprise for her like my kids do ! I don’t always get a cake but I sure do get lots of love from my kids !! Give me a break , when I felt alone the last thing I wanted to do is cry in public for my selfish little pity party ! Have your cry and move on !! And this one belongs to the street!!! Disgusting and insulting to all the real hard working single mothers who don’t get help or always have to fight to get child support to be paid ,dealing with real life issues and don’t complain and do what they have to do to take care of their family !!!
I am 100% with you on your first point. WHY do people want stranger seeing them cry?! I look like HELL when I cry! I get blotchy, my nose runs, my ryes get swollen, I am so not a cute crier. I don't even like my husband seeing me cry! I just do not get this trent. I know it's fishing for sympathy, but damn.
As a woman who was in a similar position of single parent, no support, and an ex who is a fake religious narcissist. Never complained while making cupcakes, never went to social media. I just made do with what I had … two great kids, an 🫏hole ex, and a decent paying job. This is embarrassing to those of us who care about the kids, not the money! 🇨🇦🖖🏻🇨🇦
As a caretaker of a stage 4 colon cancer husband at 45. Struggling this omg pisses me off she gets money n scammed ppl etc. But it makes us honest ppl trying for help bad!
But her telling a false story about making cupcakes on your own birthday so your kids have a reason to be happy is a lie. They both may be narcissistic but one has lied so far and is trying to downplay their responsibility for their situation with their children. If he’s abusive all the more reason to tread the straighten narrow path so you can have an opportunity to get your children away from him. I bet he’s going to respond they can’t stop.
I've been baking my own birthday cakes since 14. None of my emotionally intelligent ex-girlfriends used my making my own cake as a reason to attack me emotionally.
I hate that these people always cry abuse the moment they get called out They don't care that it hurts ACTUAL victims of abuse because no one believes them due to sociopaths like this ffs
This is what hurts ppl that truly needs help!! She brought down a storm on herself with those expensive tattoos and manicures! She should have never made fun of the scientology community
