They don’t have a f about other women but they do to their daughters and sister. That’s why they don’t let them date or dress a certain way. Their ego won’t let them hold other men accountable.
Exactly that's why the rates of the male loneliness is going to keep rising since they don't even open up to eachother and definitely don't hold their fellow men accountable
“Dont dress a certain way” the Amish are completely covered and there are still reports of SA in that community. I really hate when they essentially excuse the male behavior. There have been women SA’d in their home. So they not supposed to be home alone? How about telling a dude stop assaulting women??
They won't do that until the punishments actually become a deterrent. Men need to feel afraid before they will stop behaving badly. Trouble is, they don't feel afraid and there is often no consequence to their behaviour because other men cover for them. The deck is stacked against us but we are finally fighting back by denying them what they truly want: 4B and 5B. Stay strong ladies.
He's telling on himself, especially when he says, "she dressed like that, let me go get comfortable. Let me go touch." What the actual hell is wrong with these men. They thing just b3cause they like something, they are somehow entitled to it. You are not entitled to someone's attention at any point. How someone is dressed, how they hold themselves, how they act, is not an invitation to even talk to a woman.
Men don't intervene because they are just as afraid of men as we are. My guy cousin says, "you don't get in a man's business unless you ready to khil or become deceased!". I said that's why I'm calling non black officers everytime because it seems they're the only ones they respect.
Hes telling the truth. Most crimes are committed due to opportunities. And telling men that assaulting women is bad is crazy advice. Men have been told and already know hurting women is bad. There are literally laws written that forbid it. THEY DO NOT CARE. THEY HURT YOU EVEN THO THEY KNOW ITS WRONG. Telling them to respect you is the same as talking to a wall. Do not give men the opportunity to hurt you. I do not hang out with men. I do not go drinking with men. I do not go to parties with men. I do not go to men's homes. I do not go anywhere alone with men. I would be a clown to do that and say "no, its fine.. ill just tell the men not to hurt me. Ill tell them they shouldn't try to control me and that I am free to do what I want. That will definitely stop them . I just need a men to tell them to stop and everything will be great😁"
@@peapod6747agreed. Men know right from wrong. They do not care. Remember the topic of weaponized incompetence? This applies to every area of how they interact with women, including and especially in these ideas that they don’t know what is violating towards another person. They do. Protect yourself.
@@legslikewhoa you said a whole lot sis. They don't fear prisons because of women. Isn't it amazing how they fear other men but then gaslight women about women fearing men.
@zero1188 i was in conversation with a guy when the lawsuit from Cassie was posted, and he was in agreement with how vile he is. I brought up some other guys, and he said, "Yeah, I try not to look into everybody because I don't want to view them differently than what I know." 😏
They’re in league together. Don’t get it twisted. They survive by protecting each other. Think of the lists attached to Harvey, Diddy, R Kelly. THEY KNOW.
Yep.. The latest allegation is that Usher and Neyo sat and watched Diddy punch Cassie in the stomach... At a celeb dinner party. After she left... Everyone just carried on with the party as if nothing happened.
@@sammich-lp2qm That is crazy. But I do know this... In that industry, consent and normal human seggs is rejected. Their culture is a culture of gRape and abuse. That's how they get down. Sick.
Now this is the truth. Notice when they try to scare young boys straight, they sure don't take them to women's prisons. Not to mention they use grape culture to "try" to scare them off incarceration path!
@@talkingtochapri well, the one I know will tell you his parents are the best thing since sliced bread, but the truth is his father was a cheater, and worse. But he “found jesus” and now he’s such an outstanding guy. And I don’t buy it. When they are used to pretending, they’ll do it til the end
Mental self-defense, spiritual and emotional. Men have a bro code that they will keep until they die. And if you ask to know it, they will tell you a code, but it won't be the bro code. They want to know your secrets so they can use it on other women. They want to infiltrate your spaces but won't let you into their boy's club. Ladies, this is war and not a game.
Unfortunately where I'm from firearms aren't legal. I put my daughter in martial arts self defense since she was very small and always told her to fight fight fight if she ever felt unsafe
Ladies, you and your daughters must read, THE GIFT OF FEAR by Gavin deBecker and WHY DOES HE DO THAT by Lundy Bancroft. You are best protected when you can better recognize the threat, manipulation and control tactics long in advance.
They absolutely know! I no longer have real male friends. The amount of gaslighting that ive endured is astronomical when I tried gaining a males perspective with the BS I was dealing with in romantic situations. When it was time for them to talk abt women oh they expected me to tear them down.
No lies detected. Every male friend I ever had was trying to get s*x even though some were married, all while complaining about their wives. They never hold themselves accountable for their actions. Their objective is conquest and self-gratification. Marriage, kids, job, reputation, and finances be damned.
This is how a lot of male friends are. They will not have your back when it comes down to you vs a man. They’d rather defend the man, even if it’s a man they don’t even know and have never met. I’ve confided in male friends about men doing me wrong, being creepy or sexually harassing me and 97% of the time their reaction was either to be silent and appear like they wanted to change the subject or they would try to mansplain to me how I misunderstood or misinterpreted the situation, or how I’m overreacting or how I need to understand a that it’s hard for men to know how to go about approaching women and I should be flattered instead of being creeped out or offended that a man followed me around the mall. I told my cousin that his friend had kissed me forcefully against my will and he just reacted with weirded out silence and then never addressed it again, just continued to be friends with said guy.
@Kelema86 I remember telling my ex that had a male co worker who wouldn't stop staring at my breast. Then one day the co worker touched my breast on the elevator and when I told him his response was "well you do have nice boobs" with a laugh. I was truly disgusted
Men know the true nature of men, most choose to ignore it. Boosie said it a few weeks ago. I don't think he used the word woman once in his tirade. He said it's none of his business. A lot of men feel that way because they believe women shouldn't be allowed to speak in the first time. They call us modern women as an insult all while enjoying this modern world.
I’m not even dating, but I always pray for protection from men period. We pass by these ticking time bombs in everyday life. Never know when one of ‘em is gonna blow up a lil too close to you…
Nobody knows my husband like I do. The things he says, the way he treats me when we argue, the jealousy, the micromanaging, the way he puts me down, the way I do everything and he barely participates in the household chores or even “help” with our daughter. He’s verbally and mentally ab*sive, and he’s almost financially ruined me… but they love him, they see him as always happy go lucky guy, life of the party, great friend. He pillow talks about them, and I know it’s because he wants me to think he’s better, but I know he’s doing the same things if not worse. I know who he really is. But everyone else think that he’s what he presents them with. He left me three weeks ago (he always leaves when he doesn’t like what I say), and I cannot even explain the peace I am feeling right now.
For the love of god don’t let him back! your girl is seeing this. She learning this is how relationships are. She will accept what you accept coz it will feel like home! Abuse will feel like home! Please save her! Only you can!
@@Acehigh-Jenkins yes, I now realize how what my mother did affects me to this day. Like you say, it feels like home. I’m in therapy and I don’t plan on getting back with him.
Yep, because they're afraid of them also. Heck they may just grape, physically, emotionally abuse the women but they stop each other from breathing. Our safety is calling the police and pray whomever they send don't hate women as much as the offenders🥴🥴🥴
Ohh don't worry we're starting to fight back, that's why the 4b movement and the rapid decrease of women in dating pool etc hence the male loneliness epidemic, because women are tired of them rn
I also want to add on to the conversation as well; The 'Nice Guys'™ won't do anything that remotely goes against bad men because: A.) It gives mediocre men an excuse as to why women don't want them ("women only want chads and pookies and ray rays"). B.) It makes them look good in comparison, thus lowering the bar of standards even further than hell itself. It forces women who still want relationships with men to settle for the bare minimum because "hey at least he didn't grape me..." It's a sad turn of events entirely and the more women wake up the more men get uncomfortable and rattled because they ALL know, and now we do too.
Since women are so bad, all the men can just be with one another. Oh, see how that works in the penal institution, more grape in there and not a woman in sight🤔
You spoke nothing but facts! As much as men experience harm from other men being awful, they benefit way too much from that same awfulness to ever break ranks and support women.
Exactly!!!!! They all benefitted from that system, I even believe those "not all men" dudes is trying to use that to try and gaslight us that they're still "good men" around us... Eventho it's definitely not
I don't deal with men point blank. However what concerns me and should concern everyone is how these act around children. Grown men know thwir freinds like little girls and litte boys and they do nothing about the abuse. It is disgusting. Thr least they can do is protect the babies.
The dude who is talking about how we dress is THE PROBLEM. Again, we’re being held accountable for their actions. And frankly, how pathetic that they’d play friends for 20 Years…what a royal waste of time and energy.
He said don't dress a certain way, but in the same breath said if they woke up wanting to grape then that's what they gonna do. Like ummm so it is control baby cause of what you said
These fellas just say anything, he wants control. Not to mention, he doesn't want his lady to know when another male gets rah rah with her, he's afraid to redirect him, thus blame her for dressing a certain way! FOH
lol they know everything not worth knowing, the way they mansplain things clearly shows theyre victims of their own bs and theyre jealous because women can connect to the all knowing of Mother Earth via their womb and men can do it via their hearts but theyre too traumatized to be able to do anything right
Thank you. And get around one another and boast about it. Y’all seen Why did I get married. He was talking horribly about that woman in front of his mistress and she tried to act like she was sad. Then why wouldn’t you leave that BAN alone ma’am?
Let those men get _truly_ vulnerable around those same ones they claim _would never._ When men are drunk and/or incapacitated around other men, to where they can’t defend themselves…😒😒😒 They come away w/ some of the same experiences as Women do.
Yup. There is a paradox: victim blaming is cruel; being silent ab imprudent behavior is also cruel. We can raise a voice of warning. We live in a nest of vipers; pretending otherwise is imprudent.
I was beaten quite badly whilst in my early 20s. He beat me in his best friend's home! His friend and his girlfriend didn't come to the rescue. Only the next day the girlfriend felt bad for not stepping in. The friend hung his head in shame. They know 😮
What? No. They know and I’m talking about all men. She think they are overprotective of their daughters and sister and their mothers for no reason😂. I’m Arab and I’ve seen men talking about it from all around countries. Even Asian women said it.
The insidious thing is that they know and don't call it out because they benefit from it. They benefit from women's fear by presenting themselves as 'not like other men' when dating you to lower your guard so they can get access to women out of their league. This is popular with the nice guys who finish last, they absolutely benefit from it that is why they have no interest in anything changing.
They know because they love to warn their family girls about the dangers of men because they hear how their friends can treat and talk about their women
And I have no problem if any woman do you dirt! It was your fault male no matter what! I believe this. Women don’t just do men dirt. He must’ve done something. Haaahhhaaa. Suck it!
Most of them met the con man before the woman knew who he really is. Most women will meet the representative. (Just ask Nick Cannon )They are always themselves with their home boys/other men.
Oh they all know, but act oblivious because they know they are all capable of these things and hide their own doing to each other. If acknowledged, they will be ostracized and it will require them to change and we know men want everything but behavior change and accountability. Hence the constant gaslighting of women about accountability.
It's very telling what that last man was saying. He knows just how his homies act but he refuses to correct them, he doesn't think what they're doing is wrong. His solution is to control women's actions, "for your own protection". This is what men are clueless about. They do see what other men are up to but they are blind to seeing what's wrong with it
That's why you see all those "not all men" dudes everywhere now, because they honestly wanted to dissociate themselves from those bad dudes without even wanted to called them out or speak up against them.
They know & their families know too‼️ I started recording my ex when he would go off on me & days later when he was calm down I wld play the recording. I wld sent them to my friends/ family in case something happened.
Knew this man for 20 plus years. Trusted him w my kids, guess what? He ended up being a pedo. He waited for them to grow up, and actually felt in lov w one of them. My life is over
@Carpathianpixie super intimidating but yes. I lost all possible respect for his family bc they know and they just build him up on the phone and ask for $$. Super easy for them to do
What is up with all the misogyny from these male content creators talking here? They're aware that other men are horrible but their advice is for women to shrink ourselves and stay indoors etc etc. Maybe we should also cover up head to toe? Disgusting.
Sometimes, I think you dont even try to hear people like REALLY hear them. These men dont know because they can't know because THEY ARENT THERE. That's the point that lady was making. The man who's slapping you around isn't isually slapping you around in front of others. If they know about the abuse, they know what they're told. They can only ever imagine because they dont see it first hand. There's a difference in how you emote to things based on whether you hear about it or see it first hand. Most men are hearing about it. Women are experiencing it and seeing it happen first hand and its definitely different. These men dont know and that needs to be addressed instead of pushed aside.
Imagine blue cap guy thinking he was making things better for himself by saying he knows what men are like…. Literally making himself 100x less attractive 😂😂 and he wants us to give him the benefit of the doubt that he not stupid? lol I can’t cope
narcissists band together, cuz why would they want to tell on themselves!? how could they continue manipulating if they expose each other? we have seen real men(who have done the work, who are honest and who actually love themselves and have compassion) on the internet expose the narcissism and unhealed trauma responses that most of these other types of men who refuse to do the inner work and evolve, for their true colors......the problem is unresolved trauma, inter-generational trauma and unspoken abuse, that keeps everyone trapped in unhealthy and toxic behavior patterns
Men acting another way away from the sight of the world...... That is so true regarding my father. An absolute monster. His good looks was a distraction from how he acted. Or NOT acted in just as much equal measures. People thought his looks was/is a reflection of his personality and character. And that we would be complaining about nothing and non-issues. People didn't see all that he did or didn't do and concluded something else based on a few seconds of just meeting him. But there have been signs that his "friends", his "circle" know very well what type of an A.H. is truly is and much much more. But us trying to convince them of the issues for meditation and to get it addressed and seeing us struggle to convince them..... Was entertainment for them. I so look forward to these b*****d's getting their comeuppance. I wish it would come faster but it's best I leave it to God. He knows best on how to deal with them. I and my family are too tied up cleaning up the mess these men have left behind and still creating.
Told a guy I don’t think we would be compatible.. he went off. Wanting an explanation, it was ridiculous especially given it was a dating APP. If women are not interested ,we should not be bullied into being interested.
Of course they know. They just don’t want to validate your experience because they are a part of it too. Anytime someone gaslights you in YOUR own experience, they know, and they are covering it up because they are involved. If they side with you, that makes them look shady. A person not involved will genuinely listen and have no reason to refute what you are saying because two things can be true at once. Yeah the person could be surprised, but they shouldn’t be refuting your experience. Every time this has happened in my life, later on I find out that person is shady as F.
Oh they know, they will just continue to be complacent and not hold eachother accountable because deep down they agree with the behavior or in the least turn a blind eye to it.
Rhythm 0, 1974, performed by Marina Abramovic. THAT is the true nature of men and humans in general. I think there are very few genuinely Good people in this world. Most are just decent, but ultimately self-serving, which allows the genuinely Evil people to do as they wish. If it isn't affecting a just decent person, at the end of the day they won't really care, not like a Good person would.
Why is this dude with the ball cap deflecting?🤔 Sir, talk to the men about how to NOT act like beasts and predators. Don't come over here with the same old rhetoric about "how to prepare for...in case this happens" bs.🤬
So men know and choose not to correct the men behaving poorly. So they are not protectors. Ok noted.. ladies they just said the quiet part out loud. None of them are good. 😊
They know. Everyone one of them think that they are the exception of the rule. Everytime it's "not all men" "used the men you choose" "me and and my friends are the "good"men "gentle"men"
11:51 stop telling us to stop dressing a certain way. I've been dressed like I'm homeless to make a quick drive to the store and I still get harassed. Men, do better and start holding each other accountable for your deviant behaviour.
Don't put the blame on society. Put it on the MEN THEMSELVES for choosing to behave in a way that they intuitively understand is unacceptable (aka outright wrong). Put it also on the women for seeking out, aggressively defending, and accepting the excuse for proper [social] behavior as "men being men".
The dominant group influences lens of how events are perceived. If you’re not affirming this view then you will be ostracized through direct negative engagement or shunning.
men KNOW, they just don't care...truth is: men can't call another man out on his horrible behaviors because they are guilty of the same things themselves. Think about that...how many dirty secrets do men real have and how many heinous acts towards women, have they REALLY committed?
So if they know nothing will stop them from hurting us, why does what we have on matter? Especially since most people who have been graped were fully clothed
Birds of a feather, flock together 🤷🏿♀️ thats why i cant look past certain morally grey areas even in shows with characters because you not gonna justify this. All men know how men are, it goes back to father and men being the number one people warning their daughters about how men are....the jokes/desires for daddy issues....they get off on it
you know what, they might not know what other men are like, but they know what themselves are like and prob feels some kinda shame to how they are when other men are not around and as ppl we assume that other pl wouldn't do things that bring us shame so they think they are the only ones like that buuuut yea they know what they are like but they don't wanna self reflect...ppl in general are like this though
If that's fair to say, then we can also say women don't know how other women are when other women are not there. You say that we are all bad because you don't agree with what some man do. But you have not dated all men. So you can't say all men are the same. There are bad guys out there, but there are a lot more good then bad. You go after the bad boys and expect them to change for you. So it's the guys you messed with that are bad.
17:13 so you all know, but still stay close w these men, laugh at what they do to women, and don’t speak out against these actions? that’s worse than y’all not knowing 🤦🏼♀️
That’s not true. MOST men know the true nature of men. They know they just have an understanding and some agree. Why do u think most men don’t see other men as their therapists, they don’t cry with them, etc. They KNOW and MANY agree.
As a guy, I like videos like this because most things you can accuse men of doing, women do it as well. Its human nature, not particular to any gender. It may be to varying degrees, but we are both guilty
@@amberinthemist7912 facts However, it doesn't change the fact that women don't know the true nature of some women when they act a different way with their friends as opposed to being with their lovers, just like the very men you're accusing. "Oh I know her, she's the sweetest hardworking dedicated soul" till she thrashes rooms, slashes tyres destroys property, uses a kitchen knife, shits on the bed, attacks him and tells him to call the police knowing that his word will lose against hers, fake tears, lying, gaslighting and manipulation. Her friends may or may not know this about her, but even the ones that do will tell you she couldn't harm a fly. Based on what Priscilla is saying, if her friends are cheaters, she's a cheater as well, right?
@nedumnwanze4120 every comment on here is women acknowledging that the first woman was wrong. Men do know the true nature of most men is bad, and they ignore it for their own benefit.
@@amberinthemist7912 no oo....it's low school I went to....smh You guys are culpable as well...quit acting as if y'all are holier than thou or something.
