She Was Surrounded By Predators as a Kid

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Today on Unfiltered Stories, we share the powerful journey of Lisa Plumb. Raised in an abusive environment where her mother enabled predators to take advantage of her, Lisa faced unimaginable adversity starting at the age of 5. Despite the profound trauma she endured, Lisa has transformed her pain into purpose. Now a dedicated family therapist, she uses her experiences to help others heal and overcome their own challenges. Join us to hear her inspiring story of resilience, recovery, and empowerment.
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@debhadden205 27 дней назад

I love this lady. She is a friend of mine, and probably the strongest person I know. We were school friends. I had no idea what she was going through at the time, but many years later, we shared our traumatic stories and she is one of the bright lights in my life. I'm proud to have grown up with her and to be friends with her today.

@Brex806 25 дней назад

She's a strong woman

@Nacqmac 25 дней назад

Love that you have each other 🥰

@christinehjorth9559 25 дней назад

🥰

@beclairful 25 дней назад

What a beautiful comment by you ❤️ She is well spoken and seems like such a lovely person who’s been through so much 🥰🙏🏻

@taliabraver 24 дня назад

She is beautiful.Shame on her so called mom.

@ChrissyCupcake 26 дней назад

How can kids be allowed to go to a nudist camp?

@amyg8761 26 дней назад

Right? This is a messed up world.

@ArnoldShortngga 24 дня назад

Because, for some reasons unknown to me, it is perfectly legal. The worst part is the parents that take their kids there.

@SamSamson-kj9bk 24 дня назад

Democrat and liberal minded people

@walterbriggs272 23 дня назад

Easy! It’s a family nudist camp!

@puppetguy8726 23 дня назад

I suppose in theory nudity is natural and therefore isn't necessarily sexual. But in a society where nudity is so sexualised there will probably be nudists that are nudists for some sexual purpose.

@randymarsh9488 27 дней назад

Its always the weak mom's that let this happen, smh! The mother should be in prison!!!!

@rdred8693 25 дней назад

Prison is too good for her.

@RasheedMichael5 25 дней назад

Heau @$$ mothers too, always leaving the kids with Grandma while the uncle or cousin even the grandfather touching on the kids

@user-ne7zi3ym3b 20 дней назад

Some women should never be mothers.

@Christie197 27 дней назад

The mother is a monster she needs to be in prison

@rdred8693 25 дней назад

I hate her. So GROSS to have intercourse in front of your kids! Molestation,abuse, so nasty

@maryjohnson4670 27 дней назад

I was in a day to day traumatic upbringing. I was blamed on a daily basis for everything that went wrong in our household. After watching this video i realize my childhood could have been way worse .

@annetreacy2437 25 дней назад

Same 😔

@vegandolls 22 дня назад

ikr. this is a whole other level

@aaf6711 22 дня назад

Can’t imagine how traumatic that was. I’m so sorry

@paulkonkowski1988 26 дней назад

For all the people who said these things didn’t happen in the “ good old days “ this is affirming what I observed as a young child. I am 66 yo

@davidhaarer1242 24 дня назад

There is nothing new under the sun.

@justinp3931 24 дня назад

For all the people who say "this didn't happen" are idiots ...I am a father with three daughters and guess what? My daughters aren't ......even in the bathroom with me alone as long as woman are here...EVER..I have the females who are family help

@MilaMila20240 24 дня назад

Abuse always happened for centuries. The different is a few decades ago everything was kept in secret. And people were ignorant AF. Nowadays people talk & don't care. Because you ain't special. Someone will put you in your place ASAP. Just tired of your BS. Give you the taste of truth & justice.

@jeaniecreswell8708 23 дня назад

I’m 53. I was abused by many.

@deathandrebirth-y8x 23 дня назад

those people are dumb and naive. or they dont listen when someone opens up.

@phuchyouh7171 26 дней назад

So happy that this beautiful soul found contentment and God.

@kellywilliamson2187 24 дня назад

Yeah, good old God . . . allowing pedophiles to ruin peoples' lives

@FredCarpenter-pb6bd 22 дня назад

There is no Santa Claus. There is no Easter Bunny. There is no God. You also apparently don't know the history of Christianity and the numerous atrocities it has committed.

@deondraa 26 дней назад

I watched this story on soft white underbelly as well I’m happy you’re able to keep telling your story. People need to hear it, and these nudist pedophile camps need to be shut down

@mikerope5785 23 дня назад

Nudist camps should always do enhanced background checks on people trying to join because sometimes perverts try to get membership. They get weeded out quickly nowadays though because nudists are more aware and trained about the risks than people who wear clothes, for obvious reasons.

@deondraa 23 дня назад

@@mikerope5785I’m super glad to hear that, I personally feel like they should be 18+ to just avoid that issue all together

@justincox119 18 дней назад

Oh wow I knew her voice was familiar glad she's able to tell her story on multiple sources

@NayBae129 26 дней назад

This is one of the most horrific stories I have ever heard

@d.k.1394 25 дней назад

Sad

@allykatt940 19 дней назад

thats what i was gonna say. at least she wasnt killed or enslaved in a dungeon or somthing. pretty crazy

@MarleneTrujillo-uc8bj 26 дней назад

I too am a survivor of child abuse. I’m so sorry you had to go through this too. When people like you share their stories I think it helps all of us that have endured this. May God bless you and I hope you find some peace.

@theloneone7587 26 дней назад

That voice she heard was wiser than her mother.

@caliblue2 25 дней назад

Her mother was an idiot pervert.

@nattamused9074 25 дней назад

My cousins were abused in Orange County in the 1980’s and 90’s too. Whenever we spent weekends together, these cousins played very inappropriately with me, and taught me all about the “birds and bees” with Barbie dolls. I was younger and didn’t understand at the time that they had this inappropriate knowledge for a reason. As a parent myself, looking back, it’s hard for me to understand how my parents and Aunts and Uncles could’ve been so blind.

@EziekKiel 3 дня назад

I'm very regretful to hear about your cousins. How are they doing these days? Are they alright now, if even moderately so? So sad. Also I am sorry to say that your parents and aunts and uncles were not blind. They knew. Maybe not your parents, but your aunties and uncles certainly did. If you as a child picked up on those inappropriate behaviors, your cousin's parents also definitely did. But unfortunetely during those times these things were just unspoken. People pretending it didn't happen or that it wasn't that harmful. Nonsense. Anyway, I hope your cousins are okay now and have healed from the trauma of abuse. It's a horrible, horrible thing!

@balibri123 26 дней назад

I am so sorry this happened to you, every adult in your childhood failed you. I pray you have full emotional, physical and spiritual healing.

@debrarouselle9761 26 дней назад

We were surrounded by by child molesters. Adults knew this but said nothing, the molesters were family and no one stopped them. As kids we did not tell as we knew we would be blamed and told to just stay away from that person.

@pencilhead5278 26 дней назад

It is always an older sibling that has experienced the same thing that tries to out the abuser when their other sibling is being attacked.

@jenniferbyrne4567 25 дней назад

Where is your siblings now? Did they do okay in life?

@beltigussin81 25 дней назад

This thing is like a cancer in some families. It runs through generations.

@lisaknox4257 22 дня назад

I have a brother who is in prison for pedophilia. And so is the mother who allowed it. I only feel sorry for the girls. May they have peace.

@doodlekaboodel 26 дней назад

Just so many horrific aspects to this whole story, from the mom and sister clearly have been so damaged to continue the abuse - to the mentioning of "Pretty Baby" because we know better now that the movie was just a step into trying to normalize sexualizing children. smh This woman is so incredible and I hope she knows how much she's loved and didn't deserve to go through any of this.

@PreciousPask82 27 дней назад

Who let their young daughters go in nudist camp with strangers??? My god everything is wrong about her mom

@amyg8761 26 дней назад

Sickening

@rdred8693 25 дней назад

It's legal for kids to be in nudist camps too. Makes me angry and sad.

@Rexorazor 24 дня назад

The fact that there is a place to go all Nude publicly says a lot about your sick society.

@stuartewoldt1513 10 дней назад

Well where was the nice step dad

@quaerendoinvenietis8477 26 дней назад

Yeah she doesn’t look like the horror she experienced. God Bless her!

@positivevibesonly9536 27 дней назад

I’m sorry you went through this. Thank you for sharing.

@jeremiahjohnsonyoung 23 дня назад

This lady is amazing she’s a champion in my book

@briannabrown8849 27 дней назад

This sad you can't tell me these mothers don't know this stuff is happening and in this case the basket head of a Mom did it too much praise to you sweet lady 🙏🏾

@adrianawilson5752 26 дней назад

No they know they choose not to know because there loneliness consumes them disgusting

@traciereynolds3057 26 дней назад

@@adrianawilson5752, yes weak women for whatever reason .

@imnugget8085 18 дней назад

The mom was a pedo to did u not listen she aware like the dad and they didn't care

@annettefogleman3145 27 дней назад

This is soooo disgusting.i think I've watched this before...I am sooo sorry.

@user-zv9jd1jd3o 27 дней назад

What would a mom allowed there kids to a nudists beach or nudists place sickening i don't understand lost of words

@thatcreepyxmastreeinyourat8950 26 дней назад

I doubt this was EVER legal

@mikerope5785 23 дня назад

@@thatcreepyxmastreeinyourat8950 it is legal as long as you are with your parent or guardian.

@thatcreepyxmastreeinyourat8950 23 дня назад

@mikerope5785 part of me understands, but part of me doesn't. My children and I should absolutely be allowed to run around naked in our home without repercussions, but when it comes to being naked in public...yeah, NO..that's just a step away from danger.

@truecynic1270 26 дней назад

Very, VERY sad but a great example of " damaged" or "oblivious" parents

@stacybroussard3097 26 дней назад

I think you mean Evil.. They are Absolutely Disgusting!! 😡🤬😡

@amym.694 25 дней назад

They all belong in prison.

@lueValentine 24 дня назад

My God! How horrific! I can’t imagine being a child and having to endure this! This lady is a survivor!! I guess u could say my brothers snd I had an idyllic childhood. My parents were loving parents. I was the youngest, my 2 brothers never touched me in an inappropriate way! I am so grateful for growing up with love and care.

@dooshmasta 24 дня назад

People like to sweep these things under the rug and call us conspiracy theorists.

@MaryWallace-wv2bn 27 дней назад

I’m so very sorry Thank you for sharing your story.

@GENXJOPLIN 24 дня назад

Listened to her entire story on SWU. She even took the time to reply to one of my comments. Such an amazing human

@bodaciousbethany0 27 дней назад

That's true, abusers think they're the only 1s to use profanity.

@kristyneknodel8395 25 дней назад

You have been through so much. I feel so bad for everything you have been through. Thank god for the few good people you had in your life. You seem so strong and healthy now. I admire you and thank you for telling your story😊

@daishawilliams8301 27 дней назад

How on earth did the father not get cps involved.

@thatcreepyxmastreeinyourat8950 26 дней назад

Not even close. He told her to play along. Nasty mfker

@serendipidus8482 25 дней назад

Well they were involved when she was in the foster home and sent back cps dont give a damn it seems.s

@emilymaria9312 25 дней назад

Soft White Underbelly has a video on this woman- she explains that her father is also a ---phile. Her father was abusing her brothers and other young boys. Both of her parents were doing this. It's horrific.

@Aud2336 25 дней назад

I’m so sorry this happened to you honey. I pray that God will restore the lost years of your youth & give you the best life possible!

@michelemelucci4667 6 дней назад

He truely does

@thisis.michelletorres444 26 дней назад

Awesome that she found her way out, is sane and was able to work towards her own healing and now helping others!

@rainbow3065 25 дней назад

Such a strong, beautiful person ❤

@thatcreepyxmastreeinyourat8950 26 дней назад

Can I just say this woman looks AHMAZING at 56, hot damn! And the hair is on🔥! Such a strong woman, this is a heartbreaking story..

@one-stopgodshop2171 25 дней назад

I'm very, very sorry this happened to you.

@catmandoo956 26 дней назад

Lisa, you are a beautiful person!

@d.k.1394 25 дней назад

Agree

@Wolf-6567 2 дня назад

Keep being awesome, a tough story made a councillor that helps so many. Blessing on you for your endurance, kind wishes for the future.

@angelicavazquez6946 7 дней назад

"Memorize how to get there." That was the voice of the Holy Spirit.

@dennisgrubbs1929 24 дня назад

So sad so glad you made it may you have a beautiful life

@992dancer 25 дней назад

Wow, she has been through so much and is clearly such a lovely person. Sending so much love and healing vibes your way ❤️ Trauma therapy certainly has come a long way, CBT is great but also EMDR can be really wonderful for cases of PTSD and CPTSD, like your case here ❤️❤️❤️

@eikoqdupree101 25 дней назад

This was the most soulful information I had ever experienced . Being in self denial. You hear and see this sad crime. And never want to realize you were a victim. You hide it from yourself .She was the most real enlighten person ever. Thank You ❤❤❤❤❤

@sadeatthewhip1846 24 дня назад

I’ve heard this lady before! What an awesome and brilliant woman she is.

@amyg8761 26 дней назад

People are so effed up! My god, these parents wtf?

@choward5430 9 дней назад

You never know what someone has gone through. If I saw this woman at the grocery store, I'd have no idea!

@josephgarcia9082 23 дня назад

I'm so sorry that happened 2 u. Thank u 4 sharing your story. I was molested by an older woman when I was just a boy and didn't realize till much later what a terrible thing that is 2 go through. All though I feel my situation wasn't near as bad as your it was still bad enough. I've been through a couple of drug habits and I think I'm really just starting 2 get the help I need as far as therapy. Good luck on the rest of your journey and thanks again 4 sharing

@KandisXxx 13 дней назад

I know it's very common to affect people a lot more later in life. Sending good thoughts all the best to you

@Prljamlvr 5 дней назад

I share a lot of your experiences and thinking. I’m glad you found a way out… it took me a little longer but i found that safe place i would go to during meditation in real life. We are the same age… trauma work saves my ass on the daily! Thank you!

@sandramlane 5 дней назад

Wow! You make me feel like I’ll be alright. Thank you for sharing!!

@kyleomara4932 25 дней назад

Thank you - I related to a lot of your story and thank you for being brave and sharing your story.

@KennethAkin-me9je 26 дней назад

Your a trooper hang in there many have gone through what you have sometimes you must let go of your hate and move on but always be cautious because they are everywhere.

@HeatherCraig-do2fb 23 дня назад

Thank you for sharing your story you are so strong.

@moejotuber 11 дней назад

My heroes in life are not athletes, entertainers or any of the 1%. Mine are HEROES like LISA LUMB. She overcame and now gives back to society. Awesome.

@PRISM_828 22 дня назад

Youre so brave. Hugs and kudos for telling this story 🫶

@tosheacollier2039 24 дня назад

This is outrageous! I'm so sorry you had to experience this, Lisa.

@nicolewright5342 24 дня назад

God bless your beautiful soul!! Thank you for sharing this! 💕💕💕

@billybardo6373 26 дней назад

What a testimony! All to the Glory of God! While I've never been "sectsually" abuse but grew up in a very violent atmosphere! Your testimony needs to be heard by all victims of s*x abuse! My wife was abused by her own father & her mother said she's a liar! She confronted him on speaker phone years ago & forgave him! I was silently listening when he stated "I don't need your forgiveness, I have God's"! She hung up in tears! I never doubted her but that was absolute confirmation! It definitely impacted our marriage! She went "Home" back in '06. Godspeed sister to you and yours!!!✝️🗝️☝️⏳

@MoonlightDivinity 26 дней назад

I am glad your wife has a man who cares about and respects her. For me.forgiveness is not for the other person..it is severing the energetic ties, healing every trigger that comes up, so as not to feed the perpetrators any energy, and to release the emotions from my physical body for my own health.

@priskruger314 24 дня назад

Sorry to hear the father was such a jerk he could not even give her the favour of being grateful for her forgiveness. She is lucky you were a source of solace and consolation to her!

@billybardo6373 21 день назад

@@MoonlightDivinity That was absolutely her angle! If we forgive not those who've wronged us, how then shall our Lord forgive us? What saith He as He hanged upon the cross? "Father, forgive them for they knoweth not what they do"! He forgave the very ones who physically nailed Him to the Cross! Should we not be as willing to forgive those who've wronged us as well? No peace can come to the soul unless you have forgiveness, it's not for them (per say) but for your own inner peace!

@purplebutterfly4756 25 дней назад

Man this poor women went through some unbelievable stuff. How can a mom not protect her kids from this. That is just sick. It's like her mom sold her for sex. I wonder if her mom got money from that weird perverted couple. That is just horrible.

@elizagooler-5889 25 дней назад

Much compassion and love. Yes someone shared that her brother and herself started sex life,by the time she was 14, she realize was wrong . Today she is 55 years old ,aldo she married she was unable to get pregnant. Inside damage . Sad.

@angela-fl4gs 22 дня назад

I was just like you sister. God bless you and your sister.🙏😇

@SusanAvery-kx4ze 25 дней назад

Iam so sorry you went through this,god bless you,stay strong!

@lilyounggamer 27 дней назад

Who dose the kinds of things her mother allowed thier kids to experience a nudist camp wow what a sicko mom and those kids were sick too the mom and all the other adults should have been put under the jail just sick

@mikerope5785 23 дня назад

what are you talking about, kids are legally allowed at nudist camps as long as they are there with their parent or guardian.

@lilyounggamer 22 дня назад

@@mikerope5785 thats nasty wtf

@saladfingers. 24 дня назад

Wtaf??? What is wrong with people. The poor woman. Absolute sickos.

@adrianawilson5752 26 дней назад

I’m glad her siblings were aware 😢

@kimkimmy1269 22 дня назад

@Jay_Borimaybe it’s a bot.

@user-sj7oe7pe1r 24 дня назад

So sorry you had to go through that it's something that stays a lifetime

@auntylinda7640 25 дней назад

This lady is so sad😢 my admiration to her for being so brave as to tell her story 😢

@nenasadie 24 дня назад

For those who don't undergo a life of trauma, it can be difficult to understand, but this is not a series of different abuses or horrific events as such. This is all part of an ongoing process where hurt only leads to more hurt. Abusers can tell when you are vulnerable and unprotected, and so what happens will continue to happen. Injured birds are perfect prey for cats. Indeed, you may even treat yourself badly until something changes. It's so sad that when it does finally change, when you do see the truth at last, there is usually so much to work through. I am so glad this lady has managed to heal, and is involved in healing work. I really needed that beautiful ending. I'm hoping for a similar one, though my traumas are slightly different.

@melanieyork-ry4fc 2 дня назад

God has blessed you!! Never let bad experiences ever bring you down. Prayers for you and your Family and all the other abused Children out there.

@joeblow2580 24 дня назад

What a Honey!! God bless her forever.

@laurahpk6618 25 дней назад

Great and strong person and even has beautiful looking hair, keep going u got this!

@karabucca-ey2uy 27 дней назад

So discussed how humans are so strewed up

@eliza7511 26 дней назад

thank you, lisa

@JohnSmith-xd8do 9 дней назад

Awwww motherly love

@WoodsSuzy 5 дней назад

It seems like some children have the notification on their head with 'abuse me'. They get abused every single time they meet new people... I don't understand this. Ons time is already awefull. But over and over again, unheard. Mosters. YOu are so brave and strong

@kel2700 24 дня назад

I’m so pi**ed you had to have a so called “mother” like that. Within the next year I’m hoping to foster. It’s so sick & unfair & never be hard on yourself people if you are reading this. Your important & always will be!!❤️❤️

@joeanderson8839 12 дней назад

What a horrible experience. No child should have to endure these things.

@jamesmurray8558 20 дней назад

Thank God you survived.Pray everything is alright for you.

@kwutu5013 26 дней назад

I wanna know who the child murderer was named!

@waynefoxjr8348 27 дней назад

Thanks for sharing ❤ awesome story You really made it.

@waynefoxjr8348 26 дней назад

As they said on the Mary Tyler Show “ you’re gonna make it after all “ A show from way back in time wow 🎖

@user-wz7fe2bq5c 24 дня назад

Thats horrible sorry you went through all that.

@SteveTorres-lq3cp 13 дней назад

That is a crazy ass story 💔

@serendipidus8482 25 дней назад

I taught my ypung boys to fight and scream and kick and bite if anyone ever laid hands on them in a way they didnt like. We need to teach our kids to fight against all this coercison and we need to teach them very young and at school where they can at least know what is happening how to ask for help how to fight against it. This girl was just a paper bag blowing in the wind with zero tools to say no to anything or anyone. Just a passive people pleaser all her life saying yes to everything. Its very sad.

@Leslie-es5ij 24 дня назад

I had a girlfriend whos own father sold her for drinks at a bar. She had to stay in the car , and service the men who got in with her.

@MarionT.-yl3ru 23 дня назад

This is like what jounger sister and I experiencend. I even warned my mom about one guy. She just found me silly. Mom is dead now, but the scares will stay forever.

@KandisXxx 13 дней назад

🩷💐

@lorismith621 2 дня назад

I had two older brothers that protected me No boy in the neighbour hood would dare abuse me in any was I was so lucky to have a father that taught my brothers how to be good men Fathers teach your sons Love and light to all