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@@TheDeathmail We must have been seeing different mothers. In the 'Young Sheldon' series, his mother proved to be a self centered, disrespectful, back stabbing, controlling religious zealot. She also always favoured one child over the other two [guess which one] If that constitutes a 'good mother' then I would hate to be involved with a bad one.
@@katztoffelbrei6780According to the Big Bang Theory producers, Sheldon was not autistic. Fans just like to run with that because of his unusual behavior.
She's smart enough to know that a man who doesn't want the best of everything for you, is dangerous, especially when it comes to your own control over your own body. I wonder if Sheldon understands what he just did?
@@thatguybutitsactuallyagirl5384 I don’t watch the show but I’m pretty sure this is an autistic trait not just a “man” trait but good to see you know what you need to work on in therapy. Man judging is such a toxic coping mechanism and gives all your power away but it’s also definitely just a narcissistic mind virus going around to woman that just never learned boundaries and blame others for being awful judges of character because their parents were dysfunctional narcs.
@@thatguybutitsactuallyagirl5384 Oh you mean the autistic people that have a disability should just “get used to it”? Tell me you’re a narcissist without telling me. Your handle makes that clear as glass. Somebody who wants all the empathy yet is fully unwilling to give it to others.
It wasn’t that it he thought she was ugly it was the fact that so many things were changing at once and he didn’t like that cause he already doesn’t like change and he says in the episode that Amy his one constant changed. Penny eventually manages to help him understand that the change is a good thing. He thinks the world of Amy and would never think she’s ugly it was literally just due to the change cause so much happened immediately after they won the Nobel
Sheldon was historically not okay with changes. That's why he did not like it. But he would eventually get used to it and like it, because it would be the new normal.
This is what happens when you introduce dramatic changes to a person with autism. He’s not saying Amy doesn’t look beautiful. He just got overwhelmed and shut down.
Bro Sheldon DOESNT have AUTISM!! Seriously when tf yall finna learn that😭💀 yall sticking to that like the creators didn’t confirm he didn’t have autism.
@@anthonynieto5307 sure he doesn’t. The creators saying they didn’t create an autistic character is like me saying I didn’t create an autistic child. Doesn’t change his diagnosis, but ok. 👍🏻
@@livesouthernable what diagnosis? 🤣🤣 are you that stupid you think you can make a diagnosis? Of a character that isn’t a real person, but just a character😭💀 buddy the creators say he’s not autistic. If you have a child that’s autistic and you deny him being autistic that’s different and makes u a POS parent that is undeserving of a child and negligent. But they specifically said he’s not autistic and they created the character and idc what ur little diagnoses says😭🤣 yall internet doctors funny. Ur personal head cannon doesn’t make it cannon.
@@anthonynieto5307 Having worked with people and children on the spectrum I can assure you that Sheldon's character fit the definition of being on the spectrum perfectly. And, I had a lot of people looking up to this character prooving to them that being on the spectrum is not prohibiting you from doing the things you love in your life.
@@livesouthernable it is different though. You can't control what genetics your child is born with but you can when you're creating a fictional character. If the writer's say he doesn't have autism then he isn't on the spectrum
Same. I get she can find him attractive because he's smart and similar to her and doesn't have a comparation point since that's her first relationship, but Sheldon as a partner is pure torture. The only actually lovable people of them would be Leonard, Rash, Penny and Amy, the rest of are ass holes the most of time as partners
@@jamondelechuga7329Honestly, I find Sheldon more lovable than Leonard. While Sheldon is tedious, he's at least consistent and truly grateful for the people who love him. Leonard cheated in his relationships multiple times and used his insecurities as his excuse
@@JBRewind tf did u even watch the show?. Sheldon was the worst. He went from a Robot that didn't know better too a self centered, entitled and narcissistic 8 year old. If u had a to pick one to be your roommate I bet Sheldon would be your last option.
I don't think anyone ever said she was ugly. She was somewhat overweight (for a supposed vegan, Mayim Bialik sure does know how to pack on the pounds) and wore frumpy clothes and a frumpy hairstyle.
@odysseusrex5908 you should see some of the comments on the video where a email from Amy got Bernadettes magazine article pulled. Everyone accused her of being jealous because they think Bernadette is more attractive than Amy. I personally think they both look good.
@@samhaigh5355 I would agree that Bernadette is much more attractive than Amy, but that doesn't mean Amy is in any way unattractive. Penny is way more attractive than Bernadette. Also, in the admittedly limited amount of the show I have seen, I never saw Amy express that kind of jealousy. She was always just happy to finally be friends with the "cool kids".
I don't think it was about her being ugly. It was about how she presented herself. And trying to instill confidence in her. The thing about beauty is confidence is at least 50% of it. Look at the difference in Chris Pine's 2 different egos in "Don't worry darling" 2 different views of himself resulted in 2 different depictions of himself.
This reminds me of when Mayim was on What Not to Wear and she got the really cool circus ringleader type green blazer. Looked so chic on her. Classic lines are definitely her fit
Sheldon is just being autistic. We don't like changes, or at least many changes all at once. It throws us off balance and we most likely react badly to it, because it takes time for us to accept it.
He doesn't have to be an asshole about it, though. Plenty of people who have autism are taught from a young age they don't get to be rude or abusive if they're experiencing anxiety or stress.
In a weird way, I kinda interpreted this as Sheldon liking Amy the way she was rather than what society deemed beautiful. Ik Sheldon doesn’t like change but I like to be optimistic with him sometimes 😂😂
Sheldon didn’t like change but he was more worried that someone would steal Amy away from him because of her new look 👀! Even though he tried not to show it he was very insecure when it came to personal relationships !
@@Freddie1980Maybe Sheldon should have let Amy have some joy in her life instead of constantly making EVERY LITTLE THING about him. He was a spoilt brat sometimes.
@@Freddie1980she liked her make over. It doesn't matter if Sheldon likes it because she was happy with herself, like usual. A make over never changed her.
i like that Rajesh did the transformation for Amy but i just wonder why Penny didn't do it..although i know Penny always accepted all the people around her the way they were. the fact they look for Penny to show the new look is they really look up to her.
When you think how awful it would be to have to tolerate Sheldon ALL the time as Leonard does (work, home, recreation,), you can really understand how awful it must be for Sheldon to be Sheldon ALL the time.😢
Raj did a better job than Penny though dont know what they expected knowing how much trouble sheldon has dealing with change. Also add in the fact he thought she was good the way she was
I remember Miam was very active on her RU-vid channel until she stopped. Then after this new look she returned because she couldn't show her viewers until this episode premiered.
As much as it felt mean, Sheldon loves Amy the way she is, I think for him it was like she was changing herself when he fell inlove with her before even if she wasn’t as stylish
As an autistic person, I can relate to Sheldon here. I don't like change as a general rule, especially when it's dramatic and unexpected. So I have some sympathy for him.
Because change isn't something everyone likes to deal with. It takes me a couple days, maybe a couple of weeks to get used to something new. Anytime my husband shaves I'm a bit iffy about it. I don't like the change. And I most certainly hate the inbetween when his beard is a brillo pad. I must be aware of something changing, but even knowing something in my routine or etc is changing, I get anxious for weeks before hand and weeks after. I can tell myself I'm being stupid all I want, and I KNOW I am, but that doesn't change the fact that I hate it and I'm disgruntled about it.
Y'all also have to realize that he is autistic. Many don't like change and just tell it like it is. It wasn't him trying to control her or make her feel bad. He's just wired different. My son is like this and i love him the way he is. He generally doesn't mean to say something to upset anyone. He loves harder than anyone i know ❤
Amy always deserved better. Yeah, Sheldon is on the spectrum and probably asexual, but thus was fucking ridiculous. The fact that Amy was so happy with her new look and felt so good about herself, only for her man to dunk on her. Sheldon was never going to be good husband material.
if someone can’t love you when you grow and change for the better and for yourself, then clearly you aren’t meant to be with that person because long term this type of person won’t let you grow and you won’t get to pursue the life you wanna live
What makes this even funnier is that Mayim was put on the TLC show “what not to wear” where they gave her a “makeover” after her husband said she needed one…she’s now divorced & it was sad to see her shamed on tv by Clinton & Stacey
And truth be told, the way she choose to dress and present herself was always so beautiful and inspirational to me. Add in that she was quirky and fun and the only Jewish girl my age on TV at that time and I just absolutely adored her. Still do!
My mom always used to say when I was younger and we’d watch this show that I was exactly like Sheldon and maybe the autism diagnosis my psychologist suggested was correct. I was 14 and at this point my classmates used the word autistic as a derogatory slur. It was like her calling me the worst thing in the world. I vehemently refuted any and all notion of such a thing. Now I’m an adult and can view my behaviours more objectively than subjectively I can see she was 100% right. For me one change in my day or routine is bad enough but another big change just sends me spiralling and I can come across and cold or mean just like Shelly does here. It’s so hard!
This scene breaks my 💔, but I also understand it quite clearly Sheldon’s response, he has ocd, no doubt since I live with someone who has it, 😓, change is so hard for them, 😞
Mayim was actually in an episode of TLC What Not To Wear. She was a house mom who did not care how she looked and wore sweats and baggy clothes. Looked great from her makeover. I think a year after she then started Big Bang Theory.
Sheldon was not right with Amy's makeover. Amy looks amazing and beautiful. Everybody do what Sheldon wants that's not right. He have to learn an other way. He's maybe jealous when Amy looks beautiful
"I like the way I look" only happens when a woman feels confident and truly beautiful! She looks so classy, professional and gorgeous, I wanted to spit on Sheldon for his reaction.
This simple change in Amy's appearance is is a good example why both moving into Penny's apartment at the same time worked better than Amy moving into sheldons room.
For Sheldon it IS a fear of change. For others, it might be a preference towards women with a certain look. BTW, I think she looked better in "The Prom Equivalency."
I am on the spectrum and I completely feel this! Not as much anymore as I’ve gotten older but I remember being young my mother got her hair cut. And I freaked out. Didn’t like change. It’s strange how you learn to adapt. But it’s been portrayed in a very loving way. He isn’t doing it to be mean spirited. I just think he was used to things being a certain way.
People not understanding the entire context. Everything around him was changing drastically but for him he could rely on Amy, but then that changed and thats when everything for him crumbled He doesn't hate Amys new look, he hates how everything around him is changing so fast without warning and it overwhelmed him to this point.
@sa5772 and their relationship agreement isn't a signed form of servitude? Which mainly benefits Sheldon as he repeatedly states throughout the series. She's his slave. It's clear to see.
@@Mack_auSlave is a bit much, but I was never able to find it funny every time that Sheldon abused her mentally. She stood up for herself a couple of times, yes, but not nearly enough.
@elisaa9981 Amy had the abused victim mentality. She kept returning to her abuser. Sheldon said straight up the relationship agreement was for his benefit, not hers. Hell the only time he wanted her back was when she was going out with someone else.
@Nobody_98 True. I liked their first meeting when they met as equals, but that deteriorated pretty quickly. And I think she took him back way too easy after they broke up.
For real tho! Like many ppl too, very afraid of any sorta change.. but I get it, I have & had ppl like that in my life too.. Sheldon here was just prol afraid he’d lose her now that she looked even MORE outta his league. . Not saying that kinda attitude is healthy tho of course, just sayin I understand. . Was a great show tho! ❤✌️
Interestingly there’s also the aspect of the fact that Sheldon cared less about Amy looking a standard of beauty and liked her the way she actually was.
