He wanted the bride and the spouse was to promise to not fuss over facebook, wattsapp, instagram and shopping. The bride was to promise to give the spouse peace of mine. the man, who was thrown out said the bride was his. then comes the real vows....interesting. note, the groom was surprised himself.
I think it says he will stay if Facebook and eats up, remember the important days in her life(valentines day, b'day) , allow her to shop regularly. Allow girls night out, allow him to hang out with his friends. I am Malian