I recently turned 67. I have four beautiful daughters & 7 grandkids. I tell all of them exactly the same thing about being happy. Love you!! I know your parents are so proud of the beautiful person you are💕
@@AB-gb4xf I'm referring to Tamara is humble. 😅 ( I think sometimes we forget to be more empathetic on social media.) Imagine being in her shoes, trying to chase the client who doesn't pay for a month. It' s not easy! I used to work in Sales and chasing a client for not paying within 30 to 60 days is a tough experience. It requires GRIT and perseverance. And everyone has their own opinion so there is no right or wrong here.
@@Sekret_BOLSHOY Aww I don't think we can diminish any jobs. EVERY job/ role is important in this society or any organizations. For ex, an influencer is just as important as a teacher. Advertising is actually harder than people think, especially when there is the algorithm that can affect your audience traffic. Moreover, with so much competition now among RU-vid, TikTok, Google, Facebook/ Instagram, it's hard for influenncers or businesses to advertise and target their marketing to customers.
OMG Tamara!! I’m literally in tears! I feel like I’m watching a TED Talk with you! That one cup of coffee… was the most expensive cup of coffee. I like how you are so transparent and down to earth! You don’t mind sharing what you had to go through to get to where you are right now! The best advice you gave in this video was… learning to be happy is a huge skill!!🙌🏾🙌🏾 that is so true! I’m happy that I came crossed your channel almost 6 years ago. Things are possible!! 😭😭😭 I’m motivated and can’t wait to live the life that I desire!
I couldn't agree more!! It feels soooo refreshing to hear this from somebody so successful, it's SO relatable to learn that in the early stages of her business (when things probably looked great from the outside) Tamara also had cash flow issues just like other growing entrepreneurs - I've certainly been there!!! Thank you SO much for sharing Tamara!!!!
I don’t know who else I’m speaking for when I say I find Tamara’s vlogs so soothing even as someone who has lived the lifestyle of a monk; no luxury, no money, no resources, no materialism or necessary aspiration for those things. Somehow, she approaches showing this world that doesn’t feel too far removed from “normal” life, like many other fashion or luxury or rich vloggers do. I don’t feel disconnected from her somehow at all even though she lives the opposite universe of me. I also don’t feel any pressure or envy or failure watching her in her universe. Just enjoyment. Just peace. Just appreciation and ease. That to me is what makes Tamara a special presence on RU-vid. And ironically, considering her job is literally attaining and showing all these things so many can’t have. Her spirit, personality and voice and energy is all so elegant that it shadows over any superficiality of the industry. And her class, is high but humble. If her lifestyle isn’t accessible, SHE is. Without compromising her passions or belonging in high society, without exaggerating her culture, she honors the proliferation of material beauty and relishes in the finest locations, while still being a real human being. ❤
this has been my fav chat that you have had on your Chanel. Congratulations on all the achievements! You definitely gave me a new perspective. Thanks you!
I think that was an honest conversation and I appreciated it and you are blessed and you are hard-working at the same time. It’s good to have a support system which you have in your sister and your family. Some people don’t have that, but it was all about not giving up and there are always options and ways to get around things if you just think positive, thank you
You're so inspiring 💕 we need those life stories that you have to motivate ourselves in our lives For sure , you stand out from other influencers ... it's not only fashion and beauty you motivate us to be better thank you for that
I love you so much and as a pharmacy student myself, I look up to you and find your energy exudes peace, abundance, love , love for life, and its contagious and beautiful, it makes you glow, and you give me that glow while I work hard and build my life, and before I get to where I want! thank you for opening up and trusting us💓
I agree, Tamara, I could happily live in Monte Carlo. It might have to be in someone’s attic, but still. I love Hermes porcelain, especially the pattern you got. From the $4.00 cup of coffee you could not afford, to the Hermes tea set that you can afford. Use those cups daily to feel like a princess! On happiness, yes, choose it daily.
Hi Tamara, I have watched you for years. and probably my favourite thing about you (other than your handbags 😁) is that you have always been happy and you have talked about deciding to be happy, plus I loved the days of you 'not moaning'.These things have always been a good reminder for me to cheer up. I feel like I am generally a happy person but in the mornings I wake up feeling miserable because I am a night owl, so every morning I force myself to cheer up as I know I will be happy in a few hours. Thank you for the room tour.❤
Tamara,jedan od najtezih dana sam imala juce i sasvim slucajno nailazim na ovaj video i premotam ga na deo gde pricas pricu o kafi. Bas to mi je trebalo da cujem u tom trenutku. Hvala ti. Srecna sam zbog tebe i ostvarenja tvojih snova. Uzivaj u svom zivotu,znas da si sve zasluzila. Puno ljubavi iz Beograda za tebe ❤
This girl is so smart, beautiful, transparent and down to hearth. I love how she can juggle a busy life while sharing interesting thoughts and pertinent entertaining stories. I enjoy your videos so much, Tamara!
Thank you for being so considerate about how hard happiness can be for some people but simultaneously motivating us to try to put in the work to achieve it as it is definitely something that requires work for people with deep issues like me. The fashion on your platform is amazing but the free therapy is the best part. You could be a life coach! ☺️
10:45 I agree. You cannot give love from an empty cup. I learned this myself through trial and error. People end up putting themselves in codependent situations and perhaps tolerating negative behaviour from a person because of their desperate need for validation and companionship. Sometimes finding that special someone can help you love yourself more, but it’s unfair to expect someone else to fill your cup because what do they have left for themselves? Great chat, Tamara ❤️
Tamara your are such a beautiful soul. Loved your message in this video. Very inspirational. You and Fillipo are a beautiful couple, and very good people. Very down to earth. Kisses from Portugal.
Tamara, I am 41 years old, from Egypt, you have motivated me and I am like you, built myself bit by bit. Keep the positive vibes and enjoy the rewards as they come ❤
I always love your videos and how you speak so honestly about your feeling. I really enjoyed your $250 coffee story…who hasn’t done something like that as a young person? For me, it was $400 in parking tickets. Lol. Live and learn. You’re fortunate to have a loving sister. The gratitude you have towards your parents and the privilege they provided is refreshing to hear and of course you are spot on about internal happiness. You are doing the hard work, the heavy lifting of getting to know yourself on a deeper level. I know a lot of people young and old alike who will benefit from your message in today’s vlog. Love the sandals 💚
For me Tamara, your content is simply an inspiration to show what you can achieve in life if you are focused and committed to your goals. Every time I see you I am so PROUD of everything you have achieved. Sometimes I watch your first video where you show us how to style your fringe!! 😊 and I just can’t believe how far you have come. You are an inspiration foe everyone Tamara. God bless you!!❤
I loved this chat! I think is the best one we ever had. It was really sincere and yet motivational. Its about being content in every situation in life. Thank you, Tam. Love from Brazil ❤
Hello from Atlanta GA & a fellow Serbian🥰 I came across your channel a few weeks ago & have instantly bonded with you because you’re Serbian too🥰 I was born in Kruševac & LOVE your content! I LOVED going through fashion month with you at all the different shows & cities!!! I usually never comment on things like this but your comment on having to be happy in the PRESENT & enjoy it & not always thinking something else will make you have….gifts are are called presents for for reason…..enjoying being in the present is a 🎁!!! I b love how humble you are & never haughty or entitled! Keep being you & thank-you for all the time you put into you channel🙏🏼🥰
Thank you Tamara for sharing that message on the balcony. Absolutely groundbreaking and so amazing to hear from someone as successful as you. We all have it within us and have the responsibility of being happy. It truly is a skill. Thank you ❤
Tamara~ i just wanted to! had to write this to let you & Filippo know you two are the most down to earth, respectful, natural vlogger i know!!! Just watching you sharing your part of your life & honest thought makes my day start with warmness and big laughs in the morning driving to work!!! Such a pleasant feeling 😊
Love the Hermes haul Monaco was beautiful. Love the uplifting talk really inspiring made me feel hopeful as my family is going through a really difficult time right now my hubby is very ill and we are struggling financially, however we know that by Gods Grace things will get better we just have to hold tight and be prayerful as we strive through it . Thank you for the great vlogs they really make my day night much better 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯😍😍😍
Thanks for the quick chat segment of this vlog Tamara. It was truly inspiring💗. I’m actually a “silent” follower of yours for quite sometime now. I wish you all the best and please continue to be an inspiration. Joy here from philippines 🌺
I really want to thank from the bottom of my heart for your message! I love you, you are motivating many people out there and thank you for this!!! keep going girl
Struggling through medical school and having a hard time motivating myself with college debt. You have just reignited the fire in my belly ❤. The drive to support my family is my number 1 and to be able to buy a Birkin some day is my number 2. Loved the coffee story ❤
I’m listening to you, doing embroidery, having coffee and just enjoying the peaceful time before the kids wake up, such a nice time of the day! That is happiness for me, small things! I might never go to Monte Carlo or buy something from Hermes and I’m absolutely fine with it! Those are secondary things for me, I’m happy with or without them :) That being said, until people reach a level of basic financial security and stability, there really is no amount of positive thinking that can get them to happiness. When your health and the wellbeing of your family depends on your paycheck and you are working two jobs just to get by, month to month… You have every right to be miserable. It is very hard to escape generational poverty. Thank you for being aware of this and careful with your words ❤
Hi, Tami! I want to say that i don t earn a lot of my money and i don t afford any luxury items(i don't complain about this,i am a happy person), but i want to tell you that i follow you for who you are: you are very kind and your energy is a blessing ❤. Love that you are humble and that is the main reason that i watch your videos thru the years. I appreciate your content, but your personality is shining the most. 🌞
One of your many talents is surely to inspire others . Love listening to you , you spread such good vibes and good energies. Thank you for sharing your stories ❤ Love and admire you so much dear Tamy ! Wish you the best Love the green alligator Oran and yes lizard is so amazing , so chic . Hope you got the Himalaya soon , such a strong piece Xo T. 🇲🇬
Empty pockets and Empty stomach are the best teachers in life! I can rely on that especially being born and grown in Bulgaria during the 90's ... We have this sentence here saying "I can live with 2 and I can also live with 200 " .That's why gratitude and appreciation are the best skills a person should learn to apply in life ❤️ 🎉 It helps to extend our longevity
Tamara , pratim te godinama. Prvi put komentarisem video ili bilo kako tvoju objavu. Svaka čast na pažljivo odabranim rečima što se tiče dela o sreći. Zaista si jedna iskrena i otvorena osoba od početka. Drago mi je da postoji neko onakav na društvenim mrežama ❤
Hey Tammy, thank you for the “unnecessary silly” conversation. I am personally here for the motivation, and I will still be here when my finances have caught up and I can relate o you on this level. WE LOVE YOU TAMMY FROM JOHANNESBURG SOUTH AFRICA.
I am convinced that Tamara becomes more beautiful every time I see her !! Maybe it’s your beautiful character or intelligence, maybe it’s just your energy, either way I love seeing your face ❤
Hallo Tamara, so great again 💖 thank you so much for your video and your honesty and especially talking about your situation that you couldn't effort coffee.... And how your life changed in this years. Talking about Happiness.... Great Tamara really you are the best - thank you very much from one of your oldest follower I guess with my 53 years 😅 many greetings from Bavaria and all the very best for you, Filipo and your great team 😍💖
Tamara- you would love the book “Build the life you want” which is about what REALLY makes people happier. Arthur C. Brooks a Harvard professor who teaches a class at Harvard Business School on Happiness. It is so up your alley. I am a therapist and a coach and it synthesized my lifetime of work. It’s amazing. Keep sharing your wisdom and insights! They are so valuable for your audience. Xx
I love this message Tamara!! So positive and so true! ❤ And just so you know, you’ve definitely inspired me to start looking into what it would take to start my own business that I’ve been dreaming about! Thank you for being positive and real in a world that tends to emphasize the negative.
Thanks for this vlog and for being everyone's big sister or cool auntie! Loved your boots, but Fillipo's boots are pretty sharp too! Maybe do a "Get Ready with Us!"
Your message about happiness really resonated with me. Can you show us what you got from cartier, i was hoping you were going to show it along with your hermes unboxing
You’re completely right! Happiness is a decision! We were just discussing this yesterday with my sister who also follows you. Thank you for your consistently great content ❤😊😊😊
This video was stunning because of the talk about money. It was sooooooooo good because i am in a financial difficult situation now (because of health issues) but i also know that better times will come! So thank you for this good input 🙏🏼💫
Tamara, I love it when you share little drops of wisdom. Your positive mindset whether it was something you have always had or something you worked on, that is something I am working on achieving. That is The Ultimate Goal, of course Himalayan alligator birkin wouldn't be so bad either hehe...Thank you for sharing your expensive coffee story. :)
My parents have lived in Monaco for 30 years and my mother has been mugged twice, both in the daytime - when she was at the police station they told her that this happens a lot, it’s just kept really quiet. Their friends have been burgled too, also not uncommon.
Good for you for going to therapy! You’re doing great! And yes, we all have to make our own selves happy. That doesn’t mean we stop trying to put a smile on our loved one’s face.
Tamara, thank you for sharing your journey from the $ 250-pound coffee to your current-day success. It's important to find happiness regardless of your stage in life. I think sticking to your wish list is a good idea. There is no point in buying something just because you are offered.
A completely random fun fact, just so you can see how educational (in a sense) your videos are, not just about the fashion, but for learning the places, hotels and that kind of stuff. So, I was watching this series, Drops of God (it's very interesting and I recommend it), and some of the final episodes were shot in a hotel. BUT! Because I am a regular here, I could instantly recognize the hotel (Lutetia in Paris), just because you always make sure to give as the full context of everything you do! 😄
hello tamara a great motivational speech which resonated with me and I 100% agree that we can all turn our lives around and i have done that for myself as well. just keep believing and doing your best every day. i visited monaco last year it was great i loved it. love from australia
😊😊Whoever is not happy in life, nothing will make him a happy person!!! No shopping, no love, no vacation... love will make him be at hi for the first 3 months and little by little the lack of happiness in life will return to him! It's all in the head. A person who eats bread and butter and lives a simple life can be happy and rich in the head and the one who lives a luxurious life can be poor in the head! In short, everything is in the head 😊😊😊
Hello Tamara! I think you're intelligent and I like hearing your views on life. Some beauty and fashion tips have also influenced me positively. I love animals especially dogs, just like you. I don't know how to pretend to be accustomed when I see one. I saw in a previous video that you want to adopt a dog instead of buying, what a wonderful and responsible attitude! I also can't wait to adopt mine. an attitude of love like this will highlight your inner beauty even more. Hugs 🇧🇷
Valentino in Monaco (if still there/open) luv that boutique. Bought gorgeous gown there for ball attended in Monaco summer. Stayed at same hotel as you 🥰
You say you can live in Monaco now as it is off season and the majority of visitors and tax-avoiding residents have gone home....but you forget that spring and summer are awful, congestion of traffic, the constant noise of hooting, construction, the dust, no place to park, the loud music from the bars and restaurants. A plus is that it is very safe though.
