Should husbands watch the birth of their children? (1962) | RetroFocus 

yes, loved that one too

I feel like if a man cant handle seeing it then he should reconsider his decision to have kids. Its painful for her, she needs emotional support and the best support is from the husband

@@hyrunnisa997 Not necessarily. Some people faint at the sight of blood. They can still be great fathers, but when they faint during the birth this is just stressful for everyone.

I got to that part exactly after I started reading your comment! Aye! 10:57:47 PM 5/27/2020

Gustav 123 I think it‘s in the hand of both. Neither the woman, nor the man should be forced.

Ikr, that woman was so invested 😂

I think she's the wife actually. She was going ahead and the husband decided to stop for the interview after all, or something like that.

I like this idea. I’m going to go tell errr I mean ask my wife to mow the lawn tomorrow.

@@mattwodziak1750 😂😂😂

Ruby literally what I thought

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@IHave ToBuy I’m lonely

Dude was probably mad he's single.. lol

mans been rejected

He has that 'Im single' energy

He did say that it is an unnecessary worry, or something to that effect.

My brother-in-law fainted seeing his baby born and needed his own team of medicos as he hit his head on something.

What 😂

F

Who's Heinz doofus? 🤔

@@Snobviously the villain from phineas and ferb

And he’s a supervillain.

Kenzi ! Then he shouldnt be in the room. But the meaning of the quote is that the husband should voluntarily want to be in the room with his wife. Unless, of course, the wife diagrees.

Kenzi ! Why wouldn’t she want him there? His child is being born.

I wouldn't. My husband has a terrible bedside manner when I am sick can't imagine when I'm birthing...

I think women are *a lot more* open now, then they were back then.

@@shirleydeebonilla6712 Well.. it *IS* very graphic to watch.. and gruesome too.

Lol

😂😂

In the video about the white Australia policy they zoom in some Chinese kids in the background whilst some women is talking about how Australia should remain 99% white

I mean, it definitely still happened, especially since the 60’s were a Red Scare utopia.

Well they're not debating, they're sharing their opinion, they don't get to hear the other's opinion, they're not even talking to each other, its just one person talking to the host. This was the age of segregation, these racists clowns had no problem putting others down.

You have something you want to get off your chest?

sounds like a stretch to assume a correlation between freedom of expression and political ongoings. There were taboos then and there will be today. Much like bad actors or your "racist clowns" that give a lot of 'muricans a bad look.

@@sumkindacheeto I was actually making commentary on the original comment, OP trying to be woke and spread faux positivity by saying "they expressed their opinions without shaming one another for them." When in fact, they didn't hear anyone's opinion, they just expressed their own to the host. It's more of a stretch to assume they would not shame each others opinions.

And even less if THEY had to give birth tbh!

@@Cassxowary Don't hate us cause you ain't us.

@@laobok don't hate us cause u don't compare to us

@@laobok nah we don't hate you. We just want you to feel how hard it is to have a woman's physiology so you don't act all inconsiderate towards your spouse and women in general because "wOmEn hAVe tHinGs eAsyYyy"

@@sherine9033 who said women have things easy?

His answer melted my heart...a true man.

Who said they had to be married XD

👏🏻

Snuggles McSquishbottom very true

Looks like men had more of a sense of unity than women did. But then again in those times women were taught to be private, reserved, never talk about themselves and always look beautiful. I understand that they could feel uncomfortable when seen so "imperfect" in such tremendous situation. My wife said "you were present while making, you're present when waters breaking" 😄 bit scary for the man but it is unity indeed and such a beautiful moment when a man can ease the pain of his wife bringing their child to the world by being with her.

I love this 50's housewife, Mad Men vibe. I like how they spoke. People sounded like they had accents back then. Edit: this was in Australia (duh). Lol

Most of them are racist

Jk

ikrrrrr

@@cody7342 hm, but sounds like your level of racism, ignorance and bias is way way higher so far

I can’t believe that this is not what every comment is about. It’s so interesting

I think people thought this is the UK, that’s what I thought too until I read your comment.

Yassssss I was wondering big-time where this was filmed! I did think UK at first but there was too much twang

فتاة مصريه it doesnt sound british at all!

It's remarkable! Even as a English person I was thrown off at first thinking that they were British. The interviewer in particular.

That one cracked me up!

He's probably seen enough for a lifetime.

He was 1000% sure of his answer too. Offended even that the interviewer would ask something so ludicrous lol

I imagine at the "family bonds" question, he thought "I've seen plenty of births and I've never gotten bonds to any of those women"

As he’s pushing the buggy that cracked me up lol

Yes! I thought the exact same thing! It all depends on both parents making the decision together. And I couldn't imagine a couple deciding against him being present today. I certainly wanted to be there and my now-wife wanted it, too.

Yea this one was the real ahead of his time of all

Yeah if he's afraid of blood or not going to be supportive why have him there? Also many women went them out in response to pain or lack of privacy and also the opposite. But I do really think it helps many men engage with their children. Whether they see the birth part or not certainly they should be with them for the day.

Yeah. Like the real problem was all the marriages of dubious consent in that era and the fact that men often weren't allowed in the birthing room if they wanted to.

Ameen best answer

Maybe he's his grandpa lol

Which one? There is a lot of old men in hats in this video

I think she's talking about the 3rd video/second dude

There's like 95 old men with hats in the video...

@@Skelyboss I think she's talking about the 3rd video/second dude

@@neotsz3286 lmao

That's beautiful. Can't understand a man who wouldn't want to welcome his child into the world.

You wouldn’t feel like a father in the waiting room?

I can understand why she says that..😂😂😂 "its like seeing your fav restaurant burn downs"

She was also pretty old which means she might have been Born around 1890

Victorian Era Sexual repression, woooo!

Probably doesn’t like her husband

@@sittingonceilings6805 Booo you're no fun

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Yeah but childbirth isnt a problem 🤣🤣🤣

Adrian Barbuio sorry, i don’t speak ancient

@@shadowweaver3693 Of course it isn't a problem, to the MAN. It's a big problem to the woman who has to go through a lot of pain and shouldn't go through it by herself

@@avocado3-in-182 it means th

Im certain less than two people in this video is alive

Well damn ☠️

You could not be more wrong, people from the 1962 are still around today ! Do you not understand math ? My parents were born in 1938 & 1941 and are still alive today (they would have been around 21 & 24 yrs old in 1962)

@samantha id say around 25% of these people are still alive

One Truth Media Company eh I don’t think I’m wrong... I wrote “most of these people” not all of them. And a lot of those people which they interviewed looked of middle age.

Right

Dude the first guy reminded me of Neil Patrick Harrison 😂😂😂

Except a woman is going through the experience primarily for herself.

John Cronin ... do you mean other than for the child as well?

When he said share the responsibilities and problem I- 🥺🥺🥺

Underrated comment. Aliens!

Nibogen Cupcake Not all heroes wear capes

*vegetable*

I remember from last video 😂😂👏👏

lmao u remember that video 🤣🤣🤣

I believe that is right. If a female wants to keep her partner and want him to be attracted to her. He should not witness childbirth lol. I mean, some guys can handle it, but some guys get turned off by their partners after seeing their va-jay-jay shit out a kid

@@vipr1142 or they need to grow up

@@vipr1142 if the only think in a marriage is how turned on the man is by his wife then that marriage is not going to be happy

@@vipr1142 Or they can man up

@@vipr1142 Lack of attraction caused by childbirth signifies that the couple is unprepared to start a family, not that one partner should just excuse themselves from the situation while the other cannot. If a couple chooses to have kids, they had better be 100% in because any less is a recipe for disaster.

women were ashamed of their bodies a lot more then. this question was pretty much like "Do you want to have a close-up look at your wife's vagina giving birth?" Women say no and the men say sure it's fine, or they're also a little bit grossed out by it. That's a big part of the debate no one spells out. Men weren't that opposed to it, they were mostly not physically allowed into the room.

Makes perfect sense, given the prevailing gender roles and social norms of Western societies back then.

I mean who could blame them really? If you really think about it it us really a private and embarrassing moment for a lady. I will have my husband and those who are delivering and that is it.

i mean I wouldn't really want anyone watching me shitting myself while ripping my body open to plop out a blood covered little human while sweating and screaming like a maniac. Awful enough the nurses have to be there

Noelle Most of the time the husband is away from the “business side” unless they want to see what is going on

Yeah, incredible that men these times seem more considerate than men today.

@@alicefaitdescarabistouille924 dude... that's so mean, and a tad sexist.

@@alicefaitdescarabistouille924 keyword "seem". We take in consideration everyone's feelings

Alice fait des carabistouilles probably, the family unit was still strong then, and good values were passed on... now less so. When it comes to culture, we should not only look back to the 50’s for the bad (restrictive for women) but also the many goods.

Alice fait des carabistouilles Well, before watching this, I thought about it and came to the conclusion that the wife should be the one who chooses if she wants him there first and then the husband should decide wether or not he wants to be there if she allows him. It's only fair, I mean, women could either feel embarrassed or more comfortable with their husband there, so they should be the ones to make the choice. I don't think there's a video of men in 2020 answering this question, so there's no knowing if they'd think about the women first or not.

its not like showing empathy didn't exist back then

@@musiccer7446 empathy for women, not so much…

@@imagirl688 thats honestly ridiculous. What arguments could there possibly be to support such a claim? Political landscape doesn’t equate to behaviour among people. Despite what you might think, even back than husbands usually loved their wives and vice versa. Just because there were more traditional roles doesn’t mean empathy didn’t exist. Our picture of the past is very wrong. Painting a negative image of the past is in positive interest of the modern progressive movements. Saying that men regularly beat their wives and that women had no say at all in the family is so wrong if you look at such recordings. It’s like calling your grandfather a wife beater simply for being born in that generation. Well, I’m sorry to disappoint you, men back then weren’t just machines trying to beat their wife at any possible instance and women were in many ways privileged at the time. You just don’t want to see it. We are not better today, In many ways were worse, things changed, but not everything for the better. I have the feeling open mindedness is much less prevalent today as it was back then. Social media has ruined this generation. And I am not even old. I am 18

@@musiccer7446 in general women weren’t as privileged as men. Simple as that. They weren’t paid as high, they got mistreated, and beaten for little things (most of the time by their husbands.) so don’t go around saying women had it good because when you get down to it, it wasn’t. And I’d like to point out that I know not all men were like that. It’s just refreshing because throughout the whole video, nobody seems to acknowledge the wife in the situation. Stop making such grand accusations based on one comment. Stay in school, kid.

@@imagirl688 grand accusations? I don’t know what you’re talking about. Apart from that as I said, the roles were more traditional and the political landscape was fairly one sided. About just as one sided as our modern view of the past. No, husbands didn’t beat their wives for every little thing. Violence is in all species rarely used among intimate partners especially in social species. In fact studies show that what contributes most to domestic abuse is how the person was raised. Talking about abusers isn’t what will stop abusers from abusing. Our talking won’t change domestic abuse statistics. The only thing that awareness does is help victims after it already happened. The average man was not and never was abusive. Some cultural norms surely seem abusive, but then one could argue from our modern perspective that most women back then were gold diggers because money was a much bigger factor back then. Apart from that, human decency is imbedded in our nature as a social species. If you actually believe that husbands did regularly or even wanted to beat their wives than you are wrong because you clearly don’t understand the human psyche. Talking about roles. Yes, from our modern priorities women had it pretty bad. But you need to look at it from their perspective. Many women didn’t want the right to vote because usually that right came with the work of the husband. Men usually worked themselves to death in Cole mines and industry to provide for their family. Death by various diseases or accidents was common. Whereas women may have had less political and economical power they usually had a fairly comfortable life style. Autonomy was revoked for obedience but under better living conditions. Men had full freedom, but freedom can lead you down into the darkest corners of life. Just as much as you can rise you can fall. And unlike women, men were and are still forced to go to war. I personally would rather stay home and care than be send to the battle field to die or be traumatised for the rest of my life. Besides, Mutual respect on appreciation are the foundation of any relationship. If you want to tell me that healthy relationships were less common or didn’t exist at all compared today you are naive. A short look at divorce statistics should disprove you. It might be that people were more confined to their roles and that cost many individuals freedoms purely based on irrelevant factors such as sex. But it can’t be said that there wasn’t an appreciation for each other’s roles. And to say that women had it only bad and men only good is far too one sided. Women enjoyed many privileges men didn’t have that cost them many freedoms men did have. The pressure alone on men to provide and protect and be strong alone is much more psychological torture in case you are failing than for women. Women had less pressure for achievement. They had other pressures. Fact is, you can’t see this as one sided. Apart from that. Imagine a scenario where people are asked these exact questions on the street today. Do you really believe the answers would be that much different?

they are probably too poor to afford a smartphone😔😫

maybe he wasn't allowed😤✋

are you all dumb they want privacy!!

Haha.

Bruh he didn’t want fake racist fans 😂

Lmao

I did not go in for my first child, but did for my second, It was amazing, unfortunately 30 years later I lost him in January 2021 to suicide.

:(

@@lifeiswhatyoumakeit5027 im so sorry

@@lifeiswhatyoumakeit5027 I'm really sorry for your loss😢, and wish you the best, no one should ever have to lose his own child😔

Thank you u said this in the most graceful way possible

best comment here lol

They should be present if the female wants him present

100% should also apply to the money. Maybe in better times.

Yepp couldn't say it any better myself!

I thought he had the best response as well.

Except... that’s not possible. The baby grows in, and needs to get out of, mommy.

I thought the first guy had a beautiful answer. I mean it's not a guys fault that biology doesn't allow them to birth children.

Feminist moment

Someone bring that first man back from the dead so I can marry him.

Guy was a bit ahead

@@PajamCamno he just didn’t care about being formal for the camera. Has nothing to do with being “ahead”

I don't believe he was rude he just haven't been in that circumstance in his life so he shy's away. If anything, for me the doctor is the one I cought having a sour way of behaving.

@@ezratehzib2168 Yeah, I guess that’s true. Not saying he was rude, he just seemed to be the least nice to me, which is still fairly nice.

@@belowxero3071 I see 👍🏻

He was probably busy and wanted to just give a quick answer before he got asked another

Renu Thakur I’m a woman, and I was waiting for someone to feel the day way as I do hahaha I’m comfortable with it, but definitely depends on the partner as well (some may not like to see blood)

Yes! He's the only one who gives any consideration to the wife's wishes. Everyone else is focused on the husband.

I like the woman in the back who’s just looking and smiling like “this guy’s got it”

King shit 👑

@@killerkitten7534 shes probably more excited to see a camera and mic. Back then people were really wow'd by this kind of stuff because of how new it was

My husband saw more than I did. The doctor asked if we wanted a mirror to see and we both said yes but I didn't have my contacts or glasses so I really didn't see much.

Wormhole?! Lol 🤣.. I mean if you are already there, why miss out on watching your own kid being born with the woman you are about to raise a kid with. If she can push a human out of her after growing it for 9 months, the dude can watch. It is just birth, a totally natural thing.. it is not scary lol. If he can't watch birth how is he going to handle projectile shit and vomit from a baby monster lol.

Yeah but he still can see all the blood and mucus and placenta coming out anyway. He will also be asked if he wants to cut the umbilical cord, which, according to my husband, feels like trying to cut a thick, slimy rubber band. But that’s ok too. He thought that at that moment “everything felt natural”.

Anona Meows It’s not really about if the man can handle it or not. It’s about the woman, giving birth is already hard enough without your man looking at it. Just hold her hand if thats what she wants.

"Wormhole" What a choice of words. Imagining babies coming out of stark trek wormhole now. We all know it's a blackhole, it sucks happiness and gives debt.

@Sarah A we were never married

He said, "Not for long, I'm sure." Haha it was definitely an old time flirt.

Did you actually just day "got her number"? Lmao starngely I dont think that's how they did things back then

I don't know, when were the first phones widely available? 1950s? I think this video could have been made when phones were a thing

@@basedostrich Of course they had phones in the 1960s!

@@basedostrich ..it was the main means of communicating with boyfriends. Oh dear. We are not in the ark times. Delia Morris

9AIMEr BAHHAHAHAHA

I smell a woosh

it was just the cameras that couldnt record color.. the world looked the same

@@xxpandapotatoxx9766 8 hours

Ju Mei Ohhhhhhhhhhh I get it now!

Rain Blooms I thought his answer was perfect. Personal preference. My husband was present for the births of our children but he remained fixed at my head. I was happy to have a hand to squeeze and shirt collar to grab! 😂

No the dad is the boss. If he wants to watch he watches, if he wants to go get a steak it’s up to him. Women obey

@@displaychicken Your just sad, Hun

Eric Schick I can’t tell if your being facetious or not lol I think/hope/pray you are. Dads are the boss? Lol 😆 you’re super funny if it’s sarcasm!!

tara tara tara I’m just old fashioned. Back when people were burning CD’s, I was still burning books.

BLACK CAT LIVES MATTER TOO!!!

@@mittenzpurrez8235 was this joke necessary here?

That's how people were back then. Now everyone's used to defending themselves because of the internet, so they jump to conclusions and aren't as level headed sadly

The formality and politeness of people in the past is something I miss even though I didn't experience it.

@@shoshishoshi127 I get that feeling. 😂 Although I feel like the new generation is bringing that back.

Time stamp - 2:01 2:02

Wise man in fedora :) 2:01 ish

Well ofcp

Although I agree with you in part. Why is it such an issue? I mean. Some things should be sacred between and in opposition of a man and wife, no?

Those were indeed wise words from an elder

Finally, someone with a brain, i read a comment that said "if the husband can't endure watching the birth of his child then he shouldn't have been a father" or something along those lines, what are these people thinking?

Fair enough, it depends on the person. Doesn't make them a bad dad at all.

@@TazHall exactly!

@@m.c.murdoch6 tbh, I haven't met one of them myself lol... I guess most of us are not well prepared to see surgeries (blood, flesh cutting, etc) or our wives freaking out and making all kinds of shinanigan reactions there!!

It's weird how he was considerate of women's feelings, I wonder how they photoshopped that in...

@@MrKoyama2004 not all people of the older generations were so oppressive to women. Many loved their wives dearly and cared for their feelings

i cringed reading this

@@MrKoyama2004 i wonder who photoshoped this skewed image of people in your brain. They must have done a splendid job sadly

@@allwordzaremadeup-voidz6229 You know, women back then were chained to ovens in their kitchens, and the 50's and 60's were basically Gilead from Handmaid's Tale, they told me that in my social studies classes.

And the old men

Damn it's true

god thats old

and back then you didn't really marry for love and even if you did, it was still common to beat and rape your wife... some of them probably weren't that fond of their husband.

so? In the 1800's the husband was probably *more* present than in the 1960s!

If this came out today it would be called homophobic for only asking straight couples and transphobic for stating that only the woman have children.

@@RainyRunningRiver they have surrogates tho sooo

🤣🤣🤣

TXejas19 TXejas19 which are also women. Men and Trans-women cannot give birth. It’s basic biology. Only people who were born with a uterus can give birth.

candie1230 ironically, although leftists attack heterosexual relationships, if it weren’t for heterosexual relationships those vary people would in fact not exist.

thats a good thing though

AJ wins best comment and Marky Mark wins for best reply.

For some it would be like watching your favorite restaurant burn down

@Yes Sir! really? Wow :o sounds like youre traumatized!

Marky Mark soooooo true 💯

Lmao not my babydad he fell asleep 👍

lickle sossij roll yeah... he was hot too

Sitti Inastasia So?

@@sittiinastasia5430 So this was 57 years ago. If you think he is in his 70s now, that means he was a 13 year old teenager in the video? :D

@@sittiinastasia5430 70? The dude was in his 30s in 1962, 56 years ago hes probably dead or close to 90 years old.

@@realsugar7056 looks more like in his 40s or 50s. As a 33 yo dude, believe me, we aint that old :P

A lot of women back then wanted privacy.

The women were brought up with the idea that all that 'wimin's business' (menstruation, childbirth, possibly even nursing) is something shameful that should never be shown to the husband because he'd be grossed out by it.

@@TheNaexis The real answer.

I personally think couples didn't have enough intimacy for these kind of moments back then... which is really sad. Women feeling uncomfortable in front of their husbands when giving birth and men not wanting to be with their wives in such a raw and vulnerable moment bc it would "traumatize" them. It's just sad.

@@tripalongbrasil It was, and even now, a lot more of an issue where women do not want their partner present because childbirth is a time when they're very much physically exposed. To be seen bleeding, or with urine or feces present, while a baby is on delivery is physically traumatic to the body and moee often then none a man was just anxious or insecure and had nothing to do in such a way that many just did not (and still don't) want them present. Privacy was and is a preferred option; but it's not always the case. Some people do want partners present and that's not a measure of intimacy. It's more to the nature of how private someone is.

Well that's how people where :)

@@realm1369 its literally so cute nowadays people just look at each other in sexual ways its disgusting like is this too much to ask for

I just had a dumb moment 🤣 I thought it was an earbud

@@paige6306 airpod😭

Literally thought the same thing. So cute 😍

Paige me too lol

*i think it’s AWH-KEH*

"If she wants you there" If not Im marrying someone else 😂 gotta have these conversations before getting married 🤷🏾

I totally agree with this. Some husbands are just too controlling/hyper/cause more stress/think they should be the center of attention. I told my husband that it is my hospital room. I am the patient. If he hindered the experience, he can gladly wait outside. Some men just aren’t mature enough to handle it even though they may be okay in everyday life

@@Halfbloodprincesss8 Call me immature if you want, but if my future wife didn't let me see the birth of my own child then I'm walking out of the marriage. I would sooner shave my beard then miss the birth of my child

@@happygamer3395 I agree with you. The agreement between a husband and wife is to support each other through times like having a baby and creating a family. The people who have no right to be there for the birth of their kids are men who think they can alpha their way around the birth of their child by telling the wife that she can’t get an epidural or medication for the birth, or by sitting around complaining they are tired or hungry or playing video games instead of catering to the wife who is in labor for hours if not days. If the father of the child/husband is a supportive part of the process even if they have no clue what they’re doing (let’s face it most moms don’t either), then those are the guys who have every right to be there for their family. My husband knew the rules and he was respectful, brought me ice chips and popsicles, and knew when I just needed a quiet environment to focus. Not all men are like that in a stressful situation.

I couldn't imagine not being there for the birth of my child. Right now, I am in the hospital with my wife, waiting for our first child to be born. I am extremely excited!

Shows how fleeting life is, we are temporary beings having a physical experience!!

True! Life is short. We must be certain of our eternity! Jesus came to give us life, if we turn from our sin and put our trust in Him, we will be saved. If we reject our savior and creator, we will suffer eternally in the lake of fire where there is utter darkness, weeping, and gnashing of teeth. Repent, put your trust in Jesus. And then grow in the knowledge of God. Read His Word, the Bible, every day. Jesus loves you! ❤️ He did not come into the world to condemn the world but to save the world.

This is what i think when i watch this video too😂😂

skunkii exactly, they sound dumb

@@lurji there is a chance that life continues to exist after death. We have souls. Reincarnation is very possible too. I'm not a christian, I do not believe in religion, but for some reason I'm almost sure that there's something after death. If you really wish to survive. Why it is so delusional? I bet you didn't even experience something paranormal to be so sure about your theory. The only delusional people are those who say that there's no other kind of life after the death of the body. How can you be so sure? Having an opinion is fine, but don't make it public and offend someone with a different point of view than yours.

@Rie Ta well said

No objections but shouldnt your husband be the person to talk to about personal stuff and like its his child too right

personally i’d prefer to give birth on my own, i don’t speak for everyone but i just wouldn’t want a guy staring into my hoo hah 😎

Izzy you’re acting like men aren’t eating the hoo hah beforehand

Izzy it’s not a “guy” it’s your close partner plus he has probably already seen it if there is a baby

Suzan Y Yeah, he’s a good guy.

@@KonstruktiveKritik he was born in the 1800s yet he had the brains to say it (notice his nervous laugh, he knows there was women "against" it)

Absolutely! His answer was most considerate of everyone involved and each unique situation.

The first dude was considerate too.

I doubt I'd want him there, either. All these doctors and nurses staring between your legs and your body in agony, but please honey why don't you watch? Think I'd prefer what little privacy I'm able to at that moment.

Right?

“Woke” fuck that stupid word

Lol you women are so weird

What a catch he must have been! He was only thinking of being there for his wife and not what he personally had to gain or lose from the situation like the others.

No he wasn't

Ask the GP if she can see a neurologist they have better meds all. the time and a neurologist can tell her what is wrong hopefully. I am wondering if raised blood pressure affected her brain during. the birth which does sound traumatic. Hope this helps I am a retired RN. Delia Morris

It’s because they’re British!

Yeah, if you're from a time where marriage was a requirement and the man you married wasn't necessarily one you wanted to, the societies were very separate. Women did Women Things and men did Men Things, and men encroaching on women's spaces/activities was so much more upsetting and privacy-destroying back then. A lot has changed in a relatively short time (for the better), but those older women were probably very much stuck in the "men have better things to do, and this is a Woman's Thing" idea.

@@asteroid152jes For the better? The society today is a lot worse. The divorce rates, marriages rates, how many men are becoming single (for the better) and look at how they view females and you can’t blame them for which feminism is the leading cause. No men would date a feminist. You know exactly why. Look at the single females and you notice they are one of them and once they are 30 and wish to seek to marry, settle down, & have kids, notice these men choose to ignore them. Why is that? It’s not that hard. You often hear single females saying “where are the good men gone?” You know exactly why.

@@alohatigers1199 Can you explain why you think feminism is causing a negative view on women? Feminism is literally the belief that women and men should have equal rights and opportunities. Nothing more. From my perspective that seems quite fair. And why are you saying men and you’re calling women females? A “female” could be anything, not necessarily a human. Could be be a dog. Not a crime to use the word female in this way but just wondering why. Oh and as a feminist myself I can happily say that men actually do want to date me and there are actually quite a lot of good men out there. Have a good day!

@@alohatigers1199 lmao you sound very sexist. Also the divorce rates are high because people actually feel comfortable getting divorced now. Back then there was so much stigma attached people frequently stayed married to people they didn't love or even people who were abusive or cheaters because they felt they had to. I'm glad the divorce rate is so high today. It means more people are choosing to be happy and move on. That's a good thing. If only people would stop getting married to begin with lol. Marriage is not for everyone. In fact I think the divorce rates prove that. But society still pressures people to get married. I predict another 50-100 years from now there will be less marriages.

@@alohatigers1199 "no men would date a feminist" First of all, it's "man" not "men" in this sentence. Secondly, I'm a feminist who has been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 years. I know LOADS of feminists who are in happy relationships with men. Just admit you're a sexist bellend.

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Appalling. Sounded like a control freak.

I think they mean for the situation of childbirth they should know everything idk

Why is that

@@chrisyo4461 giving birth can be quite traumatic (your in pain from an hour up to 20hrs constantly (depending on the woman) some women like to have their significant other supporting them, others don't, it's personal preference, I guess that the women who don't want someone in the room with them, don't want people to see them scream bloody murder or be all sweaty and covered in blood. It's personal preference at most.

Stylomagic in my culture men aren’t allowed to see the birth and they don’t come too see her until the baby 1week is. :(

@@noinfoneeded1838 That's horrible, why?! I mean the mother decides that, should be that way in every culture.

@@drkatbun8566 "Doctor" 😂

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I hate how men who dont have the temperament to witness it are vilified. Future fathers can learn from both sets of experiences. It's not going to be a pretty sight, if you go in ready you might be able to withstand the sight even if you have a very weak constitution.

to future fathers there will be afterbirth, there will be blood, there might even be faeces. Dont go in without educating yourself

@@umarb7325 some men just can’t handle it

I agree, it's called the transatlantic accent and they thought it as curriculum in school

@@realm1369 No. It is in Australia. Nowhere near the Atlantic.

“I don’t want my husband to know I tore my V to my A” I wish that was a response

@@seangust9025 Tearing doesn't necessarily happen. Shitting happens often though, and all shits should be done with as much privacy as possible.

@@LilMissTravelPants that’s kind of graphic lol somehow more so than my less than realistic idea

@@LilMissTravelPants I had to clean my girlfriends shit off the floor lol.

@@LilMissTravelPants yeah child birth is a very stressful and not nice situation at all to put it lightly lmao, anyways yeah tearing happens all the time and if not natural tearing they cut you from your v to a if the baby is to big and then have to stitch you up all that happening right and the mothers choose at times to not have pain medicine my mother did that for all 4 of my siblings and now going on 5th. So imagine that without pain medication and giving birth in general without that is the worst pain one can manage without blacking out it’s like 51-52 and last from a few hours to 2days.

I'm hoping what he meant is that they are one person and that goes both ways... lmao

I mean, he's right tho!😂

Just read this when he was saying it😅

It's still funny

@@aderiancreature8464 I did too

That's because this interview shows only one side of society, the rich suburban one.

Davide Vandelli true but i really just like the rich 50s look lol

@@keyboardcockatoo4567 mood

Davide Vandelli during that time most people left the house well dressed no matter their economic circumstances.

@@hdtaylor1977 this is my understanding as well. Maybe the materials were a bit cheaper more used and maybe you just had one dress or one suit but they definitely wore them out and took care of their clothes.

Missionary in the dark under the blankets. Different times, less to none sexy times

to be fair if i ever give birth i wouldn't want my partner around lol most people shit during childbirth that's not something i want them to see

I do agree with her. 80% of women defecate and another large percentage tear their vaginas or perineum. Soooo yeah. It is up to the individuals, like if they choose a c-section, maybe not so bad. But I would like Privacy.

@@VieraXXII yea everyone's different, but I have to laf omg, my mum told me it's cause the doctors tell you too push, and it's very hard to distinguish what your pushing when your cervix has dilated to the width of a human head 😶

if you had sex with someone would you also like them to watch you take a shit? childbirth is probably even more personal than to have someone watch you on the toilet

It was done in Sydney, unless you meant an Australian accent :)

@@lillianmonet5952 i think he means with proper pronunciation of the words and the education to the words not like " oh yea na i reckon it be alright if man where there you know what I mean "

@@shaunmcfarlane9657 truth is people had a different way of speaking when the occasion called for it. It's just posh phone manner and mostly for show.

Lmao the egocentric nature of America can be so cute. Just what if Mulan 121 was an Australian! And he might be bewildered and question where the heck YOU are from to ask such a thing!

@Mulan 121 I always think about that!

😂😂😂

This is why I made sure my husband was int there. Mr. I want 10 kids, changed his mind quickly.

🤣🤣🤣 right!!

@@mslthughes I want 10 kids. Alright for him. He doesn’t have to go through all the crap. If he had to go through the pain and that. Soon. Change his mind.

I believe the way they meant it is how old people used to believe that seeing a woman give birth is somehow considered a turn off, rather than not wanting to have more children as it is painful to the mother.

We already know the answer

@Ronald Studuain 😂😂😂

people today think that all family, and in laws should be present

Ronald Studuain 💀

Horses4life1001 Hell no. Just my boyfriend/husband. If an in-law tries to but in in that personal time, I don’t want them around me anymore.

She was 100% adorable and right!

I love how the interviewer did a silent and respectful bow as she left 😂

She was going to miss her bus

It's actually sad isnt it? Such toxicity patriachy still exist.

Its true, go to countries were women are treated as property, raped, killed for being women, or misogynist communities that hate women, say their less than, etc. it does still exist, even if its not as much as it once was.

While the mans responses surprised me, the womans answer did not. Old folks are hardcore.

you're... shocked that not everyone is the same as you?

You don’t have to follow the crowd. You can dress how you like. The last time I went to a West End theatre (2022), I dressed up. Most people looked like they were running an errand, or doing housework. Do what makes you feel good!

I expected this. Marriage was a lot more sacred and traditional back then. Plus, the 1960's were a relatively progressive time anyways lol.

@@dbzayan yea that is true, but with the way feminism and stuff is going it almost seemed as if men didn't do much of anything.

@@patriciaburgess9008 modern feminism is bs

Patricia Burgess modern feminism is different from back then. Many things were very sacred, esp to a married couple who was about to start a family

@@AlysonJackson yea I'm starting to see that now lol😂😂

Datman Right now he would be charged with sexual abuse and 20 years in a Federal Prison.

Francisco Calvache no he wouldn’t

Real smooth lol

@@AnImperialGod Why would that happen? Because he asked, if the woman has any future plans to marry? Which could be, even though it is a little far-fetched, interpreted as flirting. He would go to jail for that? I feel like you have lost touch with reality a little.

Alglilgiasi not true. Men get jailed for approaching women nowadays.