Bk Shivani said... Don't treat any one like God. God is God .. we are all souls. Once we treat someone as God...it's a hindrance to meet God n we will.never meet Him.
After a few minutes of general comments/questions, Sister Shivani gets to the crux of the problem using the event and the audience themselves as an example!! Simply brilliant!!!
Rev. Sis holy soul Shivani ji... 10 yrs ago...I was in deep depression... I never visited a psychiatrist ... I watched and followed ur self Management videos as if word of God... Today I am the happiest one only due to your divine guidance... My Pranam at your holy feet... Lots of love and gratitude...❤
I really thank you ...Today I live happily because of you only.I was in depression from last 7 years.Took depression tablets. but now today I'm very Happy due to you.I daily listen you.
@shirinlakhani6432 it's not easy but POSSIBLE I was also on medication but stopped within three months and watched shivaniz videos and others like sandeep maheshwari and did a lot of self work and I managed to stop them
Thank you Shivani Didi for your wonderful guidance. I believe that I got connected to you because I was going through lot of stress in my life and didn't had anyone who would understand my pain and guide me ... So I look upon you as my elder Didi always there to help me in every situation of my life. Your magical words just take off all the worries and today I am a much better person than I ever was... I have learnt to self introspect in every situation. Thank you Didi 🙏
Thank you for all your videos 🙏, my 17 years of marriage life, every time my relationship is shaken I look for your video to get peace of mind, learned to forgive and focus on myself to be happy
Good morning Shivani ji. I m big follower of your lectures. I just feel like mentioning one thing for the editor of the video kindly make sure things are not repeated. Like in this video same thing is repeated twice thrice. Thanks
Thanks so much madam, for sharing your invaluable wisdom and thoughts with us, i think if there's ever such a thing called 'true selfishness', it's this!!... All the good that you do for others, you don't do it for them or self gratification but you do it for yourself and your happiness only... Just this single, simple truth can remove so many karmic entanglements and complications from our life.... and make us happy from inside without depending on others, but madam isn't it also true that we have such conditioned minds because somewhere we get influenced, are encouraged or even forced to have such mindset, we are taught that in order to succeed and survive we must have such an attitude towards life!!... but, then again, we are what we are just because of choices we make, no other person can force his or her choices on us, we cannot be victimised without our choice!!... God bless you madam... OM SHANTI!!...
She is also creating a mind set isn't that clear......she says if u don't feel like don't come ...is that applicable on the woman that listens to her and say to her husband. I won't go wid you??? Or won't do what you wish me to do..can she s au same herein public..crap she talks un necessary sweetness nd no fairness.she is saying to women don'tk expect simple!....it is a tit for tat ? equal give nd take
Arti Vedi All she's saying is, be true to yourself, don't ever be a hypocrite and don't lie to yourself ever!!.. Whenever you do something, give it 100 percent of energy of yourself or don't do it at all, simply because you are not doing that to just please someone else out of fear or guilt, but essentially you are doing it because you feel it's right and you feel good about it.. In that way, you will never blame others for whatever happens with you which is a good thing.. No, she's not creating a false mindset, she's in fact encouraging us to be truthful to ourselves which breaks all the false mindsets and makes us weak!!.. I think if one leads life in such a way, he will surely live a heavenly life on earth itself!!..
No quostion for compromise maa beta ki rista se pavitra koi rista accha nahi Karan maa ki koi swarth nahi aur asb rista mai swarth zadit thank u maa koi vul kaha aur apsabda kaha hoga tyo appkhyama kar dijiye om shanti
I don't understand why the crowd was laughing so much... Did they even get it? Such a bad crowd.. Her words calmed me down, tears rolled down my eyes..I wish the camera wasn't focusing on the crowd so much..
As for as to my knowleddge i can not compromize,because the art of dancing before the persons as their practical negative attitude. For ,ex, when i was working near Bangalore wheremy brother was resing. It was the seazon of Dasara festive celebrations at Mysore. In connection with it just i asked my brother that iam coming to Bangalore. What that fellow suddenly repplied ,pl dont come, we all the family members are going to mysore to attend a friend,s marriage. It is on the day of Dasara day any fool conduct any marriage on the day of Dasara that too in Mysore. Any self respected person can compromize with that incidence. This is self respect keeping.
when tears roll down I search for your videos and yes every time these videos make me feel peace. thank you for making me to learn something Everytime and making me realize that only I can save everything.
She genuinely have an amazing words to resolve anything against anyone.. I don't know what magic she has that makes everything appears so clear and easy.. I seriously RESPECT you from bottom of my heart.. Amazing words.. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
B. K. Shivani touches my mind, heart... Gives me extra strength to lead life happily, her speeches are quiet addictive, I listen n put into practice in life.... AMAZING... May God give bless her
Same condition with me.... Whenever i getting feel alone and something hurts then i searched these videos... And realy got peace 😇😇 thank uhh for making to have change mind
Rare is the person who can just be who they are without pretentious airs or feeling like they have to be a certain way in the eyes of others. We are like chameleons morphing and adapting to the commands of others. I have been in social settings where I didn't feel comfortable because of the image the members of the group had of me to be smiling, pleasing and agreeable all the time. I stopped going there because I felt like I was being fake. What I've noticed is the moment you change they think you are arrogant because you are no longer dancing to their music. Joseph Campbell said: "The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are." We've turned into people pleasers and doormats.
Whenever I am undergoing stressful times,I connect with you and it gives me a lot of relief. But how can something work in a relationship if it is not happening from the spouse.
I understood that everything I did for the important person in my life was for myself, for peace and harmony of the relationship. Though I made all the efforts but even expecting from the other person was getting me under pressure. Now, I am feeling way lighter. Thank you so much ❦
Choice is different thing. But should we compromise the health and lives of ourself and our children. Even if we radiate understanding and remain stable but what if I think a thing is good or harmful for my child and my wife think the other way. Compromising doesn't always mean petty things like making choices
40 years of selfless service and love , walking on eggshells and not appreciated at all. 3 years back he was diagnosed NPD ( narcissist personality disorder) . I’m living with a narcissist.
Sometimes situations get so complicated that both the parties feel the pain. But none of them wants to compromise and accept each other's mistakes. When one person doesn't want to be the burden on other and tries to do things by his own..unfortunately other thinks that he doesnt respect n love him.
well she speaks very nicely. But she doesnt talk about duties , respinsibilities, commitment , loyalty etc to educate ppl of their roles ? Her prechings can give solace to ppl who are deprived of these values from others. But the same can be misused by ppl who dont want to adapt any of these values. A husband can always escape from his responsibililties quoting her videos. 😃
Everytime I'm in pain, she come and just takes away all my pain. She is a true saviour. You are answer to all my questions. After listening you mind becomes so clear
she is really god's gift to us. I always get my answers in her speech what I am searching in my inner tunes. so motivational and practical examples of our leaving lives.
After hearing the whole of this , i am so glad that i have lived this way for so many years. Just got an affirmation that I'm normal and not otherwise. Finding joy in knowing that I am in the right direction
Well Parents love has to be unconditional ,it's a cycle it goes on for generations but they act as a victim when things doesn't go their way when the children are grown up they don't accept that they are different entities
Instead of being fans...we should implement her talks. I'm sure she doesn't want fans... Fans is not a nice word for a person like her...feels like some kind of materialistic word
Good morning sis, how to answer to some kid tell their parents. From a friend of mine. Child have expectation from Mum, why you give birth to me. Thank you
Does it mean that one should not look for some connection in relationship (basic values and thoughts) rather just accept the other person? For e.g. in arrange marriages - there might be genuine case that two people are different and so it’s better to separate than compromise too much.
I'm too young to answers this do sorry if you don't like me answer . And I completely agree with you but we always have 2 choice in everything and we don't know which one is better but if we are in a good mental state which again not easy these days ( I myself had bad childhood but after seeing her videos trying to be positive and still not able to do it even halfway but trying with faith as I believe in God🙏). Even in her book it's written it's our choice listen to your heart and ask do you want to give it a chance and have faith that things will get better and if Yes please do it with complete faith that yes and pray for your and then their healing🙏. And if you don't feel love or Even after trying yes you may pray and move on for a Happy life 🙏🙏 But again it's your choice if you feel you love that person or not . If yes again choice should I give it a chance. God bless you🙏🙏
Iam not doing anything for anyone i did it for myself. Expectation will be killed . To give we have to create and we cannot have control on receving we have control on giving. People will not be my way . Acceptance is normal People have different value system so they can never be my way .as i cant be there way . Explain to them with love.
Sis. Shivani...u r an amazing person....touched my heart and helped me to transform my heart... I really want to thank u for making me a peaceful human ..... May God bless u and use u to change the thoughts of many...
Whenever i am in difficult situation ...i connect to u..through my thoughts...life is beautiful being with u every sec...u r an angel...u r always in my heart..om shanti shivani didi😊😘😘😘
Please help me sister .I m too disturb and feeling depressed as my husband who is in abroad with his parents now and isn't talking to me it's been 13 days today all because of what all I said him from past three months did hurt him so much that he asked me to stop bugging him and stop calling and messaging him and if he wants to get normal he will by himself as my words have hurt him badly and it's in his heart and mind.i did tried to approach his family to sort out our issues but none did help me the way I thought it would be rather then that he got more angry as he didn't wanted our issue to get public what mantra should I chant and for how long kindly do suggest please as I m getting impatient and impulsive and missing him day and night I want things to get normal between us and he to love me unconditionally like before please help me sister please.
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What if situation is like you r with smone who love to hurt u alwys hurting you and its his normal behaviour but you can’t tolerate that... how to manage with them
Believe me..either u want or not.. if it is like dis..both of u have to part ur ways..I have been the same situation..I tried my 1000%...still..when I finally put him into a test to make effort for me..he didn't..infact he was ready to go..so I tell u..if u want to save it..then make urself priority first..be that gold whom he can't ignore..n start taking his words.lightly..i mean..laugh with him more..instead of arguing..do not react but respond..u will notice he will talk to u politely n lovingly..but u have to be like dt gold..never tell him how important he is for u.he will hurt u only then..if u hurt by his words..tell ur subconscious mind that u r fine..do not react just respond..n do not say ugly words to him..end the topic ok..then..if u think so..very good..so that he starts to think..y didn't she react..I don't like all dse tricks..I feel it's game type..bt u know.. sometimes people do not value u.n u have to make them realise..pls watch some spiritual videos..so that u can understand how to keep urself in calm.coz I understand it hurts too deep..I pray tmhare partner Ko tmhari kdr ho.n both of u be happy together.😊
My partner s womaniser n he behaves very good n sweet to me once I confronted him he said where s the prof n denying everything..n I’m in my 50s can’t get out marriage coz of kid r who wants to go through that mess ..I look myself so helpless..just doing things as wife has to do I’m shattered inside ..that person is died completely just pushing day n night ..😞 whatever didi says nice to hear ..practically it’s difficult to accept
Getting away from him is best option but there are lot of things to be taken into consideration...our financial status, social stigma,kids,our parents everything.......so when the above is not possible the other best way is to ignore them and find the purpose of your Life... Achieve the purpose of your life before you die.....be like he cannot touch your emotions with out your permission....
My son Mubarak is normal .He can speak and understand. He can do anything. He can do everything .He is totally fine and fit .Thank God .Thank you so much shukriya shukriya shukriya .
You are a great source of inspiration for me.thanks Shivani di . whenever I find myself in adverse situation your words always guide me,make my mind peaceful and the things become clear. Thankyou so much.
Back then I was a kid and my mother used to listen her , I never liked her cause I never understood her.But right now she is the only one who soothes my chaotic soul. Thank you so much. Om shaanti❤
Manamentha manchiga vunnaa, positive ga vunnaa,annintiki adjust ayyi vunnaa, relationship ki importance ichhi compromise ayina kooda edutivaallu manalni proper ga understand chesukoru n mana too much Manchi thanaanni undue advantage ga theesukuntunnaru n arrogant ga behave chesthunnaaru n mana weakness ni vallaku plus ga convert chesukuntunnaru.Patience anedi just one sided ga vunte saripodu madam it should be from both sides so...Mee cool, sweet, n mesmarising words doesn't workout with everyone who doesn't understand the definition of those soothing words madam.I just love your mesmerizing sweet speeches madam n have immense respect for you.
But people who use abusive words towards when they are angry but never uses those words when they are angry with someone else. Is it worth being with someone has no respect for you. Even if I don't expect anything but even when they have the right to be angry that's there sanskar but tolerating such behavior isn't it toxic?
My morning srts wid Ur voice meditation session Sister , Ur beautiful thought sessions Always puts me on track ,whenever i do anything wrg, I m realising quickly otherwise phele to lagta tha mene to kuch galat kiya hi nahi n abb jab pata lag jata hai kaha galti ki to usi wakt sudhar bhi leti hun...u r lyk a angel for me Sister ...May God gives u ...N thank You Sister ...Kai sare logo ki zindagi ko behtar banane k liye ...Omm Shanti 🙏😇
Didu ... This is video is very true n practical. Your example of spouse was so real ..as reality you r saying with husbend n wife happens. Thank you for clearing all the confusion ,we v...
No word to say thanks to her. Only want to express that her guidance has changed my life and my thinking completely. I try my best to keep happy my all relationship and I don't know if they are happy or not with me because to be happy or not it's only their choice. I can just make feel them happy. But to be happy or not, This is only up to them. But I feel myself the happiest person in the world. Because of her, I have found GOD.
How does a family run, if everyone starts believing their whims and fancies to be their Greater CHOICES due to lack of experience or understanding. Societal norms do require, some reciprocal behaviour towards each other , Compromise as one may say .
