Brenden’s honesty is so refreshing and freeing a lot of people right now. We need to stop trying to make our “productive” habits to mirror each other. Let’s try harder to learn what works for us and be true to that.
I appreciate Brenden's honestly. I would like to believe he is one of the few people who are okay with being who they are and are okay with being transparent about who they are, which is beautiful, especially for some of use who are getting to that place
Joyce Meyer once talked about it saying simply because I pray in the morning doesn't mean I should wake up my partner to do the same, and even the way I pray I shouldnt disturb the other person who wants to rest. I love u guys.
"I am so much happier when I am being honest with myself". I love how Brendan says its okay to not be what the Gurus say we should be. It's okay to be whoever works for YOU!!!!
Prioritizing myself has been the best thing I did for myself. I used to suffer from depression and that’s because everyone else had to come before me. I was very resentful of others and generally a negative person to be around. My therapist said to me if someone asks you for a billion can you give them. I said to her no I don’t have that money and she said to me yeah you are giving people what you don’t have that’s why you are exhausted. You are not a super human. You are just as important as the people who you want to please
To the 21-year-old - please go back home and end that relationship. Just to keep it short and not to ramble too much. You will thank yourself at a later stage in life. It will hurt to let go especially because you are so invested , but babygirl please , you will truly thank yourself later. The right person for you will find you on your path and you will not have to hope they’ll change to be better for you. 🌸
Brenden Praise, thank you for the masculine transparency, for harnessing a man conversation, in all honesty. God sure means business with you my brother. Soar on. Many should just learn from you
Mrs Mom you're such a gentle reminder of so much for me and you're radiating Glory momma. Keep on gliding on those wings like eagles'. Rooting for you beautiful ❤️
Mphoomy hypes Bren ALLLL the time. Today Bren is out here trying to give her a compliment and she straight up brushed it off and diverted straight to the topic. 🤣🤣🤣😂 Noooo Mrs Mom. #UMUHLE _NTOMBO!!!🙆♀️🙆♀️💣💥
Mpumi I’m like you - I’m so afraid of marriage because I feel like marriage will strip me away from “me time” because mornings are mine lol 😂. I pray to God for an understanding husband who’ll be happy to do his own thing otherwise I’m going to be unhappy.
What Brenden said about a morning routine is SO profound...I relate so much to that. Used to beat myself up and feel bad when I don’t do “what I must do”. I ended up resorting to the natural flow of my life and happier. I’m not alone, THANK YOU BRANDEN!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Aiii this was interesting hey. Especially about routines. Lol I am soo not a morning person and been struggling with being a 5am club lol but ever since I left my 8 to 5 job. I have become such a morning person but I think it's like you guy say the stage of the life I'm at now. Because I've found it to be much more beneficial for me to wake up at 5 and pray 6am start cleaning the house. While the kids are still asleep. Haven't been consistent with it past few days and I see that it's struggle if I have to clean the house when the little ones are up. Thank you soo always sharing your stories with us. And @brenden I felt you brother when you said date nights haven't been happening in a while. Same here. We will fix this and @mpoomy I'm also not a nice person when I didn't start my day with Jesus😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is so good! Because at times you become somewhat grumpy Because your spouse doesn't do what you deem couples should do together! My husband is NOT a morning person and just like Brenden,he prefers his coffee/jogging and good music then all other things can come...hearing Brenden say this has kind of opened my eyes that I should accept how making HIMSELF a priority looks like...thank you for this topic
All I'm getting from this is be you for the right reasons. Gravitate towards your truest form of self, fill up however so you can be the best to the next person!!! Urggggg thank you!
Here for Brenden not wanting to make it gender specific in order to be inclusive of people who identify as non-binary 👏🏾👏🏾. This conversation was so refreshing!
Eish......... Patterns!! 🤒 My temperature just went high. We Jesu he makes me a better person. God please give us wisdom as women to not put ourselves last in relationships.
This has helped me so much with my studies, I’ve been pouring so much into my work, sacrificing time with myself, friends and family, that I’ve been miserable and starting to hate what I’m doing. So I’m going to start prioritising myself, my loved ones and get a routine going.
Just discovered you guys at the right time. Been losing myself lately and this podcast is just the best for me right now. You guys are just amazing ❤️😢 thank you
You guys are literally what makes me feel like my high self. Prioritizing myself is waking up in the morning and consuming your positive wisdom. Podcast or RU-vid video. I literally become so self aware in the most beautiful light! Simo (my partner can advocate to this) ! One of the things that’s makes my cup full is you guys❤️. I love your union. ❤️
I am just like Brenden, In the morning I just want praise music that wakes me up, I say a prayer though. Evenings are my time, Thats when I can journal, bible study and read a book. I even work best at night. I am such a night owl.
"yall heard it here first" Brenden with the spice 😂 This is such an important conversation. A great reminder to prioritize one self. It's so easy not to do it.
Sibonge🙏 I HAD to hear this. I have been doing sooo much and wearing sooo many hats that I lost me. Only now that I calm myself down and say "look make time for you". Coz I lost that after the birth of my 2nd born and the new level at work. Now I am okay with my failures. I am okay with knowing that at times I fall short. I will reboot and startover
I totally agree with you Brenden on the stigma around those daily routines. There's really no 'one size fits all'! We are different and yes - ROUTINES ARE SEASONAL!! I like it..
I'm so much like Brenden. For so long, I felt terrible (and felt it was wong) for not being able to pray in the mornings like most people do. It is so relieving to have listened to both perspectives. Love you guys!
You guys are so amazing and are God sent! Thank you Mpoomy for highlighting being lost and not knowing your "thing" or passion rather. I am turning 33 years and i am just moving with life and till today i do not know what is my passion. Grateful for my job as it has good benefits and i can pay for my bills. I will pray about it and ask God for guidance as i always feel miserable and purposeless. I need to feel fulfilled (it is never too late).
Wonderful podcast 👏I am all about the self love affair but also high light that there is nothing wrong with needing some covering from ur partner...u can pour into ur partner n vice versa its not all about working on ur urself to be better for another person...u as partners can work on each other for the better of ur marriage or relationship
You guys are 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Am so grateful to God for finding you .....this can only be grace and outpouring of God's love ...am 23 and listening to your stories and wisdom and knowledge with everything happening around me and in this season of my life is a pure blessing🙏🙏🙏 thank you thank you so much...😅 literally can't wait to share with my friends the treasure ( you people) that I just found so that we can all learn and grow together..once again thank you so much. May God bless you and continue to increase you in all areas of your life. Lots of love all the way from Zambia ❤️
"You choose stocks based on their potential. You choose a partner based on the patterns." 🔥🔥🔥 I felt that! It also reminds me of the quote by Maya Angelou: "When people show you who they are, believe them the first time". She has seen who he is and needs to leave asap!
I don't think it's wrong, it boils down to understand that you live for an audience of one, that is God, many a times, we get married and loose ourselves on who God wants us to be, yes there's a need to still understand that my position in the marriage as a man or woman is unique and a special place God anointed for me and important to embrace.
I was really encouraged by the Routines part. I've been battling to find my own, because I'm constantly comparing it to the norm! Routines are seasonal👏 that will really help me find my balance in routines.
I'm always looking forward to watching you guys so much because I know I'll take something constructive or learn a thing or two. What you said "I am a better servant to you when I'm fulfilled". That for me was everything.... Brandens response to the letter👊👏👏👑🔥🔥
Its crazy how professional you guys are, complementing one another like strangers meeting for the first time and being lovers at the same time. Lo bantle ibile lwa ratega. We appreciate you Boora Ledwaba. Love Lesego
💯 agree with breaking the stigma around routine. Again it goes back to your personality type “introvert vs extrovert”. Honestly do what works best for you as an individual as you have nothing to prove to man. As long as what you do is honouring and glorifying God - that’s all that matters. He knows our hearts, He knows our intentions. Niyangichaza, ngiyanithanda. 🥂 to prioritising self in order to becoming best partners for our spouses and those around us. #livingauthentically Love, Mrs Nacho
You both are so cute 🥰 together, I first learn about this couple when I heard them singing” Blessing “ Love their accent.. just beautiful I can tell this is true love ❤️ God is good..
💃💃💃Notification gang 💖🎀what a way to start my week this podcast spoke to me in so many ways I'm in a journey of loving myself I just love you guys so much 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥you're just spitting facts❤️🙌🏾
I am that church member who has been here for a long time and has just been absorbing and sorting lessons that resonates with me. This has been one that definitely warrant a comment for me. Day made
Absolutely! When you fall in love with yourself literally nothing shakes you off. You hardly feel inadequate and you'll never be a spiteful person. I love that!
If I had this in the previous years, would have definitely had a clearer head to make it ok to choose me. Thanks guys ...honestly thank you so much. It feels so much lighter to be able to look at a guy and not think "I could be letting go of my husband"
My cup is surely overflowing with wisdom. I feel fueled for the week and ahead in as much as my mind and soul are concerned. I treasure knowledge and quality kind of knowledge just does it for me, I can never be fully informed but I honestly appreciate authentic gestures like you guys do, having access to such information for me is a surreal privilege. Thank you guys. May God continue to pour more into your cups
