This film made me think of my best friend, who also my first love. I wept through much of it as I remembered our youth, and how devastated I was when he committed suicide (his father was a Baptist minister, and we could never be together). Ours was not a sexual love, but a physical one. I spent decades in anguish over losing him; even delving into random hookups, but all wanted was him back. It has been 34 years, and I am just starting to heal.
Bradley I read your comment and I'm so sorry you had to face that kind of loss at such a young age. Learn to love again dear Bradley, you owe it to the memory of your friend......Allen
@@allenelliott2600 Aww shucks! Actually about two weeks ago I met a guy through my blog, and we are discussing a meeting, nothing sexual involved. He knows about David and has been grieving with me. It is the first time since David died that I have allowed myself to be vulnerable with another guy. I pray this goes well. It is a new territory for me, not seeking a guy for sex. It is scary but exciting.
@@tvmasterc I'm excited for you could be the beginning of something wonderful. I offer you my friendship and it would be nice if you keep me posted. I'm 44 and learning to live on my own after a 10 yr relationship....might be out there looking myself soon....one's a lonely number
Most realize that most of us can not just flee one's country. Not that easy, or cheap financially. Good luck Yousef. America has it's problems, but it is much more wonderful place to live than you probably read about. My partner of 26 years (husband now), have a wonderful life over here. Some folks will never "see", but that is their lonely problem. Good luck.
Im gay, my bestfriend’s straight. He’s dating my sister and no I don’t like him like that. But if he knows I’m watching these shows things bouta be awkward HAHAHAHAHHA
@@zarashakil6707 I do think it this is being "Boys" (2014). The two mained actors are being Gijs Blom (Sieger) and Ko Zandvliet (Marc) Jongens (original title) They do haved it for watching at Amazon and too Amazon haves lots of others of movies as this one, liked "Hidden Away" which cand you find there and too others which do haved Gijs Blom too as liked "Painkillers".
There is a German saying named "wo die Liebe hinfällt", literally it means where the love falls. You can betray and lie to your head, but not to your heart.
Yeah, uhm in Berlin, where I live I was talking to an older man and he brought the subject of love to me and he said "der Tod ist zu verfallen, wie die Liebe ist zu verraten" which means death is to decay as love is to betray
This is such a beautiful film and in silence. It shows what can be communicated without speaking. As a senior gay man, I wish such videos had been available to me when I was a young person. Thanks for this elegant message, something so many of us have been through. Now I see that you have only created two videos and only one other. Please do more.
I recently came out to my best friend. I told him I loved him... He sadly did not feel the same way back. Even though he accepted me things are just not the same. I haven't talked to him in a couple of months. We used to see and text each other everyday... I miss him everyday.
Well, you first have to accept that he will never love you back the way you would want him to. To stay friends with him, he must never worry that you will try to get intimate with him. Then you must focus on the interests you have in common, the things that made you friends in the first place. Then, be sure to reach out to him routinely -- like once a week by text or phone call. Suggest getting together. And if you sense any hesitancy on his part, just explain to him he has nothing to worry about but you would like to continue the friendship as before. Good luck.
Thats the danger of the "Friend Zone", some words can never be unspoken.Kinda like being a 'virgin' its a one time thing, be very careful who you share it with - the First time.
This is without a doubt one of the most emotionally powerful videos ever seen. Words in a foreign language but they really aren't needed. If they are just actors they are remarkable in their genuine feelings foe each other!
These Kids don t study don t work they wear expensive designer clothes. ... Think about the developing world children who work as early as 5 and Will never have the opportunity to learn how to read and write. ....what a weird périod! Lgbt people all have their difficulties it isn t the priviledge of the happy few
At last a movie be it only a short one that portrays all the real love and emotion we Gay people are known for ......loved it and after watching a lot of bad movies on here this was just what I needed sad emotional but my heart cried out for this all night.......thank you
I am fall in love with my fnd but still I can't say him anything ...every time I think about him and I care about him..... I really love him so much I can't explain how much. we are same ages he is 21 and I am 20 .....I miss him so much now! I listen this song more than thousand times ! ♥️🎸
I KNEW I WOULD END UP IN TEARS BEFORE I FINISHED WATCHING THIS..... OF COURSE I DID..... "LOVE IS ALL" CHERISH IT & BELIEVE IN IT.... LOVE, BOB S. FOX, PALM SPRINGS, CA. USA
Well, this was simply fantastic! Makes me want to be young again and just starting out! Does anyone know how I can get these tunes in America?? I must have them! Thanks!
OKAY, SO FOR ABOUT TWO MINUTES I STARTED TO FEEL SAD FOR THE WRONG CHOICE HE HAD MADE, AGAINST HIS HEART HIS BOYFRIEND, BUT THEN HE CHANGED HIS MIND AND DECIDED TO COME OUT TO HIMSELF AND TO HIS FAMILY, AND GO GET HIS LOVE!!! THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR YOUR SHORT, I REALLY REALLY ENJOYED IT . J.R.MASON CALIFORNIA
People don’t understand beyond the sex. people like these boys/ men have a connection that is beyond the physical. You could say it is spiritual, yes spiritual it is where souls on the same plane meet.
Love is a promise, Love is a souvenir, once it's given never forgotten, never let it dissapear. I have loved my boyfriend for 5 years and half...... Difficult situation in all ways in a country that doesn't honor LGBT, but all I know is that I'm ready to die for my Man. I love you Alex
This is very emotional and beautiful I wish I can love and live the way I want it's just my country "Lebanon" we don't have freedom in it we have to hide and it kills me 😔
@doctorwho0077 well I don't know if u live here or no but trust me u don't know the situation here and yes we tried to be against them but there's no support we're getting hit by them and till now we're still trying, thank you
Here in the Philippines even we know that same sex relationship is not allowed but we voice out and show to them that love is no gender. But the saddest thing is I don't have a relationship 😞 But it's okey. I am happy wheb I see same sex lovers. Stay strong to them.💖
Just go at Amazon and rented it or buy it at there. It is called as "Boys" (2014) and if do you liked that probly you would too liked it another of video at there called as "Hidden Away". I haved hundreds of videos down loads withed good storys and actors. "handsome Devil" and lots of ones do they haved at Amazon.
It's good and pain relieving to see a lgbt movie full of true love and joy but at the same it's so sad to see that we probably never gonna know that love, those moments of joy and sweet affections because it's just seen as a TABOO, as a SIN or the worst as a DESEASE around here. Being gay here, it's something u gotta keep inside urself, it's a huge secret u must keep from first your family, your friends and ofc the world you're living in, and simply act as if there's never existed another love than that between male & female unless you're ready to lose everything (including your life). Everyday is filled with fear and frustration. I personally wonder sometimes if i'll ever be able to love freely and fearlessly someone. Life can really be unfair 😥
I don't understand where this "fell in love with best friend" chatter comes from - that is not this movie. (Not a spoiler in the following quote - it's the premise:) "Sieger is training in the new athletics team for the national relay championships and meets the intriguing and unpredictable Marc. The friendship that develops seems nothing out of the ordinary, but Sieger secretly harbors stronger feelings for Marc. He engages in a lonely struggle with himself when it emerges that Marc is also in love with him." So, they are "friends" sort of - but really it's like going on the all-county team (or whatever) and oops, this guys that is super friendly to me is actually also gay and into me. A dream come true for many sporty, HS gay guys.
Well the part where you try to ignore the guy you want so you can pretend to be straight and blah blah blah was not part of MY fantasy, but heaving forbid the movie just be about the relationship, because DRAMA! (and by that, I mean too many gay men actually hate themselves or at least have a lot of internal shame). And sometimes those sorts of people make movies.
Unfortunately there is a large group of gay men who are Extremely Masculine and Muscular who are indistinguishable from even the most Yang of Straight men. They are not parading around like the more typical stereotypical gay men so are not known. Some of the most famous athletes in the world fall in this category. Many marry as a front protecting their Real desires which they fulfill quite on the side.
dude the music fits the speed of the video, Personally my favourit song for these types of videos is I want to break free by queen because its sterotypically mascualine and the lead singer is gay so theres still a link
Very true Nordic Healer.... at 40 met Paul, he was 18. In our 27th year. No one can ever believe we are together..... He played basketball in high school, and I was always basic guy. Be yourself, and most all will love/like you. We have a wonderful life. Be out, be proud. Don't have to go around like a couple of girls, if you are not. I know it all depends on ones genes. To each their own.
A fantastic love story but the ending leaves the viewer high and dry by riding off on a motorcycle and fading away. An open ending that leaves we, admirers, to our own thoughts on their relationship into the future. I hope they have a very happy loving relationship in the future.
Such a wonderful film capturing the depth of feelings between two normal people. We need to see more of this. Not sure what language the full film is in, thought this is German, but it could be anywhere.
The film takes place in The Netherlands, which language is quite close to German. I bought this film years ago and this made me want to watch again… which I will do right now! I couldn’t never find a love like this because I am 5’1” tall. No one wants a short man. It hurts to see guys that are the same normal size and they slowly fall in love. I will be 60 I’m April and I will never know that wonderful, warm hearted feeling that touches the soul. My life is almost over but I am so grateful to see others being able to experiencing it. I hope you do too!
This is in my top 10 gay themed films of all time. I love the actor that plays Marc. His name is Ko. I loved his calm openness and his love of each minute of life. Don’t let it pass you by.
The sad truth is that a lot of people with a different sexual orientation that the normal, is afraid to come out and tell what they are. Because even in country where it is legal, they will not always be accepted. Hope some day that it doesn't matter who you love, that we all can be who we are without the need to explain anything.
Sam MATTHEWS OHSION My daughter came out when she was 15. The problem was not that I couldn't accept it, but that I want her to be happy, but she was not making it easy for her self. She has the support from her hold family and her friends, but she had to fight with her self esteem and her confidence broke in the process. She is doing good now, but I wish she could find a nice girlfriend. I found out in the process, that there are a lot more to it, than just coming out and admit what you are to family and friends. All the bad thoughts the person imagined can come true, but what do they do if it doesn't. Try the waters, ask questions about their opinions about homosexuality, not directly, but in passing, when they show a series's ore movie with couples of the same sex. If they don't show discuss, there is a chance that you can tell them, some day. But don't do it if you are scared of what they will say. You only hurt yourself.
ALL LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL...... DON'T DEFINE IT , DON'T JUDGE IT, ACCEPT IT AS THE GREATEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE & RECEIVE..... IN THE END, LOVE IS ALL, LOVE & RESPECT FOR ALL, LOVE BOB S. FOX, PALM SPRINGS, CA.USA
Don’t give up ever, I married twice and had two great children. Then I met a man who made me see what I thought I missed out on. Then I was separated from my second wife. About two years later my wife passed away. I hated that but it made me take a chance. I met a man that made me take a chance. We have been together 24 years and still going. Just never give up. I had one of those situations with my family. I can’t explain everything but just to say, now my family knows my children are fine with us and my dad before he died he told me that Randy could be here anytime and if others have a problem they can leave. My dad really made me feel great. It gave me everything that I could ever ask for. 24 years last st Patrick’s day.
WONDERFUL !! DIALOGE OHNE WORTE. Die Mimik spricht für sich selbst. BOYS auf der Suche zum eigenen sexuellen ICH.Widersprüche sind oft vorprogrammiert und schmerzlich. Die Musik hervorragend eingepasst! Man leidet mit. Was wäre die Welt OHNE Girls?? Dann gäbe es uns n i c h t.
Ah youth. The joy, the angst and wonder of it all. It’s personified to the nth degree. U captured it ALL in this wonderful, moving vid. The songs cud not b better. Fr across the waters Canada 🇨🇦 🐥🐥🐥hugs and all that jazz
I love this movie', its well presented, well done guys. They are one together and a more important point, they are happy. A lonely and longing heart is the worst thing to live with. The movie leaves me feeling hopefully glad.thank you for making it.
