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Your videos are very insightful and mostly describe me to a tee. Thanks! I do have one remark though and this is something I've consistently noticed throughout your Sigma videos: the notion that Sigma's should necessarily be an introverted personality type is wrong. I am een extroverted personality type (an MBTI ENTP type to be more specific) and very good with people, groups of people, expanding on and expression in groups, reading people and their emotions (Extroverted Intuition or Ne, combined with Extroverted Feeling or Fe). Yet I am a strong introverted thinker at the same time. I am a strong rational that works out concepts and ideas by taking in huge amounts information, filtering facts and processing inside (the Ti or Introverted Thinking function). The ENTPs are said to be the most introverted of the extroverts by the way: unlike other extroverts developed ENTPs enjoy but do not need people due to our rich inner minds. But I'm an extrovert none the less. Alle other Sigma characteristics named apply.
If I may suggest, you should have asked all the questions first before pausing and then giving the answers. Because you gave the answers right after asking the questions without giving me a second or two to think about my answer, you skewed my answers and I'm not sure what my result is. But I actually think I'm more of an Omega: the nerd/geek.
Haha, I moved on from the last video on the same subject, one minute in, to this. Didn't really pay attention to much of this one. Whatever that's supposed to mean.
He might be a sigma and doesn't mean to hurt your feelings he just wants the best for you but emotionally can't convey it, or he's a narcissistic a-hole. He probably isn't the latter, but I don't know him.
10. Do you rarely feel your ego get damaged by others, but feel hurt when you screw something up yourself? A sigma's ego is sustained mostly from within, and is probably the most sturdy of all personality types. Until they screw something up.
Now I understand why: 1 - I became lone thinker. 2 - I'm a methodologist and meticulous. 3 - I don't like trash media, talk about sports, competitions or any type of championships. 4 - I always put people's interest before my own. 5 - I work hard and almost never ask for help, nor take the easy way out or take any shortcuts. 6 - Why I'm obsessed with perfection. 7 - I offer help, provide solutions, event if I'm not being asked to. 8 - I can't just be friends with anybody. 9 - Always reflect on my mistakes, bad or misleading behavior.
10. Watch self help videos, billionaire morning routines, and get on my grind in my dream to becoming rich with a beautiful sexy woman. But she won't just be there, she gotta be on her grind too 💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥
The part about not being yourself around strangers really hit me. I worked at a place for five years and out of all my co-workers, only a handful were close friends. I was very quiet and kept to myself while working, so among those I was not close with, I was perceived as being mean or strange because I didn't interact with them. When any of my friends heard things like this from them, they would be like, what are you talking about, he's the nicest guy!
I have found myself in similar situations where people try to talk to me, I find myself profusely defecating on the floor. Whenever people try to communicate with someone as sigma as myself they dont understand what I think about, I'm sure you would understand too. Stay true to the sigma grindset, kind regards fellow sigma.
yeah, i'm the same way honestly around all the people i know. i'm doing my own thing keeping to myself and most people see me as a mean rude and hard person, but then that one friend who kows me better than anyone else sees me completely different
Being a sigma male is like being cursed but it's good somehow. A little bit confused why I hardly can't talk to people, why always got something in mind, why always driven to be alone. But got a powerful brain that can see much further than anyone else, hidden leadership talents, always on own moves. And I like the rebellious spirit.
you're an omega most likely, if you resent alpha's you're even worse, you're a gamma. omega is a good traits, they have that genuine "don't give a fk mentality, they just do and finish the job and they fk off. they value their hobbies than anything else.
problem is most like the sound of it some of it sounds cool but like everything in life comes balance some things can be a blessing but Also a curse after shouting out for years about what is currently going on not sure people want the kind of awareness the mindset brings like the assumption they are social planners this could not be further from truth a total contradiction from being a lone wolf not nice knowing you have to pretend to be a social person when mostly those around can not even handle a real convo abusing their minds and turning the world in to a moral less cess pit
If you think you don't fit in the alpha or beta groups, that means you are a beta. The sigma category is for the most a coping mechanism. The only meaningful categorisation is the Alpha-Beta continuum. These are not two monolithic categories but rather a continuum and one that is defined environmentally. I.e. if you select a 100 alphas and place them on a deserted island and then a 100 Betas on another island, very soon you will have in each island 10 Alphas and 90 Betas. What we mean by "Alpha" is the natural (more rarely learned) inclination to dominate the surrounding social environment. Being an Alpha means that in comparison to all your social entourage you are on the top-5%/10% of men who have the tedency to dominate their social environment, be it in the family, at workplace, out at large. This definition is not linked to the number of women you have slept even if in practice Alpha-males are some of the most attractive men to women and thus naturally gather up the female attention and increase their notch numbers, that is if they select to do so (e.g. there are Alphas who are religious and who stick to one wife etc.). In fact, some of the most prolific lovers are Beta-males (usually of the higher-Beta level), not Alpha-males precisely because Alpha-males are often consumed at strenuous leadership duties while higher-Betas may as well concentrate more on entertaining females and thus surpassing many of the Alphas in that sense. But Sigma male? Oh... the introvert brooding uncompromising man... who in reality is a mid to lower level Beta, fearful of Alphas and hateful of higher-Betas. A Sigma male, if we need to have this category, is nothing more than a better looking Gamma. Gamma males are them too, like Sigma, a sub-category of Betas, they are the ones who are mid to lower ranking Betas but who detest their position and hate both Alphas and Betas and try to subvert them. Think of your typical leftie/commie type. They also hate women (while proclaiming their respect them) and have some ultra-dirty sexual kinks. Gammas are particularly unattractive to women thus their need to subvert and, hopefully, get a social position which they will use to sleep with women in a quite coercive manner. Sigmas are very much like the Gammas but being physically more attractive than Gammas they need not hate women, yet they still fear and hate Alphas and higher Betas. They are though not a male category of value, they usually are bad friends, double-faced as much as Gammas. It is just they lack the complexes of Gammas and their kinks.
@@jcivilis533 Don't take it personally but you talk like a woman. Women usually come back with such answers. I know you did it involuntarily, I just note down what is what so you are more conscious of such in the future. Men, were the analytical part of humanity, not the instictual one. We care about observing, monitoring, measuring and explaining the environment around us. Women do not care to do so, they prefer to go on an instinctual level and that means they are perceiving the world not via logic but by how each stimulous makes them feel. That is exactly what you did above, I guess again, involuntarily. The issue we talk here falls under several fields of study such as sociology, anthropology, psychology and even biology. I am coming more from an anthropological background being a lover of history - these two are heavily interconnected so, yes, I find it an interesting issue. If you ever think that these do not apply in real life you are sorrily mistaken. How many times have you seen companies to which you apply asking for "'leadership skills"? Do you know what that is? It is a by-word for "seeking for an alpha type of guy, beta-losers no need to apply". There are companies who will take it a step further and put candidates to the test to figure out who is the alpha. On the contrary, there are other companies who actively seek beta guys. The first ones are mostly in the traditional industries the latter are the Silicon Valley type ones. These things are real and have real life applications. Foremost, the understanding that these A-B categories, while having a biological basis, they are not strict categories but rather a behavioral continuum and each man can move himself along the axis to a considerable degree, one which would not be expected even by him let alone by others in the first place. Now if the whole issue does not interest you, why would you be here in the first place? Or is there something in it that bothers you? I know many males that fall in the Gamma subcategory of Betas which highly resent any talk on these anthropological descriptions... for good reasons not dissimilar to how a promiscuous woman would avoid like hell any talk on female promiscuity. What does not shed a positive light on oneself is something that many men and most women want to dismiss.
You know you are a sigma when you have good relationship with alphas, guide them, teach them, lead them and inspire them. When I was a teenager I thought I was the alpha but I was full of insecurities and anxiety, now past 40 I help such guys a lot:).
Haha, I know what you mean. I work with a number of alphas, they think I'm someone they can rely on and most other people are beneath them. I DESPISE alphas, I have never met a good one yet. I toy with them. Male alphas tread carefully around me. Female alphas immediately want to be my friend. It's weird.
The only reason sigmas don't get first place as often is because we let the alpha win. It's not even because we are intimidated or give up either. When we let the alpha win we do it because we know how important it is for them. And we know it's not that important to us. Plus we get to possibly make a strong ally. Also when we let them win we only do so if we can do it in way that makes it clear to the alpha that we let them win, but nobody else can know. The alpha knows that we are the ones in charge and we are just letting them be at the top, and when they truly need help the only person they can come to is us. At the end of the day everyone else answers to the alpha but the alpha answer to the sigma.
Thank you for making this kind of content. It's pretty new and your content seems to be the most accurate when it comes to describing these traits. I denied the fact that I was a "sigma male" because I felt I lacked all the traits one would need to be called such. Yet I find myself relating to it so much, realising more and more of the things I do fall under the umbrella of the sigma male. I don't usually comment on videos since I believe there's already people who've mentioned this or said something along the lines, truly, thank you for making these videos. Immense value learning more about myself, gives me a better understanding of what I do and also provides better control over how I conduct myself. No longer just doing random actions, I now know that what I'm doing is also what other sigma are doing. Keep up the amazing content ^^)👍
friendly reminder that if you care about socially constructed hierarchal archetypes you're not a sigma. if you think you're a sigma you're not a sigma. fr bro just stop trying so hard
@@ffy0000 he didn't mean that, a socially constructed hierarchy is technically who's first and who's last we guys don't give a fuck about that To be honest acknowledging what personality trait you belong to is technically evolving and dont get me wrong over here the picture of the sigma You have in your head is a lie Not all sigmas are charismatic it's just they don't really care as long as they can sustain themselves and their lives they won't worry about stuff alphas are egoistic sigmas have ego but they don't pay heed to it sigmas are technically boring and mysterious at the same time Yet if you can't understand then leave it let it be Also by the way sigmas do teach people about stuff in detail since they want to help people but their way is different Good luck and bye
I always thought I was a "lone wolf" because I always had my own way of doing things. I thought everything out very thoroughly. I learned that there are many ways to do something and I chose the best way. I've always been a very efficient worker and tried to be the best friend anyone could ask for. I would help my friends with problems. I always tried to be as honest as possible, even if it upset the people I was dealing with. I can't lie to hide the truth. Lies always backfire. The truth may hurt, but lies destroy. I was guided by my dad. He ingrained things into my way of thinking that just can't be changed. Think, learn, and lead! I'm not good at following. I make my own way. Love me or hate me. I don't really care. I am me and happy to be me!
You're one fellow that I can definitely relate to. "Think, Learn, Lead" - well said! There's so much perspective and empowerment within those 3 words. My go to 3 words are ready, willing, and able. And I can see how our respective 3 words are applicable in any given situation.
@@palatial_entity I want to go ahead and assume that you're implying that it's useless to develop any kind of leadership skillset because it is an useless attribute. I really just wanted a good excuse to confess that your comment reminded me of a satirical question answered by very distinctly different individuals- that I like to share in order to make my point. The first guy answered the question with a resounding yes. The second guy responded with an indefinite no. And the third guy admitted that he just wouldn't know for sure. One of the guys was a pimp; the other guy was a wimp; and the last guy was a simp. The question was: "Is pimping easy?" Guess the gall of the guy who can honestly indicate that pimping is as easy as he claimed it to be. My point is that there's no real need to discern which one of the other two guys it was that inadvertently contributed to the fallacies of his narrative because I am more interested in making pimping even easier than I am in wondering why pimping is so much hard work for others.
If you see it that way, everything abstract that comes from men (psychological stuff for example) are just things that someone just organize on his mind and put in on paper for the rest of us!
I have been researching the sigma male for about a year now and can now say with full conviction I am a sigma. It has opened my eyes about myself and the way I go about my daily life. Now that I know what I am it is time to hone the skills and see where I can go from here
I find that "planning" is subjective. The need to take the reigns regarding what will be done imo is determined by what is the subject. Because Sigma's are more introverts, we dont tend to "take the reigns" to partake in something not optimal to his interests. But if its about investments, business, or learning new skills to further enhance him, he'll DEFINITELY take the reigns there.
I have to agree. Overtly planning something makes me nuts but I always have the next several steps of anything already in mind. Plans make people too rigid and unable to adapt when things go sideways. Having a loose outline gives you a script to follow that can be adjusted on the fly.
I don't know if I am just very much a sigma, or if it is that these questions kind of applies to the majority of people. Because it feels as if these questions are obvious in a way that one can say "of course, this is so me" on like every question...
I do fit all of these categories except that planning deeply doesn't apply to all things. It only applies to things that are important, useful, or educational. In the example of a party or hangout with friends, I prefer other's make the plans. That's because I'm happier in an environment where others are enjoying themselves. I enjoy alone time most, but if others are involved, then I needn't "bore" them with my deeper interests. I do have most of my life planned out, at least the most important parts, but I very much welcome random events and challenges that I haven't planned for as it is a means for growth. I'm not sure where that places me in this male labeling system, but frankly I don't care. Such a label is confining and of little use to anyone.
I think this applies to me as well. Everything matches exactly me apart from the planning part. I plan, but for trivial things like socializing I'm happy to plan on the go. I won't blindly follow, so maybe this is just shifting where and when the planning takes place and it involves communication with others, but I don't have to always be in control as long as I'm happy with the decisions or plan put in place as long as I'm happy with it. This part of the description of sigma males suggests they are controlling, even control freaks, and want everything planned out in advance or their way, when this isn't true for me, new experiences are important to me as well, sometimes it's good to get out of your comfort zone, though never too much!!!
@@mattpotter8725 Ya! I think of getting out of my comfort zone as an important part of life. In a way, it's planning not to plan. We can't learn and grow very well if we think we know more or are better than everyone else all the time. Epictetus - "It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows."
I hit 7/9 solid and 2 were partials. The thing that bugs my wife most is that I'm usually right any time we face a problem. It's taken a lot of introspection on my part to pose the solution in a more diplomatic way. Life is too short for all of the great things I'm learning but I'm a work in progress.
The part about “morals” is true enough BUT I have My Own version of “morals” which are not necessarily in line with any accepted “moral code” this is also true of “ethics”.
Wow never heard of this before today. Pretty spot on. Especially 7 and 8. Friends call me with problems I'm automatically coming up with solutions for them in my head. And number 8 is so true. I'm always reserved around new people but act like a goof in front of people who I'm cool with. Pretty interesting.
#2: I'm not a planner. I wouldn't mind planning, but I don't know what to expect, and I despise trusting a plan, only to have it all fall through. Plans take time to form and more time to correct if they fail. It's better to learn how to play it by ear. #6) "Right" way? I prefer "better" way. After all, "right" implies perfection. There's always a better way.
9/9 for me. The last one about wanting to improve hits hard, because the things I do are often well received (at work, for example), but all I see are the flaws. It's not enough to fix my mistakes, I have to also make my successes better somehow... :)
Meh✔️ 1. Introvertedness suddenly appears and randomly start to make simulations and sometimes I'll be like I'm thinking, Is there any way to store lightning, Once in school I designed/fabricated/imagined a ministry that can provide transparency that'll be just as Independent from politician as tied to the govt, and sometime friends calling for playing, I'll be like, leave me alone I'm good I won't come. Although since the colleges set us apart, now I long for friends company, I'll be happy someone sits beside and stays quiet or not doesn't matter. ✔️ 2. I'm famous for overcalculating and planning. ✔️ 3. I bored my friend into sharing how beautifully textbooks are designed and there is enough for almost everything to start with. Meh✔️ 4. I put the rules, assume a option and get surprised if I do ❌ 5. I'm declining, I should do better I'm not as efficient as I used to. ✔️ 6. I do be like, do it like this this is better way and you'll understand better, my brother hates me my friend solve their doubts. ❌ 7. Sometimes I let someone cry fully and sometime I console and offer help on that problem and I can't see someone cry, fight I try to break it. ✔️ 8. My mind be like Socialize! Socialize! Smile! Not fake but... Idk how to say. Act good. ❌ 9. I'm not being able to do anything these days. Here, Meh ~ Mostly/Probably/More than often Basically, I can improve but still I'm getting work done but not as efficient as I used to do, I'm getting exhausted, I'm not able to solve Rubix Cube under 15 seconds and it is bothering. Fcuk
Look, this preoccupation with labels cracks me up a little. Truth is, we're all unique. There may well be broad categories, but nobody is a perfect fit. "I'm an alpha!!" 👍👍👍 "I'm a sigma type!!" 👍👍👍 "I'm definitely a beta." 👎👎👎 Truth is, we're all what we are. The very moment we start trying to define and categorize ourselves is the moment we lose our individual identities
Thanks wise thinker, i am already a subscriber but wasn't sure if i was one!! Then slowly answering all 9 questions, i found out that i'm a pure sigma!! I am a true introvert, i plan even to tiniest movement, i am efficient when alone & get exhausted with silly daily routine tasks!!
@@myworldonline You’re probably thinking of the Omega male, Sigmas can definitely have healthy relationships. My girl is a sigma female as well so we are made for each other.
Yes... this is somewhat true but a true sigma is more of a lone wolf, females are attracted to sigmas but they are too intimidated by their unpredictability, sigmas are the lone wolf who lead the pack, they are the silent leaders of the wolf pride who don’t have to show their dominance as everybody unconsciously gives them the throne. Sigmas also prefer not to lose their virginity, as they see sex as an illogical act, a waste of time and energy. Sigmas don’t dominate through aggression but through intellect and thoughtfulness, this mysteriousness of the sigma makes females lose it, even though attracting a female is considered meaningless by a sigma.
I'm just answer all question with "yes, it is me!" until question no.7... it is really hit me hard... not to saying I am the most nice person in the world... all my friend or family or even somebody that I don't know much, I will help them what ever it take... but when the turn I wanted to ask for help, no one came to help... i just thought that i'm also a normal human being, i'm not a superhero, but lastly i went back to the sigma attitude. change my mind to be positive and solve my problem myself... you can be sigma too... first, you have to think positive... only positive thoughts/minded can activate all sigma attitudes in the video... Second, you can't have ego over yourself... because you have a plan... it must be carefully examined... but the ego will cover up the mistake... from my experience, I prioritize these two rules in life...
I love how almost every comment on here says this hit them spot on. I saw how this was accurate in parts of my life and times its not. I believe everyone on here related it to the one time or another that match the description listed. I don't know a single person who's not different around strangers than with friends. Hell I have friends that match this perfectly but yet this is a very rare personality type. I just think people are trying to fit in and this a placebo.
it's absolutely bullshit. just for anyone with insecurity to give themselves a cool label because pretty much anyone would ascribe these traits to themselves. This is astrology-tier science. It's not really hurting anyone, it's just unfounded drivel.
Maybe videos like this draws in a certain kind of people. But decent chance that many are somewhat faking it because they want the label. I do actually relate to the majority, but not all. And will admit I cannot think about that many cases where I actively try to change my personality for the better, I'm kind of settled on who I am. That doesn't mean I dont try to be a good person or dont try to improve skills. But I cant say for sure I'm someone who constantly improve myself either. Im also not someone who plans everything, I plan just the needed amount, I'm not stupidly spontaneous either. And I also dont always have the right way of doing things, sometimes other people know the job better than me, and it doesn't bother me if people do things a different way if the result is the same.
I get things done the best way and sometimes can’t explain why, I just know what needs to be done without having an explanation, I just know the answer , and it usually works out best in the situation
People may oppose this but if we were a complete sigma male we won't be watching this video...cuz sigma's don't care which category they fall in but are most of traits matched I think I'm 80% sigma...
Scored 8 & 1/2 out of 9. The half is for the planning part. I'm perfectly capable of planning stuff in detail and know that I probably would do a way more efficient job at it than other people, but I only plan when no else offers cause I'm just lazy lol.
Thanks for the video! I always gets confused between being a Alpha or beta. I'm sure that I not beta and not similar to alpha but something different. I had watched videos of others channels are well but they are not clear and every question you have asked in this video I had a situation of past that exactly relates to the answer. Thank you for this video dude.
I don't 'over-plan', but I like to have at least a solid idea of how I'm going to do something. I see this in contrast to people (I know a few) who plan nothing, and just 'go with whatever happens'. It works regularly for them, but is horrifying to me... :)
#7 is the most obnoxious thing for me to deal with, as well as for others around me I am sure. I don't see a point to just complaining incessantly. If you find a solution to a problem, you no longer have to deal with that problem. Some people just like to complain and I'm trying to learn how to just respect their wishes. But it drives me nuts. Side note: The dude at 00:31 had a bug crawling out of his collar.
I check all boxes with 1 huge exception: I always run late as a result of my OCD . Not the F A K E symptoms everyone always claims- After going through a series of tests and scans at a psychological testing center I was referred to a Clinical Psychologist who diagnosed me with chronic severe OCD. I also match the Sigma male profile In other tests, but with this timeliness issue- Any insight would be helpful.
i spend to much time on trying to plan out everything, or how traffic is. and i am late to everything. get distracted with interesting stuff and lose track. but i can't organize my own home, but can organize a job and parts.
Maybe stop what you are doing and meditate and take a few deep breaths. Break what needs to be done in small steps in your mind and execute. When each step is complete move on to the next until finished. If you start losing focus on the current step thinking about the previous step repeat the deep breathing and refocus and continue.
People whom are always late tend to be more optimistic. They always believe that they have time for everything or more time for things that need to be done.
I think about my flaws every day, fighting them. The opening up part is spot on, I joke and goof with my friends but if I meet someone new I am very 'guarded'. Although I have taught myself to be able to talk to anyone as if we know each other for years now, simply because it is a useful skill to have. It is not the same as me opening up to my friends naturally, but people around respond very positively when you can just chat them up without any fear.
@@mytube12 Alpha males care about social hierarchy. They demand the highest social attention in most situations. They also tend to seek any or all forms of self-gratification. Sigma males couldn't care any less about their social status and generally care about morals above success. They will still be highly successful but won't choose to do so immoraly. Sigma males are introvert at heart, but change into social people when required. True introverts won't and or can't do that. Alpha males are hell bent on personal success while Sigmas tend to focus on a bigger picture, larger scale for all. Someone like Elon Musk appears to me to be a Sigma male. If you watch him talk, he cares very little about what people think of him and much more about his greater goals. There are some other differences too. Check out a couple other sigma videos for more clarification.
@@davidmckay9558 Introverts are of different types! The problem is you are using binary understanding, rather than spectral! Heterogeneity should be taken into account!
@@mytube12 I agree with you. I dislike basic labels like "Alpha", "Beta", empath, etc. I don't believe any of them are particularly useful because humans are complex creatures. We also learn and grow so someone once labeled as a Beta can one day become an Alpha for example. The generalization of these lables are only partially useful in determining likely traits based on another noticed trait that fits a particular category. So if someone is submissive in a social interaction, then some could crudely conlude that the person is a Beta. They might not be so entirely, but there is a likely chance that they would exhibit other Beta traits. I only clarified the generally agreed upon definition of Sigma, but I don't care to identify myself as any one in particular. Ain't got time for useless endeavors.
Its not important that you know who you are. The only thing that important is, is who you want to be and how much you work and risk to become the person that you want to be. To know if you're a sigma or not, changes nothing. So please dont let the video manipulite you in the way you are, just because you want to call yourself a sigma
Me personally i've been on about 15 of these videos on this type and i cannot find 1 thing that doesn't match me, i hate being labeled honestly But with your comment, i HAD the same problem, at a point i've learned to "Back up" and let others fix said problems on they own, and i ONLY mention let's say their problems using my self as an example of an "OLD" problem that in truth never happened. I used to lose much sleep and stress over fixing others, its something to control quickly or it will eat you while the person with the problem ignores it and goes on as if its nothing.
No doubts anymore. Im a comfy/lazy sigma. Im an INFJ-A from when i did the Mayer Briggs personality test if that say anything. Thank you for great vids
@@wordsfromkev Yes that seems a little bit strange when you say it like that. Maybe it have a connection some how. Or maybe many people are just lying about their personality. I cant speak for others but i know from have taking personality tests that i have an INFJ-A personality type where A stands for introverted. INFJs are also called advocates and love problem solving according to www.16personalities.com/infj-personality Myers Briggs (wrong spelling in the op) personality test is the best one around and i toke it with an open mind just out of curioucity and thats what my test turned out to be. Thanks you for your reply and i hope it answered what you were looking for. I apologize for any wrong spelling though my first language isnt English. :)
@@gamen80 A stands for Assertive the other options is T Turbulent(Analytical) I from INFJ stands for Introvert. N for Intuition F for Feeling and J for Judging
@@nenadboka1089 You are right. Thanks you for pointing that out and reminding me about that. I appreciate that very much and now i know that i need to refresh my memory more. Thanks a lot my friend. :)
I must not be, I always need to talk out problems. Everytime my job stopped for a problem, I'd call the boss and tell him the problem and before I could finish explaining.... The mere action of talking about it out loud would trigger the correct answer and I'd say never mind and hang up. I lost 3 jobs because of asking for help then not needing it. Pisses bosses off quick.lol. thinking out problems by myself is like being in bad company, it's not good to multitask it can be done but takes more time. I do however like problem solving, I may take an extra day working around an unseen problem but the extra day is better than redoing half a job including another contractor and even having to reinspect. I'd make a bad CEO I gotta have hands and eyes on.
From the points mentioned it seems I'm a sigma male but the beauty of me is I don't like to get slotted into any kind of label or stereotype!! I think that's the hidden quality of a sigma!! So it's a conundrum
No this is a way for them to categorize the intelligent. Titles don't matter. The thing about this is if sigma males actually exist the last thing they would care about is actually being a sigma male. So truly this is just another society control mechanism
My question is who made all these categories and why? And what qualifies them to be the expert. What studies have they conducted and what research have they taken to come to these set in stone conclusions for the rest of our society? Where is the documentation and the concrete evidence of their conclusions?
there really is no such thing as alpha, beta, or sigma. everyone is different. The way people see you is really just a matter of confidence and self growth.
There are DEFINITELY alpha and beta males. I've known many. I haven't known many sigma males. I agree with you that everyone is different and we are all on spectrums so some people are just a little of a category but others are very much in the categories.
If you are a Sigma, like I am, you have skipped just to the points where are the green labels: 0:35 1:14 1:52 2:25 2:51 3:16 3:44 4:20 4:49 (u welcome).
These videos have helped me understand myself better! I knew I was different and have a hard time with regular conversation because I think what im saying before I say it and never say pointless things just straight to the piont!
I know I’m very empathetic and comfortable being alone. I know when to be a good listener and not try to fix another’s problems unless they ask me for advice. I’ve been complimented for that trait for decades. I can follow or lead depending on the situation. I scored an 8 of the 9 questions so I’m thinking I am a sigma. I truly enjoyed this video. Thanks for posting!
Lmaoo I’m an hell of a sigma freaking male, now it’s all more clear , love for all of my sigma brothers out there sure you have the plan to keep killing it!🔥❤️💪🏻
This was a breath of fresh air and food for the soul! I got a 9 out of 9 for my score plus one very important one...sapiosexual women absolutely love us and we literally can talk them out of their clothes, on accident sometimes. It's a gift and a curse but I wouldn't want it any other way!🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️😌💯 Proud to be so rare and to finally identify with one of these categories cause quite honestly I've always felt weird settling for calling myself an Alpha. Seriously, I understand that you don't need to be the loudest guy in the room to make your presence felt. Salute to my fellow sigmas🙏🏾🖖🏾✌🏾
This is interesting because I just learned about this concept of Sigma male recently. In high school I was frustrated/perplexed because people would sometimes ask if I was a leader or a follower. My answer was yes...and no...to both. I thought it was weird that I was a leader and a follower at the same time but also was really neither as well. I felt like a square peg that was being asked to fit into a category but none of the categories really fit me. I just did my own thing because I knew it was the right thing to do. I didn't need a boss telling me what to do and I didn't need to be the one in charge, either. Now, I just try and do the best job I can. If I'm in a leadership I try to do right by my people and if I'm under a boss I still try to do right by them, but I still prefer to do my own thing.
I get you didn't have a better answer back then, but I think answering "yes and no" is different from answering "neither". And there should be a "neither" or "independent" option for those sort of questions. A cat is neither a leader or a follower, it just does what it wants. But someone can be BOTH a leader and follower if they actually switch between those two roles (on a somewhat regular basis so its part of ones personality).
You are Sigma male if you 1 working only in an office 2 you work only with beautiful models 3 all your friends are beautiful models 4 you are a beautiful model 5 you have a laptop 6 you have a perfect beard 7 you socialise at dinner parties with only beautiful models 8 you rub your beautiful beard on your beautiful face when thinking 9 you have a beautiful thoughtful looking face Easy
