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So true .. Abusive relationship Oly makes you loose yourself .. mentally physically financially.. and only gives back to you is depression .

It was so difficult for me. Still suffering from panic disorder and anxiety. I hope one day life will be normal again.

Yes exactly. 7 yrs. I am totally finished.Please do not tolerate ....leave it.

Nothing important only important that no one does love in this world except parents

Exactly.. agar relation m darr h to vo relation nhi h..✌️

I can totally relate to many of your points. I have been a part of abusive violent relationship for 2 years! After every fight and abuses my ex used to make me understand that it was a mistake and he loves me to the core. It took me 2yrs and several fights to finally come out of it. I did mistake by showing empathy to the person who never deserved. Physical violence is a big no and yes once it starts it is like a cycle. To all the girls, please do not tolerate any such thing. We all deserve better. You deserve better. Talk to friends and family. Share and if needed take help from the appropriate bodies.

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I am crying, thank you so much ma'am... I am in abusive relationship...

14 saal ke atyachar k baad Maine bhi rishta khtm krne ka faisla liya hai....ab self respect se neeche aur nhi girungi.....apne balboote par Zindagi jeeni hai.....12 saal se private job mein thi.....ab government job ki preparation or rhi hu....taki apne Bache ke like marne se phle kuchh kr sku.....bahut difficult hai par.....haar nhi manungi......

I was facing abusive relationship from 3 years, he treated me like an object, he abused me, he hit me, when he took alcohol he made a call to my parents just for blackmailing me... After 3 years I take a decision to FIR, and I told everything to my parents, just because of them, I'm free right now.

I just broke up today and i can totally relate , abusive relationship will consume you and you will not be able to be a person that you could be , you will be facing a lot of failures in life and only stress , i am saying plzz leave and run away and never show sympathy to that person she will trick you to come back and treat you the sane and then the cycle again begins

So true mam. I was in abusive relationship from 2 yrs.. Now Am happy🙂

My partner did everything to me that you said ..he is very much dominating person.

Kitne sare brk up ho gye hoge after watching this 😂

I broke up today..i was tired of emotional blackmail and trust issues..he always doubted me and compared me with his ex..and the most important thing is i was really scared that he might get angry on my behavior..but after watching this video I feel relaxed.. thanks di..❤️

Actually we cannot blame the opposite person Because we knew how they were from the very first day And if we don’t ,then still it’s our fault Because we never tried to know that person Self realisation is very important , in order to become strong and positive And I’m honestly speaking first know who you are Life will become much better 🔥 Stay strong everyone 🌍

I just realised that I was an abusive relationship. Thankgod I broke up.

After going through an abusive relationship, we tend to feel so alone, but finding other women who have experienced the same thing you have, can be very comforting. 💙RU-vidr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

I am glad that you made this video...nicely explained ❤️

pyar kro gulami nhi Har Har mahadev🙏

Mera self confidence khtm hogai hae...i m nothing

Mera bf in mese koi b habit ka shikar nhy ha...So sweet him...nd his lots of love me...❤

I was in a very toxic relationship for almost 4 years. He had abused, hitted, slapped, spilled a hot cup of tea on my eyes. Other than that he used to question on everything and anything I did (even if I went out with my own parents). He had even doubted me with my own brother, my teachers and my tuition students. He used to think that being a girl, I should always be at home and shouldn't go to college (bcoz he cannot be with me in the college) or tuition.. but now when the things are going beyond the limits, I decided to quit the relationship but I was not leaving with a hope that everything will be alright with the passage of time and I feel like it was my only mistake.. And I also know that everyone will advise me to spend time with my family but no I cannot even do so bcoz my mom thinks that it was all my fault that I left him and I should be calm. My mom thinks that "he is the only guy which is suitable for me bcoz he didn't cheat me he just abused me and that's all fine" and she also used to say that I have to be in the relationship because of the no. Of years we had spent together.. but she didn't understand how much pain I m hiding in my heart.. The relationship hadn't hurt me as much as my mom thinkings do.. So I feel like I have no one and because of it only suicidal thoughts are coming in my mind.. but I wasn't like this 4 years back, I used to be a topper till my college and was ambitious as well, but all these things had torn me apart.. My 4 years toxic relationship+my unsupportive family= clueless me 🙂

nidhi sach mein bahut se logon ke saath ye problem hoti hai but aapka yeh video dekh bahut se logo ko himant milegi

Every girl should be self depend than no one can insult her.

I was in a extremely toxic relationship where I was given suicide threat for every small thing, blaming like there is no point to be alive , scolded and controlled .. and i was in a position where I could not leave it as it was extremely dangerous to leave and i had only one fucking option that is to stay and try to improve it .. but as time goes on i too became toxic as my fuel had ended and i was just like a raged and ugly demon so finally things went so worst and everything ended up but character, mindset,mental stability everything is so gone that I have extreme anxiety where it's so hard to even take a foot step at times .. guys all i wanna convey is just get out of the toxic relationship at one shot and never look back .. ya it's tough but do it for greater good than getting changed into a messy person .. be blessed 😄

U said soo true 😊✌true video n helpful too all girls 😊😊thnku

Akele mai baith kar ek din khud se he mafi mang lunga mai., Logo ko khus karte 2 khud ka he dil ❤ bahut dukhaya hai maine 😒

Govt must include Relationship management course 😂😂😂. VERY complicated

Hi Nidhi what ever you said on this video is very true!! I took 13years to understand that I was in an abusive relationship n yes that cycle was never ending until I took a strong step to just end it. I still love him for all good reason's.. But I know this what best is for both of us. Thank you Nidhi for sharing your thoughts I wish I had someone who told me all this I would have done something good to myself 🙎

Was dating a toxic guy for 2 months and thankfully it ended ! And all the signs are true

Very nice nidhi❤ Do continue dis kind of video series nidhi talks😍👌

You always teach us ... good and guidance. . Thanks ma'am

I can relate to each & every point. Already ended relationship from my end and all the points you mentioned are true & very well explained. I came here after breakup and I can totally relate to this. Wasted my 2 years. All the efforts, all the love etc.. waste waste waste, But I'm glad this thing ended. 😃

U r a beautiful soul nidhi.. Aapki advice mere bahut kaam aati hai.. Thanks for sharing your views and making us realize about how badly we are underestimating ourselves and giving importance to that person who is abusive 😢

Kitne single hai yahan...😎

Plz stay away from love.Work on your dream and be successful and live in with your hardwork and grind ❤

The first sign of this is seeking videos on RU-vid.

Very nice..thanks for sharing Nidhi 🙏

Most of the men in the Indian Subcontinent are abusive whether it is India ,Pakistan or Bangladesh etc. The reason behind this abusive behaviour is poor parenting and confused social and cultural values. The reason behind such behaviour is that men are considered superior in our society as compared to women. Our cultural values are based on Patriarchy. Due to this male dominant society many men treat women badly.. Many mothers fail to educate their sons properly because these women are also a product of a male dominant society. It is well said that mother is the first educator of a child. Many women no matter how educated they are inculcate certain values in their children specially the male child which are very toxic So i believe it is the foremost duty of a mother to educate his sons to respect and treat women well.

I'm really impressed with this video and.. I'll care that I won't lead my relationship onto a abusive relationship by any way..

Amazing video❤

This is exactly what I'm facing right now!!

Trust and honesty in soul can change every person mam ... mene b sach se hi paya h apne pyaar ko or aaj hum happy married hain and ab hum dono ko jodne k liye ek nanhi si jaan us bhagwan ne b de di h ...

U r 💯 percent right ma'am thank you so much for ur motivational speech...

Thanks a lot for this.. Finally I'm done with this relationship... I was just emotionally exhausted and I completely had lost my self confidence... I'm just happy I got to know about him a lot before and I did not end up marrying him..but my 3yrs on him and emotions for him was total waste😢... I am regretting a lot😔

You are so on point I think you also had seen such a coward manipulative person as well.. I don't know but I strongly feel it. Because you are describing it extremely very well.

I have suffered everything u mention finally ended up so happy 😊

But if what when someone gets very much intense and intimate and loving to someone whom he / she doesn't able to leave.. He/she is bearing all kind of stuffs whether they are abusive, or not! It's not that easy to leave a person immediately but yes, slowly we can do that by going on the right way.. Well said

You are absolutely right dear

I am single from 10 th class so l have no experience about this relationship. Thanks for this information dii ❤😍 . You save my life . God bless you😇

1000%right.....my relationship was one of my biggest obstacle in my life and work

Thanks for motivating girls...keep it up..😊

Golden words Thanks Dr GMK Choudhury

Point 1 Point 2 Point 4 Point 5 Point 6 Point 7 Point 8 Point 9 Sirf point 3 nhi mila baki sab dikha Bt i'm free now Its 6 months now i am so so so happy.

थॅंक्स मेम इस तरह के वीडियो बनाने के लिए.आज के लड़के लड़कियो को सही बात समझाने की ज्यादा जरूरत हे।लोग दिखावे के शिकार हो रहे हे.दिखावे की वजह से वो लोग रिश्ता बना लेते हे.फिर उस में फस जाते हे.झूठ और सच में फर्क करने की capacity नही हे।आपकी बात से आज की पीडी का भविष्य सुधर सकता हे।जिन लोगो से आप दूर रहने का मना करते हो.वही लोग आज कल सब को अच्छे लगते हे.फिर जब ठोकर लगती हे तब समझ आता हे.आशा करता हु आप इस तरह से वीडियो बनाते रहे। शुक्रिया।

Thank you dear ...I need it...god bless you

Nidhi aapne Jo kuch bhi btaya is se n Jane kitne girls and boys, man and women apneap KO is dirt se bahar nikal skenge. Mujhe bahut acha lga.

Thnx for awareness Nidhi

I truly love what you're doing :) Thank you so much :) I had been in one previously while I was in my teen years. I had people around me (and Google of course) to help me get out of it! That history must have repeated for a really looooooong looooong time!! I was emotionally drained ! Felt totally incompetent then!! When I *truly realized* that I couldn't feel happy with him, I left! Try making a separate video on *teen dating violence* :) I believe such a topic also must be strictly addressed to all adolescents and adults!

Really its true i agree with u 👍

Very well said....

I had 2 serious relationship for 7 yrs. That was the phase i was just chasing and prioritizing such relationship which i really didn't needed in life. I just wanted that. I just wanted to be there. When It was over. I realise life is much more that and our needs are very much realistic and meaningful. The concept of bf/gf, dating, casual sex relationship are just lifestyle these days which lack maturity, responsibilities, real connection. The idea of love which is not really there. It is just we made a false belief that we love someone and we are being loved by someone are just serious attachment that broke us from inside. Not everyone knows love. The one who know. They just shine.

Jiska Pehle Se Relationship Barbaad Hogya Hai Wohi Relationship Ka Gyaan Pelte Hain..😌🌚

OMG. I'm in a toxic relationship 😢

U r doing heavenly job.

Awesome explaination

Very nicely explained. I am a Doctor and a Bach Flower Therapist. It's my conclusion that almost 90 % abusive partners are actually Bipolar Disorder patients who are not diagnosed properly. This condition is very serious. It can cost your life. Thank you madam for explaining very clearly.

I wanna suggest some brilliant books on this matter Not just girls, wether you're in business or any relations you can read people easily. 1. Practical ways to a powerful personality by george Weinberg.(helps you understand others Psychology easily) 2. 48 laws of power. (So that you can understand the language of manipulation, but not to use it as for the sake of your relationship) 3. Definitive book of body language (so you can pick the wool out of words) 4. Why men like women cry (helps you understand better about opposite sex). 5.Laws of human nature ( best book). 6. 50th law. ( So you can have a child like curiosity).

Hey Nidhi thanks for sharing these things, Actually I have been in a relationship for 3years and i just wanted to share these things with someone or somewhere. So with whom I have been for years now our relationship has become kind of toxic relationship. At the beginning he used to be very supportive boyfriend he supported me everywhere I don't know why it's just because of I could trust him blindly or what. but now I feel like this because after getting married he totally got changed he wants me to control. When we were in relationship that time I told him about my past relationships and worst past as I had been through before him that time he understood each and everything and he told me don't worry I'm with you and i trusted him very blindly, that time I was not with my family neither in touch because of some family issues so there was my relative she was my sister in law so I used to stay with them I was pursuing my graduation before I was staying with him in a live-in relationship after having lots of squabble i went to my sister-in-law house that day when i went to her house just penultimate day he slapped me really bad I have photos as well if I could have shared, in relationship we had 3,4 times squabble and in every fights he used to violence and abuse, and after doing all these things he used to beg for sorry used to cut his hand and all doing all the stupid things, so i got emotional and give him chances. That day when i went to my sister-in-law house after that day he cried a lot and again beg for sorry and told me please come back I'll never do such a things banged his head, but my sister- in -law was very disappointed with me she told me if you go after that you have to choose between us and him, I don't know why I didn't i choose them now I feel very regret of that, there was a reason also why I didn't choose them just because of him he was blackmailing me emotionally like if you don't come I'll cut my and all, so left them and again started staying with him for sometimes everything was going fine, and then he approached me for marriage and I was also feeling alone because sometimes later we separated he was staying with his family and i was in PG and without thinking of anything I said yes, i didn't even think of it that what will be the life without standing on your feet, but before marriage i had told him lot's of time see I need to clear my studies first and he was ok with that, and as hee asked me for marriage i said yes against my family will because this marriage was intercaste marriage I'm Christian and he is hindu so my family wasn't agree, but I didn't listen to them and got married and started following all the rituals of them and his family was really backward they think married girls shouldn't step out from the house their mentality was like this but managed somehow, 2 months later we moved to Gurgaon. After moving to gurgaon started having lots of squabble. He was so busy with his male/ female frnds used to tell them that my wife doesn't follow any rituals of our and one female frnd of him she suggested him that she is not marriage material girl, when we moved to Gurgaon since then we having fighting a lot he continuously abuse me nd violence me treat me really bad so today I talked to my parents and tell them everything whatever I'm facing they told me leave him immediately, so guys please suggest me what should I do. He abuse me and violence whenever we have squabble not in general but my life is getting worse and worst We got married In December 2022 it's been only 5 months. And when i told his family her mother told me you should tolerate that's how family mein adjust Krna padta hai

Bhot khoob di..God bless uh

Any relationship is not possible without communication, respect, and communication. Every person wants to control others. We want everything but doesn't want to give anything.

I am posted hidden videos of my girlfriend screaming and hitting me out side on my channel. My family warned me but I stupidly didn't listen and it was my first relationship. I thought she would change but she only got worse and now my confidence is gone and my head isn't thinking straight. I am posting these videos to show men get abused as well and I want everyone who is in a abusive relationship to get out fast cause in the long run it will mess up your head.

I spent way too many years in an abusive relationship. The sooner you can leave an abusive relationship, the better.

Single life is best life❤️

Really...I don't know why do people take a dead relationship with them n let it kill them also..... better to not have a partner rather a person like that.....we should Kno what to choose n convey....... well your video is enough to help those who need.....

absolutely right ....pyar krne wale ko duni ya n azadi milna chahiye not .. Bandish mean.. Dar, gulami, dukh, etc

Great advice

Thankyou very much informative

if ur partner is making u isolated from ur friends, colleages etc....or if he/she dont like u being close with ur friends or spending time with them..... its abusive.....i dont know why people dont get it

Jb tak lyf m success na ho jao apne dreams pure na kr lo tab tak relationship m jao hi na, bhut best of tym h ye relationship, jb kabil bn jaoge to bhut better mil jayega isliye apne dreams se committed ho jao aur apna pura love apni family ko do, jo hmesha aap ke sath rhti h.

Wow !! Josss excellent suggestion!! Thanks Mam.

thank u so much mam osm video.love it👌😘😘😍😍💞💖

Perfect explanation

Thank you so much u changed my life 😊

Thank you mam for advice

You are right mam thank you so much!! ❤

Seriously...nidhi I'm very thankful to u bcoz...u give me such a confidence to stay stick to my decision he left although I was the victim of abusive relationship...he alway compares me with her ex nd other girls nd treated me as I treated him...made me isolated..even a totally full time slave...tysm dear..😘😘

I being a boy was in abusive relationship for 25 years with my family. I never knew it. It was only yesterday when I realised they dislike me for not studying to get a job. I realised they actually want to earn money using me . I argued back after watching a motivational video & now I am in my friends home after being expelled from my room.

Thanks you di very nice video

Ma'am you really helped me with this video❤

Vry informative video

Eye opening advice to boys and girls

Nice tips👌👍

💯 very true after I watched this video I feel strong tysm for ur video

Yaar bhai this girl I really like because yaar isne only boy nu ni blame kita, both girl nd boy responsible if. Ok kaimo kaim nd true a ... Relationship want respect nd trust loyalty

Na babu na sona na rona na dhona dinbhar khana pina aur sona 💯single life is best life

No one is perfect ! With this approach it’s impossible to get any good partner in life 🙏 Love the partner without any expectation 👍

Well said👍