Signs of Codependency & Steps to Recover - The Mind Journal

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Darlene Lancer, author of "Codependency for Dummies" and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.
For a FREE copy of "14 Tips for Letting Go," see www.WhatisCodep.... Read Darlene's blog at www.whatiscode...
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Copyright, Darlene Lancer, 2022

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@pattiakamimi0828 8 месяцев назад

Wow. Lightbulb moment at age of 70!! Over the summer, realized that I’m married to a narcissist after all these years. Today, while listening to your podcast, realized I am a codependent. Thank you so much for this material… it’s never too late to mend!!

@DarleneLancer 8 месяцев назад

You're absolutely right. Visit my website for more resources and information: www.whatiscodependency.com

@pattiakamimi0828 8 месяцев назад

Thinking of ordering your Codependency for Dummies workbook…would that be the best place to start the healing process?

@pattiakamimi0828 8 месяцев назад

And thanks for your website. It will be most useful!

@dee0731 7 месяцев назад

This is so good thank you 😊

@DarleneLancer 7 месяцев назад

@@pattiakamimi0828 Yes, and also attend Codependents Anonymous meetings, and start therapy.

@godzfamileeful 11 месяцев назад

Jesus has been showing all the compassion he's always had for me and he's causing me to love myself and I'm in recovery!!! I love him

@teresa1710 9 месяцев назад

I'm so glad to have found this channel. Will be recommending it to my friends. 😊

@DarleneLancer 9 месяцев назад

So am I. Please check out my blogs and resources at www.whatiscodependency.com

@teresa1710 9 месяцев назад

@@DarleneLancerI have just bought your book conquering shame and codependency and am reading it now. It is really opening my eyes to myself. I will definitely be signing up for your other platforms. Thank you so much 🤗

@Sunny_Day1111 5 месяцев назад

This is wonderful. Thank you for breaking it down into parts that I can dive more deeply into.

@nusfat01 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much i have been in a deep sleep like have been doing all of this & i lost my relationship due to codependency

@DarleneLancer 8 месяцев назад

Do visit my website to jump start your recovery by reading my blogs and using my resources.

@amarshrivastava2753 Год назад

Excellent advice!

@DarleneLancer Год назад

Glad it was helpful! Learn more on my website.

@kbrown3230 2 года назад

Thank you so very much!

@DarleneLancer Год назад

You're very welcome! Learn more on m website.

@dee0731 7 месяцев назад

Well explained to understand codependency for me :)

@DarleneLancer 7 месяцев назад

Learn more on my website blogs and podcasts.

@piouskerur 2 года назад

Loved the program

@DwyaneWadeCounty 5 месяцев назад

Sometimes when i am socializing or engage with a certain person, or when someone is trying to get "close" to me, or maybe I am revealing certain personal information about myself, I begin to shake/shiver/tremble. I don't know what my body is trying to tell me. What does it mean? Is my body trying to alert me that the person is bad? Or do I need to stay with the feeling?

@DarleneLancer 5 месяцев назад

It's hard to say without talking to you about it. If the person is someone you trust and feel safe with, then it may be that you're breaking through defenses to shame. When we begin to be more vulnerable, tears and trembling can happen. This is a good thing. If you don't know the person well, or are unsure, take more time to know them to see that they're reliable, caring, and trustworthy. Codependency for Dummies list criteria for dating someone, which can apply to any intimate relationship - friendship.

@DwyaneWadeCounty 5 месяцев назад

@DarleneLancer That makes sense. But how about when a girl diagnosed with BPD is trying to use her sexuality to reel you back in after you have tried to separate yourself from her?

@DarleneLancer 5 месяцев назад

@@DwyaneWadeCounty I think I answered that...you don't feel safe. Get "Breakup Recovery" bit.ly/1tnSKRT. See my blogs on BPD and Breakups. All the steps and tools in "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships." buff.ly/3DZ6vNI also apply to someone with BPD.

@jpthomas1029 2 года назад

Everything your saying is 100% me ..

@DarleneLancer 2 года назад

You can find helpful resources on my website.

@mystivixen5038 2 года назад

What if you don't have any friends.

@DarleneLancer 2 года назад

Joining a 12-Step program like Codependents Anonymous is a great way to both heal and meet like-minded friends, as well as meet-ups, classes, and religious/spiritual groups.

@Mindsetolympics 4 месяца назад

What if speaking your mind means ur trying to give advice on something in the workplace that could be better LOL 😂

@DarleneLancer 4 месяца назад

Part of learning to be assertive means you use I statements and talk about yourself and your feelings and needs. When you don't your communications aren't effective. But there are ways to say the same thing constructively. See whatiscodependency.com/6-keys-to-assertive-communication/ Practice the steps and exercises in "How to Be Assertive" whatiscodependency.com/product/how-to-be-assertive/