SIKHIPHA IZIMFIHLO | Ngikhulelwe ingane kaBaba ongizalayo | S1 - EP82 

Yohhh kanti kwenzakalani ezweni!!! Yazi mina im 37 ngikhulisa amadodakazi ami awu 2 (16 amd 10), sihlala sobathathu nje kuphela, ngiwumama ngiwubaba ngiphinde ngibe wumngani kubo, u step mother uyeza kwamanye ama weekend kodwa hhai wonke, the way ngingafuni lutho ngakhona ngabo, into ezobahlanganisa nomjolo ngingafa nokufa, unless masebana 21 hhaii ke umuntu usengenza noma yini ngendlela e right kodwa. Amgifuni ngisho kwakuthi bagcwale umgwaqo bathi bayodlala, abadlali nje, uma befuna ukuyodlala, ngiyabahambisa kubo labobangani sivumelane ngeskhathi ngibalande noma abangani beze lana. Bese kuba khona ubaba obona intombi enganeni yakhe weĥĥhh Jesu

Au I'm speechless futhu uzwakala ungenankinga ngalodaba lwakho ayi unesbindi I salute you and ur father

This reminds me of how my own father used to give me these long inappropriate hugs, and tell me how much he loved me to a point that he asked me how would I react if I was asked to have sex with him. I was 18 years by then. I started resisting when ever he tried to hug me or make any contact with me. He noticed that, thank God he gave up

Plz can u let the interviewee flow without interrupting, I know u must ask questions but I think u too much interjecting

Mntanam uyihlo yinja wena uyinjakazi , niyaphingana njenge zinjaaaaa !!!

Yeyeyeeeen webakwethu!🙆‍♂️ay inkos'mpela liyabhubha izwe!

Aiy Zona insuku zokugcina lezi😢😢😢😢

You are such a darling ,thanks for keeping a child,ithatha isibindi lento oyenzile,some may think you are proud of what you did,but i totally understand,askies Imeko yakho ibuhlungu God bless you nje Akwelaphe nje,its not going to be easy But kuzohambeka

"And then we made love" "Ndiyayifuna futhi" Shwele ngelosi yokonakala 🤦‍♂🤦‍♂

Kunzima Eastern cape and KZN......yini Bantu bakuthi kunje. Umthetho woBawo sewungaphantsi kwezinyawo zethu. Kubi bakithi kubi

Ngikhuluswe step father Koda zange waba yindoda Kimi umama eseshonile besihlala sonke

I feel like he's not your biological father

Iyathusa kodwa sizawuthini futhi we can't even judge her 😢

Akukhomuntu oneqiniso la lengne isfebe ukube aymithanga ngabe ayielanga lapha I I enjoyed kuyise uyinja mtanam umzwisile umama wakho ipain kubuhlungu ubusuwazz ngendodr

ABOBABA BENSUKU ZOKUGCINA 😢😢😢😩😫

You can just hear “sisfebe esi” and he is not her father at all. She must go and look for her father

I don't understand how a daughter can even get sexually 'turned on' by her own father and how a father can find his biological daughter sexually attractive!🤦‍♀️ This whole concept is wrong in so many ways!🤦‍♀️🚮

Asiqineni ngasedolweni bomama ngeke 😂😂😂😂

Ay inzima mina owami ubaba ngigcina ngokumxawula not even a hug ngoba nje ngiyamhlonipha...Haw le engiyizwayo😢😢

Yooh ave ine sibindi le ngane😭🤞

Mhimmmmm sihawukele baba angazi ngithini 😢😢😢😢

Yhooo hayi sana kuyagwetywa

Izikhathi zokucina😢😮

Amanyala ahlaza, yhooo nibabi nobabakho nifuzene

Mina ngithanda ukubva strong kwakho nje girl umuhle awuzenzanga isonakali yilesi esikufake kwingxaki esingutata wakho sesikushiya kuyo futhi

Thanks as always Stufuza for being a fair host and not being judgemental. All will be well to the lady, everyone do mistakes. God bless

Your mom and dad both failed you sthandwa sam . This whole situation is not your fault. Both were suppose to protect your and they did not . As a mother myself I will never judge you. I wish you peace my love 💔

Phelelwa amazwi kulungile baba makuyi ntando yakho😭🥺

Haibo sisi ngathi you proud ngalento ebekade niyenza nalobaba wakho ,mmmm yaz I'm speechless 😢😢😢

this reminded me how close Amazulu namaXhosa are, literally one language

Sengath uJehova angasipha iso likamoya sikwaz ukuhlukanisa okuhle nokubi.nakulezi nkonzo esihamba kuzo Kube ezeqiniso.sicela uNkulunkulu asikhumbule 🙏🙏

Kuyasabisa ezinsukwini zokugcina emhlabeni 🙊🙈🙈🙈💔💔💔

Things fall apart my dearest darling don't be ashamed of yourself honey....we love you.

Bantakwethu some things are rooted deep in our own families. The challenge is that we don’t talk about these things. If we were able to talk about these not in a judgemental way but in a way to embrace the truth about ourselves. Unfortunately we use religious perspective to judge instead of facing our reality in order to evolve or transcend whatever behaviour is not beneficial to us. At home I have a father who dated her own daughter and they had a daughter together. She was a friend to me and wanted her but she didn’t want any boy at school. She really loved her father. She then left her daughter with her father and went to work in Joburg. The father again made the child with the same granddaughter. These things happened while elderly people were around. However they told Neibour’s to stay away and focus in their own families. Her own mother knew about these and is at home raising her own grandchildren. Those who know the family history says it didn’t start in this generation but always come back. If I’m religious person I would blindly condemn that act or maybe judging them based on the position of my strength. However, I know nothing about their blood line and what they are dealing with. As for me now I just want to learn and to understand these things in order to understand myself better. I have learned from this story and thanks for sharing.

😢jhooo izigaxa ezikulolu hlelo zye sabisa

azikho ezinye zogcina yizo lezi labhubha izwe sibuka ngibonga, owazala mina wangifundisa ngokuzithanda umzimba wami❤❤

Aw ubulwane obungaka😢

Do not be the judge of people,a person is destroyed by holding judgement on others. Sibonge God bless Thank you 💕...

Yebo Stufuza intokazi ezalwa uMamkhize ❤❤❤

Iqiniso lithi cc ubaba lana onephutha kakhulu ngoba uyena ofune shoulder to cry on endaweni ewrong, mina ngizwile lapho esho kuwe ukuthi unomzwangedwa wafuna ukuwususa ngawe ekuzala kunokuthi avale isikhala stepmother

Yaah kunzima emhlabeni, 😢😢 konke okwenzekayi kulotshiwe ukuthi kuzoyenzeka. Asigxeki kodwa siyafunda, uma kungakaze kwenzeke kuwena funda ngababye ukuze kungenzeki kuwena. Inkinga izokwehlela kulengane uma isikhulile.

Klelizwe kogcina kubhejwana bume kungasayona into efihlwayo

Haw, walifaka ngempela ubaba enganeni yakhe pho😢 Aw isilwane lesi

Presenter please stop interrupting

Ingane kwakmele imbophise ubaba ngokwenze isenzo esinje, but nengane yaba nesbindi senkohlakalo ke coz ukba lento eyayenzeka kuye if wayengathandi umtwana ngabe wambopha... Both of them are Bolling😅

Mmmh speechless😢

😢😢😢ndikhaliswa zii comment zabantu yhoo....nithetha ingathi anizelanga maarn , utata yinja. Ndithande isbindi sakho mntanam ,

I like your honest girl that u telling the truth ,you real love your dad

Akukho okufihliwe okungayikuvela obala usathane ukwenzisa izinto ebumnyameni mayesekuveza uyakudalakaxa

I am so conflicted by this episode 😫🤦🏽‍♀️💔💔 sizoshonaphi Nkosi

Cha nje i was raised by a stepfather, he used to pin me against the wall and kiss me with his tongue not once was i turned on if anything i was disgusted each time he did it to a point i reported him before he could go far with ukukhohlakala kwakhe , my point is nikhohlakele nonke nobaba wakho.

Kodwa mawakho kwakumele akuthathe if eseshonile step mom wakho❤

Now I agree that amanye amadoda zizinja you can not do that to your own child unless you are a dog

Presenter , stop your interuptions we should listin your vistor yes somehow u can ask atleast few questions not always ...give her a platform...

Nxa niyafana nina wena u respond kanjani kababa wakho 😢😢😢

Isozombuyela ngenye imini god is watching you guys ulala noyihlo ulala noyihlo umbulo ziyeza iziphumo zalomanyala wash the space

Iyoh Jesu l clap hand l cry

Ngiyambonha lomntana coz ulimelile iqinisi kuba bavumelana akyorape yebo lihlazo but alinakujikwa kuba siyababaza kuhle nokuba umgcinile lomntwana ozayo kanacala konke kuzodlula cc ukhule neqiniso ngoba lyngumkhululi❤

Eeiiish Jehova kanti ukuphi nakhu konakala emhlabeni😢😢😢

Shiya phansi bafo o james sijima nabo syababona kuma shower uma sgeza ay baliphethe bafo aksekho lutho lapho. Izingane phambili naba khohlwa ilowo ngeke ahlukane nekwerekwere

Hhayi xem kuzima but noma😂ngabe ngingaphuza ujwala ngidakwe ngingazazi igama lami angeke ngize ngiwele kulenkinga u cc ehlangabezane nayo but vele akaboshwe lobaba lo uneto ayisebezisile ukuze alale negane yakhe 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔

It sounds like she enjoyed it.

Kunzima emuhlabeni usamubiza ngobaba isikhohlakali sendoda

Kodwa Jehovah usilahleleni sizobashonisaphi abantwana bethu

Yazi guys shuthi anazi baningi abantwana abakulesimo engathi nikubuka kude lento,mina ngi dealer nabantu abadlulile kulezimo abanye bayasaba ukusho,pray nixoshe usathane imisebenzi yakhe le

Yooooo sisi uyinja no tata wakho,u vumile or awu vumanga u mama uno lunghelo loku bophisa u baba wakho

Ubaba unephutha,noma kungathiwa ingane yavuma kodwa yena wathatha advantage waysondeza enganeni💔ufanelwe ukujeza

Presenter stop asking lot of questions before getting an answer please 🙏

I personally I don't blame her but her father because he tricked her

Nkulunkulu ungsize ngikhulise abantwana bami ngeqiniso

Abantwabethu bazosimiseli nhliziyo shem hayiiiiiiii😢😢😢

The way she is talking its like she enjoyed whatever happened

Ngeke ndimsole umntana kuba on that stage akazi ngokuphangelele..inja endala ngulotatakhe💔💔I can bulala lonjanoba ngu Brother wam🤞uthethoka Moses wawusebenza kwinto ezinjena kulabhayibhile. Andimbekityala kangako lomntana nguyise inja😢

Bubusathana obu yhoooooo

Singamjaja nje but kunomuntu omdala okunguye okmele abemdala Lana kukhona amadoda nabafana lo Baba Ka gal UMFANA NJE AKABANGA INDODA UMGODOYI QHA

She sounds very proud

Nahlaselwa usathane nobabili nalingeka, kungenzeka kunoma ubani,but syabonga for iziqephu ezinjengalezi eziveza imiphumela yokulingeka,okuhle nje sisi uyakwazi ukubhekana nephutha lakho engathi ungafunda kulo and nobaba wakho engathi engaba indoda ekwazi ukumela ihlazo lakhe umtwana ekhule kahle,sbaningi sinamaphutha ukuthi nje awaziwa izwe,sngahlulelani but sisizane bantu bakwethu uma kukhona ongene eslingweni, Uberyt Sisi ukhulise kahle umntwana uNkulunkulu uyakuthanda kakhulu and uzokusiza ekukhuliseni untwana,Iphutha iphutha❤

The old man has been selfish and irresponsible, the girl is young and venerable, you can imagine

Amaphoyisa Nj afuneka lah 😂😂loBaba WaRaper Ngek

This is childhood trauma. She doesnt see her father as her father probably because he might have neglected her in a certain type of way, it can even be sexually. Same applies with her mother. She is not afraid of hurting her mother's feelings, probably because her mother neglected her as well. She just wants attention.

What a good acting episode....zulu mother with Xhosa child from Mthatha

That Mother Is One Reason Why We Have Innocent Men Serving False Rapes In Prison. The Father Is Insane But The Mothe Can Find Another Charge, Not Pushing For Rape. The Lady Said It Multiple Times That He Didn't Rape, Thou Her Father Is Evil But Didn't Rape

Plz help that girl child she is confused and everyone around her complicates situation further more if her mother wants to lay false rape charges against the "father" x2 ... is gonna help them survive? The father is disgusting🤮🤮🤮🤮

Yoh!!!I'm speechless 🙊

Akekho onephutha isimo esabenza bazithola sebekulesisimo. Akekho o clean kulomhlaba sonke sinamaphutha

Molo Stuffuza🎉Ntombi ufane we qakatha qakatha xa uthetha sabe thina asizukungakujaji nenze umbulo Ingxaki aphendini kuyazalwana noba ibinge ngotatakho❤🎉😢

I guess is step father sakho lesi.Buza kahle kuthi ukuphi ubaba wakho

One thing about my dad he was a decent man He had his mistakes as umuntu but one thing about him, he was a good dad nd a protector ❤ How can u even do that with your dad😢 he was going through the loss of his wife nawe u let him make love with you💔💔 you were supposed to ask for help for him nd yourself but because he didn't rape u You were enjoying even though you knew it's wrong Noy2 nikhohlakele Isbindi sokukhumulela ubaba wakho usthathaphi mntasekhaya💔🥺

Kazi kuphi la ingane zethu eziphephekhona😢😢

ukurapile ngoba wuye oqalile ubaba mgodoyi. usenkingeni loyomntwana mekhula uzophila impilo ebhlungu azi ukuthi ubabakhe wumkhulu wakhe,kanti umamawakhe usisiwakhe😰😥😢😭😕

Yhooo lengane ishaywe ngumuthi ngulobaba really

I like the fact that you so honesty girl ❤

amaxhosa...cutting edge

Yisifebe sika tata nengane yakhe😂

Those who are sitting here thinking where can we build ama 2k their own khantri where we won't have any access to see them please let's gather here special us ama 80teez who gave birth to them

Kodwa Stufuza wena uqabula abafwenu sengathi yinkomo?😅

Indodakazi yami yasho elwa umawayo at age 18 and i felt now i have to protect her even More than before,ngamkhulisa kahle now she's 22 and a graduate futhi njalo uma ngimbona ngibona my little girl engingafini lutho ngaye,ngaze ngakhetha ukungabi nomunye unkosikazi ngoba ngiyazi ukuthi ngeke amthande ngendlela umawakhe wayemthanda ngayo,akeze la lobaba ngimbonise futhi ngimfundise ukuthi ikhuliswa kanjani ingane yentombazane a engasenaye umama,hayi ukulala nayo,waze wasiphoxa baba yoooooooo.

Ziphi intanga zakho ,nikhohlakele nino babakho, futhi uzokushiya nalo tatanyana wakho

Ey UBaba unqene ukoshela kabusha wabona kungcon ukubamba khona la egceken ey ikhaty esikuzo ngaty ziya ngokuya aykhona uqala kanjan nje uTata ukuthint ingan yakh iz ibe Naked phamb kwakh aykhon

Sies! This is pure evil and nawe ntombazana you were a willing partner. The way you talk does not show any remorse. You sound proud of what happened.