This is mother-infant bonding. A natural motherly instinct during the first year of life. See child psychology and studies about parent-infant attachment. Some people never receive this calming assurance resulting in traumatic or chaotic childhoods. This allows any person to receive this perceived love, assurance and emotional connection without any risk of rejection by either party. If the goal is to help bring peace and wholeness into the hearts of people, this is a wonderful thing.
I agree, the first few years of your life are driven by your Mother. You learn trust, love, and peace and if you are deprived of this either your Mother didn't give it, or was taken from you, it causes permanent emotional damage. It isnt to say if you have a great Mother that you will be fine, but like you said its a vital part of your development. Your Father is equally important (which society has been trying to destroy for awhile now) for other aspects like strength/safety/advice/etc.
This was the very first ASMR video I watched. I was struggling in 2016 with complex PTSD. I was dealing with daily panic attacks, paranoia, and an eating disorder. I was struggling to find anything to calm me down. This video popped up, and I clicked it looking for some type of relief from the pain I was experiencing. This video helped to ground me, and make me feel comforted. It introduced me to the world of ASMR, which was a huge help for me in 2016. I watch ASMR now, more so for the enjoyment I get out of it, but I can genuinely say, you helped me in one of the darkest times in my life. This is my first time returning to this video since then, and I can see now why it was so helpful for me. You are so calming, reassuring, and beautiful. Thank you for creating such positive content. You've made a difference in my life.
That’s REALLY Cool!!! Thank you for sharing your healing experience with all of us. You just never know how/when you might touch someone and kickstart their Healing Process.
As someone who experiences heavy depersonalization and intense feelings of loneliness... I want to just admit that this is the first time I did ASMR and it evoked a whole lot of emotional response and I felt like I wasn't alone, like I was loved and being comforted. I can't comprehend the feeling of satisfaction I experienced. Most people wouldn't admit to it, but it actually made me tear up. I'm an emotional person who craves this sort of attention and feelings of physical comfort and... yeah. Thank you. My surroundings feel ever more real after only 11 minutes of this.
I fell the exact same way. I really love Maria because she's SO caring of EVERYBODY! She's a very loving and caring person and she has made me feel very safe and relaxed and since I myself am going into therapy for college watching a lot of therapy videos like this I feel are going to be very helpful later on. So I am really glad and REALLY happy for you that Maria was able to help you. Take care! :)
This was my very first ASMR video. 2016, 12 years old and stressed out. Literally looked up "soft relaxing voice", and out of intrigue, I clicked this video. Changed my life forever. Thank you Maria, I'm still with you seven years on. 💞
i still come back to this video 2 years later. ever since then, i would press play and go straight to sleep. this video was my introduction to ASMR and i never thought it would help me so much since i used to think of it badly. love you
I’ve had this video in my ASMR playlist for so long now and it’s the oldest one. I always come back to it every now and then and it gets better every time!
first asmr video I ever watched. i had always felt weird for wanting this kind of sleep pleasure and then I found a whole world of people!! :)) thank u!!
I love how maria finds the beauty in different objects. And how she makes amazing sounds with objects. She really reminds me of an innocent angel. Can you inagine anyone being mean to her? Shes just lovely.
The opening words of this video always make me cry, we are all going through something, we are all doing the best we can, our existence is a blessing and a curse but are not alone. ❤️
Phrases like “it’s okay,” “you’re safe” and “it’s not your fault” etc make me feel so soothed but so sad and teary at the same time. Nothing tragic happened to me...it’s just something I need to hear sometimes.
When I first got into this type of vids this was the first one I ever watched,, now I'm addicted to her and I'll always stay committed. She's helped me through sleepless nights. Thank God for this wonderful woman.
I was one of them, one of those people who would talk shit about asmr and thought people who watched it were weird. Then I gave it a chance and now I have been watching ever since. This is actually the first asmr video I ever watched!
You are helping so many people! You must be aware of your special gift! It needs to be so much appreciated, Thank you on behalf of everyone here warching and listening to you to calm us all down.
My 4 year old son has sleeping issues because of his autism and he absolutely loves your videos! Every day at nap time, "Mommy I wanna listen to the whisper lady!" Hes had trouble with sleep for years and Maria has really helped :) It also helps to calm him down during a meltdown. Maria you are a gift.
For those of you new to asmr. You now walk in the court of the queen. The whole community knows Maria by name as she alone has pushed asmr to the Pinnacle it is now. Her library is extensive and should have something for everyone. Over 7 years of pure asmr and has only gotten better and ever innovations is her game. All hail the queen.
@@kelseypearl RU-vid likes to push other channels but Maria has been in articles and countless interviews, the news. Big RU-vid meet and greets. All know she made asmr what it is now. All asmr artist pay Maria their respect. She gladly talks to her people personally and is not afraid to cry and let everyone know what she is feeling and going through. Her story is inspirational. Look up her draw my life video. She even had one before draw my life was a thing. It's a harrowing story. But we are all happy for her.
@@jawesomes6939 you read it correctly...I am the muthafukin og of Samoan buttsex in the Columbian republic of Venezuelan Guatemala...I am to Samoan buttsex in the Columbian republic of Venezuelan Guatemala, what she is to asmr! Real recognize real...from one og to another... Word
I don’t understand very much because I am french but when you said “You are saif with me I promesse”, I cry and that was exactly what I have needed so thanks so much and I just souscribe and leave a time up (I don’t know if you can just understand what I say...)
@@OFFENSIVE-COFFEE I wasn’t knowing, You only know how to speak english ? If you want i can teach you how to speak french ! It’s will be fun ! Give me just your Instagram and I can teach you some sentences !
Rose Jay Je suis un apprendeur de français, dans les Étais-unis mon école a beaucoup de classes en français, Espagne, ou allemande. Quand tu as dit “I wasn’t knowing”, c’est dans l’impartfait, mais tu veux dire “I didn’t know”, il a conjugué en le passé composé. Comment est-ce que ma Français?
Now, I understand that Ellen is a comedian and her mocking will have a positive effect on the number of views for Maria, but from a purely emotional viewpoint - f*** Ellen for trivializing the effect of help that ASMR has for many people.
Ellen is a small tit old granny without proper hair doing a talk show in America "Ellen DeGeneres". Her name already gives away that she is degenerate so you shouldn't be too harsh on her.
I was in the Army for a number of years. I was a part of some nightmarish things in Somalia that haunt me and plague my dreams. What you do has helped me every night for about a year now. Thank you.
Endrill Crane you personally helped all of us citizens to create a better country and a safer one. I think I speak for everyone when i saw thank you for all your hard work as a protector of this country.
I’ve been watching Maria for years and I’ve lost track of how many times I’ve watched/listened to this video. I was very sad to see the way Ellen reacted to your video today. There’s a reason this video has 16M views (at the moment) and it’s because you’re wonderful, Maria!
Kori M I didn’t see it that way. Ellen is an amazing soul and knew exactly what she was doing by making light of this. She thought it was worthy of being on her show and bringing more people to her work. That’s a beautiful thing. 💕 That’s why I’m here.
Ellen is, quite simply, threatened by Maria......and why shouldn't she be? Maria is everything that Ellen is not: Feminine. Classy. Sexually Attractive..... Elegant.....Ellen is asexual, nihilistic, child-like.
Very sorry Ellen showed your video in a kind of negative way, you help a lot of people out and I hope this hasn’t made you feel like you were being made fun of.
this was the very first asmr video I ever watched- I was laying in the grass trying to take a nap, but couldn't relax so I figured I'd try looking up relaxing videos. I remember thinking that having someone whisper in my ear was so strange and different and then I immediately fell asleep. Woke up later being like what just happened. Started watching them every night before bed and got over the insomnia I'd had for years.
Yes you are always welcome here!!! Thank you for another flawless video. Your videos have been helping me sleep for 3 nearly years now. Thank you thank you thank you 💞💕💞
Yes. It seems that there is always a war, somewhere, all the time, at any time, in the world.....Although I know this is the norm, I will never stop trying to live, as much as I can, in a more peaceful way, wherever I can. I am usually filled with rage and for valid reasons....But I try to pass on to others as little of what poisoned me as possible. Maria, here, does a wonderful job at smoothing some of us out....at least for a little while.
Foxy the Pirate Men can wear make-up too without it being a "plot twist". I've let my sisters do my make-up and paint my nails and I actually wore it for the day and that's how I got a girlfriend...
I always ask myself, if her pupils never move. :D The are always gigantic. No matter, how much light hits her eyes. I'm sure, they're just painted. ;-P
Was about to look up the best pump I can buy to get the water out of my flooded basement but this video popped up and I figured the stale water and inevitable structural damage to my home can wait. Another great video!
@@crazysoup2469 Ellen Degeneres (or however you spell that), used to have a Talk Show in the US. She made fun of this video in one episode. Honestly, not a nice person.
Hello everyone! I hope you are all doing well! :) I wanted to share a great cause that many in the community are trying to raise awareness and funds for. Thanks to JB Green for organizing this fundraiser. If you have some time please visit this link below for more information on this cause. A lot of great ASMRists have come together to collaborate on this and we hope you join us. Thank you for your time and any help is greatly appreciated! :) www.crowdrise.com/asmr-community-fundraiser-pajama-program
@@エノイ Ellen is a famous “comediant” who has a show called EllenShow, in where she showed this video and made fun of it. María was bullied in national TV...
@@matutin0 ohhhh yes i know her, wow I didn’t she did that to her! Ugh I knew that woman was evil in many ways but to go as far to make fun of this Angel.... so low. She’s nasty
Khaled imagine this,there’s blood and gunshots everywhere and dead bodies on the floor and people yelling. Maria steps into the middle with a comb and starts brushing her hair. Everyone stops to listen. She earns a medal. World peace.
I know and thats why i commented. Now i leave to you figure out in what propouse. Was a joke? Was and recognice of achievment? Just a nonsense comment? I recommend do this averiguation while enjoying one of the most blyatifull ASMR sesion of internet. Who knows, perhaps in the calmness u will find an answer. Maybe u fall asleep. Maybe not
I'm here to try and help rest my brain because I currently have a concussion and I'm trying to heal quickly because it's the middle of wrestling season
