Me: *Sneeze* Her: I HAVE A BOY FRIEND!!!!! That’s the level of rejection we face, let it go sis you got the rejection lite package, we get the Premium Plus.
@@brianharley1283 please give us the full scenario! What lead up to her to cuss you out? There is no good reason but give us what got the whole thing started?
@@q.t.gamingfamily YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY SHE MADE A VIDEO? THE ANSWER IS IN YOUR OWN STATEMENT. "HE'S NOTHING TO HER. SHE'S NOTHING TO HIM" BUT OBVIOUSLY THAT'S NOT A TRUE STATEMENT. CHANCES ARE HE WAS DEFINITELY HER TYPE AND SHE GOT REJECTED FOR SOMETHING THAT WAS OUT OF HER CONTROL AND SHE COULDN'T TAKE IT. THE EXACT SAME SCENARIO OF MEN GETTING REJECTED FOR NOT BEING TALL. GOD I LOVE KARMA 😅
Please do. Run far from her kind. Oh my groceries she actually give off stalker-vibes to me and I’m a natural black woman. She dun get her way and she throw tantrums. Pamper change💩💩
I've been turned down for that "sounding white" thing a lot, even being over 6' didn't help my case. What really blew my mind is when ladies from different communities openly accepted me, I was suddenly a self-hater, sellout and any other negative adjective you can think of that gets hurled at black men who associate or date within other communities. This whole debacle bothered me for years as it felt like damned if I do and damned if I don't.
@@truthliesbeneath3134 reread what he said and try to comprehend, he said he was rejected for sounding white not being tall. When reading to respond instead of understand goes wrong.😂
I'm sorry to hear that. Sometimes we as black people get offended or jealous of each other and pin point proper diction calling it "sounding white". Tell 'em to go read a book...lol.
This is where strong, independent, “who gonna check me”, “I don’t need a man”, I don’t need your help”, “I can do bad all by myself” masculine energy gets you……
One sistuh ( mental patient) was struggling with a a cart that was tumbling over. She mumbled " c'mon help me you little faggot!" I didn't move a muscle and her cart and her almost fell onto the train tracks into oncoming subway trans train
When I was in school, all of the sistah's loved the same 2 or 3 black dudes with light skin and good hair (not me) in the black community. I recently went home to visit and got together with these women 40 years later and they were still worshiping the same 2-3 dudes who have 5 or 6 kids now with 3 or 4 different women who either ended up getting murdered or got sick or have died early. It is what it is.
I noticed that too! There was a family of brothers in our town. 5 of them. The oldest two are criminals with 56 children between the two of them. One has been in prison for almost 18 years, got released..raped and sold drugs again and now he’s back. The women in our town still worship them! As a woman I’m just confused!
Facts!!! My ex was like that. Every thing was about her looks, who was looking at her, and she use to look up in the face of other men. I had to get rid of her @$$.
I’m a black man and never dated a black woman because none of them ever gave me a chance. I always have a job, have a car but I don’t know I guess my looks mattered so much
This is why I dont agree with Reparations fully..Many BM/BW dating Outside . A Check For what?..When we're not gonna Unify and Spend It On matters For Us as a Whole.
As a black man who use to date black women you ain't missing out on anything not saying other races are better but in my experience dating outside of the black community is a more peaceful experience
Bruh if a black woman said this about black men nobody would blink an eye they live inns double standard world where they are perfect and can do no wrong
She only felt salty because the Brotha respectfully turned her down. A woman like her wants to be the one to reject a Brotha. The hypocrisy of some Sistas is real.
We bm just aren't as dumb as most bw think we are. The bm she's talking about was probably turned off by her overactive mouth and exaggerated body language. We're not intimidated... we're exasperated. We given up on trying to get through to you. Why talk when nobody's listening?
No he told her he won’t date her cause she’s black. And she’s light skinned too usually light skinned chicks are the preference. But it’s all good cause At the end of the day your preference can turn on you at anytime💅🏿
@@sherryda2018bb As nice-looking as she appears, I'm really glad that the brutha rejected her bighead. She would've nagged his ass off into another woman's bed. 👩🏾🦱🛏🏃🏽
Lol I think this sista will create tik tok video number 12 about this brotha before the year ends. By then, she will have blamed Martin Luther King and Malcolm X for not doing enough to instill race loyalty in brothas 🙄😂
@@jahkarimirza7286 Thank you...they love saying most BM prefer BW. Thats a Damn lie..nothing wrong with Interrcial dating But Im tired of BM not owning up to Who they Like.
@@Ditzychocofem_Rosa Your a cartoon avatar “divestor”. You’re a middle aged white man in his moms basement trying to grift. I bet your name is something like Billy Machonahey III. Go take out the trash before mom gets mad Billy
not only its "i made a mistake i should have got with that good man i ignored in my 20's" its, her: "now that im 40 with kids from pookie and ray ray, let me find a good man" good man: "nah im good u have kids" her: "how dare u not want to step up for my kids"
Women these days are goofy. This dude didn’t hate himself. He just didn’t want you. Black men have adapted to the things black women do and they don’t like it
I wouldn't want her either. She sounds extremely annoying. And if you aren't familiar with the some of the TikTok features, her image looks like its been heavily altered by the apps image filters. Yeah brotha Phil peace to the young cat that shook her ass like *Kyrie Erving* off the dribble...
Is that why she looks so red around her eyes and cheeks? I thought she looked off, and wasn't sure if it was bad makeup use or sunburn, tanning, or something
What were his personal experiences with the majority of the BAW he dealt with most of his life? What situations set the tone for him to choose women of a different race? His preferences are his business. Her feelings are her problem. She needs to move on, men move on when they're rejected everyday. Grow up, lady.
He rejected her for the same reason many other BM have rejected her,who wants to walk around with someone with tons of makeup on and when it's removed she'll look like a different person , nose ring is a turn off, the red lipstick with her smile makes her look like a clown smile, the nails, nope, I don't blame the Bro for passing her up.
*@ThePhillipScottShow:* Women like her never stop to think that *multi colored hair,excessive makeup,nose rings,etc ARE. A. TURN. OFF. to decent brothers.* "Self hate" is women not ever wanting to appear as they naturally are.
Facts...and these chicks saying "it's giving..." and "vibe" every other sentence is getting played out. These women claim to be independent but are the quickest to follow a social media trend..men appreciate a woman who is truly independent in thought. In the United States it's rare to find a black american woman who isn't heavily influenced by pop culture, social media and or the Black church...it's like they aren't programmed to think for themselves.
Deal with it. When men reject women, it's a problem for them. But when women do it, it's ok. I'm telling you, when people rant like this (mostly women), it's so annoying. Ma'am just be quiet and get rid of that bull ring.
All he did was give her compliments but he is a man and stated his preference for her so she won't have to waste her time. He helped her out. I agree Mr. Phil; she DEFINITELY wanted that brother.
Exactly! I got rejected in the past I was just thankful the girl didn't string me along and pretend to like. Thats even worse! She should be thankful as well... and get that dang bull ring out of her nose.... ugh.... lol
Being rejected by a man of the same race because you are the same race is disgusting and shows he has self hatred. It’s one thing not to be attracted or have no compatibility than to flat out just deny someone because they are black like you smh. A lot of you truly hate yourselves.
I Rejected A Girl Once Because She Wasn't My Type & She Had The Nerve To Say Behind My Back That I Was Gay To Her Friends That Came & Told Me Later. I Was Really Wow. I Told You I Don't Like You Like That So Now I'm Gay Really 😒
When women reject men as disrespectfully and viciously as they can, men are expected to just get over it. This man rejected her politely and she's online bitching.
This the main thing here. A lot of women take pride in how hard they can shut a guy down who had the audacity to say hello, compliment them and let her know he’s interested. The apathy from men wouldn’t be present if these type of women just knew how to be polite
We're so silly 🤣 we generalize too much set weird standards and don't know how to genuinely respect one another..I hope we heal and come back together because we need Black unity more than ever now. We are in the last days and I hope whatever this spirit is dies. We need to start clean🙏🏾🙌🏾
@@Ditzychocofem_Rosa And many are getting unalived and are miserable.. There's an Article in the NYTimes by Brianna Holt that talks about IR like Prison lol.. No thanks🥴🥱 And save it. If you were happy. You wouldn't be here Projecting. You might even be a Yt person yourself
I believe in Karma. In America during High School and College I literally got rejected hundreds if not thousands of times. Never had a girlfriend and just accepted the fact that I would be a lonely Incel for life. Then I started traveling overseas and boy did life turn around. All of a sudden the women started chasing me and I had to turn them down. Always keep your head up, you never know when new opportunities will come around
black men dont prefer black women cause of the way they were treated by them : black men were rejected , disrespected, and wasn't accepted so why persue a woman who will turn you down cause you're not a "bad boy" type ? DATE WHO YOU PREFER .
Thank you Uncle Phil for speaking on the women who diss quality black men for Pookie and Ray Ray. 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 when they do this, we are suppose to just eat that. They don’t like it but they ain’t trying to change this behavior either.
You are speaking facts! I’m a woman , and she is definitely in her feelings. I agree, women do it all the time(I’m not saying all). Women can be rude, and I hve heard women judging a brotha by the 👞 they have on(again I’m not saying all).
I'd say it's most women. It's always something. The shoes he's wearing, the clothes, how he said a certain phrase, his height, where he works, If her friends she's with think he looks good, ect. Women are always making snap judgements or rejecting men based on often arbitrary things.
Preach on uncle Phil..I been working since I was 16..and I wasnt a pookie or ray ray so I've got passed over coming up from sisters ..in my case I dress nice kept a job but wasn't enough..in my circle I seen some of them later in life and I was like nope I'm good..that's just my story I'm good now...small fact..imagine getting off work got weights at home to workout trying to keep looking good for my woman...6 1...190..and solid..she uses my phone so know I'm not cheating..cooked and told me she was leaving for a p..and r.r..and it turned out on her end just like u would expect..I left it alone lol
Thank you for posting this. For far too long there has been this thought amoungst Black American Women that says we prefer light skinned women. Well this shows that there are some of us who just don't prefer Black Women at all.
@@maryfields877 Well unfortuntely..there's a very vocal group of online black women stating they don't prefer black men making up for your non-willingness to verbalize..lol. Don't really see the 'sistas' getting at them.
@@maryfields877 y’all have no problem saying everything y’all don’t like about us when you reject us, it’s 2022 men have standards and rejecting right back. Welcome to modern dating thank feminism.
She feels like this because she thinks she's entitled. She needs to get over herself. I can see if he said it after using her sexually and then dumped her, but that wasn't the case. It's not like she can make every man like her. Who does she think she is? Queen of the world? And this is coming from a bisexual black woman. You can't force someone to love you, let alone like you if they don't want you, bottom line.
@@kevinreid6223 Considering that dating apps show black american women to be the least desired among all groups of men. It seems that black men are settling.
to be honest you have bw of all shades loves to discount, ignore, stereotype light skin black men so much they refuse to date us but they cry when they get rejected
Lol ooooooh weeeee this sista got ALL wound up by this one mystery brotha 😂 She need to stand up so we can see what's she working with. Sistas can't handle rejection at all yet are the biggest hypocrites 🙄 She needs to try being a brotha trying to holla at all these mean azzzz sistas 👀 At least the brotha was nice.
Exactly...didn't seem like she was purposefully trying to keep the phone at an angle as if she was hiding her body? not to mention the excessive makeup and filters.
Most of the time that I was rejected by black women growing up was only because I was “too light”. I can’t control that. But I learned to live with it. They can’t take what they dish out.
I remember when I was broke making 12 bucks an hour I was getting turned down left and right. It was a learning experience, I had to improve myself to become better with ladies. I remember when I was a single guy sometimes women would approach me to flirt sometimes it was cool other times I was not interested. But man sometimes when you turn a woman down they go on the attack call you names xyz. And then I would think bullet doged lol.
Im dating a Jamican he loves me treat me wonderful more than any man had so far we share a amazing bond and I love it 😀 he had his heart broken by a black American woman and I said to him its ok I will pick up and repair your heart aww deep inside I know he has doubts but I assure him everyday with my actions that's everything is OK. ❤
Phil, if we have that conversation about us men being rejected because we aren't a pookie or ray ray or 6+ feet tall or dark skin and skinny, they'll say we're "hurt" and "jealous".
Honestly, I think it's all cap. I simply don't believe her. Could you imagine a black man saying that to a black woman without her going off. Common sense would tell any black man to either say nothing or just lie and say he already has a woman. I believe this is all just a justification of her disdain for black men. She runs to the internet for validation and to try to convince herself for the poor decisions she has made in her past.
It is bizarre that these type of BW blame all BM that they aren't interested in, for the behaviors of the very small percentage of men that they date, mate with and share with other BW.
None of us like wigs weaves contact excessive makeup oddly uNatural Nails nose rings and anything else we deem to be unattractive that they continue to push on us
