A Sista questions the condemnation BM receive for dating WW. She states that BW never is condemned for dating WM. There's a clear double standard but life is full of them.
I'm not even in a interracial relationship and i get annoyed by this double standard. If women don't want these kind of guys, why so angry when they choose elsewhere? Miserable people keep themselves and others miserable. As a black men, i dont care if black women date other races of men. This thought has never crossed my mind because im not petty nor do i want to get validation from others.
Because they feel entitled to a black man's attention and loyalty even if you can't have there's. If you can't find a black woman the expectation is to just be alone or be "blacker" until you find one.
I knew a pretty black girl in college who was happily dating a white man (who acted black) and had the gaul to criticize me for dating a white woman from Switzerland. My jaw literally dropped to the floor. I was like: "Are you freakin kidding me?" You can't make this up.😂
@@youtubeuser5683 Because he came from a prominent rich wonderbread white family. She, herself bragged that he was "more black than we were". Hence my statement.
The truth is BW would date out more if they were actually pursued for more than intimacy. They claim loyalty to BM due to lack of options, their lack of care about what BM say and want is evident more everyday. Their projection on BM dating out is jealousy, that’s it. If they had more options they would exercise them
Yes as a bw i agree. But you can’t tell bw that. A lot of nonbm don’t even look in bw direction because of their non feminine attitudes. Other cultures of men do not tolerate it at all lol so because of that most bw are only left with bm.. ive always said if bw were actually feminine they’d have more options in other cultures
@@daisyrose5302I mean down south the loud black women stereotype is still at large and I still attract those women and date them. I don’t why I guest I’m so used it or maybe I’m delu 😭😭
Yep. A lot of people just can't grasp the fact that half of all interracial attractions are based on fetishes. That's why so many White men love Asian women so much, because of the stereotypes of them being so submissive and tight
The funniest part about all of this is that a significant percentage of BM that date interracially are dudes that would have been perfectly happy with a BW, but got tired of being ignored because they didn't fit into a box. There are a lot of talented, decent BM that spent a lot of their formative years being ignored by BW, because they weren't Pookie or Ray Ray. Eventually, a lot of those BM went off to college, or left home and realized that it wasn't them that was the problem, it was our culture, a culture that glorifies dysfunction. We've seen for decades that BW choose poorly in regards to mates and honestly, the only time a lot of them start giving a damn about decent BM is after they get dogged out by trash. Guess what Becky, Mai Lin, Marisol and other women don't expect? They don't expect a dude with a future to raise some other douchebag's kids. They don't expect a good man to mop up after trash. Not only do a lot of Black Women expect Steady Eddie to raise Pookie's kids, they have the nerve to call Eddie weak if he refuses to save her from her own terrible decisions.
I worked with a lot of black women at my job, and they were always cool with me but one day they found out that I was dating a non-black woman when we had a work function and you could bring your significant other… They weren’t mean or rude, but they would constantly make jokes and tease me about it one day I told them all the things she does for me, and out of their own mouth they admitted yeah a black woman is probably not going to do those things… I mean they said it not me
@@qwallace6207 destroy the black population, when black women choose white men its self annihilation. You should check out “The Isis Papers by Dr. Francis Crest Welsings” she elaborates on this exact topic and it’s really profound how self hate plays out in the subconscious.
@@qwallace6207 To police the sexual activity of others in a way that gives them the most sexual opportunities. Black women and white men have an interest restricting the sexual options of black men.
@@qwallace6207Its the unwritten social contract. I (White men) get access to your body (black women) and in return you get limited access to my resources (welfare, food stamps etc) but when I’m done I go back to Becky you go back to Tyrone. Black Men were NEVER meant to have access to White Women now that we do and we’re doing pretty well at getting them both White Men and Black Women are going crazy because that wasn’t part of the contract. Thing is White Men can no longer physically stop their women due to feminism so they try to shame them (mudshark, coal burner) and Black Women can’t stop us so they try to shame us (Yo Momma Black, Sell out). Black Women and White Men have the same goal, that’s to get back to the unwritten contract. That’s an in-depth answer for you.
I had a talk with my Barber the other day, a BM with a WW is frown upon, but i learned that some BW are very feminine to WM, and he told me it because they worship that WM, and see their own BM as beneath them.
I agree. White women are more straight forward. If they don’t like you. They won’t try to use you for anything. They just don’t want anything to do with you and ignore you. As for Black women, they will be glaring at you and looking at you like trash.
Ironic that Black men who date out have more appeal to certain women of other races. If women think of their own men like dirt, they shouldn't be angry when these same black men are in a happy relationship with women outside of the western world or in a ir relationship.
Actually the white man shows dominance. Which is why it's easier for many black women to submit to them. Now again date who you want to date do not worry about black women and their opinions
I'm so glad that she brought this up. I'm a black man and I love females period. Where I grew up, black women didn't want me and rejected me. I got more attention from white women. When I went out with white girls, I got so much flack! Wasn't fair.
They make it a issue about some black men dating outside their race, but those same black women don’t want us to be with other black women who have some decency about them. And they focus more on the black men that don’t want them, instead of the black men who are with them who represent the overall majority.
Sister ask a valid question, maybe she can find out why the sisterhood don't take issue with Black women being with Zaddy and not be ridicuol but praised instead.
Also something else I've noticed whenever black women are in a interracial relationship they get to still be black and they get to talk about black issues. But black men in an interracial relationships are oftentimes told they're not black anymore and they can't speak on black issues🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
Truth the double standards are real and we’ve always known it yet black men aren’t petty to always attack those issues and complain because as men that’s just what we don’t do
Most black women in interracial relationships don't speak on those issues with their husband's. They will talk about ut with other bkack people. But around him most will switch yo the politically correct stance with a quickness. Yes, I know a few black women marrued to white men.
Oh yeah there's most definitely a double standard when it comes down to that I honestly think that many of these black women feel they own black men and they're entitled to black men even the ones they wouldn't give the time of day to.
That’s the thing black men want black women but black women have fallen for the trap of the white women plight of “oppression from men” when black men never oppressed black women it was the white man who oppressed their women and others so black women need to humble down and be halo just like black men don’t care who black women are with. Me, personally I would rather see more black couples and families for our nation but you can’t have everyone be on one accord.
Honestly i think its cause they want a back up plan so if 10 Pookie, 7 Kens, 4 Juans, and Kai don't want her or worse leave her with bastard children you the black man who kept his nose clean the best he could can clean up her mess. I personally say hello no to that, women back in the day were at least greatful a man look after them and their kids not today though.
I mean Kyrie Irving and Michael B Jordan had think piece articles written about them for just appearing in a photo with WW. A cousin of mine matried a white man and when she found out I would be bringing a friend who is white to the wedding she needed to talk to me about how disrespectful that would be to her and my other family members. I shyt you not. And she we were just friends.😂 I told her to cancel my RSVP. Talked to her about twice after that.I since learned to minimize contact with various BW for my sanity. They have some weird warped self image problems that usually self inflicted.😒
I don’t blame you for canceling the RSVP to your cousin’s wedding because of her hypocrisy and that she lost contact with a blood relative due to her own actions. It’s pretty ironic that swirlers/divestors can rejoice being with men from other races and ethnicities but give us black men a lot of crap for dating and marrying non-black women domestically or abroad. If they’re happy with their man, they wouldn’t be so invested in other men and the type of women we choose date.
Hence I don't care anymore. I'm not obligated to date black women. Especially ones that found me corny or lame. Not my problem anymore about black women not finding love. Many of the ones that rejected me didn't want a guy like me. I accept that. So now? I date anyone who I like that appreciates me. Good luck ladies because good black men are now desired by non black women. More competition. I date black women but I dated others too. Could care less about the feelings of haters. Pay my bills and then we can talk. And BTW... My mom loves it. So don't try to shame me by saying my momma black. As she doesn't give a crap.
I've wasted too much time, being loyal to a group of Women, that are unappreciative and so self-centered, until they cannot even recognize the gift of me, trying to save them and their children, from the jaws of catastrophe. Until now, which is much later than I would like, "quite frankly, I don't give a damn"... Good riddance !
All I can say about this one is, thank you sister. I've been waiting for a Black woman to call other Black women out on the double standard (besides Chez Charde) for a long time. Swirlers/Divesters gaslight the hell out of Black men when you point out their hypocrisy when it comes to WM/BW relationships.
It's more out of many deceitful and manipulations of blackwomen towards blackmen that's been going on for too long and it's time-up for all of it to stop,
@@grovedwayne390 I’ve seen a couple just latch onto the WM like someone was going to drag her away from him. I just look at the WM like “You should have got someone more mentally stable”
LOL same here I had that problem with a lot of black men trying to show off their white girlfriend. When I paid that no mind they wanted to cut in line so that I can see them. I go through it too and then when my son comes from the toy aisle. They give me a very disgusting look yeah apparently being a black woman with a biracial child is the worst thing that can happen to Black society.😂
Fk what race it is, what's the characters and personality, you can still find some trash in other races and some diamonds in your own. We have to acknowledge the diamonds in the rough. Don't have to date them but we must acknowledge them
I was at a family function a few years back and the majority of the black women there were sorority members they were doing the sorority vs sorority thing in fun. So when one of the brother's fiancée, a white woman walked in with him, i noticed quite a shift in demeanor of the sistas. This white woman was the finest thing in the house, and the sistahs ignored her and froze her out! Shyt was awkward
Stay! Away from the fallen seed peoples/ gentiles 🤔. Or the , Most High YAHUAH 👑🙌, are going to destroy you along with them. Family 👑🙌, y’all better wake up and listen 👂. Evil 👿 and crazy goes together. Crazy & Deranged
@@zee608 That was black women and white men. Collaborating with each other as you've done for quite some time and still do. You even use their tactics to push black men down but convince yourself black men are not smart enough to notice.
I've never cared a day in my life if BM date WW. If that's what they want, go for it. 🤷🏽♀️ I'm a BW with a black husband and we love making black babies. ❤
@@histreasure3189 yes! This issue is a real problem. My priority is always with someone within my race but I'm open to other options. I immediately notice how they treat a women who is none Black. I do feel the pressure that comes with it.
@@tmakjusother women do this too. Women want their sons/brothers to appreciate women who look like they do. This isn’t just a black Thing. You’re just black.
@@jayshouseoffadez65 you are absolutely correct. I can only speak on my experience to be politically correct. I take slack from Black women and when I say that successful Black women go after regular White men I get dragged for it. All three of my Black sisters have dated out their race but when I do it I'm the villain.
Brother Phillip, that's been going on for decades, Black Woman believe a Black man dating a Wyt Woman is disrespectful, but when Black Woman date a Wyt guy, It's a come up, explain that
Looking at all those Black Man hating movies from the 90s a lot of it is insecurity and jealousy. As far as Umar goes, he knows who he can hustle so that's who he pander to
I worked for a law firm as a mailroom supervisor and it was one black female lawyer i would say good morning to everyone and she was the only one that never said anything to me,one day I was outside at lunch and I saw her give a envelope to this white guy 👦 that was a junkie (heroin)turned out she lived with him but i made sure that she saw me,and afterwards she started speaking too me ,but i never said another word to her
I support it love who you want. But what I hate is all the bm who want to just blame bw for everything. All this goes both ways. Just go and be happy why talk about the bw or bm. If non black is what people want do that. But all I read is bm talking down to bw. BM date out more than any race.
as an african man I can confirm this is true..along with women of Carribbean descent. Eritrean, Somali women and maybe one or two other nations are the exception.
They will hate on Becky for whatever reason as an excuse in order to lay up w/ her brother. This is their “get back” at the black man who rejected them or broken their heart.
@@faraboverubies2020yes they are but not nearly at the rate of BM with WW and for some reason it seems to be a competition to some. My brother in law is white he’s a great man so I don’t care either way.
@@faraboverubies2020there is no dating, they're screwing. Relationships with black women and white men barely exist, how come so many of them single then?
What does it mean compete with other Women on price services? Black Men are Our brothers , Fathers and leaders , So why would We have to fight others Women for You , If You support us and protect us it's normal for you to hope or expect We will also show you the same love and support . We should be supporting Men and not fighting against Men .
@@sandraajuzia2181 compete for mates is what he's saying, if you want a black man you need more then just being a black woman. Alot of black women think they're entitled to black men and thus don't compete for them. One of many reasons why non black women seem to be winning in terms of getting black men.
The reason is simple, most black women PREFER whyte men and a recent book about dating preferences CONFIRMED what millions of black men have always suspected.
@@trishmalone5639 I think he talking about that dating online book. It’s reveal according To Statistics BW select White men more than Black men specifically on dating apps.
And this is why I’m done dating them. I’m 20 years old, I got too much options to be waiting for someone who doesn’t even want me. Go where you are respected not tolerated.
We see the same comments whenever a BM is with a WW/or non-BW. They always question his sexuality. They say she wouldn't be with him if he wasn't rich or famous (and you wouldn't care about him either, if he was a bus driver, or an average, blue collar man). They call him corny. They say _he ain't that cute anyway._ Lastly, they say, _black women don't stand a chance!_
When it comes to me, If I display interest in getting to know you, I'll give you a certain time frame to respond, especially if she's a sista. If I don't hear a response within a respectable time frame.... I discard you and I move on. I apply this with every woman. Now if she's a non-BW and complies within that frame, then we're talking. At that point, I don't want to hear anything a sista has to say cause I gave you a shot. At that point, you are a leaf in the wind
To The Phillip Scott Show: I am not for interracial dating too, however, I consider that the black woman in this video, has asked an interesting question: The same black men who are dating outside of their race, do black women want them?
They don't, but they want those men to be their Plan B. It's a selfish dating strategy. They want these decent men to sit on the sidelines, until THEY decide to grace those men with their presence. They want those men to pay full price for something Pookie got for free.
I've learned over the years that most BW doesn't want to see the good BM happy. They would rather go out here have their fun, have kids by pookie, and ray ray. As time goes on and the thrill is gone, they expect. Key words: expect the good BM to fix their mistakes, save them when they're drowning in their own mess, take care of pookie kids, but shame the good BM for refusing to take part in that situation. Most of them ignore the good BM til someone rather if its a good BW or a woman from a different community, capitalize the moment and slide into the picture when they see a good BM. I've had that happen many times. I've been shamed many times before for dating outside the community, but I see it like this, the good BM that has long-term goals will always come out ahead. Everyone that didn't take advantage of it, that's on them.
Because no matter what bm are expected to lead bw no matter how off putting their emotional reactions are they understand the role we have even if they do everything to negate, override and reject it.
I went to a PWI. hardly any black students. The brothas on campus try to holla at the sisters. The had the attitude, hand in the face. Brothas said cool, guess who was curious and waiting. Becky. Guess who gave it up. Yep. Then sista assumed we like white girls. Nope we like cooperation and calm. I graduated in 1985. This ish has been going on for decades. Always the attitude and shame.
When a wm gets a bw the child they create takes the wm last name. Rothstein, Freud, Cumberbatch. When a bm gets with a WW that child takes on his last name (Usually the master's name) Jackson, Johnson, McDaniel, Okoye. But the child carries the father's legacy forward. Once the line is carried, it carries on the identity of the father not the mother. That should be considered because it's important.
@@slimthickaz. You didn't read the parentheses. That's not an edit. You're just slow. You goofy 304s always trying to read somebody but end up failing.
@@bhillboy37Stop speaking about your mom like that. I'm not a 304 buddy I've been holding down the same man for 12 years, you're single lol. Misery loves company.
I date WW not BW, my choice . I respect those women who treat BM without major disrespect constantly online running there damn mouths about BM.i love other races of women not BW not sorry.
Man you had me laughing 🤣🤣😂😂😂 You had me laughing when you said that one of those snow ❄️ bunnies 🌨️ was gonna get him that have those melinin injections
Question is why is there so much jealousy and condemnation by any group of women who swear they the best thing on Earth and every other group is jealous of them..how often do we see WM condemned and WW fussing about it, same for other groups, did the women scream "self hate" since Daughters of the trades days 👀😮
This is why BM shouldn't be ashamed. In order to be compatible a BM has to be mean heartless to fit in with a BW and that's not natural for him. Pookies are naturally like that. BW only know those guys. The BM they think do not exist are appreciated elsewhere. Other women never see the Pookies and therefore get the best. A BM gets a chance to do all the things he want to do to a woman as far as love and not be punished for it. This why BM should always focus on the love connection dam how she looks. All women have what a man physically need but can you give them the love that's in your heart? Nobody wants to treat nobody bad to keep them that's backwards.
I'm date a white girl but dated sistas my whole life. They get mad when we get one but when we want them they treat us like crap or don't want us. You can't win. But this snow bunny making my breakfast and rubbing my back but I'm suppose to give that up and keep searching for the one sista that will act right. Bish please.
