At my school the boys have to follow the same dress code as the girls because our principals a girl boss and sometimes the boys would roll up there shorts to make fun of us and the teachers yelled at them💀💀 Edit: Omg my school just got voted the most distinguished school in my state💀
I remember when I was at a mall, I saw a guy catcalling a woman with her little kid. She kept saying she was uncomfortable and the guy was like "It was compliment" Like really dude? The kid then pulled the guy's shorts down and started screaming in his ear. It was the best thing I've ever seen. Needless to say, the guy left in embarrassment. God bless that kid.
I really just wanna find the person who wrote "omg get over it already" and really just show them what we have to go through.. my mom and dad door dash I go with them and my mom tells me to cover up all the time just because old men are staring me down. Ir following me. Or just because my mom doesn't trust them. It's honestly so annoying and disgusting. And getting cat called is just a while other story
Wait...did he legit say "get over it"? how the eff would he feel if it were him that was constantly cat called? How would he feel if it were him that was constantly harassed and verbally assaulted? Does he have a sister? A mom? How would he feel if they were in this position? I bet bottom dollar that his words and thoughts would change if it was someone he loved in this position.
They don't care. They never will. They won't get any consequenzes, pain or in the worst case, they will not get pregnant or die so why bother? They get their ego boost and pleasure and thats enough.
For real like is women go through a lot in this world it’s like we were only here to make babies and clean hoses but we’re not we get educations and learn things we have fun but when they don’t get what they want they leave us
@@deimosisbored5125you could walk around shirtless all you want. You don’t understand wearing a “perfectly normal” outfit and people saying horrible things about you and your body
@@polarstorm1424 describe perfectly normal outfits the main reason you guys are being cat called and shamed is because yall expose half of yourself (i also apologize for my english
Girl or boy your right it it relatable because girls like us go through this stuff and it is stupid and like she says in the song they should consider trying to control there actions
Men are woman in anyway we’re not taking anything from you. I just hate how woman are just like. Oh yeah men are making us suffer even though we give you we gave you right we gave you Control of our lives and people better than us. You have way more things to trust you woman so I understand why you’re making it sound like your life is so horrible
@@Mr_can_doVRRight, except the only difference being men lean more towards acting on those desires.... Not saying all men obviously but statistically women are more at risk for violent SA.
As a guy i am incredibly sorry to all the women who have to go through this horrible experience. If i could i would literally snap all the rude men out of reality 😭
but yet guys can wear grey sweatpants, crop tops, booty shorts, tank tops, and probably go shirtless in gym class ._. how is tht fair? (btw i love skydxddy so much fr her songs are amazing)
No boys can’t wear that in gym class they also dress code the males that’s why they give them PE uniforms to wear same with females. At least at my high school
“trying to take what’s not theirs” a list of what they take that isn’t theirs: virginity innocence happiness safety feeling comfortable wearing clothes you like edit: “they” isn’t just men. it’s also women. men get sexually assaulted, harassed, abused, and raped too.
Sadly, I've met many people who's son's are are not taught. All sorts of ages. Teens, Adults, My bfff has delt with it from elderly people aswell, I can't wear anything without it happening.
If someone in my daughter’s class would complain bout her shoulder or some shit like that I’d just say: “So you admit that you looked at my daughter inappropriately?”
I remember in 3rd grade we did a sitting arrangement I was sitted next to a boy and he was making me uncomfortable like sniffing me and other stuff with my other boy seatmates too my 2nd seatmate was absent at that time so I changed seats with the absent student and putted the bag in the middle which is my seat. And we were only 8 YEARS OLD.
honestly last night i got cat called in a restaurant trying to eat with my GRANDPARENTS LIKE SERIOUSLY THIS HAS TO STOP WE ARE NOT OBJECTS THEY CANT JUST MESS WITH WE. ARE. PEOPLE.❤
@@zorroloaf293honestly whoever uses men for their money is disgusting because the women that do should work hard for money they can’t just use men and boys for money because it’s not fair to the men and boys that do work hard for their earnings just for another person to waste it. i’m not saying all men and boys are bad just some are same goes for women as well because i have met very terrible and nasty women and girls in my life. my sincere apologies if my original comment made you think i was talking about all men. i hope you understand.
I feel u . U must feel really annoyed and scared when this happens and u must have it hard . But men have it hard to, their friends constantly pointing out everything we do then $3xu4lizing it then making us. Feel bad,sometimes they even will be like “ she doesn’t like you bro get over it” when we are hiding while playing tag with a girl . We’re not all ruthless. But stay safe out there ❤
It's ok but like just, don't say the world is horrible, there is a war and ppl don't even have food and they ALWAYS get kidnapped. Always be greatful. Or I will do this hate to u
It's so good to see people saying these things in the comments and speaking the truth. Girls remember we are all worth it! Oh and just a shout out to the men/boys who aren't disrespectful to us ladies we really need more men like you!
I'm a man with a daughter who loves this music. We live in rural Virginia were harassment isn't very common. I've asked her if she's experienced this, and she says she has not, but she feels something nonetheless about it because of this music. I don't know how to feel about a problem that doesn't exist to me or mine. She is so impressionable and takes things so seriously, I had to take notice. I understand the nature of this song, and it is certainly a fact for so many, but I don't want my daughter, who is struggling with her identity, to find a victim mentality where there is no source of villainy. The world is very complex. Good men will not understand. You only see what you're looking at. Terrible things happen to every type of person every moment of the day around the world. I'm torn between knowing the horrors and trying to be positive for her.
Here are the benefits of your daughter listening to this music: 1. *You don’t know how to feel about a problem that doesn’t exist to you or yours.* _But you daughter might, regardless of what she said. She might find herself in a scary situation with a bad person in the future. I absolutely pray this path doesn’t happen for her, no doubt. But she is a girl in a world where girls still can’t win at times. And maybe she herself has not experienced anything like this, but maybe her best friends have or will. You literally do not know and you cannot expect that these instances will never happen for her. Statistics from May 2023 state that 1 in 6 US women are r*pëd annually. 82% of juvenile SA victims are female. 90% of adult SA victims are female. 14-17 year olds were the mostly likely to be victims at 16.3% of the age statistics. Almost 80% of female victims were victimized prior to age 25. And less than 20% of attempts or complete SAs are reported annually. These are scary numbers to look at._ 2. *She’s already just aware of these issues as is.* _At least she is aware and self aware enough to feel something about this song. She could develop crucial skills that females should learn in the current climate to preserve their lives in case they catch the attention of a bad person._ 3. *How many cases got handled properly in Virginia?* In 2019, a news article with statistics about the clearance rate of SA crimes compared to kidnapping showed that only 19% of r*pë reported got cleared by an arrest, raise that to 22% for sex-related offenses in general. In 10% of _those cases,_ victims did end up refusing to cooperate. However, in 13% of those cases, prosecutors didn’t pursue the case. Meanwhile, kidnapping cases were 73% cleared by an arrest, 2% of victims didn’t cooperate and 2% didn’t get picked up by the prosecution. Those are skewed numbers for recognizing rapists and holding them accountable. Now, of course I don’t know your rural area better than you do. I also don’t care to ask for it for their specific statistics. It could be better there than it is over the state. Still calls to be aware of situations in surrounding areas._ 4. *Puberty* _I want to preface this with I do not care to know anything that specific to your daughter. I do not need any of that information. But if she’s not an adult and hasn’t hit puberty yet, things definitely change when your body starts changing. I was 13 when a grown man hit on me as a freshman in high school. I wore a D cup, you couldn’t really miss them. When I was in 7th grade, fresh out of middle school, I wore a C cup. I started puberty at 9, in the fifth grade. Guys looked. Guys commented. It’s still happening. My 14 year old niece started wearing more tomboy clothing a few years ago because she did not want people looking at her body like they had been. She was 11-12. These things do happen and they will happen until we teach everyone how to respect others and keep some comments to ourselves._ These horrors exist in the world around us. They’re fears of most women in the world. Be proud that your daughter doesn’t lack empathy or awareness of herself and the social world she could be growing up in if we don’t do something to help SA victims. And again, I do not say this to wish ill on your daughter or be a pessimist. This is just real. And I can link you to where I found my information as well if need be.
I don't mean to say you're unaware of things. But as somebody who lives in a rural area as well. That has nothing to do with it. I grew up in a small town. My graduating class was 42. I was wearing a tank top at school that did not violate the dress code. We were told it had to be 2 fingers width for the strap. That strap was almost 4 fingers width and I was still told that I either needed to go home and change or put on a hoodie. Yeah, that's a problem. Your daughter is going to face this as she gets older because it's "distracting", and it's not just distracting to her fellow classmates, it's gonna be distracting for the male teachers too. It doesn't matter if you live in a rural area and stuff like that just doesn't happen because it does happen unfortunately and as somebody who still lives in a rural area, I can tell you that. Yeah, it's even worse I have a twelve-year-old niece. She is, unfortunately a victim of SA. And you know, you never wanna get that phone call from your sibling. Who is hysterically crying? because of what they walked in on and saw what was happening to their child and then being told by the child psychologist that had to interview, said 10 year old at the time. That 1 in 5 girls under the age of 12 will be sexually abused. That's not a percentage that is a 100% chance. Thankfully, we got lucky and the Justice system actually came through for once, and the perpetrator got 15 years, which is more than most, pedophiles may be get a couple years to get out early and then repeat a offend. And you don't understand why your daughter resonates of this music, maybe you should ask her why she resonates with it. Because she may not know that she has actually experienced an issue because it's so normalized. Maybe ask Her to explain in detail , talk to your wife and ask her about it. Because I guarantee your wife has probably experienced something similar. Don't be hating on a song that is very much pointing out a problem in our society.
I’m not a woman, but I totally agree that women should be treated better. And yet men still wonder why (some) women are so mean to them. Edit: AHHHH YALL ARE BLOWING UP MY NOTIFICATIONSSS
Growing up i convinced myself this stuff wouldnt happen to me, i was chubby and the awkward kid. It was crazy when i realized that didnt matter. That it can actually make you more vulnerable and more of a target. Ive been told i look 16 and then hit on, im 23 now but its so scary to know they like that.
that just sucks. The fact that girls can be any age, can look any way, but still get harassed. like there's no running away. hope you guys get treated better 🫂
they say women needs to be perfect but when WE try they're like "your so fat eat less, Your so skinny eat more" it was never enough after saying that some of us even cry our selves to sleep and questioning our existence it was never enough for them. and being scared to go alone at night and always looking our back every minute we are enough and we are perfect the way we are every skin,body EVERYTHING IS PERFECT we all shine❤
AND U GIRLS DO THE SAME TO US BOYS BC U GIRLS JUDGE US AND IF WE DONT GOT ABS U REJECT US BC U ONLY WANNA SEE BOYS WITH ABS LIKE BRUH AND US BOYS AINT WALLETS
I’m so thankful this song exists bc when I was 13 or 14 I remember getting catcalled and got raped and no one cared and they said it was my fault 😢 Edit 1: I NEVER GOT THIS MANY LIKES TY SO MUCH ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This actually happened to my aunt a few years ago. She was walking at night to get antidepressants because she forgot to get them someone grabbed her from behind and idk where or who took her or how she like got out of their but I have a cousin now…
when i was 10 i went to a science camp and on the 4th day one of my friends said that she overheard a boy say that i have a "nice a$$" they had to hold me back from beating him up but eventually i controlled my anger and told one of the counselors i saw his mom come and pick him up for the rest of the day (it was a day camp) but before they left she forced him to apologize to me and when he did i said "its ok i guess..." but the mom told me that i don't need to say "its ok" because its not i should just say "ok" because if i say "its ok" it makes it seem like it is ok for boys to say that. dont ever EVER say "its ok" if someone apologizes for something as bad as getting catcalled plz take care of yourself girls and dont let their words get to your head 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶
I love this song. I’m a teenage girl and I can freaking relate. Tell the damn boys to know how to fucking control themselves! We should be able to fucking wear what we want without being called a whore or slut. Literally if my bra strap shows suddenly I’m somehow fucking asking to get raped IT’S NOT FUCKING FAIR!!
This song is so true to us girls are always getting hurt or insulted or abused by boys its such a horrible life that we’re living in like boys just leave us alone
So I don’t understand if a girl physically beast the living shit out of a boy at high school it’s fine but when a guy lays hands on a girl it’s sexual harassment y’all are freaking insecure
I said to my male therapist that I’m uncomfortable when I get cat called while walking home and he told me that I should take it as a compliment that guys like me so much they can’t control themselves I can confirm I don’t have a therapist anymore 😂
He really said that are you serious boys could NEVER EVER be a girl for one girls have periods, cramps, and horrible headaches so the next time someone says that just say "you could never live like me" ❤❤❤
Men go through hard stuff to but they don’t show it because it shows weakness and not every boy is a weird pervert and people like you are never gonna understand this and also this is a very serious topic but feminism has gone to far now days if you look in like any direction people are gonna think you like staring or smthn and get called a pervert even though you did nothing and yes I know girls have a hard life but so don men
I love this song so much cuz it states all the things that girls want to do but we can't, end it also states how boys have more privilege than us girls do!
I hate this song cuz it always shows up on my fyp even though I dont listen to it and I generally don’t like boys who are rude weird or don’t care about girls but I show respect for them all the time
Most schools makes strict dress-codes for woman and young females so they don't get sexualized outside and inside school..they don't just do it just to do it.
this is so relatable like the boys can have no shirt on and his abs showing or whatever but then they get made at us for just showing our shoulders? Like boys can wear tank tops show their shoulders, and girls don’t even care about it it’s just normal. But suddenly when a girl pulls her jacket down her shoulder the teachers are like: 😱😱😱YOU YOUUU 🫵🏻🫵🏻🫵🏻 DETENTION
What? Break up? If that happened then it's YOUR fault 😊, if I listed what girls do that hurt boy's feeling then it would be long, ugh just stop it there r better people than you anyways🙄🙄
I had a principal at school who always told the teachers to tell the girls to come with a longer skirt because he couldn't control himself and he sent everyone home and when I saw your poem I cried because of how accurate and true it is.
I remember some dude maybe 14/15 or so asking me if I want to go to his home. And play "games", and another time, 1 dude maybe 17 years old asked if I want "protection" (bed stuff) and when I said that I'm 13 (at the time). His friends just laughed at Him and they left without apologizing (his face was so shocked 😭)
Even as a therian, i can relate. In school there could be a girl that had a short sleved shirt and then "here" the teacher would gave her a sweater. The boys though, could get away with anything. I could be strangled and defend myself by running or walking away and, detention since 'he didn't do anything'.
When I was 9 I was at camp and this kids group of friends all came up to me asking, "Hey, do you wanna be friends?" I obviously said yes since I had just got there, the next day one of the kids woke up early and I was also up early, he said "nice a$$" to me and I just stared at him petrified, I told the Camp Councillor and he said that he would call his parents to pick him up and never take him back, because the Camp guy told me "he did this many other times to different little girls, he always was forgiven but not this time he wouldn't be" His mom came the next day and forced him to apologize and he did, I said its ok, and the mom yelled, "No! He should never be forgiven for his actions, its alright to say no to him! And they left and I could hear the mom screaming to her son about the situation, I came back the next day but still felt uncomfortable with the kids group of friends still around me, so I left and never came back.
