Literally what I was about to comment. I was in a bad spot not even three months ago. It was the worst I’ve ever gotten. I had an “awakening” where I was able to take a long look at myself. I was so tired and angry with everything going on in my life. It took me time and I’m still getting better at it but I’m happier, more independent and am in more touch with myself than I’ve ever been. Life gets better and it gets worse, but your attitude towards the situation changes everything.
The amount of miserable people in this comments section just pisses me off, I was that person too once. I just want to give each and every one of them a hug
@@FFFr3sHHH yeah man i used to be miserable but i realized its all my fault and i actually should do something with my life rather than sleeping late and not taking care of myself properly
You know after getting out of depression and hearing how it is for others there’s not much I can say to help someone specifically. Depression is different for many and some may last many years. It’s relatively different for everyone but really, you need to follow your mental journey. Depression is probably the biggest struggle you will ever face as a human being besides a couple things that are rare but you are given this state of mind at a young age. Become a better person, become stronger, it doesn’t matter what you look like or what you act like, theres definitely a better future ahead of you since you’re already at rock bottom. You have the strength inside you, you just haven’t really sought it. I used to think that I had no willpower but it turns out that my will is immensely strong, I have the strength to do so many things and to dedicate myself like I have never done before. Depression is a dark fog that clouds your mind and you need to create a torch, a fire, or just an ember to start with to explore it. And eventually, of course not quickly, it’ll go away. Becoming a better person is a very slow process but you cant yearn for it to all be over one day. Life is beautiful. Your life is beautiful, even if you don’t see it. Your life doesn’t have to be grand, just as long as you become happy doing what you’re doing. Make friends so you have a better chance at getting a partner. Strive for clarity. Strive for the future. Strive for a happy life you can look back on fondly.
There’s beauty in the actions of others. There’s beauty in animals. There’s beauty in the sunset and sunrise. There’s beauty in the sea and the mountains. There’s beauty in the way the sun hovers over your presence. There’s beauty in words. There’s beauty in music. There’s beauty in your home. There’s beauty in the little things in life. The little things in life are what should push you forward. Just being in the presence of someone you care about can make you happy. Don’t force yourself to be happy. Don’t force yourself to do anything. You are living your life. You will become better one way or another as long as you keep living. I hope you understand that I love you as a human being on a personal level, even if you don’t care I do. Because you are a person struggling like I once did I can only hope you get better. The world is just there, and it’s your mission to be the one to make the most of it.
“I am going to do my best with what I have and be greatful for what brings me joy in life” 🤓 “I am going to romanticize my suffering and wallow in self pity like a pig in shite” 🗿
I am 11. I've been depressed since i was nine, I'm pretty sure a year before, my father died, suddenly i started crying everyday. Alone or not, I'm still fighting depression and i really just don't know what to do... i don't want to be an emotionless child, i am too young to be miserable. Being laughed at for not being born rich or, having loving family members has made me feel alienated, like i don't belong.
Yo, i know life is hard, its hard for me too, but yall gotta realize since the day you were born, you're already in a position of victory, these problems are temporary, they fight from below you, you're up in the high ground, you can make it, you're strong, people are there for you, sometimes it feels like you're living in fog, aimlessly, but one day you'll find yourself, this fog will clear up, you will see the beauty that is life, keep your head up kings.
@@aaron_lol this is the type of mindset that keeps you down brother, stop the "gotta make it till friday" you gotta make it until you're successful, you'll make it dude.
It doesn't get any better, but i can evolve, you can try your hardest, you may fail. but if I fail, I want to say I gave it my everything, every last drop of sweat, every breath
To all the people in the comments: I know how this feels. I really do and it’s awful. But I just need you to listen to this, a lot of this is self brought, it was for me anyway. Listening to depressing music, watching depressing movies and thinking depressing thoughts are only going to continue your depression. I encourage you all to get involved in they gym or some sort of physical activity, it can help With your mental state and improve your body image. I also recommend finding God. I’m not here to force my religion on you but I think you should find a religion, you may think that nobody listens but God always will. And just remember, We attract what we think of most, try staying positive guys. I love you all and God does too. Open to talk in comments
I don’t ever comment much, but thanks kind sir. I’m a Christian who is active in the gym but recently my life has been on a downhill and I’ve been struggling a lot with finding joy and feeling loved by the people here on earth around me. I’m a teenager who is homeschooled so I don’t have much contact with people outside my church. But recently the people in my church have been unwelcoming towards me and I’ve been mocked, laughed at and made fun of as well as feeling ignored or disliked by people who used to be my friends. I understand and have a strong testimony in the gospel and know god loves me, but I feel hated by the world. I’m just trying my best to be kind and loving to everyone around me but it’s scary how much I relate to some of the stuff in this video
@@Avg-sk8r I know the feeling, a lot of people do this for instant gratification for themselves or to fit in around peers. It takes a Godlike strength to resist making a witty comeback or talking back in the same way. Push through brother, block them out you've got this.
00:22 me, but then i realize without school i wouldn't have anything to do with my life. i don't have talents, hobbies, so the only thing keeping me going is school. All my friends are people i know from school. i wouldn't be here if school didn't exist, no matter how crazy that sounds it's true
you gotta move on, if they didn’t like you they weren’t meant for you. don’t waste your time on someone who wouldn’t do the same for you, i’m praying for you, God bless.
If yall really having this much trouble, enlist. It's better to fight for something than die for nothing. Also the perk of brotherhood and a glorious death. You only die once, so make sure it is worth it.
I was at this point a few years ago I overcame it, it was fun being at the top but in the end I’ll always come back here no matter what. With the only people I relate to. If I don’t reply to this comment in a few days, we’ll yk…
bro I just realized im not even as ugly as everyone said I was in elementary school. im in high school and people actually compliment me. I can't take compliments any more because I feel like they are lying to my face, so I just say some weird shit and walk away.
My head is so loud constantly that i cant even hear whats going on in lectures. It feels like anytime someone talks to me, i just go on autopilot and dont know a single thing they said. Idk whats wrong with me
I have a crush on this girl she is the sweetest person ever i like her smile her looks her hair her personality how she talks but idk if she feels the same though i once saw her looking sad after an exam and in my mind i wanted to hug her and comfort her and be there for her but sadly i think that i wouldnt look good doing that please help me guys i want to spend my future with her im a teenager
If I could help you I would. But I dont think i can, everybody rejects and hate me lmao, i also have a crush on this one girl. I sometimes imagine myself with her and I love it. Then i go back into reality and realize my life completely sucks 🔥🔥🙏
Ask yourself if she would make your life better and if you could make her life better. If yes, ask her out. If she rejects you, you at least know, after some time it gives you peace. If it works out, you get what you wanted. Just remember to be yourself.
yo dude shut up really. You are worth so much more. I'm so sad and that you would degrade your self like that. Get up, now I don't care what you think about yourself or others you are loved. More then you could possibly imagine. Now stop watching videos like this. I believe in you.
Vent: Some days I wonder if anyone even cares about me anymore most days I cry myself to sleep and I feel useless and that I serve no purpose and that no one loves me and that I’m a failure and every time that I try to better myself it gets worse people don’t like me people at school think I’m weird and I feel like I can’t keep acting happy when I’m not I’ve ran out of energy I feel like that if my friends and family find out the real me they will send me to a therapist to try and make me “better” and to help me but I just feel like keeping it all to myself and not telling anyone because if I do they won’t understand and will send me somewhere or to some one to get help and I find that weird I mean why would I need therapy it’s just not worth it most days and it’s to expensive and I can barely afford anything I make bad financial decisions so I can almost never go out and watch movies or go out to a place with friends and whenever I say something about the real me they say it’s cringy and that I’m emo and I just don’t understand it anymore why do people have to be so rude.
There’s no maybe to anything anymore, either it happens or it dosnt, there’s no maybe to me being a bad person. Im a disgusting excuse for a human life.
No my brother, we were all created for a reason, i felt the same too until i found faith in christ, im not forcing you, but stay strong my brother, god bless you, you'll come out of this fire not even smelling like smoke.
we are all here for a reason, we may not know that reason, but we have a purpose. your not gonna see your purpose now, but one day you will. God bless you
Bruh I used to think like that all the time. Somehow I sorta stopped by like ignoring those thoughts. Comes back every so often though and this video did it for me.
Enter: JIM💪, hobbies, passion, purpose! Still difficulties, but with a stronger mind & a conquering mindset. I’ve been where you are mentally, and it won’t get better just like that! You have to do something about it. I know you don’t like the thought of that, but just try! Just try a little bit to get better. Promise me to alt least try before you pull the trigger, and try properly!
Lord i pray that you bless everyone watching this, i pray that you bring them peace, you take out everyone bringing them pain, bringing them disappointment, fear, stress, and anxiety. I pray that you show them your love, and you bring people into their lives that they deserve, show them your beautiful love and show them that they’re worthy of your love and your kindness. I pray that you show them that they have a purpose and that they are meant to be here, that they bring others joy, and i’m glad that they are here with me today reading this, Lord please show them that i care about them and love them very much and they deserve the best and only the best, please show them that sometimes you don’t need to just thug it out, it’s better to tell someone, and if they have no one, they can tell me. Lord I pray you bless everyone reading this, In Jesus name, Amen. ❤️
