If I have to take my ring off my finger (and since I was much thinner when I got married, I actually don’t wear my ring very often), I always put my ring in one of two places: either with my engagement ring in the house or in the zippered coin purse in my wallet. That way I always know where it is. Then again...my husband is also on wedding ring #3 (or is it 4, I’ve kind of lost track). The first replacement we got at (believe it or not) a turnpike service area in Ohio for $15 - and he got more compliments about that ring than he did about his original wedding ring. When that one wore out (as truck stop rings do), we splurged on the latest replacement - and bought a $20 ring from the Italy pavilion at Epcot. So the moral of the story is: either put your ring where you won’t lose it or buy one that you can easily replace if it gets lost. :-)
Great question. My right knuckle is like 7 times the size of my left knuckle. I tried it and got it stuck. Had to sit in a cold room with dish soap to get it off.
OMG this was hilarious!!! Love it when you do each others voices & the whole "fake news" had me nearly spitting out my breakfast! Love u guys, so you are so fun!
Many many years ago I told my husband I was only going to clean the clothes that were in the hamper. One morning he got up and asked where his clean underwire was. I replied were they in the hamper? He looked on the bedroom floor on his side of the bed. All his underwire was dirty and on the floor beside the bed. I told him to put his dirty clothes in the hamper and I would clean them. For most of the time since then he has put his dirty clothes in the hamper.
Totally LOVE this! I'm the neat freak and while my Love isn't a slob he like takes 4 mos to put something away. Ex: He took down the ceiling fan in the living room and put up a really cool light fixture that I bought. No lie: the ladder, the 8' ORANGE ladder, stayed in the living room for a week following the project. After I couldn't take it in there anymore, he moved it out to the porch. Where it's still living. Upright. In all it's orangeness. Leaning. Totally destroying the view of our beautiful farm with out cute beyond belief goats. I, on the other hand VACUUM the porch. I'd vac the barn if possible but I do rake it 3x/day and make sure it smells pretty and I hang little cutesy things from the barn ceiling so the goats have some nice decor to look at. That's just a small example. :) But I love this man beyond belief and couldn't imagine spending my life with anyone but him. He's my husband and my Love and my Sweetheart and ... I'm an OCD nut job and he's my slob.
I love how these topics are like real life matters... And yet they are so playful with their communication! ...While the rest of us vent and complain and nit pick about our lives. Such a simple thing! Communication!! Lets hope this continues behind closed doors! 😁
Kim, I so feel your pain. I'm like you and my husband and all 3 kids are like Penn. My son thinks the whole house is his room and just starts something somewhere and then just leaves it behind to start something else. At any given time there are 3 books at least one computer and probably some dishes lying around in the livingroom, diningroom and outside. My husband and I share an electric toothbrush and everytime I use it, I put "my" brush back on it's holder. My husband just leaves his "brush" on the base so before I can use it, I have to remove his brush and replace with mine. I may be a "helecopter neat-freak" but honestly, I think I'm just normal and my family are just slobs. LOL!
Kim, I feel ya girl! We just talked about the laundry thing this morning. A hamper next to the bed...on his side...dirty boxers and shorts on the floor NEXT to the hamper.
Haha and this video perfectly illustrates why I love your family! Perfect balance. :) My problem is I am both people. I just get these spurts where nothing is in order enough! then there are times when I am just "meh, these socks will find their way to the hamper eventually." Past me and future me never see eye to eye.
The pants!!! Why do men have to leave their pants everywhere??? It's bad enough I have a nudist for a toddler. I don't need my hubs leaving his pants in the middle of the dining room floor!!
SOCKS..my husband wears only black crew 🧦 socks..they are like 🐍 snakes..a sock hanging on the stair rail, socks on the kitchen floor..in the hallway..creeping out from in between the couch cushions..ick..they just multiply and show up everywhere..even our sons room!! I hate those socks..they're evil😉
@@frozennorthwoods4401 I don't understand it; does he throw them as he is taking them off? Does he fling them? My Husband can't ever seem to get his stinky socks or his under ware into the hamper either. Why? Is it like a fireman thing that is they get woke up in the middle of the night, they want their under ware and socks available in a pinch if there is a fire? I think they are all doing it. Must be a man thing.
From a neat freak about a slob. My fiancee refuses to use a napkin while she eats. It drives me CRAZY! She has literally said "Why wipe my face? It'll just get more messy, so there's no point!" and she tried to use the scenario of "You wouldn't vacuum the floor when you know that there will be kids coming in with dirty shoes, right?", to which I responded with "If you're eating a messy breakfast and don't catch the stuff that's going to drip on your clothes, you'd have to either change your clothes THAT YOU JUST PUT ON, or go the whole day with gross stains on your shirt"....she said that it's not that big of a deal to just put on new clothes -_-
I'm the fiancee in this story... Yes I am a slob and it irritates her very much lol. But I think all the slobs will side with me on this, you can't tell a slob to clean up while they're eating or making the food, but she insists on telling me to wipe my face while I'm eating.
My husband gets so upset with me for not wearing my wedding set! He says I'm not a normal girl! But the struggle is real with being left handed! I don't own a hand held can opener ! I use an electric one! You guys should do a clip on the struggles of being left handed! It is a right handed world. We've had to adapt. I think it would be hilarious to watch the world have to do things with their left hand for 24 hrs on things that left handers do on a daily basis. Reverse everything! Don't even get me started when it comes to writing in pencil! (All that silver led smearing all over the side of my hand up to my wrist) Everything is made for a right handed world! Left handers learned to adapt, it would be a nice (and quite funny) change!
My husband’s skinny fingers lost the first ring on our wedding day. He is on about the fourth ring and this one is a $30, Tibetan OM Mane Padme Hung one that is not a complete circle. We literally clamped it on him with pliers. Thanks for all the laughs!
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE EVERY VIDEO FROM THE HOLDERNESS FAMILY... Penn is SO TALENTED , I know, layering the music for each joxan and music parts and making the final sound AMAZING !!.. Have A Terrific Day dear Holderness Family ! I 'll be anxiously waiting to see more .
My husband keeps rearranging the refrigerator. He likes to put the tall items in the back and the shorter ones up front. This sounds good, but the things I use most often are always in the back and I can't quite reach them. I have to get a stool if he is not home. Just when I get them all back to normal, he does it again. He, too, is cute, sweet, funny and loving. That's how he survives. You guys crack me up. Love your vlogs.
I just laughed and laughed! I think this is the ever present issue in a family cause usually one kid and one parent are also very different in this need for neatness! Just admire your teamwork so much!
During holiday dinners, mom used to grab my plate while In was still eating it. I would stop her if she did it while the fork was on the way to my mouth, but it I had gone to the bathroom my plate would be gone. I always asked, "have you ever known me to leave food on my plate, especially all of these yummy veggies? " She has OCD and would start taking plates away as soon as she could. I also would say " why do you bother with the plates when you know very well, I will be the only one who will be cleaning the dishes even with there being 6 people in this house. "
If we find ourselves fighting about who does a particular house chore the most, that's a sign that we've been doing it for so long that the kids are now old enough to do it for us. Conflict solved.
No lie: My husband thought "doing the dishes" meant putting them in the dishwasher just like Penn. That's it. Then I told him "doing the dishes" means cleaning the kitchen, scraping the dishes, rinsing the dishes, putting the dishes in the dishwasher, putting away the leftovers and cleaning the pans....and cleaning the counters...so resetting the kitchen completely. Then when the dishes in the dishwasher are finished--put them away. It includes everything except the cooking. sometimes even taking out the trash and sweeping/mopping the floors....a reset to a clean kitchen. reset. (I am getting mad just writing it. This must be a standard husband/ wife argument, in which case you may have to let it go. Just fighting against nature is an uphill battle.
I’d be overjoyed if my husband would even put his OWN dishes into the washer. I will say, when I worked and our kids were little, he did half. But now? I’m a personal valet.😒
@@mangot589 Make a chart of all the things that need to be done around the house and give them a time value. Average the time it takes. My husband would take twice as long to do any chore than me. Go back and forth with things you most like doing. Like if you hate doing the dishes and he likes it, give him the chore. All chores must be done before bed if they are daily ones. Then when he doesn't do them, just let it go and write it down on the chore list on the refrigerator. Let the dishes pile up, let the laundry pile up, let the garbage pile up----not your problem. Tell him it is not fair that you both work full time and you do all the work in the house alone. Men will let women do all of it. Mostly I think it's cause they have no idea how much work it really is...so, show him If he refuses to help after living in a pig pen for awhile, time to go to counseling. :)
My husband works very hard outside the home so that I can stay home. So I keep the house cleaned up. Couple weeks ago hubby was sweeping the floors and uttered these words: why do I always end up with the floors. I know that you do everything else but why... nevermind."
I'm not married, but I'm Penn. I had a para-educator who realized that I piled stuff. She could organize my piles by making sure they were straight, and I never lost a paper. She never understood my system, but she trusted that I remembered which pile I used. I loved her because she knew my weakness was, and she was "I've got that covered, you do you." Kim seems to do that well with Penn
Omg I watched this video laughing hysterically, feeling like I was watching the story of my life . My hubby has lost his rings to the point I purchase several at a time now ( cheaper ones because I know he's just going to lose it ) so I have backup already on hand. I'm the helicopter cleaner and he's the delusional dish cleaner all the way . Lol thanks guys I loved this video
If husbands do ANY of anything they always say it's most. There is no basis for this idea in fact. Ever. And they really believe it, and they are quiet when they see the eye roll, but then go back to there assertions anyway.
My dear husband finally changed the lock on our front door...only took a year. He was so proud that he told me about it three times in about 30 minutes. I finally asked him if he wanted a parade thrown in his honor...even he had to laugh 😂
@@maryannajackson8238 and he took a minute to imagine the parade and wanted to tell you yes, honey I do want a parade. Maybe this is why men tend to have more confidence than women generally. Maybe we should all start doing less, lolling about like a male lion and announcing our daily chore list, waiting for accolades and confetti. Nah...men would just retreat to the garage confused or go for a walk. :)
Love you guys! You both are hilarious! This is sssooooo my husband and me! We have known each other since we were eighteen. My Honey had a nightmare of a messy room. I would help him clean and organize it at times. Nothing has changed to date. He is messy and I still clean and organize.
I never understood how my ex could forget his cereal bowl in the shower every morning. I finally posted a picture of it on Facebook and he stopped after that.
OMGosh...y’all are like us!! I’m introvert and want things clean...he’s extravert and OMGosh you can’t even get in his car lol! I needed him to pick our daughter up from school and he’s like...I don’t have any room.......he’s driving a crown Vic, alone!! His trunk, back seat/floor, as well as front seat/floor is FULL!! There’s just enough room for him to sit in, lol! Stuff goes in the car never to return....ever!! Hahaha!
Like my husband would say he does MOST of the laundry. He'd WASH most of it, dry SOME of it, fold ALMOST NONE of it & put away NOT A STITCH. But YEAH, he did MOST of it...
So, y'all are cracking me up about the rings. My husband's ring got cracked in half at work. So now, my husband has his good ring (the real one) and his Qalo ring that he wears to work, and it can get broken because I only paid $15 for it! Best investment ever. And the Qalo comes with a zipper pouch that I use to store the good ring until we have a date night or some other event where he wants to look fancy. But when he's working, or coaching, or anything that isn't sitting there looking pretty - its the Qalo.
LOL, this is what I say when I see anyone but me in the kitchen: "What are you doing in my kitchen?" lol. Meaning, don't dirty anything up. GET OUT! I'm terrible, lol.
I am a helicopter cleaner in the kitchen. My family call me the white tornado because I will put their dishes in the dishwasher even before they've finished eating. Turn your back for 10 seconds and that plate is GONE!
Y’all are so freakin hilarious and adorable! Real life is comedy most of the time! I love your energy as a couple and your individual styles are perfectly matched ! 😂🥰😂🥰 Keep up the Holder”mess”! For Kim, it has to be an organized mess though-which is soooo me! My hubby is actually rare in that he loves to keep things organized and clean too! Sometimes we bump heads on HOW to organize and clean!! 😅 You guys make me 😂😁🫶🏻
I feel your pain and get him a silicone wedding band you can do most anything wearing one of those and you don't have to take it off. And if he loses it they usually come 4 to a pack and much cheaper than continually buying him a nice ring. My husband and I both have everyday wedding rings, After wearing my engagement ring for a year I had it cleaned and the cleaner told me I had almost lost my center stone due to it getting it snagged on things. Now we both wear plain bands as daily rings (silicone with him because he works with his hands) and simple small band for me because I also work with my hands but a small ring doesn't bother me no matter what I am doing. And the nice rings get taken out for special occasions and date night and back into the box they go until the next time we actually get dressed up and go out.
Does your husband stick things in his pocket and forget about them? Mine does constantly I do his work clothes and find small tools, notes from work, candy wrappers, etc.....But mine is getting better have finally after 12 years taught him to put away his own laundry. I leave it on his side of the bed tell him he has clean clothes and poof they magically get put away......
My partner will put laundry on wash and just keep washing until he remembers that DRYING IS ALSO NEEDED! Our clothes are washed like 8 times then dried 3x because he is too lazy to flip laundry over. Or 20 loads of his laundry pile up till he asks me to pick up socks at wally world and I'm like no. Do laundry. Boom. 50 pairs of socks.
Almost all the cars in my complex was broken into. Mine, the glove box was open. I had nothing to steal back then and actually I was looking for a note saying "oh gosh, your life probably sucks more then ours!"
LOL - Her face when he said "I do most of the dishes" Yeah! Let's take this. Neat Freak or the Slob is doing the dishes? Hmmmm... I'm going to go out on a limb, way, way out and say that may, perhaps it is more likely the Neat Freak is doing the bulk of all the dishes and the Slob washes maybe 5% and he feels like they are most of the dishes.
My hubby is the slob, but I refuse to pick up after him. Until I can’t bear it anymore!! His redeeming quality? He’s a techie and I’m not. Plus, he’s a really good guy!
4:52 In Europe they do it (wearing a wedding ring) on the right hand Me, an European "we do? Wait, WHAT? Since when, what is this stereotype, have I missed something?"
Penn needs an activewear silicone ring. My husband lost one *somewhere* on our farm. He has an Oura ring now, which to my surprise doubles as a nightight while he sleeps. The car scenario is exactly like ours! I have evidence of MICE setting up house in his SUV. I ride with him on weekends which requires a front seat intervention. When his grown children visit, he tries to get THEM to drive us to a dinner out because of his back seat.
I can relate to her. My husband lost a ring flinging a fishing pole into the lake. I'm the neat freak and take off those shoes and not leave them in random places around the house. We do have coat racks too. Nothing like having to vacuum more and suck up shoelaces.
My life is the opposite , my wife is a slob, the car , her side of the bed , her seat in the living room. If she lived alone it would be worse than a horder. I put things in place , in order, rotate stock. Keep clean. Wtf
