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Slow Living: Creating your Inner Peace and Dream Life - The Cottage Fairy | The Lavendaire Lifestyle

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In our fast-paced digital world, it can be difficult or even sometimes counter-intuitive to think about slow living. We want to keep pace with everything and stay ahead. But how do we balance this with our desire to be at peace with ourselves and our lives? In this episode, Aileen and Paola talk about the importance of slowing down, being aware of how you perceive yourself, and how you can create your inner peace on your own terms.
Paola Merrill is a Puerto Rican American writer, artist, and the creator of the youtube channel TheCottageFairy. She creates meditative short films focused on slow living and bringing awareness to the beauty of wild lands.
Timestamps:
1:50 Growing up and what led to slow living
12:18 How Paola’s RU-vid channel The Cottage Fairy grew
15:31 How Paola’s love of fairytales influenced her art and life
19:50 Changing location can help change your mindset
22:32 Being aware of how you perceive yourself
24:14 Paola’s dream life growing up
27:08 Being your own safe space
31:03 The invisible journey to find your courage
35:10 The story of when Paola worked at a bookstore
36:03 How Paola’s book was written
40:55 The importance of taking care of yourself and slowing down
44:23 Being peaceful and mindful as a business owner and content creator
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@jaxh3449 10 месяцев назад

Paola is such an inspiration. Ever since I started watching her videos, my life has completely changed. I had a lot of bad habits and negative thinking patterns. She brings so much joy and beauty to this world. Thank you so much for this interview ❤

@PujaJoshi-wl2hi 10 месяцев назад

So true ❤my two favs

@sandrasmith5943 6 месяцев назад

I agree. She is so beautiful and calm x💖

@breneworld 10 месяцев назад

Paola brings us peace in every one of her videos ❤❤

@lisab9734 9 месяцев назад

Paola is an angel in this world. Her RU-vid is not only aesthetically beautiful but she has so much wisdom. It is comfort for the soul watching her . I always feel that the people that comment ‘ I wish I had that life’ are missing out on what she is actually doing with her channel

@Yeodoongiiie 10 месяцев назад

i listened to this on my phone and it was so nice to get to know Paola a little more 💕 and it's so fun to actually SEE it here. she's such a lovely person. finding her videos in 2020 literally saved my life. that may sound like a lot, but it's true. Her videos hit the core of me, in a time where i was close to ending my life. her videos helped me save myself and remember how life can be beautiful again. she just hit something really deep within me. and every week since, i have watched her. :) great podcast!

@susanharkema2888 10 месяцев назад

Now...THIS...is a fascinating duo to listen to. Two of the most smart, savvy, artistic, and grounded women on YT. Lucky us!! Thank you ladies. Everything about Paola makes me calmer.

@lavendairelifestyle 10 месяцев назад

🥰 thank you!

@annavoytenko 10 месяцев назад

Yes! So fascinating. I loved how Paola was mentioning both sides of everything - not everyone can like it, can find it suits them, etc. It gives me the feeling that someone creates a room for me to discover what it is that fits me. Thank you, fairies)

@thedarkhairedone7672 6 месяцев назад

I would just like to say what a wonderful job you did interviewing Paola!!

@lavendairelifestyle 5 месяцев назад

thank you! 🥰

@ChaNayNayAnime 8 месяцев назад

Paula embodies a pillar of success that I inspire to

@tammyintiaras 10 месяцев назад

Paola is so beautiful. No false eyelashes… just so natural x

@erigerontriteleia 6 месяцев назад

With Paola’s uber naturalness, even a simple false eyelashes on the other looks suddenly stark in comparison. Just saying, no malice intended.

@JoJo-vz5uy 10 месяцев назад

I love Peola… such a beautiful soul. I relate to her on every level. The world would be a better place if most people were like her.

@_Lane_ 10 месяцев назад

_Paola_ - but I _totally_ agree with you! 👍

@Englishroserebecca 6 месяцев назад

We need more people like Paola talking and making videos. Sometimes the world is a hard place, it takes courage to be vulnerable and some people just hate others because they are nice. I love watching Paola. Also Rajiv is wonderful to watch. ❤Bless you Paola you are such a wonderful gentle humble person.

@lavendairelifestyle 5 месяцев назад

🥰🥰🥰

@andreamayne3509 10 месяцев назад

Yes it's the inner landscape which has the greatest effect 😊

@katjastar3621 10 месяцев назад

Paola is such a kind, wonderful person ♥️

@siennamargeaux8413 8 месяцев назад

She is such a lovely, wise person.

@grettalemabouchou6779 10 месяцев назад

She is such a kind and wonderful soul who cannot help but create. Her reflective eye and open heart gives so many soothing moments. Such a gift. Her naturalistic lifestyle is inspiring and lovely. Thank you for nourishing so many. I actually do live in a country cottage. I used to be a city girl but I find it to be too......much. I just harvested many pumpkins that were shared with neighbors. Being close to nature and the Earth is how we were made. If you are in the city..... visit a local park and walk barefoot to ground..❤🌿🌱🌿🌱💜🌱🌿🌱🌿💜🌱🌿🌱🌿💜🌿🌱🌿🌱❤

@EnglishCoach3Ts 5 месяцев назад

It so nice to see Paola interviewed by someone else. Thank you for your video.

@lavendairelifestyle 5 месяцев назад

glad you enjoyed it 🥰

@ep5005 10 месяцев назад

Paola is awesome ❤️

@jisselamurillo5969 10 месяцев назад

I never clicked on a video so fast. I love Paola! She is goals. Aileen asked great questions.

@jennacurtindale6336 10 месяцев назад

Omg my favorites together?? You both have changed my life in so many wonderful ways! Thank you both for all you do.💓

@BarbyDailey-Rurallife40 10 месяцев назад

Paola told us about your channel and interview with her. She is a very special person and has so much to share. I am blessed to live in the same county as Paola so I can relate to so many things she talks about. Thank you for having her on and I will also look at your channel. 💖

@sheilamurphy6967 5 месяцев назад

Dearest Paula, thanks for this video. I have been off work for 1 month. I feel guilty because I now feel better. My GP does not want me to go back to work for another 2 weeks. I now feel with your help that I'm allowed to value myself and my time so it's ok to take it slow. Hope you are well. Thanks Sheila.

@athlene110 10 месяцев назад

Not quite finished but man do I love Paola. I've been following her for years now. I just so appreciate her strength to be vulnerable and tell us the truth about her life and all that she's gone through and learned. To be able to say, ya, you know, I was making slow life videos but not quite living it myself and how she grew into her lifestyle and learned over time how to slow her mind and body through hard work, therapy and self help books. It helps so much to hear another person's story because this is the human story. This is the human experience. This. Her. Her story. We're not alone in our struggles, in our learning, in our growing. We can feel like we're the only ones going through this or that, but we're not. It's the people who share their story who help us see this. We need more people to share and we need more people like Paola. ❤

@ReneeC43 10 месяцев назад

I had just been marathoning her Cottage Fairy videos and wondering if she'd been interviewed anywhere! :D What a pleasant surprise!

@anam.3973 4 месяца назад

Lavendaire darling Aileen, you are amazing xoxo hugs & kisses to you darling. Have a beautiful day

@lavendairelifestyle 4 месяца назад

thank you so much Ana! have a lovely day you too 🥰

@creativesdiaryzenliving6473 10 месяцев назад

Paola Meriil seems to be my soul sister, Her honesty is so enderaring . Her sensitivity and creative vibe so relatable.Both your channel Lavendaire and channel cottage fairy were a great source of encouragement for us during the lockdown and even now you both are a great source positive energy and healing

@karenross7391 10 месяцев назад

Paola we know you. We love you. What a fantastic conversation. I really enjoyed it. More please!👏👏👏

@SpiritualAuthor 10 месяцев назад

I am so impressed with the amount of wisdom you two have at this stage in your lives! It took me until age 40 before I began healing in earnest, followed by REAL living I'm thankful to say. Paola, I've been following you for a while now and find so much comfort in your words and beautiful images. And your art is not "strange" but rather endearing and appeals to the inner child and nature lover in mine and like souls. Blessings on both your journeys and I hope I get to see how you evolve as time goes by. You are both leaders of the spirit. Thank you! (old enough to be your grandma!)

@rrhines3151 10 месяцев назад

Chiming in too! Paola is a life-enricher and thought-provoking person! Great interview 👍💕

@auvolk7710 7 месяцев назад

My two favourites❤❤ love you both. Lavendaire I know you for many years,Paola I follow about year already. You both are amazing 😍 thank you 🎉😊

@lavendairelifestyle 6 месяцев назад

we appreciate you! ♡

@rrhines3151 10 месяцев назад

Lovely interview with Paola! She has many fans of both her districtly whimsical art and followers of her RU-vid channel! I enjoyed getting to know Paola in more depth via this conversation between you both! ❤🧚🏼‍♀️📚🎨

@MythicalPath 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for this interview was very enjoyable!! Paola is a very kind spirit!

@shrutibhatt16 10 месяцев назад

You both are my favourite ❤ Thanks for doing this episode ladies... can't wait to hop on.. 😘

@user-px3my9js8x 5 месяцев назад

私の推し同士の共演！完全に私得❤

@annavoytenko 10 месяцев назад

This is so interesting! Packed with those book style, calm and funny, full of character and beautiful laughter, vivid and hearful stories you wanna keep listening. I remember a woman left a comment on Paola's channel about her daughter saying "Mom, I'd like to watch a quiet girl" The voice truly sounds like from a folklore book) 💛 I'm inspired by both of you for creating a safe and peaceful environment in this virtual world)

@littlesponges7463 10 месяцев назад

My fevourite youtubers, life savers in one video ❤ Thank you so much 😇🙏

@nothingtofind9099 10 месяцев назад

I think there are more reasons for people falling away from a channel beyond resonating with a creator's level of healing, tranquility, or life philosophy. Firstly, sometimes you get what you need and move on because you're just happily satiated. Secondly, Paola got married and will be welcoming a child soon, so not everybody is on the same page as creators in their raising a family era. Thirdly, creators who pioneer a YT topic often get surpassed by imitators of the genre-- so when there are more options, the crowd disperses a bit towards their favorites within that subject. I guess what I'm saying is that no heyday and salad days and height of popularity lays static in this world for long... it necessarily shifts and changes even for the workaholics that chase the numbers.

@NaomiSequeira 3 месяца назад

OMG my 2 favourite channels on youtube collaborate! How have I only just come across this? Thankyou, you guys are amazing x

@lavendairelifestyle 3 месяца назад

thank you for listening Naomi 🌸

@TilushiSenavirathne 10 месяцев назад

I'm a lovely fan of Paola's ❤❤ Love her All charming videos so much 💌❤

@mmmmg2494 10 месяцев назад

Love love love Paola❤

@valerieyoungren7561 4 месяца назад

I’m also an artist myself I also love drawing and coloring and journaling I love meditating and reading books and yoga

@lavendairelifestyle 4 месяца назад

yayy valerie 🥰

@thinnmarmoody 9 месяцев назад

Thanks to Paola, I can enjoy the winter without feeling the -40 frostbite.

@mariawelling4194 10 месяцев назад

Paola is beautiful, inside and outside..

@angelapriddy6308 10 месяцев назад

I just love the cottage fairy! Thank you

@cynthiatalbert3037 10 месяцев назад

Paola, is fantastic and her videos are beautiful and peaceful 💞

@kamalarai8385 9 месяцев назад

Ohh MY GOD 😲😲....😊😊😊❤❤what l am getting to watch...my two bestest inspiration on a single frame and talking about peace and dream life..❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ blessed to got watched you ....Thank you so much for guys for guiding me and inspiring me❤

@marianina9096 10 месяцев назад

the cottage fairy is fullfilling with lavendaire 🌻

@melchysomba9690 10 месяцев назад

Nothing better than watching two beautiful souls talking about deep truths I relate to. I love you both ❤

@DianEnglish56 10 месяцев назад

Love watching Paola’s videos. Was nice to see another side of her. Glad I came across the recommendation for this interview.

@Minimal_living_with_amalie 10 месяцев назад

My favourites together 🩷🌸🌸🩷 luv you both and thanks much for the interview 🌸 stay blessed you both always!

@dianegriffith3006 10 месяцев назад

This is so cool- having Paola on your new podcast. She’s a beautifully talented young lady -I followed many of her videos. How exciting to see her here. 👏👏👏

@leticiacornish849 10 месяцев назад

Omgggg I love you both. I cannot wait to listen!!!!!!!

@debbietodd8547 6 месяцев назад

I so agree with Paola, once you have the fundamentals of food, clothing and shelter firm then you can handle most anything life throws at you. When even one of the basics are taken away then I find I can't deal with anything in life. I only wish I could have been more self aware at a younger age and nurtured that, could have avoided a lot of suffering and illness. As an HSP/introvert our bodies at least scream at us if we don't self care but I think it takes a lot longer for the more dynamic/outgoing persons.

@haanimely981 10 месяцев назад

What a dream collaboration❤❤❤

@lisahinkofer2085 10 месяцев назад

I get a sense if peace from her. Watching her videos are so inspiring. I am a lot older than her but a lot of what she does and said still resonates with me. I have learned to slow down and build a life of slow living. Paola has opened a few doors on how to relax and just be at rest and do the things that I love to do. Life gets tough sometimes but knowing how to slow down and be quiet and still helps to feel in control and be ok with what ever is happening in my life

@vintagedumpling 10 месяцев назад

Paola is such an inspiration❤ Thank you for having this interview with her💕 Both of you are such inspiring people

@flowergirl7260 9 месяцев назад

I love that you talked about the feeling of the grass being greener. I lived in the city for a long time, and i tried living in the country for a year. But January and February are pretty difficult! Now I live in an in-between place where i have neighbor-friends again and can run out to get groceries.

@shanne6625 10 месяцев назад

A beautiful video. Great conversation with the two of you. Thanks for the video and continue doing the work you both do ladies😊

@ecocentrichomestead6783 9 месяцев назад

I find peace living by myself, out in nature. I tried the city and work life. The only thing I enjoyed was the occasional meal at a quiet restaurant. The grass isn't greener elsewhere for me. I have everything I need. There has to be different answers for different people. There's a very wide list of things that makes the world survive. One person can only do so much. So there must be many different opinions, interests and desires or there'll be things not getting done!

@yac2617 10 месяцев назад

Im just here for Paola 😍

@TheMennomilist 9 месяцев назад

I found you through the Mustards a long time ago and came here because I am also a fan of Paola. I loved learning some of the behind the scenes work such as her brother helping her learn how to film things. "Bloom where you are" is a great phrase she stated. I love that.

@chasingsunset310 10 месяцев назад

I love Paola! It’s my dream to live like her. Small simple life ❤

@caitlyn449 10 месяцев назад

Paola your famous! Thanks for this lovely video with two lovely ladies❤

@lillianpadilla1819 10 месяцев назад

My two favorite you tubers! So happy to see you both in this episode. Paola is exactly the same person off her channel . She speaks and lives her life from her heart ❤️ I would love to have both of you as friends in my life. Your creativity in living life as your own is an inspiration for all. You both live exactly how I always thrive to do in my life. Living in Peace and Love is how I always like to live and having like-minded people makes life even more exciting journey to live. I too am a Puerto Rican American😊

@user-yk5pv1cb1d 10 месяцев назад

WOWWWW!!! Two of my favorite vloggers in one frame!!!!!!

@rebeccabath5276 10 месяцев назад

I appreciate the conversation about the grass looks greener. Sometimes, we want to escape to nature but its true it wouldnt solve all our problems

@n3iixluv 9 месяцев назад

my fav two youtubers in one frame awww

@gloriagomezcortes1742 10 месяцев назад

I love this interview so much!!

@daynalogan9036 10 месяцев назад

You're both a breath of fresh air!

@kibkac 10 месяцев назад

Cross country skiing is my, I'M GLAD IT'S WINTER thing❤

@lindafalkowski6244 9 месяцев назад

Simply, thank you!

@pamtewes5276 10 месяцев назад

Love her and love her lifestyle!

@milidas2378 10 месяцев назад

lots of love from India, both of you are my favourite.

@paulah4476 9 месяцев назад

Paola is a lovely person.

@anabasasteanuart 10 месяцев назад

So beautiful and peaceful was this interview 😍

@crystalmiley7435 10 месяцев назад

Thank you both for this. Loved all I learned from this. It is such a struggle to live intentionally and not be swept up in the current of life and have life drag you vs being more mindful w your time and day to day. I think so many of us are trying to learn how to live slower in a fast paced world. Thank you !

@misswomble 10 месяцев назад

Awesome collaboration ❤❤

@nasedyanka5238 10 месяцев назад

What a beautiful interview! You both are amazing, it is rare nowadays that my attention will be caught by something as deep, wise, and inspirational for such a time as you both made this presentation! Appreciations to both! Thank you.❤

@melindaferreira9879 10 месяцев назад

Wonderul interview ❤

@agatarembelska9401 9 месяцев назад

You’re never alone, God is always with you. You can and should talk due to His love for you. He died on the cross so you could go to heaven and live with Him forever. He made you and gave you life, your family, house, health, job. Everything we have is His gift for us. Please love Jesus, He loves you more than anybody ever will be. Talk to Him today and listen carefully. Listen with open heart ❤️ God Bless you. ❤️‍🔥

@lydia_allili 8 месяцев назад

I love her she's just amazing ❤

@lavendairelifestyle 8 месяцев назад

as much as you are💜

@florecilla3946 7 месяцев назад

Love Paola ❤

@sahaniaaktari 10 месяцев назад

Omg omg, my favorite people❤❤❤

@hberrysc3517 9 месяцев назад

Paola is so beautiful inside and out.

@dali-wk6oe 9 месяцев назад

What an awesome interview!

@menoascountrysideliving6657 10 месяцев назад

It's Paola!!!

@karlapascual2829 9 месяцев назад

2 of my life coaches!!

@user-sy9xb4gc7u 7 месяцев назад

Thank you ladies😊

@lavendairelifestyle 7 месяцев назад

thank you for listening ♡

@LilianaCajiao 9 месяцев назад

I love this sooooo much!! I admire both of you.

@christinastoudemire4100 4 месяца назад

❤❤❤❤❤❤

@helenstratigos4862 10 месяцев назад

Love both of these ladies. ❤️

@kennethbailey9853 9 месяцев назад

Thank you.

@jeffreybishop9478 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for the advice 🍁😴

@cathy2465 8 месяцев назад

So nice to hear more about Paola. Just a little tip, maybe it was just me, but it seems Paola was interrupted too much. Let her talk as much as possible.

@thecinnamonginger 10 месяцев назад

Omgggg I didn't expect this 😮❤️

@judyannbagolos1419 10 месяцев назад

😍😍😍

@BillyWhaler 9 месяцев назад

49:30 “Still Waters”

@hberrysc3517 9 месяцев назад

I bet Paola loves Christ. She shines and has a peace that is so unique.

@tam.popovic 10 месяцев назад

❤❤❤

@homemakersheart3614 10 месяцев назад

I've always wanted to ask, how does she balance taking care of the home, making videos and creating art. I don't make videos, but managing the home and finding time to create is tough.

@skymore2948 10 месяцев назад

Tell about the blackbook ag your rightside, at 3th shaft from below,... I loved to hear about that,... thank you

@amandalogan89 3 месяца назад

A lovely interview. Tho disappointed to see you pushing Better Help after all the issues with them have surfaced. Them selling patients data, not vetted therapists, no accountability for bad or negligence from a therapist matched with someone. Lack of mental health care IS a problem but Better Help seems to take advantage of patients during vulnerable times to just make easy money with lack of support or accountability