Small Conflict with My Singapore Wife

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A glimpse of our marriage life - Singaporean wife and Japanese husband. I have been married for around 5 years and I wanted to share some of the difficulties. What are the marriage culture shocks? What is our international marriage like?
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- Philips.com. www.philips.com.sg/c-e/ho/vac...
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My mother-in-law uses the Philips 7000 Series
- Philips.com www.philips.com.sg/c-p/XW7110...
- Lazada : AquaTrio Cordless Wet & Dry Vacuum 7000 Series - XW7110/02 | Lazada Singapore tinyurl.com/2fuj7b8p
- Shopee : AquaTrio Cordless Wet & Dry Vacuum 7000 Series - XW7110/02 | Shopee Singapore tinyurl.com/4bb5sczp
Both series come with the Vacuum & Wash function but the 9000 series has additional dry and handheld vacuum. It also works on ALL types of floors whereas the 7000 series is specifically for hard floors.
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00:00 Conflict with SG wife
02:18 MIL Came Over!
08:54 SG Wife Roasts Me Even More..
12:56 SG Wife Did This For Me!
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@jimmyfoo3058 7 месяцев назад

Rule # 1 : Wife is always right Rule # 2 : Even if wife is wrong, refer to Rule # 1

@xiaoxi20 4 месяца назад

Love the transparent content sharing!! of challenges in life. and how it’s jovial and close to heart too. Keep doing these videos 😊

@jnjc304 7 месяцев назад

If she mumbling/comment/complain you means she still love you, if one day she keep quiet and no emotion on her face you better be careful. Improve a little bit each day will make your wife happier. Happy wife happy life.

@qilimercurial5116 19 дней назад

If she kept quiet. Just don’t care.

@jbrkjferkjbekjb 7 месяцев назад

ghib you are lucky to have a good MIL who treats you courteously and in a friendly manner! most MILs are not like that!

@ivangim1 7 месяцев назад

Hey Ghib, now that the blissful honeymoon period is finally over, remember this: Before you're married, you should have opened your eyes as big as possible. Now that you're already married, you'll need to close your eyes as small as possible. More often than not, the opposite happens in many marriages. That's where marital tensions set in. If not addressed lovingly, sayonara buddy.

@P53eud0nym05 7 месяцев назад

“Who wins?” Bro after 4 years surely you’d know by now. Wifey is always right 😂

@victorvictor4235 7 месяцев назад

That applies to my brother and his wife

@annietan2618 7 месяцев назад

+1 ( agree)

@KelvinKong-qo7mv 7 месяцев назад

PHILIPS AquaTrio Cordless Wet Dry Vacuum 9000 Series wins hands down!

@hopkin2006 7 месяцев назад

I seriously hope you will eventually resolve the issues with your wife. I wish for the both of you to live in happiness together for life!

@CalvinK-the_old_fogey 7 месяцев назад

As a happily married senior citizen, I have a tip for you - best answer to your wife “Yes dear.”

@calvincheecs 7 месяцев назад

Disclaimer: I’m not speaking for all men but from my 35-year marriage experience.😂 Understanding the Psychology of Reasoning Between Men and Women. 1. Men tend to be less meticulous about small details, such as squeezing toothpaste in the center, leaving their dirty clothing outside the bathroom, or tossing a wet shower towel on the bed. These habits can upset our wives. 2. Men often rush to complete household chores, viewing them as tasks, while happily spending hours on their hobbies. It’s important to listen to our wives because peace will follow when we indulge in our hobbies/toys later. 3. Personally, I try to stay out of the kitchen unless I want to cook something or my help is needed. My wife and I adhere to old-school values (similar to your in-laws), and my absence in the kitchen minimizes conflicts because I see it as my wife’s territory. (However, if you have a domestic helper, it can change the dynamics.) 4. At home, the wife is always right, as she is the queen of the household. This perspective helps maintain harmony and prioritize the relationship over egos.

@qilimercurial5116 Месяц назад

Don’t get married..😊😊

@jaywong6964 26 дней назад

Is it not detrimental and mentally tiring to be living with one who argues over all these minor details

@user-fb7rf4kr5k 7 месяцев назад

Ghib is very lucky to have a gentle, supportive mother-in-law. Mine was racist, self-serving, and rude, and our international marriage broke down.

@santacloud91 7 месяцев назад

Mother in law any country any race ...pure evil ...you will never be good enough for her girl .

@bestwl 7 месяцев назад

@@santacloud91 Ah, that's bad. I'm glad that mine is good.

@user-fb7rf4kr5k 7 месяцев назад

@@santacloud91 Mine didn't even give me food!

@scbchong6964 7 месяцев назад

MIL generally get along with son-in-law unless he is a bum and leech. But absolutely a son must not bring his mother to live under same roof with wife. Women do not get along with other women, it is a fact. Married men MUST move out and live with their wife independently.

@weiheng1612 7 месяцев назад

Very cute MIL!

@thewalk7816 7 месяцев назад

For those complaining about this being an ad, please open your eyes and look at the video, it’s clearly stated at the top left hand of the screen. 🙄 It’s getting really embarrassing that grown up adults can’t differentiate simple things and claim to be ‘misled’..

@thewalk7816 7 месяцев назад

Cant believe I have to explain the ABCs of RU-vid to an adult. ‘Includes Paid Promotion’ is ALWAYS displayed at the top left of the video every first 5 seconds of a sponsored video. 🙄 Get yourself educated.

@utolkph7263 7 месяцев назад

Where to get that foody t-shirt?

@rosa_rosarium 7 месяцев назад

Ghibさんyou’re a good husband 👍🏻you deserve applause and appreciation 💐

@GhibOjisan 7 месяцев назад

😊 thank you

@phillipleety 7 месяцев назад

Hilarious mate, keep it up!😊 MIL is the star

@choonlianchee8601 7 месяцев назад

Good recommendation the 9000 series vacumn cleaner. Your wife is too fortunate to have a husband like you, especially, a Japanese man doing housework. You did not escape problems, bring them up to resolve.

@CindyPok 7 месяцев назад

This video is well made. You have a good mother in law and a sweet wife. 😊

@josephtan4328 7 месяцев назад

Give n Take, never easy to bring 2 person together, like my mentor said, Happy Wife Happy Lives😊

@HooliganZ 7 месяцев назад

You are so fortunate to have a very funny mother-in-law.

@haruhi7745 7 месяцев назад

Aww cheer for you. Nice video. 🌷💙🤍

@gracegoh9272 7 месяцев назад

Luckily u have a good mother in law, she really loves you so much❤

@BandenTCY 7 месяцев назад

Support from Malaysia!

@arthurfleck42 7 месяцев назад

Perfect ad for Philips

@cathloh8306 7 месяцев назад

Ojisen San,Your Mother-In-Law Is A Super Star n Golden Treasure.U are lucky too u got a lovely n sweet wife too.❤🙏💪

@hipposamadesu 7 месяцев назад

I keep my kitchen sink dry after every wash. I hang 2 towels at the sink, one for drying the dishes, the other to wipe dry the sink. Kitchen sink is the place where mold can grow rapidly. Use artificial vinegar to wipe the wall and edge around the sink, the acidity will keep the mold away without using harsh chemicals. Never use bleach on sink, they corrode the metal coating especially the tap.

@adrianfunfair 7 месяцев назад

😂😂😂 love this video between you and your wify.. your mother in law also cute..

@davidhoo9093 7 месяцев назад

What you have shared are very common types of domestic issues found in the family. You are not alone... And thanks for sharing about the electronic vaccum cleaner, seems effective for home use.

@naharrenj5013 7 месяцев назад

Haha.. I just Got my Philips 9000 series too last week. Its awesome and the weight is well distributed... so easy to manouvere around in small turns and you dont feel too heavy too heavy handling it. The design and functionality of this model is the ideal that we been comparing with other models for the past 2 months. Go to any mall and check the physical item to see and feel. My wife is happier for me using this than the normal mop. More happy and helps with my lower back problem too... less stress. Kitchen is always clean fast after usage.

@glowglitter9066 7 месяцев назад

I think I'm even more convinced to buy this model after watchg the vid and reading your review on it.

@n30a515 7 месяцев назад

simple... choose your battles wisely > don't fight a battle you cannot win > the wife always win.

@evetan6592 7 месяцев назад

In a marriage, both parties must give & take. makes harmonious relationship

@kaori8441 7 месяцев назад

お義母さん相変わらず明るくて好き♥️

@Tangox82 7 месяцев назад

You made my day, totally relatable. Bro, don't bother to fight your wife, sure lose!! Happy Wife, Happy Life.

@alexismonochrome4175 7 месяцев назад

I love your mother-in-law!!!!!

@leewn2319 7 месяцев назад

Marriage life takes a lot of give & take. Both have strength & weaknesses, good habits / bad habits, both are from different family backgrounds & bringing up, etc. As no human is perfect, it’s best to accept each other’s imperfection and try to do your part to understand each other & try improve where habits are bad or where certain ways of doing things can be better. It’s a life long learning process, and there needs to be live & let live. May God bless & strengthen your married life.

@Hoehan8222 7 месяцев назад

As someone who is about to get married, the advice is gold. Going into this eyes open... 😅

@chrischris5437 7 месяцев назад

The banter is so funny! I was so tickled 😂😂

@user-oe5kw7do6k 7 месяцев назад

Last time, my wife and I always quarrel over little things like you and your wife. But as time goes by, we have come to accept our fate and live with our imperfections,. As the says goes, if you can't change a person, then either you break up with him/her or live with it. 😄

@MsLilac88 7 месяцев назад

Konichiwa friend, I always enjoy watching your videos, it’s normal to have conflicts in a marriage. 👌

@shanadrakkissa 7 месяцев назад

1 time watching your channel,I just come across it and omg so funny, your mom is a fun person I just subscribed I'm having such a laugh keep going...Arigato 🐈😂

@GhibOjisan 7 месяцев назад

Thanks for subbing!

@Jackson-fh7sn 7 месяцев назад

It`s all about compromising it takes two hands to clap just try slowly surely can work, Happy couple, Happy life =Home sweet home.😊😊😊😊😊🏠

@janeloh2952 7 месяцев назад

So Gd n understanding Mother in law……. Very nice bonding to see son in law click so well wif yr mother in law…. 👍👍🌈🌈🌈

@absolute_abundance 5 месяцев назад

Ghid san, awesome video

@kawaitheam3418 7 месяцев назад

Sometimes it is good to have small argument. It will bring harmony to the family.

@ivanseah8321 7 месяцев назад

Love your video , is funny with Your wife and in law 👍👍👍👍

@zordflea 7 месяцев назад

"Singapore Lang Lai Liao!" should be a t-shirt. I'd buy one :)

@GhibOjisan 7 месяцев назад

Will work on it!

@junelim420 7 месяцев назад

😂😂😂 love the mum in law's intial words of wisdoms. So funny sia! 😂

@yoongli 7 месяцев назад

Ghib you guys are so hilarious 😂

@Paul-gj9sm 7 месяцев назад

And yes, i think clothes should be pre-soaked and let to stand for a while with detergent. imho, it will really make the clothes clean better and remove stubborn smell.

@jasxteo 7 месяцев назад

I really really really really love the interaction between you and your mil!!!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@CrossbredmiMiyang 7 месяцев назад

I do no house work it’s not my job and to avoid conflicts I’ll never volunteer, my only job in my family is to made money and provide the best quality in life for them .. however to ease my wife’s burden, I bought styler , top notch washer dryer , dishwasher and hire once a week cleaning services to clean my house , apart from my wife daily routines of house cleaning… my house are always maintaining peace and harmony.

@toni-kaku 7 месяцев назад

🦕

@hayashi62 7 месяцев назад

I cant help but keep laughing. Your mother is "ichiban"...witty and nice woman. As always wife is no 1 no matter what. In her heart she loves you dearly. You are a good husband doing house chores! 👍👍 Luv from KL....

@christinapan7590 7 месяцев назад

All 3 of you are correct : patience, tolerance, care, concern and love Have a good one

@ryanyoutube7315 7 месяцев назад

You should get the dreame ultra l10s.. link up water n drain. At least can automate some part of vacuum n mop. For me: 1. Robot cleans daily 2. I clean with handheld vacuum mop like your Phillips 9000 3. Get a cleaning lady in once a week with chores 4. Wife cleans whenever she likes. Not when she needs too.. 😂

@estherkhua1974 7 месяцев назад

Watching from Fukuoka... Your video makes me less lonely over here 😊

@GhibOjisan 7 месяцев назад

Wah enjoy your time there!

@BlackForesterSUV 7 месяцев назад

I share the pain as well. Just keep quiet, tolerate, accept it, and move on. Else a marriage will not last even a week.

@markshen3280 7 месяцев назад

Where did you buy the 7000 series and 9000 series vacuum cleaners ?

@Singaporeonehundred 7 месяцев назад

this made me laugh out loud. nice!

@reginateo6315 7 месяцев назад

Wow! I like your tee shirt!

@GhibOjisan 7 месяцев назад

Me too!

@stargazeronesixseven 7 месяцев назад

😅 Welcome into Married Life brother Ghib! Marriage is like tending a Living Garden ... Must practice Understanding , Respect , Patience in knowing the maintenance of the different Soils , Plants , Water , Fertilizer , Sunning , Insect Repellent & Pruning requirement! You're learning fast Good Brother Ghib! Always think it is Better than ended-up in a Police Lock-Up , facing the Judge in a Courthouse or send to a Real Prison! So a Married Life is still managaeble! Life is Short , Be a Good Person & to Do Good Deeds to accumulate Good Merits & Wisdom for a Better Future Life , be Grateful & practice to Forgive & to Let Go of ill feelings ... Arigato Gozaimasu! 😊🙏🕯🌷🌿🌎💜🕊🇸🇬🇯🇵

@homeycow1628 7 месяцев назад

🤣🤣🤣Real honest funny talk!!! @Ghib - I truly believe that your wifey appreciates you helping with the household chores. Just that her standard of completion is higher ... normal as ladies are generally more particular and detailed. But you are helping out a lot and willing to help👍@Ghib - Nice unique T-shirt!

@paecpc 7 месяцев назад

Thought of getting a new vacuum cleaner, will check out the Philip’s 9000, I quite like Philip products.

@olivertheparrotletfamily 7 месяцев назад

MIL scored a sponsorship too!! Woohoo!!😂

@username-xi8zh 7 месяцев назад

The trick lies in understanding two key points: 1. Everyone is right in their own context. 2. Disagreement is not about right or wrong. You might wonder how this is possible. Let me explain. Everyone has their own “internal maps,” which are simplified navigation systems for interacting with the real world. What we consider “right” aligns with our internal map. We agree with what matches this map, so when we disagree with an opinion, or someone disagrees with ours, it doesn’t necessarily mean one of us is right or wrong. It simply indicates a mismatch in our internal maps. Once we grasp this concept, we can reduce animosity when someone disagrees with us. It doesn’t mean they’re wrong or we’re wrong; it just means our internal maps aren’t aligned in that particular instance. Furious disagreements can be an opportunity to refine and update our internal maps if we choose to do so.

@lingang1587 7 месяцев назад

Use a splash proof guard for the sink

@user-pt8mf5sr3h 7 месяцев назад

Re round 1. Fold a dry towel and put it at the sink (near your body) to soak up the wetness.

@icilike 7 месяцев назад

Thanks for your tip. I encounter this problem too.

@kinmeng123 7 месяцев назад

😂😂 Mom: family argument don't invite me next time

@kwongjennifer8939 7 месяцев назад

Ghib san, u r a natural actor!👏👏👏

@goddanner 7 месяцев назад

In a relationship, there is no win lose, both are on the same side fighting for the same / future goals 😁 Like Ghib Ojisan -In Law said, 芝麻绿豆小事 all can resolve

@matlim 7 месяцев назад

Very interesting video! I think there are much similarities between yours and my family. Same complains. I used to argue, but after more than 15 years, I have learned to not argue back but to just do what I can. The second you argue, you lose. Let the wife win :) Second, the wet sink. I have to totally agree that you must keep it dry. I too have the same forgetfulness at times, not drying the area around the sink. Very important to keep it dry because if you don't, black mold will start to grow there. Another way is to improve ventilation by positioning a small fan to blow at the sink area for a while to ensure its generally dry. I have also DIY-installed a small KDK exhaust fan to blow out the smell and air whenever I am boiling things or air frying something. I use a Leifheit clean twist disc mop to clean the kitchen floor if it's too sticky (usually after air frying); vacuuming is good but I prefer to save that little bit more of electricity if I can. I think you are doing great so far, managing video editing and doing housework and cooking! Keep it up!

@mrpolarbearrrrr 7 месяцев назад

Happy wife, happy life

@1changi 7 месяцев назад

In SG, must always let wifey win. Otherwise, you get cold shoulders. She is queen. Then, you can become king. For the kitchen latch in front oft he sink, good to have a piece of drying cloth to soak all the water that was spilled over. Why get a manual vacuum cleaner when you can get a robot vacuum cleaner to do the job? You can programme it daily to clean your house when you are out. Anyway, creative marketing story line. By the way, you have yet to buy durian for your wife ......

@eatdriveplay 7 месяцев назад

For a moment, I wonder if my wife is the one doing the voice over.... its the exact same complain. I bet you, every husband thought they heard their wife in the video.... lol but your wife's voice sweeter la.

@lingang1587 7 месяцев назад

Your MIL so cute and funny 😂😂

@lamjay5189 7 месяцев назад

To prevent arguments, just agree or smile😅😅😅

@thebrightfen 7 месяцев назад

That's good ad video! 😂

@ordinaryobserver897 7 месяцев назад

Try using robotic mop. You don't have to vacuum and mop anymore. The machine does it for you (although I know ad is sponsored). One less quarrel.

@goldengirl1212 7 месяцев назад

Ojisen san, your mother in law is a treasure....

@stevechua174 7 месяцев назад

Can relate. After i wash the dishes, she will rewash it as she say not clean enough. And later on ban me from washing dishes as i take longer time, waste more water

@filo6771 7 месяцев назад

It's not who wins ... It's your love for her & her for you!! No one is perfect.. man nor women!! 70 % of all where you are end in divorce!! Don't do that.. please All those divorce.. end up regrets!! Thank you both for bringing this topic up! In reality it's messy.. both losses

@qilimercurial5116 Месяц назад

Divorce better..

@derrickkan3824 7 месяцев назад

I do washing and also change the sponge. Basically, I am the kitchen manager.

@naofreehito 7 месяцев назад

Haha, just saw this video recently and sorry Ghib san I'm on your wifey's side. Of course lah cannot deny you are doing more than the regular hubby but it's nice to understand your wifey's standard of cleanliness. I think for such cases it's a matter of communication. Can approach any issues as neutral as possible and with understanding, both parties will be less frustrated. We all have our own expectations and it's not fair for us to think that people should meet our expectations all the time so compromise is the key!

@leanne2330 7 месяцев назад

Good husband. So cute.

@helenteoct 7 месяцев назад

Hahaha totally relate! My hubby does the dishes and laundry. I used to get so exasperated that he didn't wash the dishes clean enough or that he left the sink area wet, doesn't clean up the stove, etc. Thankfully, after a few years, he improved. On occasions where he was short, I'll just finish up the job for him. Better still, we eat out most of the time now, so no more conflict over hubby's sloppy dishwashing!! :-)

@Rinazalelos 7 месяцев назад

OMG! HAHAHAHAHAHA! I can relate to this >_< Every time my husband does the dishes, it is not clean and I will double-wash them and he will always make the floor oily but he does not clean it properly T^T I thought I was the only one but after watching this, I don't feel lonely anymore xD I know how your wife feels >_< But I'm so sorry because we always get angry or tends to show our emotions out. It's not because we don't love you but it's because we are too comfortable with our significant other, that is why we are not afraid to show our emotions hahahahahahaahahahah. Maybe the solution is to try not to make wifey angry and maybe make it cleaner and do not leave the sink area wettttttt haha! Good luck, Ghib buddy!

@homeycow1628 7 месяцев назад

Geez! Totally agree that men seem to be totally fine with leaving an area wet after use eg: leaving the sink surrounding area wet after dishes, washing hands, washing legs 🙄😒😑

@Rinazalelos 7 месяцев назад

@homeycow1628 don't forget the toilet seats tooooo! Sometimes after they pee then the seat kena the pee already uh then they never at least spray and wipe it :') Haiyaaaa how to not angry T^T

@crisccc8888 7 месяцев назад

Same , my husband wet every basin area 😅

@ria8244 7 месяцев назад

I guess Singapore culture we don't like to repeat the same mistakes or keep doing the same things after had been told. We can get tired of it and just don't bother anymore

@nat-natsingapore 7 месяцев назад

Whaha mother inlaw so funny..you stay with her you will not bore..Godblessyou

@YamgLeo 7 месяцев назад

Hi how to remove the dust and dirty water from the philips 9000 series

@syph365 7 месяцев назад

Ghib is actually low key showing off his house

@Peachu_n_Goma_Home 2 месяца назад

Which is basic hdb/bto?

@ymhktravel 7 месяцев назад

Ever wonder why some people prefer to be single rather than be married? I guess this is why. Not easy living together. Honeymoon period over. Lol....I know of unmarried couples who live few blocks from each other instead of together so each can retreat to their own comfort zone.

@kentang1528 7 месяцев назад

The moment you sign the contract ...it is game over...

@ms1884 7 месяцев назад

I saw that the Philips AquaTrio Cordless 9000 cost $1,110 GST inclusive. That's a lot for a vacuum cleaner but if my wife will scold me less, it might be worth it. :p

@mamamememoo 7 месяцев назад

I bought the Airbot equivalent on Lazada and it’s cheaper so I’m thankful for something that isn’t pocket busting, but works well esp when kids vomit. Omg that’s when I am most thankful for it. Less control and possible suction isn’t as strong but still… thankful. Very thankful.

@kezbot2 7 месяцев назад

People spend that much on a Dyson vac anyway. This one is more appealing with the mop function. Want.

@annietan2618 7 месяцев назад

Your Philip vacuums cost how much ? Thanks

@gera.w 7 месяцев назад

problem is the help = more work for us…. 😂 but…. ok lah… i think this is normal 😉 I see the same thing happen between my mom and dad too. my dad never washes dishes clean enough , never mops /vacuums properly enough 😂 even me as a daughter sometimes nag my dad to please wipe the table properly coz he missed a spot 😆

@eigenvector77 7 месяцев назад

Deepak Chopra: Do I want to be happy or do I want to be right? Give up being right and your relationship will thrive forever.

@cheryllim9287 17 часов назад

I believe you are a good husband. Your wife happy, you will hv better life too. Learn it along the way based on both of your understanding!

@ZahirahLunar3clips 7 месяцев назад

Nice

@yongkuanquek2365 7 месяцев назад

Get a dishwasher and robotic vacuum cleaner to resolve all conflicts.

@silenthill5922 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for the video and sharing an aspect of your personal life! For the kitchen sink issue, just place a towel at the edge of the sink. To avoid getting chastised about the floor not being clean enough, get a robo-vacuum/mop...then blame the robot for being lazy! Joking aside, keep up the good work, Ghib Oji-san ... and Moms was the MVP in this "battle"!

@ragsoh 7 месяцев назад

Hi Ghib san. Very interesting video. But I can totally relate to it. So it is quite simple. First the husband is the head of the household. So you have to make the decisions. Secondly, help one another. For me, I help my wife iron the clothes (occasionally), I also cook, keep the house clean. She does her part as a housewife. I try my very best to keep the kitchen dry because a messy kitchen is a reflection of a messy mind. Keep the toilets dry too. And finally, live and let live. Do not forget the first love.