so... I'm done waiting for life to happen. 

That's such a good concept and I love that you want to take us with you. I'm rooting for you on the sideline

you don’t know how comforting is to see someone of my age going through the same struggles as me. it’s so difficult to admit you are not happy with the life you are living and it’s overwhelming to think where should you start to change it. i applaud you and i can’t wait to follow you on this journey, hopefully you and also me can find what we are looking for :)

I'm uncomfortably closer to 30 than to 20 but this video hits hard and rings true. I can't wait to see what you do next while i figure myself out lol

I'm the same age as you and am going through this exact realisation process. I struggle with anxiety and have been living my life well within the confines of my (very very very comfortable) comfort zone, which has left me with basically no independence OR social life. Not! any! more!!! Thanks for the motivation and GL with your journey

I'm not in my 20's, I'm 51. However I am looking forward to this series!

I needed this video! I’ve been feeling lost in my life for a while now mainly because of depression and this really motivated me. Thank you so much for this video and the passion you’ve put into it

My dad had recently taken me aside to talk about life and plans about life and he's seen that I have been holding back. (It has only now clicked for me that it might've been me feeling like I need someone's permission or fear of failure or being judged) And he said if I had a passion of some sort I should just pursue it and stick to it, fail and get back up, but don't let anyone move you from it. He said he'd support me and it felt nice to hear him say that. I wanna be that person for you in anything you want to accomplish in this series and to anyone struggling with the same thing. I really love the community you've created and think we can motivate each other 💖

OK I LOVE THIS As a fellow 20something yo girl who has spent almost her entire adult life feeling lost, feeling like she doesn’t fit in and having no idea what she is doing and where she is going, I NEED THIS. I need to change the way I think and act, I need to get out of my comfort zone and stop living in fear. I’m going to try and do this along with you ❤

Well consider me in the audience for this, I’m excited! I feel like I’m at the EXACT same place in life (in age, in demographic, in worries, in aspirations, etcetc), can’t wait to come along! I’m desperately in need of some change of the good sort. And btw, I subscribed to you because of the perfect balance between fashion and this as well as just your personality. Most of us did, so don’t worry about jarring us with different content pls and thank uuu

I am in that exact same rut and have also been looking for ways to change my life, or at least my outlook on it! I'd love to see where you take it!

I can’t remember the last time I was so excited for a series, you’re so wonderful and brilliant and I’m cheering you on every step of the way !!

I love this. I'm kind of doing a similar thing at the moment after leaving a relationship where my self was lost a bit. It's good to get back in touch with what you actually want to spend your time on. Look forward to watching and supporting!

Ive missed you!! I am so so ready for this series to start, i just know i will relate a LOT. Very excited ☺️

I'm so happy to see this!! I've been actively spending time unmasking and learning who I am after being a masked autistic for 20 years, so this hits close to home!! I'm so excited to see your journey!

Discovering your channel towards the end of 2023 was probably one of the best things that happened to me on RU-vid. I'm 17, turning 18 this year and I've been living my life the same way I've been living it for the past 5 years and I'm not happy. I'm at a point where I don't really care if I wake up tomorrow, better yet if i don't. I don't know who I am and I'm scared of leaving my comfort zone, hence I've been sticking to the same destructive habits I've had since 5 years ago. Discovering your channel recently has inspired me to make 2024 the year of discovering myself and hopefully starting to live in accordance with my core values. I can't wait to live. Thank you Charly (if that is your name)

Once I clear all my tabs, I’m getting off of RU-vid for 2024. I’m happy that this was one of my final videos. Good luck to you, lady. Good luck to us all! 💐 ✨

I recently found you with the video you did where you utilized character sheets to create your ideal self and become her…I AM SO INSPIRED BY YOU! Girl! I’m so onboard even though I’m not in my 20s anymore, I’m doing this with you. Let’s goooo! I can’t wait to see where you end up!

This is exactly what I feel like I need right now!! Thank you so much 🙌 I'm so excited to see these videos 🥰🥰

I love everything about this video. The storytelling, filming style, editing and the message. I can't wait to embark on this new journey with you. So excited!

I like how you had a sunflower in the background there when you spoke about your pieces of life history and future changes, you have excellent taste but also there is a subtle theme to you as a person, not gonna lie, I see these things and appreciate them for what they really represent to a single individual, even if not everybody can see it. Plus, subbed, really love your way of thinking so far!

So so excited for this series omg ❤ rooting for you!

here for this new series!!! love your sense of humor, editing style, and general content so def interested in whatever you have to say about life outside of fashion! also checking in as someone who def needs my own rewrite soon lol

The shots, compositions and editing overall on this is Top Notch! Good luck

I've felt you are a kindred spirit since I started watching. I'm excited to join you on this journey

I AM SO EXCITED TO FOLLOW ALONG WITH YOUR JOURNEY! I am 26 and currently on a similar journey! I did the whole- move away from your small home town thing 2 years ago, but I still don't feel fulfilled. Heck for the past 2 years I had so much unraveling and healing to do it felt impossible to get started in the process of creating the life of my dreams. Most of the time I feel like a total hot mess spinning in circles, but truth be told I have come so far in the past 2 years in discovering who I am and turns out I really like me which is pretty amazing considering how much shame and self esteem I was healing from. Now I am ready to take further steps towards creating community, putting myself out there, getting a more stable/committed job (so that I can get my own place and not live with family anymore), voicing my boundaries so that I can feel good about my life and not burdened by anxiety from people pleasing. I totally feel you on waiting for life to happen or making all your life choices based on other people's feelings. I too am just now feeling ready to be the main character of my life! And you are so right it IS exciting! The possibilities are endless! We can literally do whatever we want, how rad! And truth is... the universe rewards those who are brave- so taking chances is the best thing we can do. And the more you focus on keeping your internal energy good the better your external reality/experiences will be. So have fun and enjoy the journey and be open to all of the experiences life has to offer. Because earth school and the human experience has so much to teach us. The magic and miracles that surround us every second of every day are just waiting for us to notice them! AH this totally motivated me, so thank you for that too! I feel super grateful there are souls like me out there on similar journeys and that I am not the only "societal loser". Haha sending you so much love and good vibes! May your journey be rich and sweet and better than you could have ever imagined. (:

I'm working on asking myself the question "What do you want?" & answering it at random times in my notes

the art direction in this!!!!!! 😩😩😩 you said it so well, I am also on this journey and I think i'll be for a whileeeee I love us for it

I'm rooting for you! You get back to the "am I an NPC?" life when you settle down (and it's lovely) but you have to set out for adventure and have your story first😊

this is literally such a slay. so excited, especially for the choose ur character thing!!! need this in my life too :')

Love you

I AM LITERALLY YOU, i feel exactly that

wow. i really needed this video. I'm more or less in the same place in life and I while I'm satisfied with my life now, I want to be more than that. Sometimes I feel like I'm just a spectator of my life while everyone else is moving and making changes, and I fade a bit into the background of my own life. Seeing someone like you take this kind of initiative to rewrite yourself kind of gives me the confidence to do that as well to some parts of my life. I hope your journey will be successful, and that you'll get some great stories out of it. Good luck :3

So excited to follow you through this!

i always loved your fashion videos and stuff and i am so glad that you decided to share your journey of getting to know urself better/ finding out who you are as well, becaue 1st, you totally inspire me and i am sure it will be so interesting to find out more about you and your life but 2nd, it will be very interesting for me to getting to know myself better by watching your videos. i always feel like i am entering my comfort zone by watching your stuff. i wish you all the best and i am excited for ur new content, love you

I'm a single mom in my late 30s (holy sheets, I can't believe it) and I came across your videos recently. After a few dark years, I am ready to get my sh!t together. I decided to fill out my character. I absolutely love this idea, and I genuinely believe it will help get me where I want to be. CBT has always helped me in the past, and this is an exciting new way of practicing. YOU DID THAT! I want to thank you for the template and for taking the time to include anyone who comes across your video. This is the first time I have been excited about a new year in a VERY long time, and thanks to you, I feel inspired to make the changes. God bless the broken algorithm that led me straight to you. lol

I've arrived at this stage in my life too! It's very refreshing to hear you actually talk about it because I've struggled to find content that does.

love love love this!!!! i'm so joining u❤

this hits sooooo true I will be rooting for you and maybe going with you on the road

YES GIRL! I for one am defo joining this ride, this JOURNEY 🚙lets goooo

So happy for you! Good luck

I am genuinly excited for this! already feeling inspired lol lots of love from a fellow 20something

Just Wow. Your Energy is amazing and a lot of the things you are sharing really resonate with me. I am hiding myself more and more every year to the Point where i do not even know who i am anymore. Looking forward to see how your journey goes :)

Missed u girl!! Can’t wait to see this new chapter in ur life! I’m rooting for u always, ily💗

Girlll------ imma try this

I love this!! Definitely gonna follow your journey! You go girl ❤️

i think we all need to go through these periods every now and again where we try to rebrand or try to build ourselves and become who we really want to be. i totally relate as a fellow 20something and im so excited to watch and follow your journey on here!! i also love making my own lifestyle vlogs and taking small steps in my little life. can't wait to see your content 🤎💖

Somehow I feel soooo connected to you Your thoughts just seem so familiar I guess haha I really love this idea of creating your dream book Charakter Gonna try this right now Keep going!!! I love your videos, you seem like such a great person🫶🏻

I've seen only 2 Videos of you but in both of them, I must give u this compliment, you dont just seem like a very self aware/self reflected person, but also, what a lot of ppl lack, a strong/motivated/active person. You notice patterns and behaviour and you try to change 🙏 You have my highest respect and I wish you the best for your future. Keep it up ❤

This resonated with me so much. I stopped being vulnerable even in support groups because people judged me too harshly, and discredited my pain and difficult situation. And started to just listen to others instead. I became that NPC that used to be my friend before. So your video resonated with me, and I'm glad you are taking steps to express yourself. I'm trying too, even though I find it really hard. Another thing I noticed- some people who used to support me before has stopped supporting because they have promised they'll stop people pleasing. It makes me sad when I thought I was supported, they were just people pleasing and now I don't have any support. I'm trying to look at it positively, at least now I know who genuinely wants to love me.

oh girl I'm sooo tuned in for this content! I'm so happy that I found your channel few months ago, you produce exactly the content that I want to watch, no other channel really got my attention like yours. Love both your outfit videos; you make them extremely entertaining and also I feel like I get some new inspo from them. But your life content is also appealing to me; I'm 25 too and feel kinda lost in this life too. Can't wait to get through this journey with u ✨

im in the same boat i had this realization last summer and now even more i definitely need to get out of waiting for life too happen and and actually do things to gain experience and actually live life.

Im soooo happy, I missed your energy! Im down for the ride, cant wait for more videos. 🥹

CANT WAITTTT💘 luv u

you are awesome so glad I stumbled into this

i'm so excited for this series! as a fellow lost 20 something i can't wait to see what you'll be up to and hopefully follow along :D

This couldn't have came in a better time as I am going through the same journey and needed a little validation that I'm going on the right path One pro tip though is to start small like INSIGNIFICANTLY small to the point where it seems like this wont change shit like brushing your teeth everyday, but I promise just like the butterfly that causes a tornado it will transform your entire life. Good luck to anyone whos also on the path of finding their authentic self and building good habits, you are going to do amazing

We missed you!! Can't wait for the upcoming videos, whether fashion related or not, we are here for you girlfriend and we want to see you blossom, take care!🌼

Crazy how this popped on my feed at just the right time. I watched a video yesterday by Heidi Priebe that taught me I was using future fantasies to escape my present reality - I sit and imagine a time when all my problems are gone and I'm totally in love with myself, but never make changes in my life to make it happen. Watching you go on this journey without already having reached the end I think will be a really positive thing for me ❤ can't wait to watch and live fearlessly alongside you!

I am SO EXCITED

You're so so so brave for sharing..we love youu❤

so excited!!

Freue mich auf die neue Video Reihe 😍

Oh my god girlie I know this video it's gonna hit for me!!! I'm 20 and I feel like this summer I have just started living my life instead of waiting/holding back from people, opportunities and experiences and I can't wait to keep on doing it. P.s: the name of this series is amazing and I hope it motivates me to keep on getting out of my comfort zone and also take risks/opportunities.

girllll STOOPPPPP why is this literally meee rn!!??? aaaaaaa lol i am screaming. not the wattpad logo on your forehead. i am living for this being treated as main character design, you have 1 excited girly over here. ily

The way I RUN to watch this video 🥵 Not me, literally YESTERDAY, being like : "I feel like I haven't watched an iCharly video in forever." and checking your channel frantically because I thought that the algorithm had failed me. I am so excited about this new series, and I am so happy that you're back because I really missed your videos 💌

I was legit thinking about you the other day, wondering if everything was alright, so I'm glad to see you back!❤ Absolutely love this concept and can't wait to go on this journey with you! Also, for me, it really doesn't matter what type of content you upload, honestly. I just watch your vids because you're really chill and fun. So try not to worry about that too much, I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels that way!😊

let's goooo, you've got this! But also I hope something that doesn't change is your duck / goose being involved in some way or another with your videos. But maybe I just have a duck / goose bias.

I’m excited for this

excited for this series! i realised recently that despite everything i’ve “achieved” i still have held on to this idea of myself as a loser and i don’t know how to let go of it, because it’s been seriously holding me back from pursuing what i really want. and it’s scary!! i’m glad there are creators like you who are so honest and transparent about what they go through 🫶🏾 this kind of vulnerability can be tough to sustain online tho, so to quote one of my fave 1d song “don’t burn out” 💕

bestie i am 26, close to 27 and i relate to you so much... hope yo see more of you in the future!!

I’m excited to watch 😌

I'm rooting for you

U go girl i love u ❤️💞

You have such a nice vibee

This vid hasn't gotten as much traction as the tier lists, but honestly this video is the reason Im here and the reason im sticking around. I am in love with this already, please keep it up

I am so excited!!!! I can’t wait!

you couldn't have come at a better time. same age, and same exact thoughts, IM FCKING TIRED OF WAITING!! we're gonna do this girl, you're an inspiration. trying is making mistakes godammit

I’m so interested in watching! I feel like I’ve been wanting to go through a “reinvention” of myself too so would be happy to watch someone going through the same thing. Also where are you from? You have a slight European accent

OK HOLD UP. - gorgeous cinematic introduction - “raised by gen x” girl relatable - self awareness yeah!!!! - I LOVE FLORENCE AND THE MACHINE and shake it out is one of my faves from her - slaying music taste in general - the humor is just so on point, I love it (the post it notes at the beginning and the weird editing) - transparency :D

I’m so glad I found ur channel!!! We’re the same age and I’m in a similar situation. Hoping to make a change.

THAT IS SO CUTE AND MOTIVATING ❤❤❤

I LOVE IT! 🫶

I love thisssssssss

That's it, hold life by the handle, more power to you!

never thought about it that way wow

😍 can't wait for this!!!!

Amazing video, what is the song at the end?

I'm 22 and I am in the same boat!

I love your editing in this video ♥️♥️ and hell yeahhh!!! Let’s do this shit together

let's go bestie!!!!

Love the vid ❤😊

ooooooh i`m excited for you, Girly🙃 may be you`ll be able to teach me how to quit looserhood . but no pressure of course! hope it`ll work out for you

Girl I'm so happy you're back, I was so afraid you stopped RU-vid ❤️ ALSO ARE YOU LEFT HANDED BC SAME BESTIE??

What app/website are you using to rewrite your character? Because you have given me the inspiration I need to make life happen instead of waiting for it. I’m joining you on this journey ✌🏾💖

Well I found you now bc of this new series .. let's just say a whole new demographic of girlies (who also happen to love fashion) are about to show up. And we're so happy to be here!!! ♥️

i'm excited to see what this series will bring for you, and i don't mean to be one of those people who judge, however, this thing about "figuring out who we are" is a never-ending journey. Frankly, i'm not sure if i am qualified to even say this since i'm 19 and you've probably experienced more than me. Still, i think even if you get a sense of self through living fearlessly, which would be lovely, you'll always be growing and changing. So even if you figure yourself out you'll inevitably change a 100 times over and then go out on another self-discovering journey. All this being said, trying to find yourself rn is still important, and whoever you'll be in 5 years is not of your concern rn... anyway, i just wanted to get that out there

You goooo! I think this will help me too :)

this the most interesting name on the you tube. i smiled a little in amusement

I'm a "fellow something 2̶0̶ SIXTY year old" Lol! For real though. What a shitty-to-mediocre life I've led. My 91 year old mom asked me a few years ago, "Are you happy?" I took a while to think about it and I said "no" ...which was surreal and kinda alarming to me. I hadn't ASKED that to me before. Eff that. I still have a possible 40 years to go and I'm NOT going to let it be the same as the first 60.

does anyone know the background song? sounds so comforting