why does there allways have to be someone whos like “omg im so cool imu replie first!” to me its uterly anoying and ill think ur a pick me (this is only how my brain thinks and what i belive plus i have social anxiety and normal anxiety so its hard to talk and i barly talk at all in school and home and stay in my room…)(im not saying this for attention!)
as someone with social anxiety, this is very relatable.. I always think a lot before talking, and when I ever open my mouth I always feel like I'm being judged by everyone, or when I talk about someone and one second later I regret it thinking I'm a bad person and then I blame myself for that one phrase for weeks. I know I shouldn't blame myself to this point but I can't help. thank you for this video, it makes me feel better about it I guess haha ❤️
@@heisatmydoor6306 Awe, please don’t cry.. I don’t want anybody here to have any liquid come out of their eye. It just hurts to hear.. I hope you are enjoying you’re day love, please don’t cry..♥️
This is what its like to have social anxiety at least for me that's how it is but if it ever gets to a point were you can't deal with it talk to someone about it. soap and self harm are not anyway to help it will only hurt you and the people who love you and if you can't seem to be able to talk to someone write it down or find something that can help you like music always works for me it could be :writing a story a song or anything really, draw, listen to some music, talk to a friend or family member it doesn't have to be about anything in particular but these things could help you to reach out to someone about whatever you're going through and it's good to talk about things you might not want to but it can lift pressure off your shoulders I don't like talking about it because I don't think anyone I talk to will understand but you can try to find someone who might understand
This is very relatable, since as a child I’ve always been told to “shut up” and “your to noisy!” “Stop yelling!” Now i am honestly really quiet I barely speak but If your lucky enough I might just say a few words, but really really quietly- I’m more talkative online
Me too... recently I lost a friend, and she came up to me. I was really happy, so I started to talk to her, then she said, "Yup, you talk too much. I'll see you later!" Well, so much for that. Then I went home, and had a conversation with my mom, then she said, "Stop yelling! You're being too noisy! You know what? I don't want to talk to you right now. Go somewhere else." Sending virtual hugs!
As a person suffering from anxiety, and social anxiety along with many other heart breaking illnesses, This is true. If I get a funny face, nobody replies, I get ignored, or I get yelled at after what I said, I feel like I did something wrong to cause this. It truly sucks. Because you never know when what you said was fine, or 10x worse.
there’s this girl at my school who is always being rude and yelling at people like she yelled at the whole class for talking after she was just talking and someone raised their voice at her back (like all they said was she’s not making it better/ you stop talking) and she started crying and said they can’t yell because she has social anxiety although she was rude first. another time is when we was at the same table and she was talking to her friends and i was talking to mine and i laughed (i have a weird laugh 💀) and she yelled at me and started crying and called me names and i didn’t care because i didn’t do anything and someone told her to leave me alone so she had a meltdown and told the teacher on ME?? 🤨 AND THEN she blames her straight up bullying me because i laughed when i wasn’t even talking to her on her social anxiety. i don’t think social anxiety forces you to say rude things. 🤨🤨
This is very relatable because I have anxiety and depression and I always smile to seem happy and I feel like I just speak my mind to much I’ve lost like 15 friends over the past year and I feel like this song matches me very well so thank you bestie.☺️💙
Honestly this is not a hate comment it’s just a vent. A lot of Gacha creators portray that anyone with anxiety is a cry baby who can’t live their own life without someone to help. And I have anxiety and I HATE being called weak. I HATE crying in front of other people. I HATE when people portray everyone with anxiety as a crybaby and 99% of anxiety glmm/gcmv portray it as such. I’m not saying you did anything wrong but people with anxiety don’t always need someone to lean on like this. I just wish there was just one glmm/gcmv that was about a character that overcame there anxiety on their own and wasn’t a crybaby. Like I said I really like this and you did nothing wrong it’s just a vent about the Gacha community in general. Idk why I commented this I just really wanted to get this off my chest. Have a good day!
That was amazing! Although I am slightly confused on what is happening on in the video- I did just find this channel so I don’t have context to go off of here.. can someone please explain it? I’d love to understand the meaning behind it all
I’m new to this channel and I can say this is the most reliable video I’ve seen in a while..I was so social and I literally have almost forgotten have to be social and talk to new people so like I did I hang around my old friends and the girl made a comment I snapped back and she took it the wrong way and my best friend was there to help me because I just stayed quiet because I knew she hated me now. And my guy best friend found out what I was feeling I broke down I told him everything and my best friend was behind me and was hugging me.they both were.. it’s nice to know someone who understands. And I love how you make this video about what happens in real life and point out it’s real and not the people who are using abuse as a “trend” to be popular and you took time and effort into the video and made this ✨masterpiece✨ Thank you for making this video to show that this is what people feel just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not there.
Melanie might have felt the same when she made soap cutting the original. I have experienced something like this before apart from hurting myself. I had a bad problem with hallucinations and I couldn’t feel safe alone. This helps me know I’m not alone in this.
My dad used to say that if I said any cuss word, he would wash my mouth out with soap, and I tried it once... He wasn't kidding. HE USED THE WHOLE JAR OF SOAP. and that's why my father is now in prison🌝
This video is so accurate I have some social anxiety myself and I always feel like I doing something wrong so I never say something with out thinking and bi did once and felt like crying because my teacher looked so shocked I felt like everyone hated me this is also why I stop myself from tearing up or crying in school or in public because my parents always called me a cry baby. I really connected to this video and it's so creative I love it ❤️🔥
I have terrible social anxiety and this so always me tiptoeing around any situation because it makes me anxious. This video really gets me on some crazy level and it really points out to me that sometimes I’m not alone. I wish I had a support system like the main character does though for school.
This hit me hard cause I live in a place where everybody tends to be rude and have their expectations high so sometimes I forget to think before I speak and I lose friends sometimes just because I’m trying to be funny or comment on something but it comes out like I’m being rude or weird or worse I’m disrespecting them and I don’t really talk to people I have one true friend and I want to thank him for being there for me and comforting me even when we fight sometimes
The most relatable song ever :(( Over thinking every social situation I’m in and every word I say and every word they say and every thing they might be thinking good or bad and every different path or relationship any word I say can lead
i used to suffer with sever depression, and before you say ‘ if your depressed you don’t talk about it, their fake!’ i’m not. i’m open because i’m proud i beat it and it proves i’m brave. it doesn’t taint my life at all anymore, i’m actually a very happy person now but i used to suffer badly, i can relate partly to this because i don’t have severe social anxiety , in fact not at all but my girlfriend does
For me that doesn't like to talk in school this is relatable for me and others. I really want to say something but it comes out wrong and I feel like I want to turn back time and tell myself not to say anything. It happens to me and then I feel so embarrassed then I want to start crying.
Someone with social anxiety this Is very relatable.. always have to think a lot about your life decisions considering that you have lots of thoughts in your head and thinking your gonna be judged by your life personally this helped me thing a bit better but I’m still like what I just said this is very true good thinking.
This is relatable for me bc I have extreme social anxiety so it’s hard for my to talk and I hate standing up for myself but others will help me I currently have about 3 friends 😐 and I think others but idk for sure if they want to be my friend or not
I feel like the protagonist of this video. I don't know why. I really understand her, every time I say something, I start to think I've said too much. I hate myself for it. I don't want to feel like a bad person every time I tell someone about their flaws or something else. sorry if there are errors here, my translator is dumb.
My social anxiety- every time in some subject at school we’d get to pick a partner, we can’t pick our best friends all the time so it’s awkward for me to pick someone I don’t communicate with, or sometimes when I come late to school, makes me feel so *embarrassed*
I used to have this problem. But i patiently started opening up more until i got that big boost of confidence then i kept talking more and more and here i am. My advice? Talk more and find nicer people. Dont think about them not or being your friend. Just talk to them how you would talk to people your comfortable with.
This always happens to me and I think I broke my mental health LMAO. I always think multiple times when I want to speak because, when I opened my mouth and say a thing, I always accidently broke someone's heart. :(
This reminded me of a time I went to hot topic with my parents at the age of 11, I was obsessed with demon slayer and still am. I wanted to cosplay as yoriichi and go to a comic-con because I had the silly dream of chasing muzans around with my best friend. And when we went to hot topic I was saving up for the cosplay but never really kept saving sense I wanted so much in the store, let’s just say.. I had 5 dollars even though I had 59.. I checked and I remember. Jeez hot topic is expensive..back on track I was getting things and my mom was helping my buy the things so as my dad. My mom knew that I wanted to cosplay as yoriichi and a mouth before we went I very very VERY nervously asked to, she said yes as long as I could get it. During checkout I was overwhelmed because of the large crowd of people in the small store. As me and my dad were checking out my mom walked up to me with a pare of tanjiro/yoriichi earrings and said “ we could use this for your cosplay! “ out-loud. In the middle of checkout where their was people behind us and next to us and the two people checking our items. I stood there, frozen like a bird only blinking just saying “no..” denying everything she said, “ why not? Do you not wanna cosplay.. I forgot the name.. what was it? “ my mom said, I kept standing there on the verge of tears silent. After we checked out and headed out of the store ( the was in a mall, mall hot topic ) I started to just randomly cry as my parents were trying to figure out why. Being an introvert and my dad also being one he understood my struggles- my mom however didn’t as much because she’s an extrovert.. but she’s been married to an introvert so I don’t know- Btw this happend a few weeks ago. I’m still 11 😍😍👌👌
I have social anxiety.. and as a person who has it I prefer to just not talk to a lot of people. But also I think so much before I talk and when I do talk I instantly regret it and lock myself in a stall until next period..
This is relatable I feel cautious of what will happen when I speak I don’t know what to do I spend a lot of time thinking if I should’ve said that or not
its like a black room you can see out but ur in your mind thinking upset its a place you go to when you feel strong emotions but with a friend by your side youll be okay a few arguements here and there but i have 1 true friend and only had one argue ment throught tough times playing games and school no hitting just annoying to the point we were mad at eachother but we are okay now but remember if somethings wrong you have 2 options to keep it in a and hide it like me sometimes or spill it out feel embarresed and let it end...
As someone who always gets spoken over, and forgets things easily, this is incredibly relatable, I always forget what I was going to say, and then someone gets mad, and then I get upset because I don't like being yelled at, and then I look upset and someone asks if I'm okay, and then they get upset when I don't tell them and the cycle goes on.
I can relate to the main character but the difference is my personality makes me not feel bad afterwards so when I get the backlash because I’m a crybaby its hurts more. I’m actually turned selectively mute because of my social anxiety and I’m very proud of myself for this decision though it may not be healthy for my age.
