I saw Mrs.Gardner on dear wifey and I love her authenticity and her personality. I will be tuning into you ladies new podcast congratulations and Godspeed. Keep up the good work in your marriage and your family families.
Wow, I can’t believe opening doors and washing your ladies car and putting gas in has to be explained to these gentleman. I feel men have lost the art of being gentlemen and treating their women like a queen. Men step up please.
😂I was thinking, too. Mrs Daniel's too pretty she has me looking at myself...hmmmm? It can be challenging, though, with smaller children. So I will give myself grace. Have a great day y'all!
I think we as women have to be mindful when men ask us to be nurturing. We feel like its mothering but we want them to treat us like princesses and pursue us and protect us like our daddies. Its just human nature to expect women to nurture and men to protect.
My daughters and my husband are full-grown 😘, they still need a spot on my shoulder to rest their head while i stroke their hair and tell them it's going to work out, to rest, be vulnerable, and regain some strength. 💞
This was so real loved it! The ladies wetter open and accountable but also honest with their limitations I felt connected with them as someone that didn’t have that example and having to learn in my singleness how to rest receive and be soft with myself first. Thank u for ur transparency cheers to 50+ more years oh healthy marriage to u all
As a married woman of 7 years, a therapist & naturally aggressive/controlling this was SOOOO good, timely & relatable. Thank y’all for this! It will help many couples to come!
Through my struggles I found Jesus he has carried me this far. I keep faith. Even as I continue to struggle to support my children and myself I trust in you Jesus. Being a single mom things can be hard raising them alone. My husband passed years ago. Both of my children are autistic. I started homeschooling them last year and they are now thriving but unfortunately my hours to work are limited. I suffered a heart attack two years ago and Im battling lupus Lord I’m overwhelmed please heal me and give me strength. As I struggle to pay my rent each month and as I struggle to buy groceries. Honestly I want to give up. But I know God will make a way. Where there seems to be no way. I have faith! God has not forgotten me. Faith First! ❤
Sounds like, men want softer in words and action also that Feeling of appreciation, words and action, compliments. They see attitude as drama which they hate. The soft answer turns away wrath. I get to practice with my son as God is preparing me for my Kingdom chosen spouse.😅❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽
Love this episode! Thank you for the transparency and the laughs. It's so good to have a window into your lives and not just a snapshot of the finished product. Seeing the journey is so encouraging. Thank you for all the value you add to us ❤
Hi Queen’s! I don’t usually write comments on videos but ya’ll just saved so many marriages with this one episode. Thanks for your transparency and vulnerability. Being so candid was so real. My husband and I can identify with so much that was spoken about in this video. Thanks again and I can’t wait for the part 2 episode. Definitely sharing with others! ~blessings~
I would say, “babe can you put gas in car for me?” Although, It depends on where I am pumping gas. I just ask to put heat on air on baby please. It is about relational Needs.
Great segment! What I heard, was that romantic relationships require adjustments, flexibility, authenticity, and the ability to prioritize rest and responsibilities. Soft Life is possible; however, the man's responsibility is to ensure the vision and direction for the wife and family is clearly defined. Women require security so that we can step out of the masculine energy and embrace the feminine energy and soft life that has been afforded to us. The man is in a powerful position and so is the woman, but it takes the help of God to remain in the divine alignment and order instituted by GOD from the inception of the world.
Great to see our people laugh, be affectionate and cooperate. However, who are we today,....In the King James Version of the Bible, 1 Peter 3:3-6 says, "Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; but let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price". Have we become too "PRETTY", TOO much like our white bro's & Sis??? Soft life is a pipe dream, that does not walk in the path of our Father. Let us take the street out of our walk of faith. Our People are hurting, for their lack of knowledge of how to walk by faith, not by being fake,....who are we??? We are called to be working to share the light. Father's call is not soft, its hard. However, thank you people for sharing this.
I feel like this is a slightly different conversation than a soft life conversation. The men and women's idea of soft life is definitely two different things. What they are talking about is relative however.
Listen, I love everyone on this stage and have followed them separately, but to see them together having this genuine conversation and pouring out wisdom to our community is PRICELESS. Wow! Love, joy, wisdom, peace with themselves and with their partners. All I see, hear and feel is fruit.
I'm so glad that Pastor D said that this is hard when the tables turned; because I'm a woman and I was thinking this is not fair that a woman has to be Oprah, Betty Crocker, Molly the Maid and Megan the Stallion. 😂
Lord knows I needed this. I was feeling really down, but this really surprised me. There were even parts where I had to keep rewinding because they had me laughing so hard😅. The transparency was a blessing and I pray that this will be a blessing to others who are in need of a good life lesson and some laughter❣️😊
I respect Pastor Dharius, and his opinion(s), but this connection, set up and the glamours life is a bit much! The women are adorned with too much makeup, the style of clothing and the showing of the breast, it’s really tasteless and shows how money can change a whole persons mindset on how they should be perceived by the world! You can stay relevant by your own biblical standards but Not man’s. We all have seen the change in Mrs. Daniels but is it Vanity?! Not hating, just my personal opinion. Stay Humble you two!!
I would love to hear how the Word is incorporated in the marriages that support the worldly view on the soft era. Pumping gas and what not is cool but missed the biblical backing with so much emphasis on things that could have been saved for a private therapy session
