Some People Lose in Life (Here's what they do wrong) 

I started watching Alux many years ago. I was living in a 3rd world country, earning a low-paying job, and treated like a slave (no work-life balance!) back then. Then I decided to follow many items in Alux's 15 lists. I tried my best to engineer a better future for myself (wrote it in a journal!). Day by day, year by year, I find myself in better situations than before. I migrated to Canada 4.5 years ago and last week have just become a Canadian citizen! My salary is way better than before (I'm now earning more than my bosses in my past jobs) and I believe have a brighter future ahead! I may not be super wealthy YET, but I'm happy to say that my dreams and goals got way BIGGER! Thanks, Alux! See you at the TOP!

Five pillars of life: 1. Financial 2. Relationship 3. Intellect 4. Health 5. Emotion

I've been scouring this channel for years and learning everything I can. Since then I was stuck in a dead end job with little to no prospects. I had no idea how to even start to improve myself. As of today I still devour all your content and I'm proud to say that I've started a business last year and it's going great. I've read most of the books you've recommended these helped me change my entire identity into a strong motivated confident individual. I've started to travel the world and my mindset is completely changed. In the past two years I've become debt free to which I was enslaved to for 10 years. This is the first month Ive dropped the chains of modern day slavery. Debt. I can even notice my friends try to emulate my way of thinking and the way i carry about myself. It's all due to this channel here. You guys helped me reshape my destiny. From a poor minset, heavily financially indebted lowly individual to an entrepreneur who has his own business and is steadily increasing in wealth. Thank you Alux! You've changed my life.

plus one! Thanks! I am single, no kids no husband and middle age, but I matter to myself and my life is validating since I have financial, spiritual and health goals I need to achieve. I have learned to say NO to everyone who thinks my time is their time they can use. It's liberating and frees me from unnecessary emotional and financial stress I just don't have right now to give. On airlines, they tell us to put your mask on first. I am doing that before I give away my valuable time.

"You lose at life if every day is the same" So So true, cannot agree more 💯❤️

"You will lose at life if you choose the wrong partner."

1:00 statistics 2:41 Ruin your future by yolo in the present 3:20 Regrets living someone else’s life 4:20 Caging ourselves 5:40 Choosing the wrong partner 6:40-Having children with that person 7:40 Unfulfilling job 8:15 Losing in money 9:00 Pillars of existence 9:30 Feeling free 10:20 Bucket list 11:00 Living a life of regret 11:40 Poor health 12:00 Ruin your children’s lives 12:40 Sacrifice you life for your parents 14:00 How well are you doing in life? 14:49 Impacting life of others 16:00 Long game

Plus one! There’s so much that I received of what you said in this video and it makes me want to work harder on being better for myself and others around me! I have been working on helping others when I can with little things but when seeing peoples reactions, they seem big! A smile is a great thing to many people that I work at daily but it doesn’t help suspicious people! Sad! My girlfriend and I are working on our business together and want to use it to help ourselves to be better off in our future! We look to help others along the way! We work at not being dragged down from people and the world but it can get tough, that’s life! We tell each other that we’re a team and we work together to overcome as much as we can as a team! What may become an obstacle to each of us, we must work to get over, through or around it! I always speak of our aging and what we need to do to be healthy as we grow old so that we may enjoy our older bodies and our financial freedom that we’re working towards! We’re getting there and with your informative, encouraging videos, you’re helping! Thanks!

Powerful. Fear is more dangerous than poverty

I’m an 8. Travelled to about 40 countries. Going to Switzerland in July too. Got a career. Worked in corporations and hated it. Now own my own firm. Married but divorced (and it’s a good thing) Helped save a lot of businesses during covid

I've YOLOed for most of my life and now got trapped in a business that I've built and no longer enjoy, was locked in a mental health hospital for 18 days after a hypomanic episode and now struggling with depression. I know I have character defects and am willing to start over, ready to learn a new way of living.. happy for the inspiring people who made it to the other side.. love you all ❤️

9, Nothing is ever perfect. However, I married a wonderful supportive woman who is my best friend. The kids are well adjusted and empathetic, I have invested well for my age and was tremendously lucky to have wonderful parents who are healthy and level headed. I was just lucky from the beginning and I hope to pay it forward for the rest of my life.

+1 Being brutally honest with myself, my life right now is a 2. The only thing keeping it from being a 1 is the comfort I'm living in the house of my middle class parents. Otherwise, I have nothing in life. You were right about where I live determines my life because it is draining me to the core. I'm highly motivated to do nothing because I have no high standard people around me. I have no qualms about describing my biggest excuse because people don't act without any reason.

My cousin and I had this very conversation yesterday and she told me how she envied me. Growing up, she always listened to those around her and played it safe. Where as I took risks, failed, learned, and took more risks. Our lives are dramatically different now. If I had to gauge my life on a scale 1 - 10?..... I'd say I'm like an 8.

Can we spare a minute to thank the lady who always gives us the best voiceover that we need from every Alux’s videos to keep us motivated? Thank you, whoever you’re. :)

This is the kind of world 🌎 we've made for ourselves and our children, better have no enemies when the light goes out , due to the economic criss, wars and rate of unemployment I think now is the best time to invest and make more money for the future.

In 2014 my life was in #2, in 2019 I can say was up to #4 because of a emotional choice, about a year later (pandemic year 2020) I started watching your videos and I can say that the path is more clear, emotionally and economically, now in 2022, I believe that my life is on #6 walking towards #8, which is my goal. Thank you!

I have wasted my first 25 years of life following what my parents want me to do. Not anymore, Im 29 now and i will live how i want and so far it going well

+1 the point on not having a parasitic relationship with parents is really on point . Am really glad you made this video. Always watching from Kenya .

I'm working on all the five pillars; I'm currently still working at a job. While starting this month I moving forward with taking courses on Writing as a part-time job. I love to write: Stories, poetry, and reports. I enjoy researching topics that are the major issues of the world. I found Alux last year; while a few videos make you think, I've enjoyed growing my knowledge. It's never too late to start living and doing what makes YOU happy. +1

A couple of years ago you guys made a video in which you said that a quality of people who won't achieve greatness in life is that they'll marry someone who lives nearby, I actually agreed to that point ever since but now I don't agree to it anymore. To be happy we need someone who understands us and our culture and the best place to find someone like this is somewhere close by where you love and in and around our extended family

May gracefully say I am at 7❤️🗽; I got out of a very toxic relationship, fixed my relationship with God, my emotional well-being began to improve, having a best relationship with my parents and siblings, very fruitful in my job, have courage to take another course next year 💯❤️and am a generous person

Okay this pod was a +1. As for my number is a 7 out of 10. I am trying to find a new passion. Left the old passion because it was fun but I need to move on. Finished a big landscape job at my house, took 8 months almost every day doin it. Looks great as finished. Iam not a looser as I am now 78 with another birthday this coming November. I think I have this new passion. Thanks Alux.

+1. I think I'm on level 6 but I'm still struggling with a few things. I'm definitely not where I was 3 years ago though and it's all thanks to you guys. Thank you so so much.🙏

+1. Hopefully at least a 5 for all categories, but would like to improve. I definitely stick to a routine way to often. Everyday the same for at least the last year 🤔. Thank you for the work you guys put in, really appreciate it.

I’m living true to myself and am making my story one worth doing again. I’d say I’m at a 5, because of the occasional feeling of hopelessness but still moving forward towards my goals

+1 I am currently at 5/10 I think. I fail badly at choosing a life partner and I shouldn't be living where I am at now. This whole country just a big hold back. I really love your videos it's like you guys speak my language. It's the how you say what you say with such depth and clarity

Alux people have to say you guys truly inspire and I love your all your video's. For the past 7 years I have so much growth because of and level of video's keep improving. I'm a long time watcher first time commenter. I wanna start communicating more because I understand that for my voice to be heard I need to be outstanding. I love you guys and thank you

+1. Timely video. I’m at 2 out of 10. Needed this video to pick me up out of a stuck mind. Thank you.

Every one of these couldn’t be more true. I’m going on 53, had no parents and didn’t know any better about anything, growing up, & had addiction issues until 20 years ago. I always only focused on the present until I was in my early 20’s, when I somehow managed to get a completely useless bachelors degree at age 30, and am still paying for it. I had a child at age 26, with someone I can’t stand. I wouldn’t trade him for the world, but I certainly would trade his father. I bought an old fixer house that hasn’t been fixed because I can’t afford to do it, and am stuck in it. I don’t take risks, because I fear things would be worse, because for the moment, I at least have security living with someone who I don’t even get along with. My job is not great, I am “middle class”, working a middle class job. Can’t afford to fix my house. I am taking care of my 93 year old great aunt, she lives with me, and I can’t get away at all, although, I am very happy that I can do that for her. I don’t want her in some horrible nursing home. My passport expired 2 years ago, but I couldn’t go on any trips right now, anyway. I have a bit of money saved, but it’s not growing. I’m not quite “miserable”, but every single day I think how this is not what I would have chosen for my life if I had it to do over. I didn’t make choices, I took what came to me. I had two job offers, and I always wonder what would have happened had I taken the job I really wanted, with growth opportunity, rather than the one I did, that paid better at the time, and was at a fancier place. I am 100% certain my life would be completely different today, because I met someone at the job I did take that totally altered the course my life, and helped lead me to where I am today. My health is also not optimal, as I eat ice cream every single day, and turned into a very plus sized person, and I have a bad knee now, too. So people/kids- LISTEN TO THE Alux LADY! She’s 100% accurate!

The passionate voice conveying this soulful message is conveyed is so touching. Alux!

I get what you're saying about taking care of your parents and sacrificing your life to take care of them. I took care of my dad for ten years and inherited the house that I live in now. If I had gone to school part-time and paid someone to stay with him while I was in school I would be further in life than I am now and would be able to take care of this house so much better. I know my dad meant well and in hindsight it is an absolute blessing these days when so many people are struggling to keep a roof over their head. But houses are both a blessing and a curse and take lots of money to maintain. Good luck with everybody watching this video.🙏 I hope your dreams come true. 🙋

+1. Some of the best things I ever did in my life: 1. Move far away from my hometown and disfunctional family of origin for a better opportunity and started over. Everyone should really try it sometime. 2. World travel and I don't mean to easy places. Try the Mid East and East Asia. Learn what the world is really like. 3. Raised our 2 grown sons to be independent thinkers. They may not agree with everything I say and think and I love it. My older son just got his first patent and is well on his way. 4. Invest invest invest. Delayed gratification. I'm at an age at which I am starting to reap benefits and it is pretty great. 5. Find some way to help someone every single day and learn that making someone laugh or smile or say "thank you" are the real golden moments.

I believe you have to find the right balance between living the present and working towards future… if you’re all about future and don’t live the moment you also have the risk to die without enjoying the present… so, look for your balance, never lean too heavy on one side only

+1 tbh my life probably a 3... Neglect and fear. This video is a brilliant call to action... Thanks so much Alux 😤🙏🏽💯

Just listening to her voice is what I need to fight and improve every day. Well done Alux, the place i come to get inspired!

Thanks for putting things in perspective Alux. 🙏

I am at number 7, as I've been waiting for an alignment. Amen to being true to oneself. I lived the other way. It was boring at best. In romance, don't choose the best available. Find the best period. Don't allow people to push you into a marriage. It's your life.

I'll say I'm 8.5-9 out of 10 I'm winning at life. The extra 1-1.5 missing point is I'm still struggling at worrying about other people to much and worrying about racism and low self esteem of some of the traumatized experience I've experienced and i can be closed minded to se things but i am growing and trying to become a better version of myself so I can become at 10

One ,because of fear. You leave me a lot to think about , thank you for this postcast.

I'm playing the long game but I am still down. Miserable in my job except the pay and benefits are outstanding and I work extra, I'm also in school to get a better career that I will actually enjoy one day but I'm getting tired of it. I don't have much of a social life, Never married and no kids, every boomer around me when I was little was divorced or in a miserable marriage and I've always been too cautious to marry because of it. I don't care for "stuff" and only buy practical things, 70 plus % of my money is invested or goes to paying off my second house early. Yeah, the money problem is solved but I want to get married and have kids and a social life. There are dead people who are more alive than myself, this is one thing I need to work on as I am at risk of never living at all.

+1 Feels like an 8 right now. Aiming higher by taking my financial score to the next level. Wishing success to you all!

Thanks for this video ALUX, I literally watched this one 3x's already! Plus 1

+1, Being brutally honest with myself here, my life literally sucks right now. I fail in all my relationships, especially one with my friends. I had a one-sided love in my high school, and I regret it to this day why I didn't propose her. Also, I talk with my friends ( rather I should say people whom I know) , only at times when it is absolutely necessary. At times, I feel paranoid about my friends, like will I never have a true friend who understands me and relates to me?

It's a great way to see a perspective and understand the way to completely loss to successfully win +1

I was depressed due to work, but I got the power, thanks for those words, ALUX !

Literally one of the most informative videos ever! Lol at the Jcole reference, y’all are unique fr! #browniepoints! I literally dodge a bullet recently, i was dating a guy who took zero risks from anything, he was a fraction of a dimension, his mind was super narrow and soo “safe” and “boring” lol. I dumped him before things got serious cus I’m literally a winner at life, i travel, i have friends from all over the world, am healthy, naturally optimistic, etc. i don’t regret it at all. Don’t settle folks! Find your equal and build w them. :)

Overcoming C-Ptsd by moving away from a toxic family and getting a top job in a foreign country during the pandemic. Overcame debilitating depression and anxiety. Strengthening personal boundaries. Earning well and saving and investing 60% of my income. Forgiving but not necessarily reconciling with people whom I had a bitter history with. Seeking wisdom. Finding a spiritually fulfilling philosophy and being consistent with it. A few good quality friendships. Dropping a bunch of toxic relationships/ friendships. However, no travel. Not much social life. No partner. Chronic procrastinator.

+1 That was insightful! Feeling pumped up about the steps I’m taking to improve my own life and this video just gave me the motivation I needed. Thank you Alux. And I’m on 9 in my own life right now. Happy to say I have no regrets and only have hopes for the future I’m planning. Then it’ll definitely be a 10!

Giving up … thats the biggest way to loose 🤫🔥

Honestly I have to give myself a 4. I have a long way to go but I am on the right track. I started my own trucking company and celebrated a year of operation in February it was not an easy year, but "I won't stop till I get it right goodnight"- Solange

PLUS +1. I TRULY NEED TO EXAMINE MY LIFE. THANK YOU ALUX.

+1 Truth to be told, I'm fighting my way out of limbo. It's crazy how depressing that can be. Especially if you have a lot to atone for (read here : traumas and life circumstances that you thought were behind you,but seem to have crawled their way back.) Though I'd say my life should be in between a 6.2 and a 7.9 it surely feels and looks like a 4.

I'm at 10 right now but it wasn't always like that I had to go Though 0-1 but learning and growing everyday as a person make me want I am today. Love your videos +1 I appreciate all of the knowledge your videos give me. God bless and keep going forward 👍☮🇺🇦

+1. I’d rate my life at a 3/10 right now. 27 and lately graduated and in debt. Not sure that this is what I want to do in life, but I’ll never know if do not try. I’m in a long distance relationship for way too long, yet I think I love her but our relationship been miserable these past few years. Currently looking for a job as a structural engineer, so things are moving. I’ll probably be happier in a few. :)

like the movie "Groundhog Day" with Bill Murray every day looks the same,it's why I purposely do things to shake things up ,financially, meeting people that can change your life& watching Alux excellent info.

I will say I m living a 4.5 on the road to understanding because I was chasing a dream that wasn’t mine so the last two years under the plandimic I honestly had a chance to reevaluate my life and truly change course. This video hit home that I can achieve more and that im on the right path I hope this can be bookmark and Alux revisits this so we all can track our progress. +1

I came to RU-vid to learn how to trade after listening to a guy on radio talk about the importance of investing and how he made $460,000 in 4 months from $160k. Somehow this video has helped shed light on some things, but I'm confused, I'm a newbie and I'm open to ideas.

+1. Long time not seeing this channel and comes in the right moment to get me back in the road.

4 😔 but I’m trying and believe I can achieve a 10

you'll never be successful working for other people, you might develop skills and business contacts but you won't become rich for that you need to own things even if it's just a hot dog stand at least it's yours

1.. I'm still balling the last one hit home hard. My father died when i was 15. My mom's covert narcissist and control issues kicked in. She won't let me leave and family won't help me get away from her. I've lost decades I'm her slave, she doesn't care about me she cares what I do for her. Cooking her food, getting her groceries, driving her to the Dr appointments, picking up her RX's, waking me up at all hours of the night so i can't get a good night's sleep because she doesn't halfto go anywhere or do anything so she keeps these odd hours and keeps me awake so im always exhausted. Decades of my life are gone because she won't let me leave and live and have a family of my own or even a normal life. I've grown to hate and i don't like it but so much I could have done is gone and I'm only filled with regret that I've never been allowed to leave.

I've seen many people who can't live their lifes according to their wishes. They just don't have the abilities,the education,the resources, the courage and the luck to do it. And they lack the support which is needed.

😊I am so happy my financial life has totally changed ever since I ventured into stock investment. I've been earning over $18,000 dollars every single week.

This is why I gave up impressing my friends and family by abandoning the rat race of becoming the greatest financial advisor to travelling all North America in my own semi truck. For ten years now I enjoy what I've never seen before outside four walls and get paid for it. It's been a tough run but when I look back at it, I wouldn't have it any other way. Meanwhile all my old friends are either still living in their hometowns complaining about their spouses, children, or their parents. I'm like "sucks for you. I'm all alone, but I get to sleep every night without your life stress..." Trucking has saved my life, even though it's something that didn't require a Bachelor's, Master's Degree, or even a High School Education. It's a job about courage and street smarts. Side note, the most beautiful thing about my career is that I can drive from L.A. to Chicago using two or three different routes without Google Maps or any GPS whatsoever.

Thank you so much for this video. These truths you provided are hard truths to swallow.

Love this, Islam echoes the same sentiments, its five objectives are: the preservation of the self; the preservation of the intellect(reason); the preservation of the religion; the preservation of the property/monetary; and the preservation of lineage.

Counting the blessings, and making it count. When the going gets tough, the tough gets going

This was an excellent video, Alux. Thank you

+1,great video, you explain it so well. I learned a lot from this video.

+ 1......Definitely resonated about bringing people to the top! Each one teach one !!!!

+1 This video really came for the jugular... lot of this hit home and I really appreciate the wisdom you share Alux!

+1 - If I was to answer the question, I rate my life satisfaction at a 4 out of 10. I hate my job, my investments lost money, and my anxiety has gotten worse since the pandemic started for a few reasons. I took a break from watching RU-vid but now I am back and I am catching up with Alux. I'm hoping I can turn things around for myself financially by the end of 2022. Wish me luck everyone and may you all achieve success.

My life just started I am 19 soon gonna be 20 .... I am persuing my degree..... Also giving interview for job ( hopefully got selected🤞) everything is fine in my life ....... Blessed with good family ❣️.. ... Friends are not that bed or good pretty average..... Love life was a failure ...... Yeah what to say more..... hopefully my life ahead of me will be great 💝

4 - and not heading the right way.. "you will lose at life if you take full time care of your parents" - i just lost my job 2 weeks ago after trying to juggle work and being an almost full time carer for my ill mother.. so i know this is true.. "any support you need" they said.. and apparently getting rid of me how they show that

Thanks with your motivation channel I started my cleaning business, due to your posting on 15 cheap business to start . I hope to hire staff soon. 🙂

I needed to see this today. Thank you Alux.

great content! I was just wondering why it would be a loser if you live everyday the same routine? I think it is pretty common and effective for people to live each day with repeated schedule right? Since we all need to work, take care of ourselves, and enjoy life with specific sets of interests. In fact, I believe having a routine would be beneficial for each stage of self-development in order to master any skillset or even good habits.

+1 I'm to about 8 at the moment towards 10 with God's help! I'm very grateful for what God has made in my life! I'm very grateful for knowing this blessed RU-vid channel! I love you ALUX 🤗❤🌹 🕊PEACE & LOVE 🕊

Jeesh I didn’t hear the videos for a week. God I needed this.

To someone like me reading this! If you love life, don't waste time, for time is what life is made up of. ... Lost time is like a run in a stocking. ... A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life. Pick something you wanna do today and work hard to achieve it, start now don’t procrastinate it to tomorrow because that tomorrow might be too long so start now because one day you will share your success story, it hard but push hard. It really hard i know because i am also in that position currently 😭 so do not give up, i pray to anyone reading this that might be in any kind hardship, receive peace and success, go and prosper. For your information am not giving up till i share my success story so i need you to also have that in mind. Thanks for reading and supporting my channel 🙏🏻

+1 ,4. Fighting off a financial attack from my creditors by adapting a positive mindset and investing in myself.

Thank you for this awakening video. Actually I love watching it. 💜

+1, 10 years ago I was barely a 4. Today, I'm a solid 8-8.5. I attribute my growth to professional coaching, which boosted my self-awareness and EQ. Once I had healthier relationships with myself and with other people, it felt as if a cheat code was unlocked for a better life.

+1 I'm really admire the team behind this chanel. They are doing a wonderful job. Keep going 😊😊 All the very best

Perfect thumbnail update, guys. Cheers to adding +1 to our averages, proud to be an Aluxer

10 things:- 1. Financial freedom 2. Relationships 3. Intellect 4. Health 5. Emotions 6. Ability to take risks 7. Do not sacrifice your life to take full time care of your parents. 8. Travel and meet people with similar interests. 9. Do not sacrifice your long term happiness for short term pleasure. 10 Improve many other lives you can.

Thank you this video was really enlightening in a good way and a painful way at the same time. My life is a 6 Before I started changing it was maybe at 2 For a short time was a solid 7 Thing change but overall I got other things better in my life not all of us still something to change

I’m a solid 6 in life at the moment, due to circumstance of course. I’m 22 with a very well paying job in the telecom industry. I do owe a lot in taxes and spend a lot of my life making this living so that’s why I don’t rank my self higher. I have a good relationship with my mom and brothers. Lacking in the personal parts of life. Wasting my time in a relationship I don’t want and spending my young years working 100 hour weeks

The only thing that can make YOLO make sense somewhat is that harsh reality that the one who plans for the long term does so in blind faith that the long term will not be robbed from them by sudden death or terminal illness. The man who spent years of sacrifice building the a beautiful home suddenly died before he could enjoy and experience it.

-3 on the Spectrum for ASD and was raised by a parent on it aswell

the part where u said having kids with the wrong person that hit home.....when i was 23 i got 2 girls pregnant at the same time......both were a nightmare to deal with.....im 40 now nightmare almost over

+1. Honestly, back in 2020, I would have probably said my life was a 5. Not bad, better than it used to be, but not really what I wanted. Now I have to say I'm at a 7, headed for 8. Feels good.

playing the long game remembers me to suits. thank you guys

+1. I am living a 9/10 life. I am satisfied with my life, I have accomplished all of the goals I have set to accomplish thus far, but now I am trying to accomplish the rest of my goals and dreams.

This is one of the most important videos I have watched in my life.

The first time I cried and carried a heavy heart watching an Alux video coz every single fact in this video relates to my ‘loser’ of a life. What a bloody wake up call! Appreciate the use of footage from Kyiv Independence Square at 15:50. My deepest condolences to all who lost their loved ones in this unnecessary war and really hope that it will end soon.

Maybe a 2. I needed to hear this. I need to take a risk or two. Get out this rut I'm in.

Thank you so much for sharing!

+1It can be hard to look at yourself and ask these questions, but its worth it in the long run!