I’m so glad you’re happy :). Legacies are guaranteed a bid for the sorority their family was in so other houses just know almost automatically where the legacy will choose and they don’t want to “compete” it’s weird. We had a legacy go through recruitment they year after I rushed and that was legit all they talked about. “Make sure you get the legacy” “ we have to get the legacy” it was interesting experience. I hope you have a great time ❤
Even though I'm not involved in greek life anymore for personal reasons, I love watching people's rush experiences, and I'm so happy that you got into APHI! That's the one I was in and chose to drop after a long period of time. It's a great organization, and even though you were kind of bummed about getting dropped from a few of your favorites, I believe that alpha phi will be a good fit for you. It's extra special that your mom used to be one as well, so that's just a bonus! Sending you good vibes for the rest of your college experience! Soak up every moment you can, it flies by.
Rank on each campus is massively different. Don't feel badly that you were dropped by any houses. That house didn't see you. The process is long and tiring and grueling and so difficult. Make the most of your newfound home and Sisterhood. In a few months, you won't remember that house or who you spoke to there. But your Home is for a lifetime.
