Soul Connections-Twin Flames Why Your Life Falls Apart When You Meet The One 

More that falls away.... the happier you FEEL

I am a true twin flame. And I don't relate to anyone else's video except yours! You are speaking truth!

God bless this man .... RIP Mel

Really appreciate this video, My life was destroyed after meeting my twin, Needed to hear this right now ! Thank u for sharing ur truth 🙏

MEL IS LEGEND; THIS WAS GOOD TO GO OVER AGAIN; I MISS THIS MAN AS HE WAS A PART OF MY COUNCIL IN CONTEXT TO MY TEMPLATE; 2020 WAS A MAJOR TURNING POINT FOR ME AND HE PUT ME IN THE HOT SEAT IN CONTEXT AS WAS NECESSARY; I WAS VERY GRATEFUL TO HAVE THE CORRESPONDENCE THAT I DID WITH HIM AND IT STILL STICKS WITH ME; TRULY MEANINGFUL AND RAW AND REAL AS FUCK; NICHOLE!! IF YOU SEE THIS; THANK YOU FOR KEEPING THE CHANNEL UP; YOUR UNION WITH HIM HAS BEEN 100% SUCCESSFUL!!!! HAILZ!!! 💥

When my twin came in to my life in 1998 my life has been hell ever since but it was to get rid of everything that kept me from myself....we had a reunion in 2016 and ever since I have realized why my life fell apart..I am now deprogrammed from that poisonous family and community I was born into thank God

Every video... seem you gotta explain this to those in the back. People need to get over it. If they don't like what you say, they can piss off. We all appreciate you and your time. Even the things we don't want to hear. Thank you!

I think, at least for me, until very recently, I had no idea that 1) I had honestly met my TF. I never even knew or heard that term before 2) I didn’t realize I had begun a spiritual awakening and journey 3) All these challenges, with constant ebbs and flows, were all interconnected because I met my other half. When people don’t know what the hell is happening in their lives and their world seems to be closing in on them all of a sudden, it’s scary. I almost lost my career that I worked so hard for, my friends were ready to check out on me, my family thought I was headed for disaster, I lost 30 plus lbs in two months, my six year old son thought I hated him. I mean, my life should have seemed HORRIBLE! But my TF and I were in union so none of this stuff mattered. I was ‘happy’, until we went into separation, I didn’t see what everyone else saw. Nor did I know at the time this person was my TF either. Now, I know when these low points occur, a high point is coming up soon. I just have to wait it out. For those of us who didn’t know this, it’s easy to say ‘happiness is a state of being’.

You were (and still are) awesome. Travel well, magnificent fellow.

What an awesome message! So thankful for all your hard work ! With you in spirit friend!

Hey Mel, you kept me awake to the reality that the Universe will deliver my other half while I continue to focus on self improvement. Now she and I have manifested as the Divine Union which is prepared to serve all that is. Took focus off of searching and allowed the discovery. You are some beautiful energy my man!!!

Thank you Mel for bringing truth..Rest now in Perfect Peace 💜🙏💫

this is the best one yet!!! Im 78 and gone for a walk!!! THANKS

I totally agree with what you say… soul happiness….is the great achievement.

I've gotten this far knowing I wasnt happy when the changes started. I still miss having my own apartment and my Infiniti coupe

Happiness isn't tangible for me its deep within my soul my relationship with Divine Source. Peace Freedom Acceptance

Thank you dear Mel! Miss you

I’m glad I found your channel🙋🏼‍♀️

Thank God you finally did this video!!!

So very grateful to have found your channel. I do enjoy card readings and energy updates, all that kind of stuff, but I have always known relying on those things are not the way to navigate this journey. I’m 22, a twin soul, and going through major soul growth that at times takes me straight to the bottom. Your truth cuts through the b.s. I really appreciate your wit and delivery, and I’m looking forward to watching all of your videos!

Wow incredible.

Mel, I watched a video earlier from you saying what to look for in an advisor, teacher. I found all that I need right here!!! ❤❤❤❤

Yes! gems in here: Happiness is a state of being, Leave the darn phone at home and go for a walk, Mature and don't get emotional involved when a challenge comes along & comfort zones are hazardous! Thanks your wisdom great uncle :)

We met when I was 14 years years old. He was so obsessed . According to him love at first sight. . To me it was love. at first sight We got married . We were happy, until the time he worked overseas and we only see each other every six years . I found out about hi infidelity. I was so upset. He"s reasoning is because he"s a man and he has needs, I told him I don"t want to have anything to do anymore. He left went to Tx. rented a room to this woman"s condo, later slept with him.. When I found out we divorce. After our divorce , he went back to me he wants to come back. He said he will stay in the other room. I said no, and just told him to just stay wherever he was. I didn"t see him for a long long time . And I saw him here at Taroh Reading Network.. ( I already told in the previous video how and why)

9:20 important especially "Happiness is a state of being; not a state of mind.." he says. Nice

I love you Mel...

Dear One's is not stupid. We are all the One.

Mel Most haven't live long enough to wise up to have your perceptions or perspective but God bless your guidance hopefully they will listen and understand it....No can be a blessing extreme change can be a blessing and comfort zones are a illusion. Namaste

8 months after we came together, shit hit the fan. It’s been 2.5 years now. Our “shit” is the most severe. Basically everything is being purged. Has any twin died from this? Because mine might. He started purging alcoholism, illness, narcissist wife, lost his job, and now he is in liver failure. He’s in the hospital getting sent home to hospice. We need a miracle. This twin journey is no joke. We’ve known each other for 31 years, and it just seems cruel that after all this work and connection and seeing our physical union within reach, plus millions of signs towards our union, and he could leave the physical? How do I accept that?

Since ive met him ive lost my career, savings, family, friends, gained 60 lbs and im the most unhappy ive ever been. Video was great. Im still not sure how to change this tho.

Kinda reminds me of “How Bill see’s it”. You have described me in a nutshell. Humility is staying teachable. If I stay comfortable too long, I will not grow. I have several autoimmune issues, fibro. I’m a adult child, codependent, and recovering alcoholic. I have learned, true maturity is taking responsibility of my part. Sometimes I need another person such as myself who has come before me with their experience, strength, and hope such as you. Thank you

Thank you Mel. Meditation is the way to go, you’re soul speaks to you and it knows the truth.Hand on your heart connect to your center.💜

YOU'RE RIGHT - I agree with you on it All ! Thanks for trying to show us Divine Feminines' - what's really going on... Here is another way to explain it - that maybe more can more easily see - The comfort zone and the programming - is what is Easier for my Divine Masculine - than realizing to - receive and give this God given Love between us... But - you can't blame us for wanting the fairytail life because - It Really Is Love - BUT - its simply also the matter of - self worth issues and lessons - so that - we don't cause ourselves the suffering - in codependency - and heal and learn to be happy within ourselves - by ourselves - before more can happen - but it's GOOD to want more - which is that Love - which is right by living through our Hearts and Souls - not our minds - which is what the F is going on - SO - it's a matter of time until our DM heals with self love as well... SO - I have no resistance - and I Do want change - and I take responsibility - The Beloved - is the unknown ! The Gratefulness of being guided by the Divine - is the happiness - that doesn't go backwards for me !

See you on the Other Side 🔥🔥💜💜

Great video again, thanks Mel. I'll be chewing on the tidbits 😍

I was lucky I didn't end up homeless. I only didn't because I had a 6 figure job I had worked at for 15 years and had spent a lot of money trying to pay off my house. Yeah I had plans, pay off the house then . . . well if you cannot work all of the sudden things go to shit with large house payments. I can go into details on how miraculous it was that I got money to make it out of that place while being not functional for awhile and to pay bills and be unemployed, eventually sell it and luckily have the cash to not have to work awhile. But twin flame awakenings can take "shamanic" proportions which mine did which means total fallout of normal life, and the only reason I didn't go homeless is because I had worked my ass off for 15 priors to the awakening and actually had money to survive not being able to work at all for an extended period of time with my house sale. Granted I am a philosopher at heart in the true sense of the word as defined by Nietzsche in that I can NEVER be comfortable by nature I will ALWAYS seek for the "next problem" when any comfort zone is found and cannot stay in comfort zones of belief systems to a fault, one can almost blame the twin flame community for homelessness lol in some ways because if you DON'T settle in a belief system to stop the fallout you have NO support since that only resides in belief systems due to unresolved issues and if you are a person like me you looked at what teaching was out there and couldn't settle therefore inviting in the spiral into solitary madness. Not everyone needs to have their life fall apart, but those that do should be heard more, and they are given no voice in this community pretty much. Thanks for giving it voice here, my life "fell apart" sure but it didn't look that bad because I had a lot of cushion to fall apart, it was ever present on my mind during that phase that if what was happening to me happened to an "average" income person homelessness would have been likely because that is what I would have been looking at from a functioning perspective if I all of the sudden couldn't come up with $200k to take a 3 year sabbatical from life in general. This is SERIOUS what happens to folks who don't have natures to take a step and feel comfortable in a belief system often, and thank you for addressing this here :-)

Happy to watch your videos. At times make me smile or laugh, wider perspectives. Thank you.

Good one Mel I think this might over a lot of heads

To be honest..to make somebody understand it and make the person happy... it's hard job..but with such high stage of consciousness is possible to do that.. sometimes I feel tired of that but still trying to help some people...but I see many of them still stick on the out side staff which is not needed for them.

Mel...what's the glue here.? Is it the comforts of familiarity, because we feel so magically connected, will love them like ourself?will work on them in time n space with patience like ourself? Is it the sex? "Happiness is a state of being..." very true. I have experienced the fully body O before we met, then being with them was Even Better...we both knew it and felt it. But with issues that part goes up and down, still more x's its Good vs bad. What a crazy journey of spiritual growth.

Ive been having a very intense tf exp. And in my deepest pain and confusion about loving her. the words "In every way I live for you" came to me. thank you Mel.

ouch!!! that had a bit of a sting to it............Thank You!!!!!

great video Mel.

thank you. my life fell apart due to unforseen circumstances. i am now homeless living in a tent in the woods with my twin flame. it's starting to get cold out here. every day is like a shamanic journey and i just want it to end. i have multiple autoimmune diseases at a rather young age too.my joints feel stiff when i try to "quit" my twin flame forever. my health deteriorates when i am not around him. yet being in a small tent in the woods is starting to give us cabin fever. he acts like a complete and total ass and i consider myself a normally calm and collected person. i guess my old friends think i've gone schizophrenic trying to explain the twin flame phenomena to a karmic soulmate ex...talking to a horse makes more sense these days. if he is my twin then why does he say such offensive things to trigger me into crying or rage fits?

Thank you so much for creating these wonderful videos!!

Oh well done you!!! Yup! all of the above! but it can be hard going for a bit but it worth it folks...the only thing that does count...

Yes, but also as a whole, the whole idea of why this is all happening is a freak out in itself. Brain can only take so much of it; therefore the running. The electrical pull is enough to freak anyone out. I really wish someone would have clued me in with how incredibly intense it truly is. Enough to make you think you went batshit crazy if it wasn't for the fact that the heart Chakra activation brings the soul into the whole thing. But how do you explain this to someone who u know is your twin, but they hardly speak. So how do you get around that?? I pray. I think that's the only way to get through something so earth shattering. Btw comfort zones that go on too long are just stagnant. Yukkk. Yes, I've had fibromyalgia etc. By putting yourself first and just sending love from a distance to my twin, my symptoms are infrequent. But they go away when I was just near him. Trying to be grateful for every little positive or negative thing that's happened. But I know I have to go within, again, to remind me that it was probably me getting to like myself for once, that brought me to find this twin flame who I didn't think actually existed.☮️🦋☯️💗 Thanks for everything you do for us! It's probably my cheap phone, but could you please put up your volume on your recorder? Thanks ❣️

Hello Mel..Good to see you, I get more than just the occasional chuckle out of watching your videos.Thank you, Mel. Mr..Happy, you are..💜

Comfort zone is trap zone ☹️

...but I DO want to do what's necessary and I AM feeling the shifting and uplevelling. I AM taking responsibility. ...and he's running, lol. I'm not chasing. It's just painful and I don't understand. Love him like crazy. I sure as wuck hope he's getting an upgrade to work on too. We're not talking. He left me out of the blue. I guess I was too comfortable. ...wucker....

True wisdom. Thank you.

I’ve never met a twin for myself in this life, and I’m doing fine

So true and real thanks

Spot on again Mel it's something I've learnt but it still catches me unawares That said it takes less time to process it now because I know I'm responsible and can see how it came up. This time it was stronger and I could feel such density on a collective level so as I process it so does the collective. Sure felt like taking one for the team as well. I had a friend who would benefit so much from you but she is in resistance and pain and is stuck. Unfortunately she doesn't want a bar of you 😉 I guess eventually she will reach out when there's nowhere else to go ❤ Keep it up big guy x

Thank you for recording these insights Mel. Would you consider making a video explaining the creation process & purpose of new templates? As humans are exposed to energy imprints (do you refer to these as parental & trauma based templates?) that need to be cleared --- what is the next step in evolution? What new templates are being seeded? And, any tid bits about "the originals" is appreciated. Much love, Christina

The falling apart...wouldn't that be apart of the awakening more than about a person?

Brilliant video Mel, thank you so much!!!

Thank you, Mel, just what I needed to hear. ❤️❤️❤️

I swear you did this video 2 years ago.. why do I feel like I saw it then.. ty beautiful video!

In stitches, "dear ones". Didn't expect that, the guy is good. Gets it, glad I stumbled here. Less slush more logic.

Get you work boots on Mel, I'm all ears...🥾💥🤩🥰

Question.. If we get tired and exhausted of this twinflame journey,.. Can we opt out?? I want this to be over by 2020. I surrender .. I'm done.

22:04 did anyone find the tidbits 😅 ? Are the different for every person ? I can’t watch this video 5x I feel like Mel doesn’t answer the question posed at the beginning enough (for me) but for those that find the meaning and value here I am glad, be well 🙏

2) if folks are only concerned with how it effects them - they have become comfortable in the learning

Excellent

This old bugger always makes sense. 😀

Haha ! YES Mel...spot on, thank you again! x

I love your insights

Hi Mel. Your videos have been guiding me recently and I am seeing you (or at least your image) a lot in my dream state showing me some negative templates that I need to clear out. Hahah. At any rate, if it is agreeable to you, could you please do a video on what the new relationships will look like or should look like? You have a lot of videos discussing the new approach to relationships, sexuality, etc... And if you could explain a little more in detail how these relationships should appear, that might be helpful to me and others. Specifically, romantic relationships, friendships, families, children, communities, etc... It seems there is a lot of jealousy, bad communication, controlling behaviors, dishonesty, manipulation, distrust, imbalances between men and women etc... In our current relationship templates and I'm curious as to if these are supposed to be filtered out and maybe even how this process can happen. (That being said, I'm already pretty sure the answer is through meditating on wholeness within, balancing our personal masculine and feminine energies, inner child healing and becoming beings of light that function primarily through the heart center) That is, assuming, you have not already done a video on this it would be great to get more info here that you may have channeled. Thank you for your time Alyssa

❤️❤️❤️❤️so much love to you xo

❤ thank you for your legacy🙏

best title.

Beautimous!!! Thanks Mel!

Great teaching.

Captions at 12:54 : “remember I said a penis is a state of being not a state of mind “ Me : ah ok

Been going thru this for 40 yrs. I'm so far beyond the point of having a conception of comfortable. These are all man-made ego made of plateaus. Normal enlightenment in this plane on this planet means that you're always going to be going through this cycle. It is never proper to want to stay at a plateau because it's just a stage. Quite often I am happy and you're exactly correct Mel happiness is a state of being it's not something you get, but quite often things are very difficult and I'm pushing through and fighting and allowing to make things work out. And they always do they always do

You are the best! Thank you, Dear One 😂

Thank you Mel!!

God this is so dead on had a great job money flowing in money banked, then this girl comes out of no where in my life now im broken to pieces so crazy.

Put on those Work Boots and bring it on lol

I love it!!!

How do I make my soul happy knowing it hurts others initially

You look very happy.

I resonated with this one.

My life is over 😭😭😭 I don’t want astral sex 😪

You crack me up dear ones😂😂

Yes, go with the flow 😁😅

Interesting video

amazing

Everything you saying is on POINT💯

Real talk if your a god then you have to take responsibility for everything good and bad know thy self yee are#gods

lol, Dear Ones...thats funny!!!

My other soul carrier and I had a professional interaction, met once, and the second time we met, he came near me with in a few inches and a full sense of bliss, coziness surrounded us, he absolutely freaked out, I never experience that bliss before and I was 47 at that moment, it didn’t belong to this dimension

Ever stopped to ask about the divine entity the layers. They evolving with their DM is interesting enough but who are they. Nobody's highlighting the fact people assume to know them (avatar in the matrix) It's no wonder they were confused. The concensus of the tea cup ladies sir Mel .. is that when in separation synchronicity and dreaming occurs. Duh. Where all a bit past this understanding If you think people want to do anything else besides figuring how to merge here Good luck. But good luck also to people that don't want the out of body experience, why things are so

Love U Mel...I might ask you some pertinent Q's in spirit...you know your s*it!

3:24 this is going to sound a little strange...YEAH NO SHIT!

So it is a good sign when you enjoy astral sex but want the connection to manifest in the 3D reality as well? I’ve waffled between giving up waiting (8 years) or just settling for the astral connection. Now I’m working on letting go of the control of the situation and letting divine timing work, although putting forth effort at working towards bettering myself and fulfilling my life purpose. I watch most of your videos so I really do want your guidance.

I don't know if this will be of help to you or to him understanding him better. We were married for over 20 years. with 3 children.

I know you've passed on and now you know the truth. You were not happy and projected your truth in this video..I know you're happy now. Also, you were trying to figure things out here that's why you spoke in spiritual pshco babble, it showed how young you were when you kept touting how developed and mature you were. I'm happy you know the truth now and truth is so simple. It does not require many words

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